#if they wanted to they would
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*gripping the sink with white knuckles* your value isn't dependent on others' treatment of you, your value isn't dependent on others' treatment of you, your value isn't-
#rsd#trying to remind myself of this but it's so fuckign HARD#i dared to let someone in and it tore me to shreds and I'm still trying to glue together the pieces of my self esteem#vent post#if they wanted to they would#low self esteem is so hard to fix???#and I've been trying so fucking hard but like agfshsjsshsggsjs UGHHHH#i never want to let someone make me feel this way ever again#i never want to feel like a constant second choice or like a burden or anything like that#like i had enough begging to be loved growing up thanks i dont need more#since clearly I'm bad at it anyway
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I wanted to and I did, as simple as that
#if they wanted to they would#life quotes#quoteoftheday#quotes#love quotes#quote#quotation#love#life#poem#love poem
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That is not at all a reflection of you.
"Not worth getting better for?" Hun, they don't even consider themselves worth getting better for, that fight is not one you have any say in.
“You deserve better” is an interesting way of saying I’m not worth getting better for

#if they wanted to they would#for you and for them#love yourself#love yourself so that you may love others
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Love that for her
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tritter: are these obviously forged signatures yours?
wilson: yea :)
tritter: you’re lying for your drug addicted best friend who you have a crush on
wilson: nooooo i’m nottttt
#if they wanted to they would#house md#tritter arc is so silly#wilson loves house#tritter: omg they’re gay#hilson#forgot how silly house md season 3 is#house md season 3
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If they wanted to understand… they already would have. You can use all the words you want but the people who don’t want to hear your pain will always find ways to misunderstand you. It’s painful but it’s true… a lot of people can’t face painful realities so they stay within their comfortable constructs.

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so hard not to become the most annoying person on earth if you're a little excitable and just learned a little about a topic literally no one around you has any interest in
#unforch ive been laserfocused on the composition of toilet cleanibg products and (unrelated) international fishing politics this week so far#i want to talk about anti limescale chemicals 😫 and chinese ships off the coast of west africa 😐#TO EVERYONE IN THE NOTES: don't worry i am not particularly wounded by the awareness that my coworkers would not appreciate a rant#it is a good idea to make sure your conversations remain dialogue and not uninvited monologue for an uninterested captive audience#there is a time and place for excited half-informed monologues.
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Remember, the phone works both ways.
#life#love#spilled ink#spilled thoughts#spilled words#spilled writing#spilled poetry#relationship#star struck09#life quotes#moving on#loss#friendship#friends#life is hard#life is strange#connection#love quote life quotes#literature#writers on tumblr#writing#words#thinking out loud#thought daughter#girlhood#introspection#quotes#love quotes#breakup#if they wanted to they would
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This is your daily reminder that if they wanted to, they would.
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if they want to reach out, they will.
a relationship is a workplace with two shifts.
stop working overtime.
#if he wanted to he would#thoughts#relationships#im just a girl#love#girlblogging#bare minimum#let him go#toxic relationship#situationships#advice#let her go#let them go#dump him#dump his ass#ex situationship#ex bf#if they wanted to they would
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"no matter how much he suffered you can't support evil" but if he was an mc like eragon going through all this trauma and slowly and inetevitably becoming a villain like he did, you would find excuses to justify him.
#glbtrx#if they wanted to they would#eragon#the inheritance cycle#christopher paolini#galbatorix#inheritance cycle#eragon shadeslayer#murtagh morzansson
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Remember that someone's behavior or lack of interaction is someone communicating too
If they don't engage,
If they avoid,
If they ignore,
If they deflect,
If they don't notice or acknowledge you
If they don't respect you,
If they don't apologize,
If they don't show interest,
If they don't listen,
If they make up excuses,
If they lie,
If they're always too busy,
If they take advantage...
This is them communicating. Honor yourself and find people who want you as much as you want them.
If they wanted to, they would. If they knew better, they'd do better.
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That's called love ig?

No cuz I'll walk no matter how many kilometres away you live from me, I'll walk and walk and walk until I reach you and see you smiling....
Saheli ka tohfa dene 3.8 kilometers chalke gai thi kyuki naraaz thi vo (chalke isiliye gai kyuki im broke like bro don't start with that 😔☝️).... Tohfa dekh ke khush hogai vo <3 jisse mujhe bhi khushi mili hehe :3 (that pic is from her house and no you ain't gonna see what the tohfa was hehe also she doesn't know that I walked and walked and walked)
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#girlblogging#love#right person wrong time#this is bullshit#if they wanted to they would#book quotes#quotes#words words words#words to live by#wordsofwisdom#words to remember#ranting#romance#friendship#friends#romancé#romantic#wisdom#men aint shit#women#truth#remember#heart#ruthless#bad timing doesn’t exist#closure#the right people will care
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