#healing sydney

[awarenesshealing]

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[thepalerimitation]

My thoughts on the Bear S3 summed up:

Writing: 7/10 (all over the place, messy, and chaotic)

Cinematography: 10/10 (all over the place, messy, and chaotic 🥰✨💖)

Acting: 9/10 (one point taken off for the Faks who should be killed)

Sydcarmy: DOOMED ROMANCE AND THE CROWD GOES WILD!!!!

[thoughtfulchaos773]

A Romantic Comedy (based on the trailer)

When I saw Carmy walking in the trailer, it reminded me of this scene with Richie in 1x06 post date.

This looks like a date gone wrong or a date that never happened for Carmy. Funny enough, the voiceover for this clip is Syd asking Why are you doing this and Carmy telling her they're going to get a star. (I also think this whole thing about the partnership agreement happens the first episode of the season.)

There are so many clips in that trailer that scream romantic comedy, even the sequence of the trailer.

Claire talk ahead

Then after he says with claire it was a waste of time we go to this partnership agreement:

And a talk with Pete that either has to do with a living arrangement or a partnership with Carmy.

BTW- A "good thing" is always used in The Bear. Steven said it to Carmy when he freaked out about Richie andMikeyy trying to hook him up.

There's still time surrounding Claire while calm represents Sydney. Also, Claire is getting these weird close-up shots that I only see with his family.

Time again with claire- waste of time- going slow- go faster motherfucker etc.

Another hint at a Romantic comedy-

The romantic co-lead meets with a different partner while the romantic interest waits for her lead - they don't seem to be together...

Plot: The guy commits to work full time after breaking up with romantic interest. But by committing to work instead of finding misery he finds joy in everything, including his business partner.

The Bear

[cconfusedkat]

Pressure doodles with our chats from @bloos-bloo since I cant use Roblox chat (ps5 user <-) in order

they keep saying hear me out on everything I cant. I cant condone this behavior /silly

And a couple of out of context screenies :>

the skeleton ass was too strong /ij

And how could i forget honorable mentions

[zombster]

if i see one more post saying they ship carmen and therapy i’m going to scream

[theroyalmisfitmess]

I just asked my sister to give her opinion on SydCarmy. She doesn’t watch The Bear so their perspective is completely unbiased. I showed them the panic attack scene and she said it’s so clear there’s romantic subtext.

[poppytuft]

the bear s3 spoilers

below the cut! thinking about claire and stuff we saw this season re: carmy/syd/the restaurant/donna, just finished the season so itll be a mess and also im comin in way too hot on this so my bad

sometimes...... sometimes i believe you guys are all watching different tv. im not sure how this season didnt feel like a direct through line from s2?? and im not sure WHY everyone is SO MAD about claire LITERALLY "haunting" this season. girl. come on. we need to have a sit down talk about how the berzatto generational trauma is the real meat of this show (this will make sense, just trust me). thats the MAIN EMOTIONAL POINT. syd's relationship with her dad, marcus and his mom, richie and evie, even tina and louie are all examples of parental relationships that are tender, sweet, supportive, etc. these are INTENTIONAL!! by creating these relationships we see PLAINLY how fucked donna is and how much she fucked up all of these kids. thats why "ice chips" was such a FANTASTIC episode. there was SO MUCH unpacked, so much revealed, so much worked through with sugar and her but at the end of the day she's still learning how to unlearn all of this horrific narcissistic bullshit. SHES STILL UNLEARNING THOUGH. thats where fucking DONNA of all people sits right now——somehow, she's learning how to heal. EVERYONE IS LEARNING. that's also what is so important about that episode.

now lets look at carmy. in "ice chips" we are LITERALLY told about how each berzatto is born: mikey fighting against the idea of being alive at all, nat into a quiet, soothing room, and CARMY is fucking born into EVERYONE SCREAMING and ARGUING and FIGHTING. we are BLATANTLY told that all carmy has ever known is HELL and all he's ever known how to communicate is through exploding. this is so violently against what we also know about his personality from childhood in "fishes" (anxious growing up, arts-oriented, had a hard time making friends). now, he works a violently stressful job, processing the trauma from both his mother (and chef fields [joel mchale], realistically) through the high-stress environment.

NOW. ENTER CLAIRE.

HOW is she not fascinating to you all. we don't see her whole story (because the bear, duh) but we are given just enough pieces here to put together that her story runs parallel to carmy's. how are you not getting this. walk with me.

claire. glasses, nerdy, quiet, sweet, girl next door. family friend! cute, but considered mid for a long time by everyone at school, but suddenly the berzatto men all badger carm, "oh she got a glow up, oh shes looking for you, she wants to see you," etc etc etc. what happened in between?

she finds herself. she finds the stressful thing she LOVES, which is the hospital. her job is objectively more stressful than carmy's (illustrated by that scene earlier in the season but i forgot the episode, where claire talks about the girl who got her shit wrecked by the glass table), and while we don't have an exact understanding of what her home life was like, we understand that her and carmy both have a level of internal anxiety that thrives on the stress of their careers. HOWEVER, claire does it because she loves it. carmy just doesn't know how to stop.

this is what makes claire feel like "peace" to carmy——because her high-stress job is a choice, an active choice she is making because it fulfills her. it's not to prove her dead brother wrong, or to honor his own legacy, or to prove that dickbag boss wrong, or to leave a mark on the world, or to make her own life worthwhile, or to prove that she doesn't need anyone else. she genuinely enjoys helping people even when the days are stressful, or scary. he's obsessed with this. he wants to know how she does this. every day she leaves that stress at home——and he wants to learn how to do that too.

claire is VITAL to this season and to understanding carmy's stress——and how far back he is in his healing process. it should only become more and more apparent, as we see characters like tina (the beef/the bear became vital to her success/development as a chef AND person, both for the people AND her love of food), marcus (not hiding his grief, but using it to help rationalize how much his mother loved him and wanted to be surrounded by people that love him), and richie (finding a purpose through service/expo and understanding he can start over again) push through their own traumas and struggles to become better people. if donna can be not only present at sugar's bedside during labor, but WELCOMED at this point in the show, it makes carmy's inability to heal all the more present. claire is an important part of this puzzle: she helps us see a window into a world where carmy is balanced emotionally, but unbalanced professionally, because he has no idea how to make the two coexist.

however, the idea that he can be balanced emotionally at all is so fucking enticing——with the help of someone who experiences stress in the same way as him (and who is familiar with his familial trauma), he has the opportunity to grow up and move on from his family trauma and wounds perpetuated by the industry he works in.

on the flip side of this....... his inability to process any of this is starting to impact syd. and frankly, that's some bullshit. his lack of communication, inability to community build/trust ANYONE, and his violent stubbornness is pushing her into the same space that he was in under chef fields, in a much slower, more subtle manner, and for slightly different reasons. her panic attack at the end of the season could read in two directions to me: her stress over the responsibility of changing so many people's lives has boiled over once she remembered that the beef once was truly great (hey five star review on the fridge!), OR, she realizes how much she isn't in it for the food. fuck a Michelin star: she wants to cook with her family. chef terry says at the end of "forever", in the garage with carmy, that she's so grateful she got to do whatever she wanted, whenever she wanted, where she wanted, with the people she wanted to do it with. sydney is so close to having those things at the bear——but carmy's dysfunction is keeping it just out of arms reach. the two of them are now on opposite sides of the approach from last season: syd dying for a star, and carmy dying to cook for the woman he loved. now, carmy is hungy for recognition again, desperate to prove something, and sydney is remembering (thanks to the conversation with other chefs during the ever funeral service) why she loved cooking in the first place. so this leaves us to wonder: should she stick it out? for the people? or make something of herself? is she carmy, or is she terry? i guess we will just have to see.

all this to say: every character is connected. the bear is a show about family, found and blood, and the choices we make for, with, and because of the people we love, for better or for worse. food is only the center of it, because it's the center of all of our lives. you can't hate claire without understanding where she sits in the web of the berzatto family. and really, you can't hate her if you understand what her presence means for carmy, for syd, and the restaurant as a whole.

[nymphd011]

[fantastictalesofadventure]

Are you THAT TTRPG player?

[carrionhearted]

I’m really struggling w seeing people who participated in the “let’s gang up on and brutally harass this guy based on an assumption, because he makes a convenient scapegoat” incident of ‘24 saying “I apologized :3 sorry I was just emotional :3 all done now :3”

Hhgghgghghgh. Apologized to who. To me? To the other random people y’all harassed off the platform? Sorry, I’m still hurt over this, I say this as nothing more than an expression of my own feelings. No animosity, I’m just struggling. Like I still have no closure on this entire thing, the most I’ve gotten is… people stopped telling me to kms? Which might mean they now understand they were mistaken? I do not know. Hsggdgs. I don’t understand how people are saying “I apologized”

I wish absolutely no hate towards anyone, that’s never a solution, I’ve always advocated that. I only hope people grow and heal from this. I just wish I had even a smidge of closure.

[lisablack000]

I make a mighty cute salad

[animatedshortoftheday]

Flipou (2022) [5 min] by Sydney Baillargeon, Jules Thibaudeau, Perrine Dolleans, Baptiste Vaneenaeme, Héloïse de Gentile, Léna Vanheeghe and Alexandra Sarrasin | France

[thoughtfulchaos773]

Carmy: You always had so many friends. I don't know, I really wanted that...

you know Mike... Mikey, Mikey had that.

Claire: Yeah, Mikey was cool.

This scene reminds me of the 2x09 "you're not alone syd" moment. Really, everything reminds me of the table moment. But when he tells Sydney she's not alone, it's a feeling that's followed Carmy since season 1.

And it seems that Carmy and Claire's relationship was written to capture the feeling of being with someone yet still feeling alone, and this feeling is all too familiar to Carmy.

In episode 2x09, Carmy recognized that familiar feeling in Sydney. He maybe realized that he had made her feel lonely in the last few months, and now he could see that loneliness written all over her that he needs to heal it, reassure her, captures her worries and make it his own.

You're not alone Syd

Neither are you

It's like acceptance, desire, and deep connection just washes all over them!

True in-to-me-see moment! twin flames, soul mates, kismet, kindred, undeniable connection...all of it.

[cconfusedkat]

Part 3 of re-doing refs! Our first Bishop is Shamura 🕷 originally I planned making theirs last but I kinda want to make it in order each of the Bishops would arrive as followers. I wanted to give them their own two outfits, and to have them stand out for their cult wear (like the rest of the bishops with their gold) and so a purple cloak it would be!! The other four also wear cloaks in accords to their old crown colors

And their casual outfit felt more fitting too,, they like to be outside a lot and so I figured their outfit being most similiar to Goat's cult wear could be more settling for them

Headcanons!! I forgot to add that they don't really talk to many people outside of their family and disciples, their social interactions mainly consist of their "students" (since they're technically a teacher but technically not) at the morgue. With that in mind,, they have more empathy with objects and smaller beings rather than people,, so they frequently talk to a group of little spider's that gather outside of Silk Cradle just for them

And ofc a blank!! I think their outfit isn't too bad, I like the final detail :-D their sister will be next for tomorrow 🕺

[nerdynanny]

@sonxflight gets sassed

"I'd make a John Wick reference but those films aren't out yet. To be fair, you look out enough for the both of us." They wink with that remark and blow a kiss, because they love poking the bear. Heaven forbid they get bitten.