#npd + hpd culture is

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

npd+ hpd culture is pay attention to me or i'll explode and hate you forever

-🌊🦇

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[cluster-b-culture-is]

npd + hpd culture is Teruhashi Kokomi from the disastrous life of Saiki K.

I think she's a good example of someone with covert npd (or hpd or both!), and also a good example of those disorders getting demonised when the person really did nothing wrong. Yeah, her thoughts are "manipulative" and sometimes mean but she IS the most perfect girl in the world. If how we choose to act is what defines us then she's a great person. So what's the problem?

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[a-healthy-dose-of-apathy]

unfortunately for the both of us, i really like you

[autopsyfreak]

‘how do you expect people who have been abused by someone with NPD to refer to their abuse then?’

by calling it what it is: emotional abuse.

it’s not difficult.

slapping the word ‘narcissistic’ on the front of abuse is blindly assigning blame and associating the abusive behaviours with NPD, despite the fact that nowhere in the criteria does it state any abusive behaviours as a symptom.

i understand that people who are severely mentally unwell are more prone to abusing others, however to point the blame at a disorder (and therefore at everyone with the disorder) is ableist, irresponsible and grossly misinformed.

to put it into perspective as to how bad the stigma surrounding NPD is, i have been diagnosed with NPD and have been told i should be killed because of it, that i will inevitably abuse my partners i have had, i’ve had partners in the past be harassed by people saying that it’s ‘just a matter of time’ before i abuse them without any of these people ever even knowing me. i see endless amounts of things online calling all narcissists evil, as well as having my own experiences with abuse disregarded because they do not believe someone with NPD could be anything other than a perpetrator, despite the fact NPD is induced by trauma. the list goes on.

your choice of wording does matter and it does damage people with NPD.

[npdvelvette]

accurate depiction of me

[k4ijynxx]

Shout out to the age regressors / system littles who have a cluster b personality disorder. You being a narcissist, sociopath, borderline, or histrionic does NOT make you a bad person and does NOT invalidate your experience. Take care <33

Edit: radqueers please stop interacting, it makes me uncomfortable /neg

[ndcultureis]

nd culture is hearing somebody say “oh theyre a narcissist/psychopath/delusional” and taking a moment to appreciate your nuerodivergent siblings. anybody who’s disorder is used as a marker of Bad Terrible Person know i love ypu <3

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[the-antisocial-chronicles]

“People with ASPD and NPD are unlikely to seek help”  If you were treated like you just murdered the therapist’s entire family in front of them every time you tried I don’t think you’d seek help either 

[winecovered]

oxiampathy . . . [ oxia, meaning oxygen, & empathy]

An empathy - related term for those who feel empathy for humans as a species, as opposed to individual people.

ー This is exclusive to those with disorders & similar things that affect empathy / sympathy ^_^

[PT. Oxiampathy. From "oxia," meaning oxygen, and empathy. An empathy-related term for those who feel empathy for humans as a species, as opposed to individual people. This is exclusive to those with disorders and similar things that affect empathy/sympathy .PT end]

[spaghettimakesflags]

empathyflux pride flag

[hpdcultureis]

hpd / npd traits / aroace culture is flirting with people just to get attention and compliments, and not actually feeling any attraction at all. sometimes i flirt with people i hate just to start something or get attention.

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[narcissisticpdcultureis]

Npd + Hpd culture is being scared when other people don't automatically like me. What do you mean everyone won't like me? They must like me other wise I don't exist. PLS like me GOD DAMN IT LIKE ME!! I DESERVE TO BE LIKED AND LOVED!!

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[a-healthy-dose-of-apathy]

how it feels knowing you’ve hurt other people by accident due to your personality disorder and can’t go back in time to fix it so the relationship is either dead or damaged:

[delphientropy]

born to be a shithead asshole forced to be a gentle princess who could never hurt a fly

[npdvelvette]

aroacespec cluster b moment of not being able to tell if you are actually crushing on someone or if you’re just fixated on them bc they actually meet your ridiculous standards and/or give you attention

[comorbidpersonalitydisorders]

AvPD + H/NPD is the worst combination ever 0/10 do not recommend, give me attention but do fucking Not perceive me

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