#and attachment issues

[theearlgreymage]

Ten Favorite Shows

Rules: Post Gifs from your 10 Favorite Shows without naming them. Then Tag 10 people

Thanks @shrekgogurt @hushed-chorus and @stardustasincocaine for the Tags 😘Ya'll are a bunch of cutie pies

Have I made this show my entire personality? Probably. Am I going to stop? Nope.

2. My childhood. Rewatch at least twice a year.

3. A new one but oh my god has it gripped my heart. Everyone should watch this ASAP

4. A fucking MASTERPIECE I tell you A GODDAMN FUCKING MASTERPIECE

5. Look. I have a thing for Vampires. Leave me alone.

6. Just. Look at them. They're figure skaters and they're gay and I will die protecting them

7. Do I even need to say it? I would pay my entire lifes networth to have Henry Caville all grimed up and whispering fuck in my ear.

8. We never truly escape our pasts. Even the dark parts. When I binged this ENTIRE series in under three months. I was a different person then, but cannot gloss over it's impact on my brain

9. This is arguably the cutest comedy I have ever watched. And yes, I identify with Jessica Day a bit too much.

10. The FUNNIEST fucking show I have ever seen. Fight me.

And now to Tag 10 Lovely Individuals @ic3-que3n @artsyunderstudy @theimpossibledemon @cutestkilla @buffy @upuntil6am @thewholelemon @monbons @ackerslut @madebydun

Honorable Mentions because 10 is not a long enough list below the cut 😎

[bl4sphemy-archived]

samael is such a prime example of "it's lonely at the top" and it makes me emo

[wengenn]

Currently into :

-Bojack Horseman

-Rick and Morty

-House md

Think i'm starting to notice a pattern..

[ranahan]

Book of Boba Fett, Chapter 6: the Jedi continue their generational traum… traditions.

There’s this kid, developmentally looks like a toddler. Isn’t even talking yet. And sure, he has this weird space magic and probably needs help learning how to not fuck shit up with it. Apparently, learning that involves:

���Helping him remember” the violent assault that killed everyone else in his primary residence and reliving their deaths.

Denying access to the one stable and reliable adult in his life who has proven he will stick with this kid even if he can’t be the primary caregiver for magic reasons.

Giving this toddler an ultimatum: he can choose said adult (with whom he understandably has a strong connection due to circumstances alone) or learn to be a space wizard. Essentially, “I can make you great, but it’s my way or the highway.”

(The laser bolt shooting droid and combat practice would make it to this list but arguably, the kid needs age-appropriate self-defence lessons due to his circumstances. That means dodging laser bolts and running away, not a kriffing laser sword of death as a reward.)

What manipulative bantha poodoo is this? Is it a requirement to have insecure attachment to stay on the light side? Give this kid back to the dad who’s not a deadbeat and has functional empathy.

[tinybitofhope]

i want to be listening to my ‘is this what peace sounds like’ playlist while walking in a park on the bridge into a pretty field with my school friends who ive missed so much because they changed and i want them back like old times and i wish i could ask them to come with me everywhere i go because they are the most important and funny people in my school

[sparklejumpropequeen1949]

This or nothing

[sleeplessv0id]

does anyone else love stickers but never use them because you're too afraid to waste them.

[deadsetobsessions]

Damian Wayne was like a duckling. A violent, stab-happy, danger-prone duckling, yes, but a duckling all the same. Which means when Danny almost got stabbed by a sleepy, instinct driven Damian, he was able to wave it off with a laugh. Damian, on the other hand, stared in horror at the butter knife firmly lodged in Danny’s arm.

“PENNYWORTH!” Danny jerked back at Damian’s scream. “RICHARD! FATHER!”

God damn, the kid had a pair of lungs on him. Danny’s wince was interpreted as pain to Damian, who gently grabbed his injured arm and started to pull him towards the kitchen’s marble island.

Danny blinked, non plussed as his hearing picked up a thundering of feet as the present family members scrambled towards Damian’s distress call.

“Wait, Damian, I’m fine. It’s-”

“You have been impaled, you imbecile! Had it been any of the other simpletons, they would have-!”

“Ouch.” Danny put his other hand in mock hurt over his slow-beating heart. He literally doesn’t care about the butter knife. He’s just impressed there was enough force in there to impale him. “Are you calling me names now? After- gasp- stabbing me?”

Before Damian could reply, the beginnings of regret, remorse, and guilt on his face, Alfred, Dick, and Bruce burst into the kitchen.

“What happened?!”

“My word, master Danny!”

“What is it?!”

“I’m fine. It’s like a small stab. Not even a big stab. I’m good.”

Dick paled, seeing Danny’s arm clutched in Damian’s hand.

“That’s- that’s a knife. In your arm. How is that ‘fine’?!”

“What happened.” Bruce asked Damian, gently removing Danny’s arm from Damian’s death clutch.

“I- I did not mean to,” Damian starts, guilt coloring his voice.

“He didn’t,” Danny cuts in. “I startled him and got stabbed for being dumb. I won’t fault him for having a defense mechanism like that, ancient knows what I might do if you guys startled me.”

The awkward silence that settled at his words made Danny twitch awkwardly.

“Uh, so, can I add this knife to my collection? Even if I didn’t get mugged?”

“Danny.”

“Bruce.” Danny stared stubbornly back. With his uninsured hand, he patted Damian on the head. He was going to enjoy the fluffiness before Damian’s guilt was no longer enough to hold him back from snapping at Danny’s hand like a grumpy alligator. Bruce loses, obviously. He’s a teenager who was also an ex-vigilante. Batman’s got nothing on a determined halfa.

“Master Danny, I must insist you refrain from getting stabbed. There is only so much gauze and antiseptic cream in the house.” Alfred returned- huh, when did he leave?- with a med kit.

Danny called bullshit because he knows there’s a whole ass medical bay beneath the manor.

“Sorry.”

“No need to apologize.” Alfred said, promptly beginning the extraction of the butter knife.

“Are you okay?” Dick asked, hovering worriedly. “He- are you…?”

Damian was allowing Danny to ruffle his hair, so…

“Yep, I’m good. This isn’t even on my top thirty most painful stabbings,” and it really wasn’t. That honor was given to the GIW and that one time Jazz accidentally stabbed him with her earrings. “That was pretty impressive, actually. It’s like, a butter knife. The other ones had pointy ends.”

“Do not clump me with those pathetic wastes of spaces. I am naturally superior and would… would never harm you on purpose.” Damian said, getting quiet at the end like he was trying to plead to Danny to believe him.

“Of course not. But- if you want help me keep the knife, you can hit me with a mug, it would technically be a mugging.”

The pun got the desired effect. Damian leaned away with a disgruntled look and Dick stopped hovering as close in order to let out a small cackle.

“Done.”

“You should go get changed, kiddo. We’re going to see Tim’s photography at the Gotham Gallery today.”

“Oh, for real?” Danny patted Damian’s fluffy hair one last time, pushing away from the counter. “Oh, I’ll clean up here first and-”

“That will not be necessary,” Alfred scolded, a mop somehow already in his hands. “Please see to it you are prepared for the day.”

“Thanks, Alfred. Can I keep the knife.”

“Very well.”

“Sweet. See you guys later?” Danny pranced off after seeing the nods.

——

“He’s… he got stabbed a lot. Before us, I mean.” Dick tapped a furious rhythm onto the counter. “Not that we’ve stabbed him until now but even once is concerning for a civilian.”

“He was used to it.” Bruce replied.

“Perhaps we should join Todd in his endeavor and ensure that his worthless tormentors are permanently out of the picture.”

“God, he said top thirty. He was counting.”

Damian silently withdrew a kitchen knife.

“No murder with my quality chef’s knives, Master Damian.”

“Tt.”

“Master Jason follows the same rules. Now, out of the kitchen. I may be old, but I remember the last time master Bruce and master Dick stepped foot in here and I will not have a repeat.”

[manincaffeine]

you replied so fast” my fault i’ve developed an emotional attachment to you

[linicat]

[theambitiouswoman]

Emotionally healthy people are quitters ✨

Emotionally healthy people are quitters. They make choices that align with their well being. Quitting a relationship, partnership or job that makes you unhappy is a sign of self awareness. If someone stays in something bad for too long, it's not because they're strong, but because they're afraid or have low self esteem. Being emotionally healthy means having awareness, setting boundaries, and knowing when it's time to move on from situations that no longer serve you. It's about prioritizing your mental and emotional health over sticking with something that's causing you harm or making you unhappy.

Emotionally healthy people also tend to have good communication skills. They express their feelings and needs calmly, openly and honestly. They also look for guidance and enlightenment because they understand that seeking help is a sign of strength not weakness.

They make decisions out of self love rather than attachment or fear. When you prioritize loving yourself, you make choices that align with your happiness and growth, rather than staying in situations out of comfort or insecurity.

Recognizing when you have an unhealthy attachment or that your feelings may not be conducive to your well being is important. It allows you to take a step back, evaluate the situation objectively, and make choices that are in line with your best interests.

Sometimes holding on can lead to more pain and struggle than necessary. It's a sign of emotional maturity to recognize when a situation is no longer good for you and to have the strength to let it go.

Things that are genuinely right for you should not cause you harm or emotional pain. Choosing pain is a sign of a lack of self love. Recognizing the need for change, prioritizing self love, and making healthier choices is how you begin to change your life.

Reframe your mindset from “this is hurting me because I love it” to “this is hurting me because I do not love me.”

[annaliselis]

[fawnindawn]

source: her_edits8 on tiktok

The things I’d do to steal his jacket.

[vilea777]

the root of all pain is attachment

[mccromy]

Shang Qinghua: "I could fix him" this "I could make him worse" that.

Shang Qinghua: well I made him, I crafted him to be an ASSHOLE with trust issues and it makes me so hard my brain shrivels up when I see him cause all the blood shoots straight up to my dick so fast it HURTS. do NOT try to change him he's perfect <3

Shang Qinghua: I want to kill him so bad sometimes ngl lol what a prick. Spoiled brat. I'm this 🤏🏻 close to unionizing. He might kill me for trying lol so I'm not gonna

[st-hedge]

What was that really beautiful wording used to describe characters I like— ah that’s it, sad sacks of issues. That’s this guy right here