#dissociative alters

[rustybutterknife]

Microdosing polyamory by dating a system

[thestarpletsystem]

Technically, if you’re plural, every project is a group project. Give your headmates credit

[quasar-sys]

i forgot i can draw

[spectralensemble]

Introjects have feelings too.

We are not just caricatures or cardboard cutouts of your favorite characters.

We exist to protect the body from harm. Some of us exist to keep track of others in the system. Others like us.

And some of us just exist to exist, and that's okay.

Being an introject isn't fun and games either.

It's worrying about how our psuedomemories connect to the body's own.

It's being confused by a world we don't belong in.

It's no longer feeling like us.

It's having to hide in fear of others perceiving us wrongly just because of our source.

[b1gr4tm4n]

pretty much

– Elliot

[requiemsystem]

SIMPLY PLURAL LAYOUT IDEAS

thought i would do a lighter post today, so i want to share some things we use in our simply plural to hopefully give you all layout ideas! CUSTOM FIELDS in our custom fields, we have: names that the alter goes by pronouns age and birthday description of the alter, used as a mini-introduction alter information, used for roles and other alter info introject information, which includes source and amount of source id interaction status boundaries relationships front triggers languages likes and dislikes date the profile was last updated we also have a RAMCOA system specific field for codes the alter was assigned, where we keep track of what they are in our organization systems and any assigned titles they have CUSTOM FRONT in our custom fronts, we have: blurry triggered interaction statuses (ask to interact, do not interact, interact with caution, etc.) frontstuck limited / no phone access new alter fronting private alter fronting rapid switching splitting GROUPS for our groups, we organize by area of system. we organize by sidesystem and layer. we also have groups for subsystems and if the alter has a specific interaction status other group ideas: roles sources completeness of profile fronting frequency - grey

[solar--system]

There’s two ways we fake claim ourselves and I’m curious to see if other people do the same.

The first way is the most obvious, convincing ourself that we’re not a system, that our alters are made up and that we don’t have DID.

The second way is being convinced we have DID but that our Alters are all made up and we don’t have information about the actual alters of our system. (Ex. In our system we have Aspen James and Salem, if these alters were just made up, but there are alters in our system that are undiscovered and not made up.)

I don’t know if anyone else feels the same way as the second one, but it’s a weird thing to think about.

[y0han]

Being a system is so ‘haha silly’ (/j) until you have to triple check shit because people kept co-fronting and leaving causing you to forget if you did that specific thing. That’s really fucking annoying. (-🩸)

[reflectionfamily]

Actual convo I had with my therapist today:

Therapist: so you’re a cat

Kissy: mhm

Therapist: what cat things do you like?

Kissy: Well I like chasing things and sometimes scratching and biting

Therapist: do you like boxes?

Kissy: OMG i LOVE boxes

Therapist: that makes sense. my cat loves boxes.

[rustybutterknife]

I’m a system of 24. Call that 23 and me

[thestarpletsystem]

Everybody gangster and anti-fakeclaiming until it’s them fakeclaiming themselves. Yeah. That’s what I thought. Be nicer to yourselves.

[quasar-sys]

its kind of scary not knowing all the stories your body went through

[system404singletnotfound]

What I thought a system journal would be like: communication, talking about important matters, and learning about each other

What I got: someone wrote down the phrase “vampire cowboy” over and over again

[polyamory-and-pot]

Results are in because I messed up and forgot to change the length of some of the polls!

Starting with my first poll.

Plural Tags

There were 134 votes on the plural tags poll. Of those votes

81.4% were pro-endo

13.5% were endo-neutral

5.2% were anti-endo

Next up were system tags and dissociation tags. There were a total of 32 votes on this poll and of those votes

46.9% were endo-neutral

28.1% were anti-endo

25% were pro-endo

That one was pretty divided. Which I didn't expect for these next two but I can be wrong. Next up we've got DID/OSDD tags. There were 48 votes on this poll and of those votes

45.9% were anti-endo

41.7% were endo-neutral

12.5% were pro-endo

Wow. I was not expecting that divide to be so close. I watched the poll and for a while anti-endo and endo-neutral were tied for first. Now our final poll was Endo tags. There was a total of 30 votes on this poll and of those votes

83.3% were pro-endo

10% were anti-endo

6.7% were endo-neutral

Of the 244 votes we received across all the polls

148 votes (61%) were pro-endo

41 votes (17%) were anti endo

55 votes (22%) were endo-neutral

Now to my next segment of breakdown: Ages

Of the 148 votes that were pro-endo

52 votes (35%) were minors

96 votes (65%) were adults

Of the 41 anti-endo votes

16 votes (39%) were minors

25 votes (61%) were adults

Of the 55 endo-neutral votes

15 votes (27%) were minors

40 votes (73%) were adults

Of all the 244 votes received

83 votes (34%) were minor

161 votes (66%) were adults

Do not follow me based off of this post. These are the results I got from my polls, they do not reflect my views.

[problematic-alter-culture-is]

Problematic alter culture is “be nice to them” no! Atomic bomb!!

REAL

[solar--system]

I see a lot of people talk about fakeclaimers and I really never understood why people paid them so much mind.

I posted about being fakeclaimed recently mainly because all of their claims about our system were wrong and I thought it was funny that they couldn't even properly fakeclaim our system.

But in all honesty? The chance that you'll convince a fake claimed you're not faking is just as slim as the chance of convincing a pro-endo that endos aren't real.

To a fake claimed if your system is:

Big? Fake

Small? Fake

Has an inner world? Fake

Doesn't have an inner world? Fake

Fictive-heavy? Fake

Not fictive-heavy? Fake

Know about you alters? Fake

Don't know about you alters? Fake

No matter what you do as a system online fakeclaimers will always assume you're fake, so do t pay them any mind.

Arguing with fakeclaimers, commenting about how r/FDC or r/SC are bad subreddits, these kind of things just fuel fakeclaimers. The amount of posts on FDC or SC about systems talking about FDC or SC is immense. But if you just don't interact with those subreddits, and ignore any comments or messages from fakeclaimers, then fakeclaimers really can't hurt you. They'll become an echo chamber of calling systems fake, but if systems don't interact or care about what they say then what's really the problem?

TLDR: Fakeclaimers are gonna exist. They're probably gonna fakeclaim you regardless of how your system functions. If you don't interact with them, and you block their accounts, then fakeclaimers can't really bother you.