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yourmoonie · 5 months ago
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Reality is like a big lucid dream
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Reality is like a big lucid dream, and guess what?
You're the dreamer
You know how in dreams, you can shape your surroundings, change the outcome, or even fly just by deciding it? It's the same thing here in your waking life. The key is shifting your focus and attention to what you desire, and everything else will align.
The key here is YOU!
Think of it like this: In a lucid dream, when you realize you're dreaming, you stop reacting to the randomness and start creating intentionally. You can suddenly decide you're at the beach or in the middle of your desired city, all it takes is a shift in thought. Your awareness in the dream dictates what happens next.
Now apply that to reality
When you focus on what you want, whether it's love, success, or confidence, and make it your inner truth, your outer world will start to reflect it
Imagine a big projector.
Your mind doesn't know the difference between what’s real and imagined, it just follows your inner script.
So, if you believe you're thriving, loved, and successful, your reality will mirror that back to you. It's all about controlling your inner world.
"Stop trying to change the world since it is only the mirror. Man’s attempt to change the world by force is as fruitless as breaking a mirror in the hope of changing his face. Leave the mirror and change your face. Leave the world alone and change your conceptions of yourself. The reflection will then be satisfactory" - Neville Goddard": from Your Faith is Your Fortune
Imagine you want to manifest more confidence. Instead of waiting for a situation to give you confidence, start by feeling and acting as though you're already the most confident version of yourself. In a dream, if you suddenly decided you had superpowers, you'd just go with it, right? Do the same here, walk, talk, and make decisions like someone who knows their worth. Soon enough, you'll notice how people respond differently to you, how opportunities seem to align, and how your reality changes to fit this new confident self.
"Change your conception of yourself and you will automatically change the world in which you live. Do not try to change people; they are only messengers telling you who you are. Revalue yourself and they will confirm the change" - Neville Goddard, from Your Faith is Your Fortune
You are always in control, just like in those lucid dreams, so start dreaming your reality awake!
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zais-zafu · 17 days ago
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false gods ruling ur life
& the power of focus
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hi everyone! today I wanna talk about how we create false gods in our lives, how that harms us, and the importance of directing our focus! this is a topic that has been on my mind recently as I think it is foundational to everyone who wants to work on their mindset, mental diet, and manifest better life outcomes.
table of contents
1. ways we create false gods in our lives
2. the harm of false idolisation and victimisation
3. the power of focus and attention
p.s: I do believe in god but I believe this post is still helpful from an loa/spiritual persective. so, with that being said, let's discuss!
✿ part 1: ways we create false gods in our lives
I'd say there two main ways we do that: making ourselves smaller and making others bigger.
when we make ourselves small, we victimise ourselves becoming paranoid about the world and thinking that others have this special advantage over you. I see this a lot in the loa community where some believe that others have some kinda special knowledge and power that they don't posses, when in reality it is just them being more disciplined, more consistent, and more trusting of loa.
it could also be about feeling insignificant in the face of your circumstances. like thinking that the 3d (physical reality) is what is ruling your life and not ur mind. also believing in conspiracies and secret society theories or ideas that are designed to instill fear within you, making u think that someone is out there to get you.
as for making others bigger in your mind, this happens a lot in celebrity and fan culture when you start seeing them as more than human. also when you idolise other people's attention (for example: analysing others behavours around you and ruminating over negative meanings of it). and also you pay wayyyy too much attention to other people’s lives like your peers and worrying too much about competition, not realising that there's no competition when you are your own life's creator.
essentially, when you start worrying/thinking too much about something or someone outside yourself, you have formed a false god in your mind.
✿ part 2: the harm of false idolisation and victimisation
so what's the harm in that? well first, it is such a waste of time and energy on something that won't serve you. also it will only create unnecessary worry and anxiety within your mind. you start to see yourself as powerless and your life as out of ur control. you might also engage in behaviours that cause you to lose yourself in the process, such as people pleasing.
your life will become vapid and shallow since your focus is on shit that really doesn't matter. you will also start to associate this great amount of omnipotence and power with something other than god (if u believe in one), bankrupting you spiritually. like you are some insignificant string being pulled along by someone more powerful than you or god, or by circumstances that you believe you cannot change.
small tip: whenever you start to worry too much remind yourself that you are starting to create a false god in your mind. this works wonders for me to quickly disengage from unhelpful thoughts and remind myself of my power.
✿ part 3: the power of focus and attention
obviously, if you practice lao, you know that what you focus on is what you create. if you dwell in other people's lives or opinions, you're then not dwelling enough in the life you wanna create. focus is like a currency to what you wanna see play out in your life: what you pay attention to is what you prioritise and is what you will get more of.
in my case, when I started focusing on the life I wanna live, that's when opportunities, successes, etc. started flooding my life.
and that also applies to what you consume cos your mental diet is hugely shaped by your media diet. basically, what you consume (see, hear) and create (say, think) creates patterns of belief in your mind, materialising in reality.
ofc, you can always engage something outside of you that entertains you but don’t lose sight of your own live’s vision. really consider whether what your're watching is adding to your life somehow. make sure you’re using it, not it using you.
a big example of that is social media: you can either curate the perfect fyp to see posts that make you happy, remind you that your dream life is possible, serve as loa tips/reminders or you could consume content that is designed to suck you in and make you angry, anxious, or hopeless.
you decide.
another related term to focus that I wanna talk about is presence and how it is essentially the key to living a happy life.
when you focus on what truly matters, you find excitement and passion again, creating a life you're proud of. being present and focusing on yourself also allows you to practice intentional and mindful living. so you take your time to do the things you care about, you connect back to your spirituality, you realise that you’re more than a physical vessel, and you find yourself again beneath all of society's chatter.
this ultimately builds confidence and trust within you: you become an inspired creator instead of a powerless victim around the people who you look up to and also with 3d circumstances, which you now understand are just past relfections of old beliefs and are easily changeable.
and I think holding such mindset is beautiful :)
anddd, that's all! hope this was a helpful mindset shifting technique for y'all.
talk to you again soon <3
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journey2aswan · 2 months ago
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honeytonedhottie · 8 months ago
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the victim mentality⋆.ೃ࿔*:・🧁
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this is a remake of one of my older posts in a newer style + added points and sections, a REVAMP if u will about what the victim mentality is and how to get OUT of it…💬🎀
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if u find urself creating obstacles, and getting in the way of ur own success you probably have a tendency to fall into the victim mentality. and its not like its hard to fall into, but it never serves u.
WHAT IS THE VICTIM MENTALITY ;
the victim mentality is the belief that the world is against you. that u can never succeed because (insert excuses) and from a quick google search the cause of the victim mentality is as a coping mechanism that can influence and determine the way in which a person interacts with the world.
WHY THE VICTIM MENTALITY IS TOXIC ;
the victim mentality perpetuates negativity and as we all know what u focus on is what manifests so if ur perpetuating negativity you'll reap negativity. you reap what you sow.
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it acts as a blockage for personal growth AND limits opportunities because by focusing on perceived injustices you'll fail to see when an opportunity to improve urself + ur life presents itself.
GIRL AREN'T U TIRED?? ;
aren't you tired of looking for everything and everyone to blame BUT yourself? aren't u tired of not being able to take responsibility for urself and putting urself in shit situations because ur too lazy to get up and take accountability for urself??
LOA PIECE ;
dont put ur desire on the pedestal, look inward and the rest WILL change. manifestation is guaranteed to be easy, the easiest thing in the world, in fact, its so easy that you've been doing it subconsciously since birth. if u keep on stating that it doesn't work, or you'll have obstacles, or it'll be difficult, thats literally whats gonna happen. at the end of the day it all boils down to urself
aren't u tired of being a victim in ur reality? you already have the tools. the only tool u need to create is ur MIND. you have a mind, and u know about the law of assumption, so WHAT exactly is stopping u from manifesting the life of ur dreams?? the answer is you.
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urloveangel · 2 months ago
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thefemmerefinery · 4 months ago
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Show up for your people. It doesn’t have to be grand and shouldn’t always be grand. It’s as simple as being reliable and dependable.
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litrly-justagirl · 2 months ago
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From Vision to Purpose: Overcoming Overthinking to Build with Intention
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Have you noticed how debilitating overthinking can be in our lives at times? It creeps in quietly, paralyzing our ability to move forward, to make decisions, or to even dream freely. We spend so much time measuring our lives in calendar years—12 neat little months, January to December. But what if we shifted our perspective? What if, instead of seeing time as months on a grid, we saw it as seasons? Quarters we could design intentionally, with purpose and focus.
Overthinking often creeps in when we lack focus. When our minds scatter in every direction, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed, unsure, or stuck. The remedy? You HAVE to find a focus. Most especially if you are a multi hyphenate. Anchor yourself in something clear and intentional.
For me, this year, that focus is my YouTube channel. I’m not just focusing on creating content—I’m building something. A space where faith, storytelling, and purpose intersect. My vision? To scale my channel, to create content that resonates deeply, and to reach the milestone of monetization. But it’s not just about numbers or metrics; it’s about impact.
This year I decided to be intentional so I started by writing down what I wanted: What do I want my channel to look like by the end of this year? What kind of community do I want to build? What stories do I want to tell?
And then, I brought it before God. I asked Him to revise it, refine it, and align it with His will. Because a vision in alignment with God isn’t just a dream—it’s a purpose.
Seasons change, focus evolves, and visions grow. But with clarity, intention, and alignment, every season can become something meaningful.
What season are you designing right now?
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journey-to-balance · 27 days ago
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We were meant to live slowly. We were meant to savor moments and experience times when we feel unabashedly lazy. We were meant to frolic and smell the flowers, to laugh with hearts and love with our souls.
Don’t ever feel guilty for resting. Don’t ever feel guilty for slowing down. Enjoying life shouldn’t be something you’re ashamed of...
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motivexesmotivational · 1 month ago
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"Courage Starts It All: Rewrite Your Destiny One Step at a Time"
"Courage Starts It All: Rewrite Your Destiny One Step at a Time"
"Courage is the foundation of every great journey. With each bold step, you have the power to rewrite your destiny. Discover how embracing courage can transform your mindset and ignite the motivation to achieve your dreams."
"Take the first step today—let courage guide you to a life of inspiration and endless possibilities!"
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yourmoonie · 5 months ago
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Hello moon how are you I want £100 billion to be deposited into my bank account every hour for ever and ever without doing anything out of thin air, I want it to be deposited into my bank account every hour legally and I don't want to pay any tax, is this possible and how can I make it happen?
That's my question, can you help me?
MANIFESTING BILLIONS
Hey love, thank you for the interesting question.
I personally believe it is a possibility and you can achieve it if you want to.
Let me give you an interesting perspective:
1) Money has no value without our awareness or without humans. If we didn’t exist, those numbers written on a piece of paper would mean nothing. Take animals as an example: with or without money, they will survive in the wild.
What I am trying to highlight here is that
• You are awareness, and if you become AWARE of the fact that you can have those billions, then you truly will be able to get those billions. Don’t let anybody tell you that you will be taxed or that it’s impossible. Let them stay limited. I myself don’t pay taxes because, in my reality, there is no such concept as “paying taxes.” You would be surprised to find out how many billionaires don’t pay taxes simply because they know how to play this game called “LIFE.”
To make this fun for yourself
• start planning your life now (now when you get billions being sent to your account what are some things you are planning to buy/do/create etc) BECOME that person and start thinking as the person who has those billions
• mentally see the notifications hitting your inbox or you can just assume and decide and live your life.
• you can choose any method you would like to use too (if you are into methods but if not then that’s completely fine)
I know you have got this my billionaire friend 💸💰
THOSE BILLIONS ARE NOW YOURS 🌙✨
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thevegaedit · 20 days ago
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✨ Men Don’t Fall for the Woman Who Gives Too Much
Attraction Principle #10:
When a woman doesn't give in easily and doesn't appear docile or submissive, it becomes more stimulating to obtain her.
In her book Getting to 'I Do', Dr. Patricia Allen emphasizes the importance of maintaining traditional masculine and feminine roles within relationships. She posits that every successful partnership consists of a leader (masculine energy) and a follower (feminine energy). According to Allen, a woman who embodies feminine energy should prioritize receiving over giving, allowing the man to take the lead. This dynamic aligns with the idea that men are natural pursuers or "hunters" in relationships. By not giving in easily and refraining from appearing overly docile or submissive, a woman presents a challenge, thereby stimulating a man's intrinsic desire to chase and obtain her. Allen suggests that such an approach not only respects traditional gender roles but also fosters a balanced and fulfilling relationship dynamic. Why Allen Supports Traditional Gender Roles:
Men Are Natural Chasers – Allen emphasizes that men thrive when they can pursue and provide. If a woman assumes a traditionally "masculine" role (chasing, initiating, leading), she disrupts the natural attraction dynamic, making the man feel unnecessary or even emasculated.
2. Feminine Energy Attracts Masculine Energy – She argues that when a woman embraces receptivity, softness, and the ability to let a man lead, she allows space for his masculine energy to emerge, which makes the relationship more fulfilling.
3. Balance Prevents Power Struggles – If both partners compete for dominance (both being in masculine energy), it leads to power struggles and disconnection. Similarly, if both are in feminine energy (passive, waiting to be led), nothing happens. She suggests that a clear balance of roles makes relationships smoother and more fulfilling.
4. It’s About Chemistry, Not Submission – Allen clarifies that embracing feminine energy doesn’t mean being weak or dependent. Instead, it means allowing the man to take action while the woman remains in a receptive position, creating the romantic chemistry needed for long-term commitment.
5. Men Need to Feel Useful – She points out that men derive confidence and purpose from providing, leading, and protecting. When a woman is too independent in a way that excludes men from fulfilling these roles, it can diminish attraction and motivation on his end. Allen’s Key Quote on This:
"If a woman is too giving, she robs a man of the opportunity to give to her. And if he can't give to her, he will stop investing in her."
TL;DR – She doesn’t argue that women should be weak or dependent, but rather that they should understand how gender polarity creates strong attraction and healthy relationship dynamics.
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journey2aswan · 2 months ago
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“Do you, until ‘the one’, comes through”
As a woman on the rise/come up to be a better you.
Be encouraged to wait in faith.
What does that look like?
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• Remain in prayer
• Work on yourself day in and day out.
• Read books
• Start a small business
• Exercise
• Eat a balanced diet
• Take solo trips
• Treat yourself to fine dining when you can
• Feed your creative side
• Work on your mind
• Work on your motion!
• Invest in yourself in ways that doesn’t necessarily require spending Money.
• Develop a solid routine and stick to it for 6 months straight.
The man that God has for you will be your help mate which is why it is important that during your waiting season to be actively, living, learning & working on you.
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theereina · 11 months ago
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urloveangel · 2 years ago
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affirmations for inner child healing and supporting your adult self 💗✍🏼✨
I am no longer responsible for my parents or their happiness
I am fully capable of surviving and thriving without my parents
I am no longer waiting for my parents to change or give me the love, support or care I desire
I am releasing all the expectations of my parents to be someone they’re not
I am accepting my parents exactly as they are and that they give me all they’re capable of giving
I appreciate the love and support my parents give me in their own way
I am responsible to give myself the love, care and support I desire and need
I am committed to fulfill my needs and love myself unconditionally exactly as I am
I am responsible for my life, happiness and healing
I am fully capable of supporting and being there for myself
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thefemmerefinery · 3 months ago
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Ladies, as we go into 2025. Something I want us to keep in mind is that you are in charge of your experiences. The birthday that you want, the Christmas experience that you want etc. You can’t keep waiting for friends to throw you a party or celebrate you the way that you want. You can’t wait for people to give you the Christmas or whatever celebration that you want. We are the adults now and even if you aren’t grown it’s up to you to take charge of what you want. Whatever experience you want create that for yourself and run with it!
Love,
S.
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litrly-justagirl · 2 months ago
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Breaking Smallness
Hey loves, let’s talk about something that’s been on my heart lately—the concept of smallness and how it holds us back. I came across a TikTok video where the creator spoke about how some people stay stuck because they’re in agreement with smallness. She tied it to the journey in Exodus through Deuteronomy, where God wanted to lead His people to the Promise Land, but many couldn’t move forward because they were too aligned with their limitations.
That hit me hard. How often do we, whether knowingly or not, settle for less than God’s best for us? We get comfortable in cycles, relationships, or mindsets that shrink us because they feel safe or familiar. But staying small is not God’s design for us. He’s calling us to step into abundance—not just in material things but in our confidence, purpose, and faith.
Recognizing Agreement with Smallness
Smallness can look like:
• Saying “I’m not ready” when you are.
• Procrastinating on ideas God has placed in your heart.
• Staying in relationships or friendships that drain you.
We’ve all been there. But the first step is recognizing where we’re holding back. Are we afraid of rejection, failure, or outgrowing people? Whatever the reason, it’s time to name it, face it, and break free from it.
Shifting to a Promise Land Mindset
The Promise Land mindset is about faith, trust, and bold action. It’s stepping out even when the road feels uncertain because you know God’s got you. Here’s how to start shifting:
1. Challenge Your Thoughts
Every time you catch yourself thinking small, replace it with truth. “I’m not qualified” becomes “God equips those He calls.”
2. Stop Asking for Permission
You don’t need validation to walk in your purpose. God’s yes is the only one that matters.
3. Take Faith-Filled Action
Faith without works is dead, so move! Whether it’s starting that project, ending that toxic friendship, or finally saying yes to yourself—do it.
✨let’s glow together✨
This glow-up season isn’t just about aesthetics (though we’re serving looks too). It’s about transforming from the inside out. Let’s step out of smallness, walk boldly into our Promise Land, and live in alignment with the fullness of who God created us to be.
If this resonates with you, let’s talk about it in the comments. What’s one area in your life where you’re ready to stop playing small? Let’s keep each other accountable as we make this shift together. 💕
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