#system caregiver

[plural-sunny]

Happy Mother's Day to all the motherly caregivers, caretakers, & babysitters out there

Happy Mother's Day to all the motherly caregivers, caretakers & babysitters in systems

Happy Mother's Day to all motherly F/O caregivers, caretakers, & babysitters

Happy Mother's Day to all the in-system mothers & motherly figures

Happy Mother's Day to introjects of mothers & motherly figures

Happy Mother's Day to all plural mothers & motherly members in plurals

Happy Mother's Day to anyone who is reparenting or has reparented themselves

Happy Mother's Day to littles who are their own CGs

Happy Mother's Day to motherly caregivers who don't have littles of their own yet, or who don't plan to

Happy Mother's Day to all online motherly caregivers, caretakers, & babysitters

Happy Mother's Day to anyone who is balancing being a parent with littlespace/CGspace

Happy Mother's Day to anyone in the above categories who is genderqueer, agender, & nonbinary

Happy Mother's Day to anyone in the above categories who is GNC

Happy Mother's Day to anyone in the above categories who is transfeminine

Happy Mother's Day to anyone in the above categories who is multigender and/or genderfluid

Happy Mother's Day to all mothers, moms, mamas, and mommies out there

[vampiric-carer]

Oh to have a little vamp kid / little sib . . Playing hide and seek around the victorian mansion . . Spontaneous naps . . Cozy nights by the fireplace . . Helping them feed . . Them loving to copy their big bro . . Their big bro making them red juice instead of blood . . Teaching them how to fly when in bat form . . Caring for them when they’re teething bc their fangs are starting to come in . . Showing them how to shape-shift into other things like a rat , moth , or wolf .

[gummywormkid]

[ 🏫 🫂 ] going to school with your caregiver , , ,

they walk to you all your classes , even if that means they’ll be a little late to theirs , but they just want to make sure you’re safe and not lonely on your way :3

obviously , they packed your lunch for you , so when it’s lunch time you excitedly open up your lunchbox and dig in :D

if school ever gets too overwhelming , they’ll make sure to help you through the feelings and will comfort you however they can :)

they make sure that either they or you have some of your gear and comfort items in your backpack !

however you get home , whether driving , walking , taking the bus , they make sure you feel safe and comfy the entire time ^_^

while you take an after school nap , they’ll do their homework , and will help you with yours when you’re awake , like the perfect rotation :]

[sunsetcity-centre]

I love you caregivers

I love you caregivers who are also age sliders

I love you caregivers who have low empathy

I love you caregivers who have hyper empathy

I love you caregivers who are hypersexual

I love you autistic caregivers

I love you cluster B caregivers

I love you caregivers who need caregivers

I love you partnered caregivers

I love you single caregivers

I love you caregivers with anger issues

I love you caregivers who are also persecutors

I love you caregivers who are also psychotic

I love you caregivers who are schizophrenic

I love you caregivers who struggle heavily with delusions

I love you caregivers who struggle heavily with paranoia

I love you caregivers who feel unworthy of your role

I love you caregivers, you are appreciated more than you know

[oursystembl0g]

Our caretakers just prepared us some (lots of) fruit!

Thank you, this is appreciation time I love you all <3 thank you.

Umm for your info, they're very wholesome and showered the body, took some vitamins, drank some water, peeled 3 bergamots + 2 kiwis.

Our system?? Eating fruit and taking care of the body?? More likely than you'd think!

[archangel-level-coining]

chaperone !

a chaperone is a caretaker subtype that performs caretaking duties while rarely fully fronting, if ever (i.e. is an insider).

activities include:

✖️ encouragement/advice/comfort through words, usually not said aloud with the body's voice

✖️ physical comfort only in headspace

colors are from @xenic-nd's caretaker flag, with blue and green filters to indicate "coldness" to the front. (as in playing the hot and cold game)

[sugarnpaint]

Aizawa Caregiver Moodboard

DNI banner made by me

[redacted-coiner]

Host, Admin(link), Co-Host

Soother(link), Caregiver(link), Comforter(link)

Protector(link), Gatekeeper(link), Persecutor(link)

Some system roles!

DNI is listed within my pinned post. Please go read it before interacting with any part of my content. Ask to tag!

[mylittletermarchive]

I doubt anybody but us is gonna find this helpful but whatever :P

TOON HANDLER

A subtype of the caregiver role, however this caregiver specifically takes care of any fictives of the toons from Dandys World. They may have a connection to the in-game Toon Handlers (such as being an introject), but it is not required.

Colors picked from the Dandy plush trinket.

[forests-creatures]

This is our primary system caregiver, Corey!

He is an unknown species, but we know quite a bit about whatever he is! This is what we know so far:

They live in forests, especially in cold places

They're primarily carnivorous, but during certain times of year they do eat berries

Females are more in charge, and grow larger than males. They tend to act more dominant, while males are just big teddybears

Polyamorous relationships aren't uncommon at all, in facts, its actually more likely for a relationship to be polyamorous than to be monogamous

They have a tradition that every year they gift each other a piece of jewellery. This means that the more jewellery one is wearing, the longer they've been in a relationship

They all work together to raise pups, though males take on more of the caring role while females often do the protecting part

Cubs are the size of house cats, and a fully grown female can grow to the size of a large horse

They can be territorial, and use their horns to mark territory and also to fight

They can walk on both their hind legs and also on all fours. Although, they prefer all fours

They're mostly covered in very very thick fur that they shed in the summer. They most often have different shades of brown, but there can also be some with black fur or fur thats closer to being blonde than brown (this excludes albino and melanistic ones)

Males often grow tusks

Their body language is very similar to a house cat's

They often travel around their territory, making makeshift dens. This only slows down once they have cubs

Cubs fur isn't thick enough to stay warm for very long, so they often cuddle into their parent's fur to stay warm

When sleeping they sleep in a pile

[multiplicity-positivity]

Here’s some positivity for system caregivers!

Caregivers and caretakers are the backbone of many systems. They may work behind the scenes or have a huge presence in the system’s lives, and work hard to take care of their headmates. We know it’s not always easy to be a caregiver in a system - and this post is for those who fit that role!

🩹 Shoutout to caregivers who exclusively look after EPs and traumatized parts, alters, and headmates!

🎶 Shoutout to caregivers who sing to their system, think of games to play, and find other ways to provide comfort!

🧸 Shoutout to caregivers who are littles or age sliders!

🩹 Shoutout to caregivers who need to be taken care of themselves from time to time!

🎶 Shoutout to caregivers who worry they’re not doing a good enough job of taking care of their system!

🧸 Shoutout to caregivers who take care of their system’s physical needs, but aren’t much help emotionally!

🩹 Shoutout to caregivers who provide emotional support but can’t meet their system’s physical needs!

🎶 Shoutout to caregivers who are relatively new to the role, and those who have always specialized in taking care of their system!

🧸 Shoutout to caregivers who take care of headmates who are age or pet regressors or dreamers!

🩹 Shoutout to caregivers who sometimes feel exhausted or burnt out from caring for their system!

It’s not always easy taking care of a system. We know being a caregiver can be a huge job! We see you, we love you, and we truly appreciate all you do to help your system feel safe and secure. Thank you so much for making sure members of your system are cared for!

Please remember to take it easy and care for yourselves from time to time! You deserve the kindness and care that you show the rest of your system. We hope you’re able to get some rest and have a wonderful day!

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[faes-safe-cottage]

I just want to be able to take care of a little one, I wanna read to them while their taking a nap, I want to make them cute little foods, I want to be able to tell them how adorable they are and shower them with love, I want them to feel safe and comfortable, I want them to know that as long as I'm around no one can hurt them, its so hard being a system caregiver because Its so hard to do anything with my little ones but they are so dear to me and I hope they know how much they mean to me

[vampiric-carer]

Big Bro

calls you things like ; baby bat , little star , pup , little love , little one , and or any of the nicknames you love

🫗 always cold by nature . Loves cuddling and hugs . Always down to make blanket / pillow forts and cuddle with cozy blankets

🫗 loves to spoil you ; always making / bringing you your favorite snacks and meals , always making sure you stay hydrated , helps you fix your hair how you like it and helps you get dressed in your favorite outfits . They always buy you any outfit you like

🫗 is a master of many hobbies , and loves getting to show you how to do them

🫗 loves going for a fly in bat form through the cool night sky with you

🫗 they love making things for you ! Food , stuffies , art , clothes , whatever their little vamp wants

🫗 loves getting to read you bedtime stories . Or hum and sing you a lullaby

🫗 has so much love to give to their baby bat 🖤

[gummywormkid]

going to make a regression oc / sona !!

EDIT : they could also be a *pokemon !!!

*comment which species / breed specifically

[bundleofchaos]

Sometimes I’m really happy we’re plural

Today we got unexpectedly called to the office about a report I filed against a teacher. Talking to adults scares me, so 👁️ & ☁️ calmly stepped in to handle it for me, ☁️ even stuck around a few hours after to make sure I was okay.

I got upset by something small and started shaking. 🪶 popped into co con and started changing his hair different colors to make me laugh and chasing me around in circles in the inner. He’s my favorite big brother.

Sometimes it’s a pain in the ass, but on days like today I’m so so glad I’m not alone here

-🐸

[plural-affirmations]

how do we… idk, manage the system? Yesterday we ended up with *seventeen* people in front and now we’re all blurry. Our friend mentioned “don’t you know what system management is” but didn’t. Elaborate beyond that. We have one guy who’s hypothetically a gatekeeper and manages The Basement (trauma is down there) but he doesn’t really do much else… - 💫

WOW. 17 people at once is... a lot. That must've been (and probably continues to be) very overwhelming for you guys. Are you doing ok after all that?

System management/managers typically refers to a headmate (or headmates) that handles things such as:

facilitating switches

controlling memory access

keeping track of who's fronted/split/fused/gone dormant

delegating tasks to the corresponding headmates

etc.

They're frequently gatekeepers, caretakers, internal self helpers, and similar roles in addition to being managers, but those terms tend to overlap depending on the circumstances.

Like anything else, it comes down to personal identity and preference. Also, some systems have these members, while others are perfectly functional without them.

They're pretty common in large systems, but we personally have had our manager, Vivian, from the time we were very little (bodily around age 4 to 6). She takes care of a lot of stuff behind the scenes for us. I think she may have written a post or two on this blog, and she's helping me write this one as well.

Hope this cleared up some stuff! You're perfectly welcome to follow up whenever you feel like it. :)

🖤💜💙💚💛