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This is such a stupid idea 😭
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Luo Binghe's good ol days on Baizhan
Btw do you guys want more frequent updates or wait longer for more mass posts cause I'm trying to abandon my twitter and I don't think I can reach ppl who are interested in this dumb au on bluesky
#lqg is flying with lbh like that cause he wants to maintain a “respectable student teacher distance”#ngl i remembered the meme where it went like “I was forced to eat cement when I was 6” and went#“yep that's probably my lqg”#sqh could be lying he could be telling the truth#whimsical lbh#archerdoodles#myart#drawing#illustration#artwork#svsss#liu qingge#mass transmigration svsss au#original luo binghe#shang qinghua#airplane shooting towards the sky#scum villain#scum villian self saving system#luo binghe#svsss au
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Shang Qinghua: I'm in a long distance relationship with a demon
Shen Qingqiu: That must be rough, how often do you see them ?
Shang Qinghua: Nearly every day
Shen Qingqiu: I thought the relationship was long distance...?
Shang Qinghua: It is, he lives realllllyyy far away
Mobei-Jun, teleporting in front of them: Qinghua, I demand cuddles
#sqq: i dont think that counts as long distance relationship#sqh crying: my king! i missed you so much!!#mbj: thats nice#mbj: now cuddle me#shen qingqiu#shen yuan#shang qinghua#airplane shooting towards the sky#mobei jun#moshang#mxtx#svsss#scum villian self saving system
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little mermaid prince bunhe and one delusional sea witch 🐠❣️🐙
#sy regularly watches lbh and lmy in the distance#and thinks he is witnessing the blossoming of a cute human-merman love story#meanwhile binghe is telling mingyan his 10 year plan to become the sea witch's wife#while she furiously takes notes and provides feedback ✨#svsss#scum villian self saving system#shen qingqiu#luo binghe#bingqiu#my art
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Bonus 13: Beware the Grapes of Wrath.
[First] Prev <–-> Next
#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#wen qing#wen ning#WWX's main weapon as the Yiling patriarch is considered to be 'Wen Ning' - which makes sense as far as the whole necromancer thing goes.#However...That *is* Wen Qing's beloved baby brother!#In her perspective WWX skipped town for a few days (or so) and took WN with him#only for them both to show up bloodied and in a state of disarray.#There's no way he told her he was going out to duel Jiang Cheng. For several reasons.#He doesn't want to involve her in his messes anymore than he already has.#It's less that she would try and stop him and more so that he honestly wouldn't even think to say something about it to her.#WQ and him aren't partners in this situation. He actually openly disregards her opinions several times.#Wei Wuxian's emotional distance from everyone around him is a big part of this arc.#Like all good tragedies...his biggest flaw is his hubris. He doesn't *need* anyone when he's so capable on his own.#He doesn't need to ask permission when obviously this is the only way forwards.#He has to do it all on his own! No one else needs to be involved!#And if you've been in the position of realizing you have a problem of toxic self-reliance - you know how harmful this mindset is.#It's why it's so satisfying to see WWX in his 'new' life start to let other's share his burdens.#I will die on the hill of 'love means carrying each other's weight. All a burden means is that I can give you support and you support me.'#YLLZ is less 'competent and sexy' and more 'depressed and can't see it'.#Another lovely nod to the main theme here is how he starts leaning more and more into the rumours about him.#Though we are also still confronted with how these rumours fail to actually live up to reality.#Rumour has it the Yiling Patriarch is undefeatable. What a shame if that rumour turned out to be untrue!
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I know some dickheads have now decided that Judaism is the "bad, violent, terrorist religion" and Islam is the "good, peaceful" one, which is only to be expected of white people, but how much of an issue is it currently? Like I've seen some USAmericans sharing how the Islamic faith shapes Gazans values and perseverance (good) except with that distinct white hippie "I'm about to imprint on this like the world's most racist duck" vibe (bad), but I didn't think they're already turning on Judaism in numbers.
Do they realize that Christianity is also the same kind of comfort to Christian minorities in Asia and Africa? That it was Buddhists that genocided the Rohingyas in Myanmar and Tamils in Sri Lanka? That Hindu fundamentalists are even now trying to ethnically cleanse Muslims in India? How Hindus and Christians are terrorized and persecuted in Pakistan? That Muslims have a history of persecuting and ethnically cleansing Jews too?
Really tired of asking y'all to be normal about people's religions man. There's no religion that's inherently violent or exceptionally peaceful. It's just like any other ideology that becomes a weapon in the hands of ethnic power. Interrogate power, not religion, and respect people's belief systems insofar as they aren't in your business.
Edit: I've amended the "long history" of Muslim persecution of Jews because it might be misleading in the current political climate. Zionism and antisemitic Arab nationalism are twin births resulting directly from Christian colonization, and Islamic empires tended to actually be more tolerant of other religions compared to Christianity, especially Judaism, which was considered a sibling religion. Antisemitism wasn't ideologically entrenched in Islamic tradition. It's simply that ethno-religious power will lead to ethno religious domination and intermittent cleansing of minorities, and Islam is no exception. Humans be humaning always.
#Edit: please boost the edit#why can't white people just be fuckin normal for once#tbh this site was so weird about Judaism that it felt almost culty#I had several crises about whether I was being antisemitic before I realized no I'm just reacting to the idealization-demonization binary#that seems to be all western leftists know how to do#white queers are the worst about this#and now some of the asks I've been getting gives me the impression that the west thinks ''Islamist'' is some kind of dangerous cryptid#y'all attach insane levels of importance to people's choice of headgear#the only common denominator of all the Muslims I know is their fixation on biriyani idk#a lot of white lefties just want to use religion to distance yourself from your white privilege#same reason as why communism is so attractive to you#y'all want to share in a legacy of oppression because it's easier than self-reflection and unlearning#antisemitism#anti Zionism#Islamphobia#philosemitism#white queers#western leftists#racism#religious fundamentalism#genocide#religious violence#knee of huss
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Taking the current topic as an excuse to ask you to tell me all the reasons you love Rarijack. Your art for the ship is so sweet and intimate I'd love to hear any in depth thoughts you have.
Breathes in.
I think what makes their dynamic really strong is that they have opposing personalities but aligned values. It's deeper than just "opposites attract." Rarity's fancy, prissy, and femme while Applejack's modest, rough, and "masculine." But both value hard work (to the point of being workaholics), their families (both have guardianship over their little sisters), running successful businesses, and eventually each other. Their relationship can be boiled down to, "Despite our differences/disagreements, I still like you because we value the same things."
We see their relationship develop so much. In the first season, they can't stop bickering about surface-level differences. By season four, they still bicker, but will mend their relationship because they can't help but do nice things for each other. In Trade Ya, they start off arguing over personality differences (Applejack likes old junk and Rarity likes useless crap). Then they pivot and start arguing that they value their relationship more than the other. In the end, they mend things by sacrificing their needs and buying each other a gift. Even if they don't understand it, they know it'd make the other happy. And that's all that really matters. It's a genuinely sweet moment that shows how arguing can be healthy and necessary for relationships to strengthen.
We even see them dropping their hang-ups about each others' personalities. In Made in Manehattan, when Rarity runs off in dramatics about someone's fashion, AJ doesn't roll her eyes or scoff, she smiles. Oftentimes, their conflicts are very common domestic conflicts romantic couples face. Applejack's Day Off is about a woman's inability to balance work and life and find time to properly spend with her partner, causing her partner to feel neglected.
By season seven, they're actively participating in each others' interests. Any problems or conflicts that arise are dealt with, and they come out the other end stronger and closer. In Honest Apple, AJ pretty much spells out why their relationship works so well: even though she doesn't understand fashion, she can recognize and appreciate how much work it takes and wants to respect that. When she realizes her mistake in the episode, AJ goes above and beyond to fix things and apologize to Rarity. They care about each other so much.
The two go out of their way, sacrificing their personal desires and beliefs and doing things they normally wouldn't, to make the other happy. That's just love.
There's Simple Ways, where AJ gets stuck in an unwanted love triangle between Rarity and her hipster crush. And her frustration and anger can be so easily interpreted as AJ finding herself in a terrible position; the girl she loves wants another man, and that man wants her.
I dunno. I've always had a preference for opposites attract ships, but Rarijack's stuck with me like a brain worm because they have the perfect chemistry. The way they show they care, or do things for each other, I've always read it as the truest representation of romance in the show.
#rarijack#i refuse to be embarrased by how much i know about this damn pony show#this is part of the reason why i never bought into appledash unfortunately. their values aren't aligned#rd lies a lot and often for very self serving reasons#and she distances herself from her family because they're. cringe? overbearing? her parents are very loving and supportive#meanwhile aj's. whole fucking thing. is honesty and family#ask me#anon#this is why it's still a little baffling they aren't canon#we got SO much real development with so much potential subtext#and it never really crossed the finish line#i dunno every time they do something to show they care i'm reminded of myself and my partner too#whenever i see something that's inconvenient or complicated or against my personality (adhd haver) but i know it'd make my#boyfriend happy. i do it anyways. and i always think to myself “wow. that's what love is. that's what it feels like”
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i have so many thoughts about luo binghe rising early from the endless abyss but instead of joining huan hua palace he returns to qing jing peak for revenge, believing his shizun must be happy and celebrating, but instead he finds a grief-stricken shen qingqiu who calls out for binghe like he's still there and who sits at his sword mount for hours every day, holding himself in a state of inedia and neglecting the care of without-a-cure like he's punishing himself; and binghe decides then and there that no one can look after his shizun and keep him safe like he can, and his shizun clearly needs him even if he doesn't want to see him, so he follows shen qingqiu in secret and helps him from the shadows
#he leaves all kinds of meals but bc shen qingqiu doesn't know its from binghe he doesnt want it#also he follows shen qingqiu like a second set of footsteps#shen qingqiu starts to believe hes haunted#also bc its binghe he probaby sits at shen qingqius bedside and watches him sleep#he also tries to distance shen qingqiu from everyone bc he genuinely believes they dont care about him#(they are actually trying to give shen qingqiu space and care for him from a distance)#for extra angst you can add shen qingqiu getting a little paranoid and the others not believing him#also bc of shen qingqius mental state he gets more flare ups of without a cure that make him ill#soooo many thoughts#feel free to add!!!#svsss#scum villian’s self saving system#scum villain#luo binghe#shen qingqiu#bingqiu
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Eye Focus Change
Look Up. Look Far.
...hi :> instructions to relieve eye strain:
set your finger a few inches from your face; focus on it
move your finger forward until your arm is extended, then focus on something beyond it for a few seconds
return focus to finger and bring it back to nose
slowly focus back out into the distance again before returning to starting point and repeating
ache still there or more prominent?
close your eyes (covering them with your hands can help, esp pressing your fingers into your browline, temples, and just below your eyes)
carefully roll your eyes, move them up/down and side/side too
listen to your body and keep resting/stretching as you need
Let's Look Up and Far Again
...hope you saw something neat :>
#need a new Look In Distance thing#also i keep getting distracted by this REALLY nice oak tree outside akxbsjxbsn#relax#reminders#self maintenance#eye exercises
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[ cw: death mention / sibling death mention / isolation / ]
Thinking about how Leo’s portal and teleportation powers have both directly (and in one instance, indirectly) been the cause of him being separated from his brothers at least four times now.
There’s that time in Portal Jacked, where his inexperience leads to his portal being messed with and his brothers ending up in Tahiti.
There’s the Bad Timeline, where Leo’s portaling led to them losing the Key, therefore indirectly leading to the apocalypse and in turn, ending with Leo being the last of his brothers alive (though just for a few minutes.)
There’s him teleporting him and Krang into the Prison Dimension, cutting him off from his family so wholly that the only way to fix this was a literal mystic miracle.
Then there’s the comic, where Leo’s powers act up again and make him lose months of time completely isolated from everyone and everything he knows.
Just, looking at all of this, it’s like the universe gave him the powers of distance on purpose to test him (and his bros), literally seeing if they can overcome unimaginable space and still make it back together. Imagine if it doesn’t stop here, and Leo has to learn to either deal with the occasional complete isolation or deal with time travelers coming back to stop some terrible event his powers (whether directly or indirectly) have caused, events that always lead to separation in some way, shape, or form.
It’s worth noting, too, that his portals often led to accidental separation, but his teleportation was the one power of his that was used to isolate himself on purpose…and was also the one that in any other scenario would have been the most permanent.
#rottmnt#rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles#rottmnt leo#rottmnt headcanons#rise leo#rise comic spoilers#tmnt 40th anniversary#adding those last two just in case even though it’s been months lol#anyway hiiii I still think about Leo all the time and the Implications of his abilities#I truly do think their powers matter sooooo much to their characters frfr#and it’s very very interesting to me that Leo’s whole lineup has everything to do with space and distance#and he himself is constantly forced away from his family#no but imagine this happening all the time - like…his abilities almost PURPOSEFULLY causing his separation in some way#maybe as a test? to test his and his family’s bonds? their bonds are what ultimately power them after all#Leo in particular has lacking faith in himself and his powers despite his confidence in other areas#and I wonder if that comes through in his abilities#I love Leo getting better and better at his powers but the innate self isolating/self destructing nature of them never leaves#Leo: no I don’t wanna be vulnerable#His Powers: no? but what if *this*#Leo: w h y#Leo: actually what if I do it MYSELF *teleports himself into the Prison Dimension*#His Powers: 👍#Mikey: 👎 ⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️ NO????#leos over the years isolating themselves for training and/or self punishment indirectly leading to rise leo being cursed#(also I’m still gone haha this just hit by brain and I’m too tired to not write it out lmao)
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jon val jon or something
#jean valjean#les miserables#les mis#meme#no bc i just read the part where FIRST of all he's 'so happy his conscience began to bother him' and immediately goes 'can't have that'#and then he 'lived in the backyard like a dog' OF HIS OWN HOUSE WHILE COSETTE IS IN THE MAIN BUILDING#and jvj my beloved i am obsessed with you king but it is SO unhealthy to intentionally deprive yourself just so someone else can tell you..#'no no don't do that you need to take care of yourself' like bro i know you want to be nurtured and have someone prove their love for you#but it's really not great that the only way you keep your room at a liveable temperature and eat good food is when cosette is making you#i say this without judgement bc that was me once too but good GOD man your identity cannot be her!!!!#and stop with the preemptive self-inflicted harm!!! stop with the self-protective and yet -destructive distancing!!#you're only doing that because you want someone to tell you to stop!!!!!#alternate chapter title: in which an old man finds himself at home among the youth (2014 tumblr)#ANYways all this to say jvj is a projectable 10000% and i hate him because i love him because i hate that version of me bc i love me#or: SHUT UP AND BE LOVED YOU SILLY OLD MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#kay has a party in the tags#kay can i just catch my breath for a second#kay is a classical literature nerd#my meme
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Sometimes, the greatest act of self-care is creating distance; in the space between, we find the clarity and strength needed to heal, grow and focus on what is truly important.
#distance#self care#self development#mental health#clarity#strength#personal growth#personal development#priorities#focus#healing#meditation#love#energy#quotes#quote#inspiring quotes#quoteoftheday#words of wisdom
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“you can forgive someone and still want absolutely nothing to do with them. you can create distance from them with no resentment attached.”
— billy chapata
#poetry#wordsnquotes#poem#wnq quote#wnq writers#micro poetry#spilled ink#spilled thoughts#love#iambrillyant#billy chapata#forgiveness#self love#writer#writers on tumblr#blkcreatives#growth#healing#self awareness#african poet#poetic prose#poetic#prose writing#short prose#original prose#prose poetry#prose#poets on poetry#prose poem#distance
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day 1774
#amphibian#frog#self#frogsona#healing is going well but unfortunately parts of healing is also very gross looking which is mentally difficult :(#luckily i only get to look at it like half an hour every other day so. out of sight out of mind#documenting it is also helping! puts some mental distance between the yucky healing and myself and look at it more objectively#subjectively im about to add to the 'are my grafts failing guys' posting on r/topsurgery but OBJECTIVELY it looks great. not falling off
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Sketches of Nya from Hands of Time and Skybound!!
The outgrown Bob haircut phase
#i want a Nya suit to have Black as the main colour in her suit again pls#pls pls pls#Anyway this haircut is the point where she starts considering growing her hair out#hands of time and Skybound changed aspects of who she was and her life so it seemed natural for her to let herself physically change as well#fanart#lego ninjago#ninjago#lego ninjago fanart#ninjago fanart#ninjago nya#nya smith#nya jiang#Nya means sm to me and her character development and change through time matters sm to me#i think her hair has had many phases#representing who she was who she is and who she will be#Skybound was her turning point she was now apart of the team and not just kais sister of jays girlfriend#she was nya so she wanted to change her appaerence so she could put a distance between her past self#idk this is just a ramble nya just makes me insane
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Thirds
pt 1 || pt 2
Donnie thinks he knows what he has to do reconcile Three with Donatello. To leave everything from that time behind and move on, but…maybe there’s a simpler solution?
#rottmnt#rottmnt fanart#separated au#rottmnt separated au#rise of the tmnt#sep!au life#rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles#rise donnie#rise raph#rise mikey#rise splinter#tw blood#tw self harm#Donnie’s been having too much fun. he needed some heavy h/c#this one is gonna be dark so if anyone needs me to tag anything else please let me know#I would like to say#Donnie’s dialogue may imply some DID but it’s just because he wants to put distance between his time as Three and Donatello#but this whole thought process will be addressed in part 2#I just wanted to clear that up in case
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