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queerstudiesnatural · 4 months ago

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mothers. oof.

#she just told my sister that she doesn't wanna ask my dad for anything so they're gonna have to make sacrifices #and it's like. well no my dad is legally obligated to provide for his kids and if he wont do it unfortunately youre gonna have to remind him #it's not like my dad is violent or dangerous in any way they just don't get along as exes tend to do #but i think it's my mum's job to put aside her own feelings of discomfort around my dad #to tell him that my sister needs x y and z #my dad pays for things when he's asked he just won't inquire about finances of his own accord #he needs to be asked #and idk i think saying that my sister needs to sacrifice their needs because my mum doesn't wanna communicate with my dad #is selfish #and yeah sure my dad sucks like he literally doesn't try at all #it would be nice if he just did his job as a parent #but he doesn't. and as the parent who's more present in my sister's life i think my mum should be the one to contact him #idk #i know it's tough and far from ideal #ideally my dad wouldn't need to be asked anything he'd just provide #but he's kind of a piece of shit #so yeah #i don't think my sister should be the one to bear the consequences of my parents' lack of communication #rain.stuff

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girlashfur · 6 months ago

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new tumblr game. put in the tags a GENUINE flaw your fav(s) has. cant be something like "too kind" or "loves too much" like something genuinely bad messed up morally wrong they are or have done

#ashie rambles #warrior cats #warriors #<- can work for other fandoms too idgaf #for me ummm. nightheart is selfish and impulsive #ashfur is...ashfur #fernclouds kind of boring #hollyleaf is horribly woobified by the fandom

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thepeacefulgarden · 1 year ago

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#rest #give yourself permission to rest #self care #self care is not selfish #self compassion #self respect #self love #work culture #grind culture #stop the glorification of busy #spoons #chronic illness #burnout #compassion fatigue #activism fatigue #no guilt #no shame

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pansyfemme · 1 month ago

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google search how to unlearn extreme shame for feeling desire

#its so embarassing to want and to think of times i have wanted #it feels so selfish

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lesbianjamies · 3 months ago

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Why did you do it?

#arcane #arcaneedit #caitvi #caitviedit #ambessa medarda #mel medarda #vi arcane #caitlyn kiramman #animationedit #dailytvfilmgifs #animationsource #arcane s2 #i HAD to do this one last set before act 2 drops aksdjfl;kl #selfish and cruel as it may have been caitlyn NEEDED to do this 😭#myedit #top post

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nothingbizzare · 2 months ago

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You have a good heart

#is just something i felt about thinking ...do i have a good heart #do i need to change or should i still be like this #people tell me i am kind but what if i am actually selfish and never did stuff out of kindness #what if all i thought i did because i thought was right it was wrong #but peopel still say #“you have a good heart ”#i think Mob would think about it sometimes #nothingbizzare art #mp100 #artist on tumblr #mob psycho 100 #mp100 fanart #mob psycho fanart #shigeo kageyama #kageyama shigeo

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the-crooked-library · 1 month ago

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Nosferatu (2024) is unquestionably a multifaceted work, but what I personally consider to be the unifying idea behind its facets is that, for Ellen, Orlok represents validation.

Her fears are dismissed and called childish?.. He's a nightmarish manifestation of them.

She is consistently disrespected by everyone around her?.. He considers her his only equal. She never uses his title, it's permitted.

She is told to fix herself, misunderstood, and always isolated?.. He knows all the darkest parts of her and is delighted by them. He wants her just as she is, so much that he will lie, kill, and cross the ocean to find her.

The scene in their death/wedding bed is a direct parallel to the scene of her waking in that bed at the beginning of the film. She complains to Thomas that the "honeymoon is yet too short" and tries to pull him down with a kiss - however, he is worried about being late for work, and so he extricates himself and leaves. Cut forward to her sharing the same bed with Orlok, similarly early in the morning; he is startled by cock-crow and begins to rise, but she guides his head back down - and, even though he knows that he will die, he stays. He is her sexual and emotional desire, realized.

Given that there is a plethora of emotions Ellen is forced to suppress on daily basis, there is no singular correct interpretation of her relationship with Orlok. To erase any one of them is to render it shallower than it actually is; but there is no doubt as to why their attachment is mutual. To each, the other is something they’ve never had before.

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kelin-is-writing · 3 months ago

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HELLO???? PRO-HERO TOUYA???? I’M FOLDING SO BAD—?????

#boku no hero academia #my hero academia #bnha #mha #dabi #touya todoroki #pro-hero touya #alternative universe #canon divergence #sketch #nagatomo1565 #like— is there a universe where this man is not fine? EXACTLY. THERE ISN’T. BECAUSE HE’S ALWAYS FINE AS HELL?????#i’m currently crying while gnawing at the bars of my enclosure. we could’ve had it all if a certain selfish bitch wasn’t a selfish bitch…#whenever there’s a new sketch of dabi i’m just🧎🏻‍♀️#yes sir… absolutely. YES.#THAT COCKY LITTLE SMIRK STOPSJDKSJDKSJXKSJXKAJZKAJZJAJZKSJSK

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grendel-menz · 12 days ago

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a cabbage white butterfly, amongst other things

#art #visual poetry #poem #comic #traditional art #a poem about america and americans #also a poem about selfishness #a sort of poem about the minimum selfishness required to be american

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bellaciao-ciao-ciao · 17 days ago

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#American politics #Biden harris #Jumblr #kamala harris #kamala 2024 #us politics #election 2024 #2025 #israel palestine conflict #pro palestine #Like yes things are not ideal politics is complicated. That’s why you vote for the BEST AVAILABLE OPTION RIGHT NOW #I can already tell what some of the braindead takes are gonna be like “we were just using out votes to oppose facismmmmm”#Omg well if deMoCrAts haven’t been silent for 7 yearsssss #The amount of arrogance you have to have to have these sort of takes as you take the freedom of minorities and women hostage #The republicans won’t be silent for 7 years. They’ll be actively campaigning for your blood. Hope that’s better.#Keep reassuring each other that you did the right thing. Keep patting yourselves on the back. Hope it’s all worth it.#Yes protest but goddamn use some COMMON SENSE????#And ANOTHER THING why wasn’t the rights of women an acceptable enough reason to ENSURE orange man doesn’t take office??#The way that some people can be this selfish and unable to care about others if it doesn’t immediately benefit them #the sad thing is I know this won’t change their minds or attitudes they will continue to blame everyone else and take zero accountability #No matter how you feel about Kamala nothing you say will convince me that letting trump win is a better alternative. NOTHING.

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evercelle · 2 months ago

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divorce era for today's warm up :)c

#arcane #jayce talis #viktor #jayvik #ever makes art #jayce ignoring viktor's express wish to destroy the core to save his life was the second i knew it was gonna be so real for me personally #when the devotee's act of veneration deifies and destroys the object of worship #when u help create a god and your god in turn bestows on you his cursed blessing #a recursive impulse an endless loop selfish acts from selfless love. deity and devotee locked together in annihilation and salvation. YEEEE

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avituses · 1 month ago

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We are two sides of the same coin

#squid game #seong gihun #hwang in ho #seong gi hun x hwang in ho #seong gi hun x oh young il #seong gi hun x front man #457 #look im not saying i want gi-hun to be the next front man. it'll be genuinely bad writing if he does please GOD no.#but what i AM saying is that i want in-ho to try and force the promotion on him through homoerotic psychological warfare.#the whole season in ho was like “lemme show you the inherent selfishness in humanity pookie” and i demand more of that energy in season 3 #and also im sorry but you can't give me asian hannigram and expect me to not be obsessed come on now #also whoever came up with the ship name 457 lemme kiss you on the mouth

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morganbritton132 · 11 days ago

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Eddie is trying to get a book off the shelf at the library and Steve is in his way so he just tries to reach around him. Steve interpreted Eddie’s arms reaching around him wrong and hugs him.

They are not friends.

They have literally never talked to each other.

It’s a good hug and Steve pats Eddie on the back afterwards like, “Good talk.”

And then just leaves him there with a crush that is growing.

#Jeff watching this happen: What the fuck?#Tommy also watching this happen: what the fuck???#Steve gives a good hug because he also needs a hug and he’s selfish about it #steve harrington #eddie munson

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thepeacefulgarden · 2 years ago

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