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npd + ied culture is what the fuck do you mean you left me for that other whore? i’m all you need!! don’t think i don’t know, either. fucking piece of SHIT!!!
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#npd culture is#npd + ied culture is#actually narcissistic#actually npd#narcissistic personality disorder#npd#cluster b#ied#intermittent explosive disorder
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I love talking about myself.
You ask me questions about myself? I could spend literal hours happily talking about me.
#actually mentally ill#actually osdd#did osdd#mental illness#actually aspd#actually npd#npd#actuallynpd#narcissistic personality disorder#actually narcissistic#actually antisocial#narc abuse isn’t real#i am my own favourite topic#npd safe#npd culture is#npd things#cluster b#clusterb#cluster b personality disorder#npd posting#myself#mental health#i love talking about myself#talking about myself
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the urge to go out and ruin my life bc i’m bored
#and i want attention#bpd#actually bpd#borderline personality disorder#bpd problems#actually borderline#bpd feels#bpd meme#bpd memes#paranoia#bpd rage#actually cluster b#cluster b culture#hpd safe#hpd#???#maybe idk maybe y’all will understand#npd safe#aspd safe
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no i don't feel your pain and suffering,i don't really care about it either. but i will help you with your problems if that helps.
#npd#narcissistic personality disorder#cluster b#actually npd#npd safe#actually narcissistic#cluster b safe#npd culture is#no empathy#low empathy#no sympathy#low sympathy#compassion#watch people try to hunt me down for this smh#i don't really care about that either.#before you come for me#i used to be really empathetic and sympathetic and people took advantage of it#slowly i don't know how but they both disappeared#now i can't bring myself to care
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I think that a lot of people without NPD have a really poor understanding of "narc supply" or the specific type of positive attention that pwNPD crave. Even the egotypicals who are allies, the ones denounce narc abuse and anti-NPD ableism, don't fully grasp it.
There's this false idea that NPDs like to be worshipped and showered with compliments all of the time, and I mean, yeah, most of us would eat that shit up, but I know that for myself and a lot of other pwNPD it's deeper and much more, I guess, personal?
I don't really know how to describe it, so I'll give an example: As a kid, no one really paid attention to my creative endeavors, my accomplishments, my feelings, etc. And if they DID pay attention, the attention was negative. I could always do better, I could always be smarter, stronger, etc. This came from peers and adults alike. So I developed a coping mechanism where I would tell myself that everyone else was wrong, that I'm actually the best person around, etc. I don't have to explain what disorder I ended up with as an adult as a result of all of that. :P
But anyway - the wound of constantly being ignored at best and insulted at worst is still there. You know how when you're in a group chat or a conversation with multiple people and no one ever pays attention to your comments, while paying attention to everyone else? Yeah, that shit hurts EVERYONE, but especially pwNPD. Even the smallest acknowledgment can be "narc supply."
You know how when you achieve something really cool and everyone ignores you - but the people who ignore you will be quick to praise OTHER people?
You know how when you post art/edits online and everyone ignores you - but the people who ignore you compliment someone else's post in the exact same thread?
You know how when you ask your friend to read your favorite book or listen to your favorite artist or whatever because of how much it means to you, and they never do it, but then they read/listen to everyone else's favorite thing at everyone else's recommendation, and how much it pisses you off? (Hurts even more if you have the SAME favorite book/artist and someone reads/listens to it at the other person's recommendation and not at yours.)
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I could go on and on. That shit would bother anyone, us narcissists aren't alone in being hurt by that, but my G-d, it impacts pwNPD in such a specific way.
But let me flip it around to the positive!
A narcissist doesn't necessarily get their "supply" from someone telling them that they're the coolest person in the world and that they're a god. (Though if you do want to say that to us we probably won't complain!) Sometimes they get their "supply" from something as simple as someone acknowledging their achievements, and giving specific praise on what the achievement was. ("It's so cool that you won a prize in the music recital. The song you played sounds like it was really difficult and I loved your stage presence.")
Being told, "Wow, you did such a great job on your artwork, I love the colors!" goes a very very long way for a narc, especially when said narc is used to being IGNORED for their art.
Hearing, "it's so cool that you like that book, I'll have to read it and tell you my thoughts!" can help a narcissist's interests feel acknowledged.
You might be reading this and thinking, "well, isn't it just basic human interaction to compliment your friends or try out their interests"? And, well, maybe it is, but the whole point of NPD is that most of us grew up without receiving that type of attention, so now we're very very desperate for it - and very, very, VERY sensitive to when it doesn't happen, or is even perceived to not have happened. Something as small as being talked over in a group chat can set us off, but something as small as a simple, "hey, it's so cool that you did this, I love it." can win us over.
And to be completely fair, most of the time us being "ignored" isn't completely intentional. Like, I get it, yeah, sometimes timing just doesn't work out for person A to read my favorite book at my own rec, but by the time person B is in their life, person A can read it, and it's not anything personal. Sometimes the content I make just isn't someone's ~style~ and they support me, they really do, they just don't know what to say. Sometimes someone forgets to respond, or doesn't get a notification when I send them something I made or tell them about something I did. (There is less excuse for being ignored in face-to-face/offline convos though.) But because of the trauma of us constantly being ignored as kids/teens, the smallest little thing hurts and as a result we seek and crave attention EVERYWHERE.
So now, to give in to narc stereotypes of begging for attention: If you're a person without NPD and you genuinely want to help the narcissists you have in your life, the second best thing you can do for us is checking in to make sure we're not overlooked. Try to be sure you're not ignoring us, and if we do something cool, try to compliment it, even if it's something you don't fully "understand." Ask us about what we've been up to lately, what we're proud of about ourselves, and agree with us that what we've done is pretty cool. I mean, you'd do that for any friend, right? It's really not all outlandish for a narc to want that.
(If you're curious what the FIRST best thing you can do for a narcissist is, it's giving us a million dollars unlearning your anti-NPD ableism and calling people out who use narcissist as an insult as a synonym for abuser. Even in "offline" spaces, even when we're not around, even doctors/therapists. Even "narc" abuse survivors.)
#actuallynarcissistic#actuallynpd#npd feels#npd safe#npd culture#my favorite person is literally my favorite person only because she warned me about media that used narcissist as an insult and listened to#an album i liked when literally EVERYONE ELSE i've recced the album to has ignored it. (I've been a fan of said album for ALMOST A DECADE)#like guys it's not that hard to treat us well#(also i mean favorite person in the cluster b way - she's my favorite person in the NT way for many reasons)
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You ever open up to someone and feel gross afterwards and weak?
#cluster b#did system#bpd life#aspd mood#Aspd#aspd safe#aspd thoughts#aspd feels#npd?#my therapist will be hearing about this#my therapist thinks I have NPD😭#npd + bpd culture is#npd traits#covert npd#npd problems
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suspected cluster b culture is venting and then deleting it because they don’t need to fucking know that
it’s also never saying most of your more screwed up vents because you have an image to maintain and you know damn well people would never like the truth about you
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#cluster b culture is#questioning cluster b culture is#cluster b#anonymous#mod orange#bpd#npd#hpd#aspd#🩷🕊️#🩷🕊️ anon#mood#literally me#unqueued because i messed up and hit post now by mistake
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NPD + AvPD Culture Is being alterhuman in various ways because you feel both like a superior god amongst humans that should be revered and a monster being shunned and chased away by humans
#very specific to me but I hope this speaks to someone else too#npd avpd culture is#original post#alterhuman#NPD#AvPD#narcissistic personality disorder#avoidant personality disorder#personality disorder#cluster b#cluster c#actually npd#actually avpd#actually narcissistic#actually avoidant#npd culture is#avpd culture is
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Npd culture is, everyone else’s breakdowns are soooo dramatic and unnecessary
Not mine tho
Mine are completely logical and understandable, no one else could ever even hope to understand me
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NPD Culture Is...
#💥 anon#all my asks are real but this one especially#sorry i didnt post this i didnt see it in my inbox at first#actually narcissistic#actually npd#narcissism#narcissistic personality disorder#npd#npd safe#npd traits#npd things#npd thoughts#npd culture is
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questioning npd + ied culture is receiving negative criticism and feeling such a strong surge of emotion that makes you want to collapse on the floor and scream and shout and cry and sob out of the sheer rage you are experiencing
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#npd culture is#questioning npd culture is#npd + ied culture is#questioning npd + ied culture is#npd#actually narcissistic#actually npd#narcissistic personality disorder#cluster b#ied#intermittent explosive disorder
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homicidal ideation is running rampant in my brain
#actually aspd#aspd#clusterb#actually mentally ill#actuallyaspd#cluster b#actuallynpd#npd#actually npd#actually bpd#aspd safe#aspd things#aspd traits#aspd thoughts#aspd feels#aspd positivity#aspd culture is#aspd awareness#actually antisocial#antisocial personality disorder#narcissistic personality disorder#borderline personality disorder#actually borderline#actually narcissistic#homicidal ideation#mental illness#anger issues#hoping i can openly talk about this here without people being dicks#actually cluster b#cluster b personality disorder
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I only ever wanna talk about myself. Great until someone knows how to ask the right questions and gets me sharing things I never meant to.
I can't stop! It's just so nice to feel like someone's finally "really" listening
Good thing no one's smart enough to use that information against me
#npd#actually npd#actually narcissistic#cluster b#npd safe#npd culture is#and then the irony is they still dont think i ever open up. how much more open do you expect?
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unfriendly reminder that hating on me won't suddenly change me and cure my mental illnesses. it'll only mildly annoy me at best,if i bring myself to care.
#npd#narcissistic personality disorder#cluster b#actually npd#npd safe#actually narcissistic#bpd#cluster b safe#npd culture is#saying this because im tired#like i don't care#you can give it your best#it simply will not work
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"narcissists think they're better than everyone" no, no, that's not true. i don't THINK i'm better than everyone. i KNOW i'm better than everyone.
#jokes aside i do genuinely think most pwNPD are better than most empaths#that npd feel#npd culture#npdsafe#actually npd#actuallynpd#actuallynarcissistic
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I crave your affections but you stab me with your cruelties
#cluster b#bpd life#bpd tag#bpd vent#bpd mood#system#i hate bpd#bpd fp#actually bpd#bpd feels#bpd thoughts#bpd blog#bpd problems#bpd stuff#bpd#npd + bpd culture is#covert npd#vulnerable npd#cluster b culture is#actually cluster b#cluster b safe#aspd traits#borderline life#quiet borderline#borderline thoughts#living with borderline#borderline pd#borderline personality traits#being borderline#borderline problems
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cluster b culture is getting irrationally angry at people for having things in common with you. no, we can’t have the same favorite animal actually, fuck you.
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#cluster b culture is#cluster b#bpd#npd#hpd#aspd#mod saltwater#YEAH MOOD#i used to get so mad when my little brother got the same thing as me#honestly i still do but it doesn’t happen as often because we don’t live together anymore
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