#low empathy cluster b culture is

[cluster-b-culture-is]

Low empathy/sympathy cluster B culture is trying to be nice because you know logically that’s the right thing to do but people are being really annoying and you don’t have the energy to try and be compassionate

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[lemony-ink]

having low/no empathy doesn't make you evil or less-than someone else

you don't owe empathy to anyone

having NPD or ASPD doesn't make you a bad person

[deceiver-of-god]

Honestly, I think apologizing is just a form of manipulation. It bothers you that the other person doesn't have a good attitude towards you, so you explain the situation, make any excuse, try to make them understand your perspective, and in the end you manage to soften them and change their attitude.

I don't think I've ever honestly apologized. When someone is upset with me, all I want is for them to stop being upset, because their attitude is inconvenient, and the only thing on my mind is "how can I talk my way out of this situation?".

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

npd + low empathy culture is "i'm sorry but i don't know what to say. i have no intention of hurting you with my indifference, i just don't feel anything. i can fabricate some answer and rely on cognitive empathy, but it'll only take me so far. i don't know how to comfort you, nor i want to bc honestly i can't really see past my own nose sometimes when it comes to feelings. i just don't feel anything, i am really, really sorry"

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[titan-god-helios]

people with npd. i love us. narcissist nation RISE UP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

anyway yeah jokey bits aside every single damn narcissist, you're awesome and i hope you're having a good day filled with supply.

yes that includes overt narcissists. yes that includes narcissists who manipulate others or take advantage of situations (AND ARE WORKING ON IT OR TRYING TO (i do not condone manipulation please don't kill me you tumblrinas with piss poor reading comprehension)). yes that includes narcissists who constantly brag about their achievements or cannot mask their symptoms. yes that includes narcissists who are easily angered. yes that includes narcissists who are the stereotype of narcissism. yes it includes quite literally every single narcissist and not only those who are covert, can mask or use their narcissism to fuel them to do good.

cause quite frankly, thats not the experience of every person with npd, or even the majority. yet all of us are people (or critters !! i see you therians and nonhumans <3) and deserve to get treated with as much respect and care and kindness as one another, no matter if you're trying to get better now or will in the future or don't know if you can, or if you're "one of the good ones" (ew i hate that phrase) or whatever.

yeah go and have a good day <333

[antisocial-hatred]

when someone treats me slightly wrong so now i have to make them feel bad by literally committing suicide, but also why would i kill myself for them when they're obviously worth much less than me? but still they need to regret what they did? guilt-tripping isn't enough i want them to spend their whole life eaten up by intrusive thoughts wondering if they deserve anything after depriving the world of its most interesting creature

[falloutboyyaoi]

my ex had high empathy. reblog to support victims of empath abuse

[psychabolition]

The Depathologization of Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD)

What Im thinking is - why reform psych labels that were made to stigmatize us?

I'd love to think of new labels that arent pathologizing us for how we deviate from neuronormativity (=what societally deemed 'normal' to think/feel/do depending on your assigned gender/age/socioeconomic status/...). To me this is important since the biomedical model tells us that we're at fault for our suffering while simultaneously justifying violence against us.

To me the new defining (depathologized) aspects of our neurodivergency (=deviation from neuronormativity) ASPD - could include:

Inherently at odds with any hierarchy in our society and everyone who enforces those hierarchies upon us youth discrimination - teachers/parents, classism and racism - police and judges, capitalism - your boss/financial "obligations", ...

Deciding for yourself what is morally right and wrong instead of letting societies norms(=what is legal or illegal for example) tell you whats morally right or wrong

Often targets of hierarchy enforcing and/or state sanctioned violence because we are deemed dangerous to the "social order" =psychiatric incarceration, prisons, patriarchal violence, youth discrimination - child abuse, queerphobia - bullying/social ostracization - at the same time having experienced this violence often leads to our way of thinking and acting.

We value our own pleasure and time above anything else and often cant be assed to do anything that we dont like - like work or studying or beaurocratic bullshit the state forces onto us or sitting still for 8h in school, not being able to pay attention to things that arent interesting to us, being insanely bored by capitalist society and its mundane routines, saying and doing what we want when we want it, not being bothered trying to organize our day according to how society wants us to, simply walking out on things we dont like - home, movies,relationships, class,too fancy weed store💀

Not obeying social norms because you dont understand them and/or because you think theyre stupid /having a hard time with social norms generally examples: norm deviating clothing/makeup/self expression, gender nonconformity, using words/phrases that are unusual, saying 'inappropriate' things never doing small talk, being very direct/always honest, often lying for no reason, asking 'inappriopriate' questions, not understanding/relating to the emotional states others have,hating routines/questioning rules/...

Often lack of trust/paranoid/only have a small circle of people who we trust since we've often been betrayed by friends/family/partners who didnt show solidarity in our struggles or norm deviation examples: someone obeying to what the biological nuclear family wants is suddenly more important than them being a loyal friend/sibling to you, amatonormativity -your friends leaving you in the dirt for their romantic interests, our 'friends' calling the cops on us when we have a mental breakdown or they talk to the cops bc they think they have a chance to have a lesser sentence when they tell on you, friends valuing male validation above friendship, when you need money/a place to stay your friends are not there for you, patriarchal violence in relationships, ...

Having a very hard time dealing with hierarchy enforcing/state sanctioned violence/defying social norms every day/not having a place in society /being ostracized low mood, suicidal and homicidal thoughts, explosive anger or constant irritability due to injustices we had to endure, drug addiction, self harm, alienation from others - dissociation, emptiness, having a hard time knowing who you are in a world where its hard to have access for words and frameworks of thinking to describe someone like you and your experiences (languange to describe your neurodivergency and/or queerness - like abrosexual/agender/asexual/demiromantic/polyamorous/...), sometimes replicating the violence that you had to endure - as a child bullying other children, fear of betrayal or abandonment or social ostracization happening again, psychosis, (pseudo)-hallucinations, panic attacks, nightmares, low self esteem, reacting in extreme and impulsive ways when feeling out of control/unsafe/weak

@mischiefmanifold you inspired me to do this lol

[cut-n-snared]

i’m just an empty shell looking for people to latch onto and drain their energy and make their mental health shit until i get bored of them

[bpdcodone]

Having no empathy really just makes me feel like I can’t ever connect with anyone truly

[if-im-being-honest]

Why is it so much harder to be all nice and empathetic in real life why can't I be the really nice charismatic version of myself in my head without putting any effort in

[cluster-b-culture-is]

cluster b with no/low affective empathy culture is being demonized and dehumanized to hell and back. i ache to be seen as human but at this point I can't see myself as human either

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[cluster-b-corner]

aspd culture is either being demonized for your disorder or fetishized for it.

[deceiver-of-god]

Yesterday I felt empathy for the first time in god-knows-how-much-time, and it felt really weird. Like, don't, no, stop- Ctrl+Z.

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

low empathy npd culture is so apparently confessing in the confessions channel that i read vents for fun is not allowed. god forbid i have hobbies /silly

-♥️🗡

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[multiplesillylittleguys]

I can't stand all these people.

Of course there can be good moments while having DID, but for me as an alter, I hate my systemmates. Maybe not exactly hate, but I don't like them. I don't like people and having to share a body with multiple others is exhausting.

-Maia