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youngchronicpain · 9 months ago

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I love the way my partner and I work together to complete tasks. I do the parts that I can that he doesn't like and he does the parts that I can't easily do. I love putting together our grocery order. I carefully decide what we are going to eat for the week (with his input of course but he isn't picky and likes that I create a loose Weekly Plan). He picks up the grocery order on his way home from work. We put the groceries away together. (Unless I'm in a bad flare and then he does it.) I love it so much. I am not able to do all parts of the task but I can do the parts he doesn't like!!!! We make good food. We save money because of my planning. It makes me happy. He doesn't like making the grocery list or meal plan. I love it. We are a team. :)

#interabled couple #I used to worry that I wouldn't be a good partner because of the things I struggle with #(I know I know...internalized ableism is tough though lmao)#but after being in a relationship for over two years I think I finally feel truly at ease with myself and what I bring to the relationship #I am loving and caring and helpful #I add to his life! I make his life better! and he makes mine better!!!!

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rowanisawriter · 1 month ago

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craziest thing about hades game is the keepsakes. the hardest scariest most dangerous gods and monsters in the underworld giving zagreus little trinkets that their love and respect for him imbues with power. don’t get me started on the companion stuffies. a fury with a whip permanently glued to her hand giving zag a tiny stuffed bat. death itself giving zag a toy mouse they both know he’s held onto since childhood. im gonna faint

#i am so rotted #zags little voice saying ‘I’ll take care of her’ when Meg gives him battie #god…..#and im about to get the mort dialogue I really won’t be ok……#the keepsakes……..#help………….#HELP!! 🚑 🚨#hades game #zagreus #i love zagreus so much fr its sickening #i need an ambulance asap #i really can’t be doing this but I have another idea for a series of one shots inspired by the stuffies…….. but I don’t want to…. but ……

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pixieverse-icedtea · 1 year ago

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i want to meet myself from someone else's point of view

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naamahdarling · 1 month ago

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I didn't get pics I didn't get pics my phone was in the bedroom charging but FANCY IS PLAYING WITH THEM. Not next TO them but INITIATING PLAY WITH THEM.

Not bitchily, not reluctantly, not with a short temper, not tolerating THEIR advances, but making her OWN advances! Inviting them in!!!!!! Even the detested Junie!

CRYINGGGGGG.

#oh my god you guys if this persists i can stop worrying completely and the babies can STAY #we can have another little man again and another terrible girl!#and this house could feel like a home again #if Fancy is willing to tolerate them they can stay with us and be OURS #i don't know if y'all realize just how much i have been holding back #not on their care or training or how much affection i show them but in MY HEART #i said Jasper's name earlier and he came trotting over just to be petted #finally #FINALLY!#maybe this will work #please let this work PLEASE i am going to love him SO much #also Fancy baby we also got them for YOU as friends for YOU so you wouldn't be alone in your grief either in ways WE could never help heal #please LOVE THEM they are so ready to love you they look up to you so much #or Jasper does anyway #I think Junie is just a little beast who respects nothing and no-one #but Jasper has a sweet heart

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jollymalt · 11 months ago

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the sully kids human version

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fumifooms · 10 months ago

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Chilchuck analysis speedrun: As a hardworking half-foot who grew up poor and discriminated against and had his gullibility taken advantage of multiple times in his early adventuring days, Chilchuck thinks optimism is a dangerous flaw. He’s stressed and strict all the time because his job is noticing details like traps that could get everyone killed before anyone knows it, he takes the lives of everyone to be on his shoulders, and with the way he speaks about it that probably partly reflects how he felt about taking it upon himself to provide for his family too. His life’s always been pretty centered around work and has become even moreso now that his wife left and everyone is independent, and due to past events he’s very iffy with bonding with coworkers. He thinks feelings and job are a disaster mix. Like with his wife or with parties hiring him as sacrifice, being open or having good faith is vulnerability which can get you hurt, so he processes and shows all his stress as anger instead of worry. Doing strict dieting probably isn’t helping the irritability what with hunger, and on top of being a hunger suppressant alcohol might be the main stress reliever he has.

His grey hairs are so earned

#Chilchuck tims #dungeon meshi #analysis #HAPPY CHILCHUCK DAY #You know what yeah understandable have a good day #Alcohol be a ticket straight to chilling out town I suppose #Spoilers #dungeon meshi manga spoilers #Thinking on if I should split my family masterpost into diff posts for max reach hmm #I’m def editing in the second page into that post that “I’ve got three people to think of here” sounds sooo much like that’s #how he’d think about it in a family setting as well. He works so hard for them 🥺#I could have put 100 pics on this post to justify everything I mentioned but this is a speedrun for a reason. I’m planning so many #compilations rn i need a break from rereading lol #He’s just here to do his work!! He just wanna do his work!!!#I’m always rotating him in my brain like rotisserie chicken :( Hopefully this doesn’t sound disjointed or insane to average readers #He’s always on his guard so he has a short fuse and his type of humor & liking for snarky remarks doesn’t help #Also bc he knows nothing lasts he has a very work hard play hard mentality where ‘dying doing something you love. Like drinking’#is nice in his opinion #This post makes it all sound so dry. Chilchuck is so messy thinking about him is thrilling I swear. This is concise but at what cost…#OH ALSO he has weird self-hate issues where he really values his skills but devalues himself on a personal level.#‘I am a coward. I only care about myself. I cheated on my wife (lying for no reason)’ etc etc #Can’t disappoint people and make them leave you if they already have no expectations and esteem of you 😏��#Laws are important to him bc he knows how bad punishment is if you break them and how they’re the key to getting better rights

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legend-had-it · 4 months ago

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a sanji that takes care of zoros swords when he cannot

and a zoro who cooks food for the crew when sanji can't

#i am an INCREDIBLY firm believer in teaching a loved one a beloved skill #my first thought was them teaching eachother their fighting styles but i think they would kill eachother before they did that #so #sanji learning how to take care of zoros swords from all the times hes watched him #always taking special care of wado #and making sure they look pristine for when zoro wakes from his usual post battle coma #zoro helping sanji in the kitchen so much that he simply learns how to cook just from watching him #starting off with just chopping vegtables but eventually being able to make whole meals if the situation needed it #never as good as sanjis but still delicious nonetheless #sorry i have So many thoughts about the exchange of actions #one piece #op #one piece thoughts #black leg sanji #sanji #roronoa zoro #zoro #zosan #sanzo

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poorly-drawn-mdzs · 1 year ago

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ORV is about enduring the horrors in real time.

(for @everyonesfavoritebastard)

#omniscient reader's viewpoint #kim dokja #yoo joonghyuk #I read a few arcs of ORV a few years back so I am at least loosely familiar with the characters and premise.#ORV dares ask the question: “what if you finally met your beloved blorbo who helped you cope through the horrors - and he *hates you*”#The reversal of what most people feel about some of their blorbos (love them but would never want to meet someone like that in person)#I would love to keep reading orv but it is very long and I already promised to finished like...3 other shows and several books.#my gesture of affection is consuming the media my friends care about. Alas I have none who are into orv to motivate me.#Also hey there raffle winner everyonesfavouritebastard - you gave no prompt at all so I took a random swing based on ur pfp and blog #I hope you like kim dokja! I am terribly sorry if you meant to leave a prompt and something glitched #EDIT: Found out raffle winner everyonesfavouritbastard didn't know it was a raffle. Homie...I'm So Sorry.#Now I *really* hope you like Kim Dokja.#You're so valid; I too would be mesmerized by the beauty of stackedbird's lovely little apple art.

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an-albino-pinetree · 1 year ago

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I,,

yeah

@sm-baby

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royalarchivist · 2 months ago

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Jaiden: Cucurucho, you have a lot of power, right?

Cucurucho: ...I don't know. Maybe.

Roier: Ah... Yes, you know, don't act like a dumbass, you have it. You have it, man. Eh?

Jaiden: Is there a way for us to protect all the Eggs? Do you know? I don't want anything to happen to the Eggs that happened to Bobby.

Cucurucho: Ha ha ha

Roier: WHAT? [Smacks Cucurucho]

Jaiden: [Bops him] Headpats.

Cucurucho: Maybe.

Jaiden: [Continues to bop him] Headpats. C'mon, I can get it out of you! Headpats! Chin scratches! Belly rubs!

Roier: [Joins Jaiden in bopping Cucurucho, chuckling and laughs]

Jaiden: Yeah? He's comin' around!

[Jaiden and Roier both laugh]

#Jaiden Animations #Roier #Cucurucho #QSMP #Jaiden #Animations Family #There is. So much I could say about these three #and so much I could say about their relationship / interactions with Cucurucho and Osito Bimbo #Cards on the table... I really would have loved it if Cucurucho / Osito genuinely cared about Jaiden #I mean I know they DID care about her to some extent that much is clear #But they / the Federation were also ABSOLUTELY using her. I'm not arguing that they weren't #But how could anyone not be charmed by Jaiden? The boba the tea parties the head pats–#The empathy and kindness and everything that made q!Jaiden who she was–#Cucurucho and Osito were tools of the Federation but I do want to believe they cared about Jaiden. Albeit in their own fricked up way #I dunno. I know this sounds like massive copium probably but I watched all of her and Roier's streams interacting with them #and I personally think that conflict and duality makes for a more interesting story #But that's just me and my own personal biases. I dunno how to properly put it into words but I am cradling them all close to my heart #I loved Cucurucho / Osito and I thought they were interesting and I'm SO SAD we'll never know what Jaiden did for them in the past #Anyways. For anyone who's read this far into my rant– you know how Cucurucho saved the Eggs and Jaiden said she died in Purgatory?#I like imagining that she survived the bomb and wound up finding the Eggs in the aftermath #and she helped them survive until Cucurucho found them #I imagine that Jaiden was the reason they were able to escape from the Island / The Watcher / ElQuackity #She stayed behind to slow down their pursuers. And Cucurucho rescuing all the Eggs fulfilled his agreement with Jaiden—#A promise to protect the Eggs #Like I said a lot of this is copium but that's what I like imagining #TLDR: Cucurucho / Osito did care about her in a weird way but that doesn't mean they weren't manipulating her #May 31 2023 #Idk man I got a lot of emotions about q!Jaiden #Roier too but I feel like I've done way more analysis posts about him and Cucurucho. Jaiden needs time in the spotlight #Anyways there's my monthly tag rant

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bxriles · 2 months ago

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I’m sure that this is not a hot take and that a lot of people feel the same way but like…

The question “does it have spice?!🌶️🔥” makes me want to jump off a cliff. I’m out here looking for gothic book recommendations on Reddit, tumblr, and goodreads and WHY is this the first question so many people ask 😭

Look, I love erotica as much as the next person but come on. There have got to be other things that matter when recommending books or choosing to pick one up, my GOD.

#am I just old?#like am I being unreasonable?#I don’t want to blame booktok for this but I’m dying over here #and romance and spice are two different things #a lot of these spicy books are just straight up trash but people tout them as amazing romances #like excuse me?#if they’re having nasty sex within 50 pages it’s not romance #it’s not love at first sight either #it’s lust #Christ I just wanted a gothic book for fall and after I’ve been in a reading slump after finishing the shepherd king duology #don’t fucking recommend me haunting Adeline good GOD #anyway #if someone has a solid gothic recommendation pls send it my way #otherwise I’ll be forced to read Jane Eyre or Wuthering Heights and I am more of an Austen girlie than a Brontë girlie #sorry grandma pls don’t haunt me from the afterlife for that #booktok cringe #anti booktok #I don’t even know how to tag this bc I’m not even anti booktok #book recommendations #book recs #someone help me #personal #rant #half the time the spice isn’t even good #I get better smut from fanfiction #I need to clarify that I don’t care if you like spicy books #go off girly pop #but I am BEGGING for a modicum of self reflection #spice should not be the only reason you’re reading a book 100% of the time holy fuck

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ryllen · 2 years ago

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this PSA is brought to u, by first year farmer ・゚ *✧

#fsds just kidding i love how welcoming robin was too; even offering table with her family during the stardew valley eve #but no red carpet can be more welcoming than local grandma who smells like flowers and cookies and take u as her grandchild from day 1 #i thought linus was sketchy at first but then i almost cry because he is the only one drag me back home when i am dying in mine alone #with no one knowing or care where am i #sdv #stardew valley #sdv evelyn #sdv farmer #stardew evelyn #stardew farmer #stardew valley evelyn #stardew valley farmer #fanart #surely it was sketchy at first the way ur money and things are gone #but after knowing linus u get to trust him that he was sincere helping u #it really was like this homeless man cares for me more than anyone in this village #*tho reasonable bcs he's the only one actively foraging for things to live & coincidentally u are one of the thing he found #but i can imagine by the way i was playing; first few months arriving at the valley farmer just keep spending time sitting beside linus #contemplating about life #like second homeless person in the valley #if there's a popularity poll for stardew villagers; evelyn should be top number 1 no discussion #for someone who started stardew valley without any interest of the bachelor/rettes this is how i feel

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catliker49 · 8 months ago

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Whoopsies!

AAAAHH!!! I think I have found the style I love so so much! I used to draw quite similar to this within my first few months of getting into Welcome Home, but I think I have improved a lot!! THIS MAKES ME SO HAPPY! I will redraw an old Picture I made of Wally when I had just gotten into Welcome Home! (I will show the before and after.. but you mustn't bully me...) I will Do this when it is the one year Anniversary of me getting into Welcome Home!! (April 4th! Haha!)

I really Hope you Love this!!

And now.. I will sleep... Play Splatoon... and do my final piece..!