#sick of this shit

[enbycrip]

Pretty much no impairment is as simple as abled people think it is.

People are taught to believe that disability is a simple “Can’t”. Can’t walk. Can’t talk. Can’t hear. Can’t see. An ability is just excised and no longer exists, if it ever did.

In reality, it’s rarely that simple.

It’s “I can sort of do x thing sometimes, but I get muscle spasms making it very dangerous or impossible to do it reliably or safely”. Or “I can do x thing but it causes me so much pain I will be unable to do anything else for hours or days after doing it”. Or “I can do x thing but I constantly injure myself doing it because of lack of muscle control”. Or “I can do x thing but so badly I functionally can’t do it two inches beyond my face, but now I have a mobile phone I can put up to my face so I can do it in certain very specific circumstances”.

None of these things mean someone isn’t disabled. And if you think it does, then it’s *your* ideas about disability that need to change.

The reason disabled people end up saying “can’t” when the reality is more complex is because people don’t trust our boundaries. They force us to injure ourselves instead of accommodating, or use energy that means we have none left to do *anything* else we need to do for the rest of the day. Or week. Or month.

Abled people need to start trusting disabled people, or you need to shut up, get out of any situation where you have power over us, and provide someone who will. Those are the only options.

The way we are expected to live in a performative hell of the making of more privileged people who then turn around and criticise us for not suffering in the precise way they have decided we should is genuinely nothing but ridiculous.

Just stop.

[slvttyplum]

listen. when i say a man is a SLUT, i don’t mean the actual ORGIN DEFINITION. duh nanami isn’t a fucking slut, stop taking things literal with things i write.

a lot of things irritate me but don’t do think pieces under my writing about shit like this. this isn’t the first time i’ve called a jjk man a slut, i don’t mean literally.

like ughhhhh. don’t do this, i’m already going fucking insane with posting and keeping my page, idc if this seems petty but cant you see how this can be annoying?

AND YES IM ANNOYED😒.

like FUCK. matter of fact, everybody a slut. yes YOU too.

also p.s. being a slut for your partner is a thing. its literally 2024 the term “slut” can be used in different ways.

ALSO EDIT: this person literally is trying to say gojo is a slut canonically, oh brother. please, don’t do think pieces when you obviously don’t know what you’re talking about.

[twospiritstooprideful]

I like how MAGA-ites get all uppity whenever the lightest gun control bill is even brought up

"THE ALT LEFT IS TAKING AWAY OUR GUNS! OUR GOD-GIVEN RIGHT TO BARE ARMS!"

What about my right to my body?

What about my right to go to the bathroom that I feel most comfortable in?

What about my right to not be oppressed because of my skin color? Of my sexuality? Of my gender? Of my sex?

What about my right to the land my ancestors fought for?

Are those not God-given to me? To us?

[vacuously-true]

I keep seeing people on my dash who I KNOW have no ill intent reblogging posts that have a veneer of trans-inclusive feminism without realizing it's gender essentialist trans-inclusive radfem shit. As far as I can tell it's a recent resurgence of the ideology, not something that's stayed constant and I'm only now realizing it, although I'm not certain of that.

So like. Here's a reminder that gender essentialism is bad even when it's trans inclusive. Here's a reminder that "society is inherently about men/mascs oppressing women/fems and the agency and responsibility for that societal structure is always and only perpetuated by the men/mascs" is radfem shit even when it's trans inclusive.

Just because someone's gender essentialism isn't biological gender essentialism doesn't mean it isn't gender essentialism. Just because a post is trans inclusive doesn't mean it's discussing gender identity or societal gender dynamics in a healthy way.

Just because a post is free of transphobia or transmisogyny does not mean it is free of sexism or racism or intersexism or ableism or transandrophobia or exorsexism or homophobia or biphobia or any other kind of bigotry. Just because a post is free of transphobia or transmisogyny does not mean you get to shut off your brain and reblog it uncritically, safe in the knowledge that if it's not transphobic it's a Good Take™.

Pay attention to this shit please you're giving me headaches :)

[audreyrose7]

I'm convinced that Christians are terrified of anything even slightly different than them, I'm convinced that they think the slightest variance and personality, political beliefs ideology, lifestyle, etc, even the slightest change is intolerable they get so, so scared, and then they use the excuse that they are "praying for you" they paint it up like they're trying to save you from hell when in reality they just can't stomach the thought that other people will do things that they can't control. Christianity is an incredibly micromanaging religion, they just constantly use the excuse that they care about everyone's souls as the reason why they are so insistent, why they are so pushy, and why they never stop. It's ridiculous.

[notesfrompanihida]

sorry i started vagueposting about you when you didnt respond the way i wanted while i was in the middle of trying to kill myself. do you still like me

[lesbianwyllravengard]

Resident evil fans going "I love evil women" when it's Lady Dimitrescu because she's sexualised by the fandom but hating Mia with completely unwarranted vitriol when she's a human who made Mistakes. Do I need to keep saying it.

[frudoo]

If you have ever sent Glossy hate or even just THOUGHT about it, block me right the fuck now. She has done NOTHING to deserve any of the shit you fucking sorry pricks have put her through. This isn’t high school, you’re not fucking cool, you’re just some sad little loser targeting the sweetest person on the planet and hiding behind anonymity because you’re a pussy who doesn’t want to deal with the consequences of your actions. Go fuck yourselves.

[goghwilde]

[perenians]

if you make barbara batgirl and not oracle i hate you. and i mean it

[existennialmemes]

Look the only thing you should be by age 30 is

✨Sick of This Shit✨

[juz800]

[sharkiiv]

hello friends. my parents are assholes and I am acespec. these two things are not related but I have a lot to say and not enough energy to say it.

well maybe they are related.

thats all.

[luciarb2onab]

So sick and tired of the Lucy hate every time someone doesn’t get nominated or anything that Lucy has NOTHING to do with. Why are you mad at Lucy for journalist not nominating other Barca defenders??? They defintely deserved it but saying how they saved Lucy all season etc is just sour grapes. Lucy was immense in the most important games and defenders make saves for each other. Stop blaming Lucy for everything you didn’t get. Always bitching about Lucy she’s gone leave her alone and get rid of that hate.

[audreyrose7]

SAY IT AGAIN FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!!!

being a forceful dick who threatens hellfire is NEVER going to convince us to join your little cult. (Especially because lots of us left religion for good reason, and a lot of us actually know your religion/Bible better then you do)

I truly wish y'all would GET OVER YOURSELVES, if we wanted to know about your unhealthy obsession with your little zombie club fandom we'd FUCKING ask!

[dunmertitty]

you know how in lesbian circles they would sometimes distinguish which gays were misogynistic by saying smthn like “x is gay bc he likes men, y is gay bc he hates women”?

anyway i think genuinely there’s trans guys like that too. especially looking at the way they treat trans women. are you a man bc you enjoy the euphoria of it. or are you just enjoying being a misogynist. is your euphoria from others seeing you the way you’ve always knew you were. or are you receiving external validation from other men for treating women like shit