#hpd + bpd culture is

[hpdcultureis]

hpd / bpd culture is i want ur attention :-( talk to me pls i wanna tell u about everything WHY HAVENT YOU RESPONDED but too scared to lash out at ur atp cuz ur afraid theyll hate u after

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[bpdcodone]

Was watching a video about how paranoia can manifest in children raised by pwNPD i THOUGHT this video would help the system feel a little seen/heard. Because our mother growing up had terrible untreated ASPD/NPD and schizophrenia. So like 🫠 but this bitch fr says “toxic people are, cluster b personality disordered individuals” LIKE GIRLIE YOU CANNOT BE FR RIGHT NOW GROW WITH PSYCHOLOGY BITCH THAT SHIT IS SLOWLY CHANGING GOOFY AHH MF 😂😂😂

•Janey

[cluster-b-culture-is]

NPD+BPD+HPD culture is literally waiting untill you turn out to have AsPD, because like, your other three disorders make you already fit a few criteria for AsPD, so now you'd have to fit anything that isn't easier explained with previously diagnosed ones

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[a-healthy-dose-of-apathy]

unfortunately for the both of us, i really like you

[autopsyfreak]

‘how do you expect people who have been abused by someone with NPD to refer to their abuse then?’

by calling it what it is: emotional abuse.

it’s not difficult.

slapping the word ‘narcissistic’ on the front of abuse is blindly assigning blame and associating the abusive behaviours with NPD, despite the fact that nowhere in the criteria does it state any abusive behaviours as a symptom.

i understand that people who are severely mentally unwell are more prone to abusing others, however to point the blame at a disorder (and therefore at everyone with the disorder) is ableist, irresponsible and grossly misinformed.

to put it into perspective as to how bad the stigma surrounding NPD is, i have been diagnosed with NPD and have been told i should be killed because of it, that i will inevitably abuse my partners i have had, i’ve had partners in the past be harassed by people saying that it’s ‘just a matter of time’ before i abuse them without any of these people ever even knowing me. i see endless amounts of things online calling all narcissists evil, as well as having my own experiences with abuse disregarded because they do not believe someone with NPD could be anything other than a perpetrator, despite the fact NPD is induced by trauma. the list goes on.

your choice of wording does matter and it does damage people with NPD.

[raincamp]

its so humiliating having to admit to people that sometimes my only motivation for doing something is for validation or attention

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

npd (+ hpd/bpd??) culture is not knowing if you've ever actually fallen in love or just loved the idea of being loved and worshipped like you deserve and the attention just felt great and you can't live without it so you constantly have to be in love

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[ndcultureis]

nd culture is hearing somebody say “oh theyre a narcissist/psychopath/delusional” and taking a moment to appreciate your nuerodivergent siblings. anybody who’s disorder is used as a marker of Bad Terrible Person know i love ypu <3

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[the-antisocial-chronicles]

“People with ASPD and NPD are unlikely to seek help”  If you were treated like you just murdered the therapist’s entire family in front of them every time you tried I don’t think you’d seek help either 

[npdvelvette]

aroacespec cluster b moment of not being able to tell if you are actually crushing on someone or if you’re just fixated on them bc they actually meet your ridiculous standards and/or give you attention

[spaghettimakesflags]

empathyflux pride flag

[hpdcultureis]

HPD + BPD culture is fighting between that insatiable need for constant attention and the focus to always be on you and the utter shame and terror you feel at bothering your FP for more than 0.2 seconds

-❄️⭐️

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[fatherlessmoth]

My partner just said "you aren't in your villain era you're having an episode" and if that isn't the ultimate cluster b culture idk what is

[cluster-b-culture-is]

B(eautiful) P(retty) D(isorder)

A(bsolutely) S(uper) P(erfect) D(isorder)

N(ever) P(athetic) D(isorder)

H(elpful) P(erson) D(isorder)

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[a-healthy-dose-of-apathy]

how it feels knowing you’ve hurt other people by accident due to your personality disorder and can’t go back in time to fix it so the relationship is either dead or damaged:

[delphientropy]

born to be a shithead asshole forced to be a gentle princess who could never hurt a fly