#mindset shift

[yourmoonie]

Reality is like a big lucid dream

Reality is like a big lucid dream, and guess what?

You're the dreamer

You know how in dreams, you can shape your surroundings, change the outcome, or even fly just by deciding it? It's the same thing here in your waking life. The key is shifting your focus and attention to what you desire, and everything else will align.

The key here is YOU!

Think of it like this: In a lucid dream, when you realize you're dreaming, you stop reacting to the randomness and start creating intentionally. You can suddenly decide you're at the beach or in the middle of your desired city, all it takes is a shift in thought. Your awareness in the dream dictates what happens next.

Now apply that to reality

When you focus on what you want, whether it's love, success, or confidence, and make it your inner truth, your outer world will start to reflect it

Imagine a big projector.

Your mind doesn't know the difference between what’s real and imagined, it just follows your inner script.

So, if you believe you're thriving, loved, and successful, your reality will mirror that back to you. It's all about controlling your inner world.

"Stop trying to change the world since it is only the mirror. Man’s attempt to change the world by force is as fruitless as breaking a mirror in the hope of changing his face. Leave the mirror and change your face. Leave the world alone and change your conceptions of yourself. The reflection will then be satisfactory" - Neville Goddard": from Your Faith is Your Fortune

Imagine you want to manifest more confidence. Instead of waiting for a situation to give you confidence, start by feeling and acting as though you're already the most confident version of yourself. In a dream, if you suddenly decided you had superpowers, you'd just go with it, right? Do the same here, walk, talk, and make decisions like someone who knows their worth. Soon enough, you'll notice how people respond differently to you, how opportunities seem to align, and how your reality changes to fit this new confident self.

"Change your conception of yourself and you will automatically change the world in which you live. Do not try to change people; they are only messengers telling you who you are. Revalue yourself and they will confirm the change" - Neville Goddard, from Your Faith is Your Fortune

You are always in control, just like in those lucid dreams, so start dreaming your reality awake!

[zais-zafu]

false gods ruling ur life

& the power of focus

hi everyone! today I wanna talk about how we create false gods in our lives, how that harms us, and the importance of directing our focus! this is a topic that has been on my mind recently as I think it is foundational to everyone who wants to work on their mindset, mental diet, and manifest better life outcomes.

table of contents

1. ways we create false gods in our lives

2. the harm of false idolisation and victimisation

3. the power of focus and attention

p.s: I do believe in god but I believe this post is still helpful from an loa/spiritual persective. so, with that being said, let's discuss!

✿ part 1: ways we create false gods in our lives

I'd say there two main ways we do that: making ourselves smaller and making others bigger.

when we make ourselves small, we victimise ourselves becoming paranoid about the world and thinking that others have this special advantage over you. I see this a lot in the loa community where some believe that others have some kinda special knowledge and power that they don't posses, when in reality it is just them being more disciplined, more consistent, and more trusting of loa.

it could also be about feeling insignificant in the face of your circumstances. like thinking that the 3d (physical reality) is what is ruling your life and not ur mind. also believing in conspiracies and secret society theories or ideas that are designed to instill fear within you, making u think that someone is out there to get you.

as for making others bigger in your mind, this happens a lot in celebrity and fan culture when you start seeing them as more than human. also when you idolise other people's attention (for example: analysing others behavours around you and ruminating over negative meanings of it). and also you pay wayyyy too much attention to other people’s lives like your peers and worrying too much about competition, not realising that there's no competition when you are your own life's creator.

essentially, when you start worrying/thinking too much about something or someone outside yourself, you have formed a false god in your mind.

✿ part 2: the harm of false idolisation and victimisation

so what's the harm in that? well first, it is such a waste of time and energy on something that won't serve you. also it will only create unnecessary worry and anxiety within your mind. you start to see yourself as powerless and your life as out of ur control. you might also engage in behaviours that cause you to lose yourself in the process, such as people pleasing.

your life will become vapid and shallow since your focus is on shit that really doesn't matter. you will also start to associate this great amount of omnipotence and power with something other than god (if u believe in one), bankrupting you spiritually. like you are some insignificant string being pulled along by someone more powerful than you or god, or by circumstances that you believe you cannot change.

small tip: whenever you start to worry too much remind yourself that you are starting to create a false god in your mind. this works wonders for me to quickly disengage from unhelpful thoughts and remind myself of my power.

✿ part 3: the power of focus and attention

obviously, if you practice lao, you know that what you focus on is what you create. if you dwell in other people's lives or opinions, you're then not dwelling enough in the life you wanna create. focus is like a currency to what you wanna see play out in your life: what you pay attention to is what you prioritise and is what you will get more of.

in my case, when I started focusing on the life I wanna live, that's when opportunities, successes, etc. started flooding my life.

and that also applies to what you consume cos your mental diet is hugely shaped by your media diet. basically, what you consume (see, hear) and create (say, think) creates patterns of belief in your mind, materialising in reality.

ofc, you can always engage something outside of you that entertains you but don’t lose sight of your own live’s vision. really consider whether what your're watching is adding to your life somehow. make sure you’re using it, not it using you.

a big example of that is social media: you can either curate the perfect fyp to see posts that make you happy, remind you that your dream life is possible, serve as loa tips/reminders or you could consume content that is designed to suck you in and make you angry, anxious, or hopeless.

you decide.

another related term to focus that I wanna talk about is presence and how it is essentially the key to living a happy life.

when you focus on what truly matters, you find excitement and passion again, creating a life you're proud of. being present and focusing on yourself also allows you to practice intentional and mindful living. so you take your time to do the things you care about, you connect back to your spirituality, you realise that you’re more than a physical vessel, and you find yourself again beneath all of society's chatter.

this ultimately builds confidence and trust within you: you become an inspired creator instead of a powerless victim around the people who you look up to and also with 3d circumstances, which you now understand are just past relfections of old beliefs and are easily changeable.

and I think holding such mindset is beautiful :)

anddd, that's all! hope this was a helpful mindset shifting technique for y'all.

talk to you again soon <3

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[journey2aswan]

[honeytonedhottie]

the victim mentality⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁

this is a remake of one of my older posts in a newer style + added points and sections, a REVAMP if u will about what the victim mentality is and how to get OUT of it…💬🎀

if u find urself creating obstacles, and getting in the way of ur own success you probably have a tendency to fall into the victim mentality. and its not like its hard to fall into, but it never serves u.

WHAT IS THE VICTIM MENTALITY ;

the victim mentality is the belief that the world is against you. that u can never succeed because (insert excuses) and from a quick google search the cause of the victim mentality is as a coping mechanism that can influence and determine the way in which a person interacts with the world.

WHY THE VICTIM MENTALITY IS TOXIC ;

the victim mentality perpetuates negativity and as we all know what u focus on is what manifests so if ur perpetuating negativity you'll reap negativity. you reap what you sow.

it acts as a blockage for personal growth AND limits opportunities because by focusing on perceived injustices you'll fail to see when an opportunity to improve urself + ur life presents itself.

GIRL AREN'T U TIRED?? ;

aren't you tired of looking for everything and everyone to blame BUT yourself? aren't u tired of not being able to take responsibility for urself and putting urself in shit situations because ur too lazy to get up and take accountability for urself??

LOA PIECE ;

dont put ur desire on the pedestal, look inward and the rest WILL change. manifestation is guaranteed to be easy, the easiest thing in the world, in fact, its so easy that you've been doing it subconsciously since birth. if u keep on stating that it doesn't work, or you'll have obstacles, or it'll be difficult, thats literally whats gonna happen. at the end of the day it all boils down to urself

aren't u tired of being a victim in ur reality? you already have the tools. the only tool u need to create is ur MIND. you have a mind, and u know about the law of assumption, so WHAT exactly is stopping u from manifesting the life of ur dreams?? the answer is you.

[thefemmerefinery]

Your mental health is not your identity. There’s so much to you than all the labels you want to place on yourself. Allow yourself to live and to be! Develop your resilience. Expand your life and your views. Live!

[urloveangel]

[glowettee]

Hey girl, I'm happy with a man he is legit the loml but I keep having relationship anxiety and self sabtoging I kept fearing he is going to leave me any tips to overcome this it's driving me insane thanks

love isn’t supposed to feel like a test

hi sweetheart, it's mindy. i know what it feels like to overthink love. to go from “this is perfect” to “what if it all disappears?” in a single heartbeat. relationship anxiety makes you feel like you have to earn love over and over again like one wrong move will make it all fall apart. but real love? the kind that’s healthy, safe, and meant for you? it doesn’t ask you to walk on eggshells. it doesn’t test you. it lets you breathe.

so let’s talk about this. how to stop sabotaging something good. how to trust love without feeling like it’s slipping through your fingers. because you deserve a love that feels soft, not like a battle in your mind. - mindy

✧˖° ➼ how to stop self-sabotaging in a healthy relationship

first of all, breathe. you’re not crazy, and you’re not broken for feeling this way. relationship anxiety isn’t about whether your relationship is “good enough” or whether you “love him enough” it’s about your mind struggling to trust stability.

if you’ve been hurt before, if love has felt unsafe, temporary, or uncertain in the past. your brain might be on high alert, waiting for the moment everything falls apart. but here’s the truth:

➼ love isn’t something you have to earn. it’s something you allow yourself to receive. ➼ fear doesn’t protect you from pain. it only steals your ability to enjoy the good moments. ➼ if he’s the loml, treat him like it. don’t let anxiety make you act like he’s your enemy.

✧˖° ➼ step 1: identify your fear loops

(if you can predict your anxiety, you can control it.)

relationship anxiety usually follows patterns. same thoughts, same triggers, same reactions. and if you can spot it before it spirals, you can stop it from controlling you.

✧ what are your intrusive thoughts? “he’s going to leave,” “he secretly hates me,” “i’m not good enough for him.” ✧ what triggers them? does it happen when he takes longer to reply? when you feel extra emotional? ✧ how do you react? do you pull away? over-apologize? test him to “prove” he loves you?

📌 homework: start keeping a relationship anxiety log. whenever you feel yourself spiraling, write down: → what triggered it → what you’re scared of → what actually happened after

this helps your brain realize that most of your fears never actually come true.

✧˖° ➼ step 2: separate anxiety from reality

(feelings aren’t always facts.)

anxiety lies. it makes worst-case scenarios feel like future certainties. so when you start spiraling, try this:

➼ pause. don’t react immediately. give yourself space. ➼ fact-check. what proof do you actually have that he’s leaving? ➼ reframe. instead of “he’s pulling away,” try “he’s probably tired” or “he’s just busy.”

💡 mantra: just because i feel anxious doesn’t mean something is wrong.

✧˖° ➼ step 3: stop testing his love

(love isn’t proven through survival. it’s shown through consistency.)

self-sabotage happens when anxiety tricks you into pushing him away to see if he comes back. things like: ✧ ignoring him to see if he notices ✧ picking fights just to see if he stays ✧ constantly asking if he still loves you

this might feel like “protection,” but it actually creates the instability you fear. instead of making him “prove” his love, try trusting what he’s already shown you.

💬 ask yourself: if i fully believed he loved me, how would i act? → then, act like that version of yourself.

✧˖° ➼ step 4: build emotional safety within yourself

(confidence in love starts with self-trust.)

if you don’t feel safe within yourself, no amount of reassurance from him will ever feel like enough. the goal isn’t to make him “prove” he won’t leave. it’s to make your own security unshakable.

try this: ➼ inner child check-in. if younger you believed love was unstable, remind her: “this is different. we are safe.” ➼ affirmations for security. “i am worthy of love, even when i’m anxious.” “i can trust love without controlling it.” ➼ hold yourself accountable. when you feel yourself spiraling, pause. don’t act on impulse. choose a response that aligns with the calm, secure version of you.

your relationship can’t be healthier than your self-trust. make it strong.

✧˖° ➼ step 5: communicate without fear

instead of bottling up your fears or acting out of anxiety, talk to him. not in a “please fix me” way, but in an “i want to grow with you” way.

how to express anxiety without pushing him away:➼ use “i” statements → instead of “you never text me,” try “i feel anxious when i don’t hear from you.” ➼ own your feelings, but don’t assume his intentions. tell him what you feel, not what he is doing wrong. ➼ ask for support, not solutions. let him know when you need comfort instead of logic.

💡 reminder: someone who loves you won’t get annoyed by your emotions. they’ll want to understand them.

✧˖° ➼ step 6: shift your focus back to you

if your whole emotional world revolves around him, anxiety will always feel like a threat. instead, build a life so full that your happiness isn’t dependent on his every text or action. this is important.

ways to ground yourself in your own life:➼ create rituals that are yours. a morning routine, hobbies, self-care habits that don’t revolve around him. ➼ spend time with other people. make sure your entire social life isn’t just him.➼ set personal goals. give yourself something to focus on outside the relationship.

📌 homework: make a list of 10 things that bring you joy that have nothing to do with him. then, do more of those.

✧˖° ➼ final thoughts:

(you deserve a love that feels like home, not a war zone.)

your anxiety isn’t trying to ruin your relationship. it’s trying to protect you from pain. but love isn’t supposed to be fear management. it’s supposed to be a space where you can feel safe, soft, and loved.

i hope this helped you, i don't usually make posts about relationships, but i'm so happy to start now. if you need any other tips from me please ask me!! <3 i also love researching about this topic <33

xoxo mindy

[litrly-justagirl]

From Vision to Purpose: Overcoming Overthinking to Build with Intention

Have you noticed how debilitating overthinking can be in our lives at times? It creeps in quietly, paralyzing our ability to move forward, to make decisions, or to even dream freely. We spend so much time measuring our lives in calendar years—12 neat little months, January to December. But what if we shifted our perspective? What if, instead of seeing time as months on a grid, we saw it as seasons? Quarters we could design intentionally, with purpose and focus.

Overthinking often creeps in when we lack focus. When our minds scatter in every direction, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed, unsure, or stuck. The remedy? You HAVE to find a focus. Most especially if you are a multi hyphenate. Anchor yourself in something clear and intentional.

For me, this year, that focus is my YouTube channel. I’m not just focusing on creating content—I’m building something. A space where faith, storytelling, and purpose intersect. My vision? To scale my channel, to create content that resonates deeply, and to reach the milestone of monetization. But it’s not just about numbers or metrics; it’s about impact.

This year I decided to be intentional so I started by writing down what I wanted: What do I want my channel to look like by the end of this year? What kind of community do I want to build? What stories do I want to tell?

And then, I brought it before God. I asked Him to revise it, refine it, and align it with His will. Because a vision in alignment with God isn’t just a dream—it’s a purpose.

Seasons change, focus evolves, and visions grow. But with clarity, intention, and alignment, every season can become something meaningful.

What season are you designing right now?

[flingie]

Remember,

"A fish with closed mouth never gets caught"

[journey-to-balance]

We were meant to live slowly. We were meant to savor moments and experience times when we feel unabashedly lazy. We were meant to frolic and smell the flowers, to laugh with hearts and love with our souls.

Don’t ever feel guilty for resting. Don’t ever feel guilty for slowing down. Enjoying life shouldn’t be something you’re ashamed of...

[yourmoonie]

Hello moon how are you I want £100 billion to be deposited into my bank account every hour for ever and ever without doing anything out of thin air, I want it to be deposited into my bank account every hour legally and I don't want to pay any tax, is this possible and how can I make it happen?

That's my question, can you help me?

MANIFESTING BILLIONS

Hey love, thank you for the interesting question.

I personally believe it is a possibility and you can achieve it if you want to.

Let me give you an interesting perspective:

1) Money has no value without our awareness or without humans. If we didn’t exist, those numbers written on a piece of paper would mean nothing. Take animals as an example: with or without money, they will survive in the wild.

What I am trying to highlight here is that

• You are awareness, and if you become AWARE of the fact that you can have those billions, then you truly will be able to get those billions. Don’t let anybody tell you that you will be taxed or that it’s impossible. Let them stay limited. I myself don’t pay taxes because, in my reality, there is no such concept as “paying taxes.” You would be surprised to find out how many billionaires don’t pay taxes simply because they know how to play this game called “LIFE.”

To make this fun for yourself

• start planning your life now (now when you get billions being sent to your account what are some things you are planning to buy/do/create etc) BECOME that person and start thinking as the person who has those billions

• mentally see the notifications hitting your inbox or you can just assume and decide and live your life.

• you can choose any method you would like to use too (if you are into methods but if not then that’s completely fine)

I know you have got this my billionaire friend 💸💰

THOSE BILLIONS ARE NOW YOURS 🌙✨

[punya-debusemesta]

Satu hal yang perlu ku tekankan dalam diri berulang kali.

Sehebat-hebatnya sebuah smartphone tidak akan bermanfaat jika smartphone itu tidak memiliki koneksi atau sinyal.

Sehebat-hebatnya seorang yang muslim, potensi keimanannya tidak akan bermanfaat jika koneksinya dengan Allah tidak terhubung, potensi kehebatan seorang muslim ada pada solatnya.

Solat itu mi'raj- nya orang beriman, seakan-akan ia naik ke langit ke-7 dan berkomunikasi langsung dengan Allah.

Solat itu bukan hanya kewajiban, tapi harus dilaksanakan melalu kesadaran akan keperluan dan kebutuhan kita pada Allah Sang Maha Pemenuh Kebutuhan dan Keperluan yang tidak butuh siapapun dan apapun.

Jika kamu ingin mengetahui kedudukanmu di sisi Allah, maka lihatlah kedudukan Allah di hatimu.

[journey2aswan]

“Do you, until ‘the one’, comes through”

As a woman on the rise/come up to be a better you.

Be encouraged to wait in faith.

What does that look like?

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• Remain in prayer

• Work on yourself day in and day out.

• Read books

• Start a small business

• Exercise

• Eat a balanced diet

• Take solo trips

• Treat yourself to fine dining when you can

• Feed your creative side

• Work on your mind

• Work on your motion!

• Invest in yourself in ways that doesn’t necessarily require spending Money.

• Develop a solid routine and stick to it for 6 months straight.

The man that God has for you will be your help mate which is why it is important that during your waiting season to be actively, living, learning & working on you.

[motivexesmotivational]

"Courage Starts It All: Rewrite Your Destiny One Step at a Time"

"Courage Starts It All: Rewrite Your Destiny One Step at a Time"

"Courage is the foundation of every great journey. With each bold step, you have the power to rewrite your destiny. Discover how embracing courage can transform your mindset and ignite the motivation to achieve your dreams."

"Take the first step today—let courage guide you to a life of inspiration and endless possibilities!"

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[thefemmerefinery]

Ladies, as we go into 2025. Something I want us to keep in mind is that you are in charge of your experiences. The birthday that you want, the Christmas experience that you want etc. You can’t keep waiting for friends to throw you a party or celebrate you the way that you want. You can’t wait for people to give you the Christmas or whatever celebration that you want. We are the adults now and even if you aren’t grown it’s up to you to take charge of what you want. Whatever experience you want create that for yourself and run with it!

Love,

S.

[urloveangel]

affirmations for inner child healing and supporting your adult self 💗✍🏼✨

I am no longer responsible for my parents or their happiness

I am fully capable of surviving and thriving without my parents

I am no longer waiting for my parents to change or give me the love, support or care I desire

I am releasing all the expectations of my parents to be someone they’re not

I am accepting my parents exactly as they are and that they give me all they’re capable of giving

I appreciate the love and support my parents give me in their own way

I am responsible to give myself the love, care and support I desire and need

I am committed to fulfill my needs and love myself unconditionally exactly as I am

I am responsible for my life, happiness and healing

I am fully capable of supporting and being there for myself