#love issues

[m00wd]

You Said You'd Never Leave My Side. I Wonder What Made You Change Your Mind.

[sweetfreedom2107]

You make loving me seem like a chore, when love is supposed to feel like it's flowing, not forced. And they ask me why I don't leave you but you don't leave the only ship in the sea and dive in the ice cold water that will undoubtedly kill you with the cruel cold of reality.

[ethereal-intrigue]

If my mom knew that I am just doing whatever he wants me to do and doing all sorta ‘weird’ stuff she would be super pissed

But ion wanna disappoint him either

I am starting to think me talking with a guy and trying to get serious will always end badly

[alephnora]

can anyone love me please. i just cant get why nobody loves me im not meaning boys idfc about boys i meaning anybody. my dad didnt love me okey my mom dont love me okey then who gonna love me

[onceuponaweirdo]

I need people to understand that YES! I need money. But I also need longingly someone to hold me throughout the night and tell me that tomorrow will come and everything will be okay, that I'LL be okay! And that they love ME no matter what.

[kawareo]

screaming, crying, throwing up, as I force myself to write a story i'm very passionate about and love writing and have no obligation to write except that i want to

[evidently-endless]

i think we should remind musicians they can absolutely make up little stories for their songs btw. it doesn’t have to be about them at all. you can invent a guy and put him in situations to music. time honoured tradition in fact.

[putridmorutemaggot]

You know, i just realized that there's probably NO ONE for me- I'm demiromantic, i can't fall in love without having a special connection with that person, and i never socialize with anyone, or if i talk to someone is just a creepy disgusting old man who only wants sex-

Hehehehe I'll be single foreverrrr (fucking killing myself)

[rayyzcosmos]

why tf am i so attracted to him? he is so basic and normal and different and cold and cute and soft and warm and dark and lovely and beautiful and charming and radiant and glowing and captivating and sweet and and and.....

[ed-recoverry]

Reminder that caregivers of children are, by definition, supposed to provide shelter, food, and clothing. They did not do you a huge favor by providing this. It was the bare minimum of the job description that they voluntarily signed up for. You are not indebted to your caregivers for giving you the very basics.

[sweetfreedom2107]

Your words are bullets that never quite make it out of my body

But I still apologize when I'm not the one who should be saying sorry.

I try to be the bigger man,

the better person.

But lately all this bottling up has really been eating away at me, the sorrow in my heart has somehow worsened.

I thought love was the key

To drive away agony

But it's bleeding me dry

To watch myself cry

Over someone who keeps reloading the gun

And hurts me because it's fun.

Shall I aim my gun, my sweet, at you?

Strangle your neck that you never let me kiss till it turns blue?

Shall I do what you have done to me to you?

Will you be able to bear it, love? I don't think you'll be able to.

[geezmarty]

(bellara/taash) nerd/jocks lovers rise up

[marrowridden]

You have a complex relationship with your body and need to keep some/all of your clothes on during sex?

That's okay, what you're wearing looks good on you.

You need to take a lot of breaks doing anything intimate because you're easily overwhelmed?

I understand, I'm just happy to be here with you.

You're on medication that impacts your libido/makes reaching orgasm really difficult?

No pressure, tell me what feels good for you, and if you get frustrated we can do something else together.

Sex isn't going to look the same for everybody and that's fine, that's normal.

Sometimes you don't orgasm, sometimes you need to stop because your mood changes out of nowhere, sometimes you get really self conscious and need accommodations to take your mind off of it.

People are too complex for everybody to go about it the same, just keep doing what feels best for you, regardless of how different it may seem from other people's experiences.

[caffeinesam]

I'm afraid

Afraid of never meeting someone with whom I share a similar physical connection to my ex, and I don't mean strictly sexually. I mean the cuddling, the holding hands, the kisses, the looking in each other's eyes, the walking side by side, the breathing together... and yes of course the sex too.

It was intensely arousing and electrifying, yet calming, peaceful. And it lasted all these years. Hours lost in embrace, doing nothing but feeling each other, feeling like mere minutes passed. Warping time and space. A deep and strange feeling of belonging, annihilating stress, insecurities, unease.

So while I know I'm going to meet someone better for me when I'm ready, I'm scared of it feeling bland or lacking any sense of real intimacy. That this one was the peak, on that aspect.

It's probably completely irrational. I feared the same when I left the previous relationship and ended with someone way better. I was scared I was too old to attract someone and build something, but it happens fast actually.

Now I'm also scared that I mostly attract people barely above half my age. And it's even worse when I let the grey beard grow. What's wrong with these 20-somethings?

[thoughts-that-i-cant-tell-u]

yeah. I'm sorry I lied to you. You're right. I don't feel loved when I do everything you want from me. But when I ask you, you're either tired or in pain. I just feel like I'm not the right person for u. My mom used to tell me that if they really loved u, they'd do anything for u. But u wouldn't. Am I not enough?

[casscainmainly]

Together.

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