aussietummytickler

[aussietummytickler]

*chef's kiss* Beautiful use of this-a meme!

[aussietummytickler]

Good reminder.

Put your goddamn age up or you're getting the boot.

yall got 10 mins to put an age in your bio before i do another cleanup sweep

[aussietummytickler]

Free my man Luigi! He was chilling with me playing some Dead By Daylight and Yu-Gi-Oh! so he was too busy to be popping off that greedy CEO!

"Your coverage of this event has been completely out of touch and an insult to the intelligence of the American people and their lived experience"

Being able to see the part that the media cut out in the beginning makes a huge difference in understanding the context and message luigi mangione was trying to get across. Media manipulation at its finest.

[aussietummytickler]

This is absolute goals and one of the loveliest and wholesome things I've ever read in tickle kink. Just totally focused on going through the stages to where it helps the person get all the dopamine and good chemicals in their brain even through rougher times. Tickling is absolutely its own little love language and this post has convinced me of it. ❤️

listen. let me explain. the “negative reinforcement tickling” to “positive reinforcement tickling” pipeline, aka the punishment tickles to reward tickles pipeline, is one of my absolute faves.

SCENE I - i get stressed, overwhelmed, brain stops. just stops. avoidant mode activated. it’s me and the mildly horrified look on my face against the world while i go nonverbal for 45 mins. my gf pounces, starts tickling me and reprimanding my brain for being mean to me. eventually i’m snapped out of it bc all i can do is whine and flail until the giggle fits activate a hard reset. gf threatens my brain and says “you better be good or you’re gonna get it again” and my brain quails beneath her menacing stare, promising to behave.

SCENE II - brain does it again. total bluescreen. can’t get a goddamn thing done. i’m ruthlessly tickled out of a dissociative stupor and once i am gasping for air, gf checks to see if there is a hint of sentience behind my eyes. she approves once she sees that i’ve returned from the void, and i breathlessly giggle out a shy “thank you.” i get my work done.

INTERMISSION - while one might mistakenly presume that this sort of reinforcement is actually conditioning me to zone out even more often, this could not be more wrong. bc even though nothing snaps me out of my freeze response more efficiently and pleasantly than a tickle attack, i still maintain the inherent desire to be good. thus, it still registers as a punishment. and then the pipeline happens.

SCENE III - i run up to my gf, proudly showing her the task i’ve just completed, no matter how menial. i did it, i did a thing! look how my executives functioned up there! i did the thing i was supposed to do, and i did it without transcending the liminal space between paralyzing reverie and lucid consciousness first! and then i am met with the biggest smile and a giant hug that suddenly melts into the sounds of my own startled, involuntary laughter as i am pinned and flooded with unanticipated tickles. but it’s different this time. it’s a hit of pure dopamine. this time the merciless tickles are my reward, and my brain soaks them up like a sponge.

SCENE IV - the pipeline is complete. i am conditioned, without even knowing i was ever being trained at all. next thing i know, i am subconsciously fighting through the tv static in my brain time after time, showing her all the work i’ve gotten done again and again. strange, that the adhdemons in my brain could take over like they usually do, and i could still get the tickles we both know i always crave. but the added bonus of being good for her still takes precedent, and the lesson is learned 🫠

[aussietummytickler]

In light of recent events regarding Neil Gaiman, this reminded me of my own SA experience. (Not the OP, but Gaiman, a genuinely evil monster.)

I can never forget it. It made me feel unworthy of being safe. It made me feel unworthy of having my boundaries retreated with respect. It made me feel unworthy of genuine affection and that the only kind I was worth was that of uncaring detachment. It made me feel unworthy of ever being treated with such tender kindness, only to be used and abused.

The silver lining? Well, it made me realise I was ace. Somehow, I always knew, but that moment confirmed it for me.

I *know* I deserve better. I *know* I am worth being cared for and loved.

But fuck me dead, there are things that can barely be described that push hard against those feelings.

For those who also struggle with themselves, take it from a fellow struggler, as hard as it can be to admit sometimes, you *are* worth caring for. You *are*, you *were*, and you *always will be*. 💙

You’re worth caring for. You were always worth caring for. I’m so sorry if someone has made you feel otherwise.

[aussietummytickler]

Alongside protectiveness, it's tenderness, but with that hint of playful sadism/teasiness to it. It's that vibe of closeness, but tightness, like a strong hug: warm yet possessive (just not in the unhealthy/objectifying way)

"Feeling unworthy? Let me make sure I pin you down and let you know how much my fingers *crave* every sensitive inch that your ticklish body betrays to me. You will tell me you are worthy, or my nails will draw it from you.

"Feeling self-conscious? I'll make sure to tie you down nice and tight, and make sure my nails and lips explore every ticklish inch to make sure you never feel such doubts of yourself again. Once your brain is overloaded with those positive endorphins, once the struggle turns to acceptance, of your situation and your wonder both, only then might I show you mercy."

imagining a dom being all protective over me when i have negative thoughts 😩.

“you want to say that about your body? i’ll tickle every fucking inch of it until you take it back”

“you think you have an ugly laugh? god it’s my favourite sound in the world. i can’t wait to tie you down and hear it again”

“you don’t think you deserve when i make you feel good? darling, i’ll make you cum so many times until that brain of yours shuts off”

GOD what do i have to do to to get this kind of attention 😭.

[aussietummytickler]

Right on, take care of yourselves and each other 💙

Check on your friends in the tickle community. Some of us may not be doing too well. Remember this, the community is more than just 3-5 popular profiles of people making content. There's nothing wrong with that at all, but for every one of the "popular peeps", there are at least 20 more people that may be discouraged by the community.

Side note: none of this is in direct reference to any particular individual(s) within the community.

[aussietummytickler]

Preach.

if you see people being insufferable as fuck in your corner of the internet, and you’re tired of being one of the only ones with sense, don’t. leave. don’t throw in the towel. please. that’s one less person with some sense on the dash. who is that helping. u just made his echo chamber even bigger. oh god now look what u did. what’s that sound? binary fission. great. an idiot clone just took ur parking spot. god damnit what have u done

[aussietummytickler]

Smiling like mad because I've thought the same thing almost verbatim.

"Well, I mean I could, but probably not how you'd expect it!"

Girls on Tinder and Hinge are always like “make me laugh” in their prompts.

Like yeah I could but you gotta get cool with some stuff real quick.

[aussietummytickler]

💙

2025 Tickling Community Role Call

The tickling community has changed a lot on Tumblr the past while. Curious to see who's all still out there, new and old.

Like or reblog if you want to connect to other people in the tickling community.

🐸💚

ps - don't make it weird

[aussietummytickler]

The sadist Ler side of me is *screaming* over how much I love this idea. Nyx on fire as usual!

cnc but you have to say your safeword 2x, so you get to experience the beautiful masochistic terror of your safeword being ignored and you can even keep enduring more and begging for mercy but you just have to say it one more time to really make it end

[aussietummytickler]

After around a month of being back at the gym, I'm noticing one minor difference that's making my mental health do backflips in joy.

The stretch marks on my thighs are finally fading. 💙

I feel like I need to say though, other people rock those stripes, whether thighs of tummy or whatnot, but for me personally, on myself, I hated them, at one point the stretch marks were becoming a light purple and I hated looking at them every time I got in and out of the shower. But finally, slowly but surely, I'm seeing the progress I'm wanting to make towards my physical fitness goals.

The goal is to reach a somewhat decent level of fitness before I travel to Europe later this year. Lot of places I wanna see, lot of metal festivals I wanna go to, lot of friends I need to catch up with. 💙

Just happy to finally be seeing progress, it's not only gratifying, it's relieving. 💙

For anyone else on their own fitness journey, you will see progress, you will make it to the goals you're setting yourself, just be patient with yourself, like all good things, this too will take time. 💙

[aussietummytickler]

Happy New Year y'all, take care of yourselves 💙

[aussietummytickler]

Last line made me laugh, but for the love of all that is good, be safe with CNC, have nothing less than *absolute trust* after taking time getting to know the person you're experiencing this with. (If it's your partner then yeah that's probably a given but still, never hurts!) Take your time outlining those limits and boundaries, make sure that even when you're at your most vulnerable, you know you're also at your most safe.

CNC tickling can be hot af, but safety/boundaries/limits aren't an option with CNC, they're a *must*.

Stay safe and play safe everyone 💙

CNC isn't as simple as "No doesn't mean stop" CNC is "No doesn't mean stop, because we previously discussed boundaries and limits. And it was established that Cowabunga means stops"

[aussietummytickler]

Lower tummy/hip tickles ❤️

For when you need to find that spot that hides below high-rise jeans, because they don't want you to find that spot *too* easily~

Sometimes you just need to find that specific spot, that when you reach it, is just as soft and cute to tickle as it is *explosive*

Oh you thought you could hide this spot from me? You thought your sides and ribs were bad enough? Wouldn't it just be so much worse if after maybe wiggling down those jeans, seeing the anticipation and ecstatic panic in your eyes, knowing where my nails are about to fall? Knowing they're about to squeeze, scribble, spider, glide, knead, *tickle*~?

No spot that a lee enjoys (and is comfortable being tickled on) should be ignored, and if you're a little shy about that spot? Better tickle it more to show how much that spot is absolutely *adored*~💕

Buck those hips all you want, squirm and wiggle that lower belly as much as you try to resist.

My nails aren't moving~

[aussietummytickler]

100%.

As a Ler who just wants to share wholesome and playful tickles wrapped up in a big cuddle, to teasy more playfully sadistic tickles pinning or tying them down when they want or need it, whether out of the blue asking for it or because they've had a stressful day and need to just melt away into a puddle of ecstatic laughter and squirming, I could never compromise in wanting to be with someone who doesn't feel awkward about this cute kink and can embrace the playfulness and teasiness of it wholeheartedly with me.

Life is far too short to compromise on the things that really, really matter to you, especially when it comes to things like this that bring you so much joy and are able to do things for you like helping you de-stress from a bad day, or some days when you need a pick-me-up, or even just want to experience it just because! Doesn't have to be any reason at all, sometimes you just want to have fun with it! So to be with someone who doesn't understand that, or worse yet, doesn't want to, isn't worth it, at least for me personally. Because again, life is too short. None of us are getting out alive, so might as well pursue the things you love, with someone you love, who either loves this just as much as you, or is more than happy to consensually indulge with you. 💙

Idk if anyone else in the community feels this way but ..

I always say that I want my romantic partner to be into tickling just as much as I am but fr I mean it. Like imagine sharing that same love for it with someone else so special to you who just gets it and understands? Coming home from my long or tiring days at work having tickle sessions or cuddly tickles to look forward to, receiving texts while I’m out about how much I’ll be tickled when I get home, knowing that I can be tickled at any given moment. Knowing that it’s not looked at as awkward or weird because this person already understands my love for it BECAUSE they also love it just as much as me. My own personal ler as my lover? Idk that sounds like a win win to me and I don’t EVER plan to or want to compromise 🙈🩷😭

[aussietummytickler]

Came across a longer version of a gif I've often seen floating around from fellow tummy lers/lees/switches, I think some of y'all might appreciate this!

Just needs a small chair with a cushion or something underneath for those who want a more... Extended session~?

Hope this puts y'all in as much of a Ler/lee mood as it does for my Ler mood. #sorrynotsorry 😇