#luxury lifestyle blog

[softlifesiren]

reprogramming myself to be unbothered and wildly abundant.

i stopped waking up like i had to prove something. i started waking up like it was already mine. money. safety. love. all of it. i just assumed the version of me who has it… and life started matching her vibe. i don’t chase, force, or beg anymore. i don’t spiral when things take a little longer or someone doesn’t respond how i hoped. i trust. i lean back. i glow in my own presence. it’s not that i don’t care—it’s that i no longer tie my worth to outcomes. i decided my inner world would be soft, stable, and so certain… no matter what the outside looked like.

this is what reprogramming feels like. not some overnight fix. not loud. not perfect. but a quiet, powerful decision i made every single day: to choose my new truth. to live as her, even before the 3D caught up. i used to think i needed to hustle to feel secure. now i just rewire my nervous system and remind myself: i am the source. the match. the magnet.

how do i reprogram my subconscious? i get asked this all the time. here’s my answer, soft + simple: repetition, identity, safety. you speak it until you become it. you feel it in your body, not just your mind. you regulate your nervous system enough to receive it without self-sabotage. journaling, affirmations, mirror work, scripting, subliminals, rewriting old beliefs—all of them work. but only if your body feels safe believing it. so i soften first. then i affirm. then i embody. then i attract.

how long does it take? my love, as long as it takes to stop arguing for your limitations and start living in alignment. sometimes days. sometimes months. but the shift starts the moment you decide you’re no longer the old version of you. i’ve had timelines collapse the moment i embodied a new belief. i’ve also had to sit with resistance, breathe through it, and try again. either way—i always win. i always expand. i always become.

i’m no longer trying to reprogram out of fear. i’m reprogramming from love. softness. truth. i am her now. unbothered. richly loved. wildly abundant.

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cultivating a high maintenance lifestyle⋆.ೃ࿔*:･👛🐩

INVEST IN YOURSELF ;

the definition of investment is an act of devoting time, effort, or energy to a particular undertaking with the expectation of a worthwhile result. some ways that u can invest in urself include ->

♡ making sure that u sleep on time -> and wake up early

♡ investing time into ur education and taking advantage of resources

♡ paying for courses or classes on things that you're passionate about in order to gain more knowledge

BE MORE SELECTIVE ;

take a look at the people that u surround urself with. are they making efforts to better themselves and their futures? are they good people? make sure that u surround urself with people that u can learn from and people that u wanna be like.

if no one has told you this, you are allowed to be picky and selective with who u choose to invite into your life and your circle. its YOUR life so use ur good judgement to make decisions about who you want to be present for your life, and who u want to have access to ur energy and ur time and you in general.

QUALITY OVER QUANTITY ;

invest in quality clothes because quality is better than quantity. that way u can build a wardrobe thats timeless and that u can continuously wear, as opposed to having a lot of clothes that are cheap and fall apart when u put them to wash. things to take note of when shopping for quality clothes are ->

♡ the material/texture

♡ the brand

ask yourself before u buy something, how many ways can i wear this piece? you should be able to style the piece in multiple different ways unless it's a statement piece. and even then. actually visualize urself wearing it and how you would wear it before u commit to it and actually purchase it…💬🎀

DO THINGS BY YOURSELF ;

take yourself out on dates! coffee shop dates, take yourself shopping, book appointments at the spa/salon, read good books, learn to cook your favorite dishes. ROMANTICIZE ur life and learn to appreciate spending time with yourself. literally become ur own favorite person. treat urself to nice things on a daily basis. it doesn't even have to break the bank. some nice things that u can do for urself on a daily basis include ->

♡ making your favorite breakfast food and treating urself to breakfast in bed

♡ buy yourself your favorite bouquet of flowers

♡ buy yourself some nice lingerie

♡ book weekends at a nice spa

ITS ALL IN THE DETAILS ;

♡ groomed, manicured nails (FRENCH TIPS)

♡ silk and satin robes

♡ fresh flowers and bouquets weekly

♡ form fitting dresses

CULTIVATE YOUR TASTE ;

go to restaurants and cultivate ur tastebuds. try new foods. go to art gallery's and try to educate urself on various forms of art to just enrich yourself. read LOTS of books. literally anything u can do to make urself more refined DO IT.

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Welcoming farmhouse porch idea...love it!

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[blissfullyecho]

2025 is:

Baccarat Rouge 540, La Perla lingerie, Chanel No. 5, caviar and oysters, first-class lounges, Soho House memberships, Hermès Birkins, Dior sunglasses, Van Cleef, Cartier, Tiffany, Ritz-Carlton spa days, Nobu dinners, St. Barts holidays, Pilates reformer classes, Montblanc pens, bulletproof coffee mornings, St. Regis afternoon tea, skiing in Aspen, sailing on a Sunseeker yacht, dating men wearing custom-tailored suits, handwritten thank-you notes written with custom stationery by Smythson, interior design consultations, negronis by the fireplace, silk pillowcases, cashmere throws, helicopter rides to the Hamptons, fine art auctions at Sotheby’s, private wine tastings in Napa, chef’s table dining experiences, Le Labo Santal 33, Rolls-Royce chauffeured rides, horseback riding in the English countryside, Ladurée macarons, Rolex watches, a Montauk beach house, Louboutin heels, afternoon reads of The Financial Times, medical-grade skincare routines, investing in blue-chip stocks, attending Paris Fashion Week, tennis matches at Wimbledon, and Courchevel ski chalets.

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