#dump his ass

[heterorealism]

[thankstothe]

CUDDY...cuddycuddycuddycudyycudd. .. ... . . .

GIRL.

[xzayegg]

[relephantirrelephant]

AITA for asking my girlfriend to stop knitting so much? My (30M) girlfriend (27F) is really into knitting and has been long before we started dating 3 months ago. At first it didn’t bother me and I thought it was cool she had a hobby but then I realized just how much she does it. Granted, she’s not pulling out the knitting hook at dinner or anything but it seems anytime we’re watching TV together or just hanging out at her place she’s always working on some project. She said she needs to keep her hands busy and it’s like fidgeting for her, but I severely doubt that she can be fully present. You don’t have to pay attention when you fidget and she literally always jokes that she doesn’t know how to count. She claimed it’s not all the time… but it’s definitely more often than not. She argued that she can follow TV show plots just fine but when I quizzed her on some details she couldn’t answer some of the questions sooo… I think my point stands. Then she said “If it’s an important conversation I obviously put my work down” but I think we have different definitions of what important means. I also told her I would like to be able to cuddle and physically interact with her during TV time. She said we can still cuddle but it’s literally not the same? I want her to be interested in me, not some pile of yarn. This might be petty but I think I might feel better about it if she knitted things for me, but it always seems to be bags or clothes for herself or like random squares. She did make a pretty cute toy for my dog though, that was actually nice. Anyway I sat her down the other day and told her my perspective, and instead of being willing to compromise, she told me that I’m the one that’s not listening to her and essentially called me an asshole. She’s a great girl and I don’t want to lose her over this but also not sure what to do. AITA?

Yes, you're the asshole. Not just because it's CROCHET instead of KNITTING, or because you demand she make something for you, or because she's 27 and you're calling her a "girl", or because you're pissed that you can't touch her whenever you want, or because you gave her a fucking pop quiz after making her watch TV. It's that and probably a gazillion other things you do.

Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/v/AmItheAsshole/comments/15tf2bh/aita_for_asking_my_girlfriend_to_stop_knitting_so/

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[111lustforlife]

if they want to reach out, they will.

a relationship is a workplace with two shifts.

stop working overtime.

[fulltimesapphic]

Hey I love Destiel and all…

But if I was in supernatural and I was Cas’ friend I would be begging him to dump Dean. Like bestie I know you love him but he’s terrible to you pls leave him you could do so much better.

[gwandas]

me: *hears sad song about a failing relationship* this is sooo nessian coded

[quadruple-a]

I don’t care what excuses he gave you, you did not outlive THE FREAKING PHANTOM OF THE FREAKING OPERA to be treated like this

Dump. Him.

[infiniteseriesofhalfways]

most romances im rooting for them, but in this case? DUMP HIS ASS!!

[cyarsk5230]

Don’t date a bad bitch if you can’t handle one

[cyarsk52-20]

this is nice and all but mind you last week he was defending deshaun watson bc ppl booed him for being a serial rap*st. you don’t care about women.

[heterorealism]

Wow marriage sounds so bad.

[aahsoka]

found a kdrama (webseries) thats focused around sex ed/positivity for women and its been fun so far but ohhhhh my god the leads current boyfriend is driving me crazyyyyy . and the thing is i KNOW someone who got divorced over this same shit so im like PLEASE BREAK UP RIGHT NOW

[clint-kenobi]

I’m going through a rough breakup after the man I was supposed to marry turned out to have another girlfriend on the side (for several months) after we’ve been together for six years and as I’m crying post breaking up with him my emotionally constipated mother just texts me

And you know what? I love her but probably not the best advice considering my job is literally stopping domestic violence🤣🤣🤣🤣

[loverockawaitsyou]

A reminder at the bus stop