#bpd + hpd culture is

[yourfavishpd]

HIHIHI!

I noticed there are a lot of "your fav ___" for bpd and npd but not hpd. which was a bummer. so I decided to make my own! You can call me Kana. I'm audhd, bpd, npd, and of course, hpd. anyone can interact including haters. but if you dont wanna see that I'll tag it accordingly ദ്ദി(ᵔᗜᵔ)

this is a side blog. im not gonna follow back because of it. but all interaction is greatly incouraged and appreciated!! send me asks with whatever character you would like + any headcanons you might have if you want!! ask away >:3 !! ☆

[borderline-culture-is]

BPD culture is “leave me. leave me. please. it’s what i want (it’ll be better for you) please please just leave” self destruction

HPD + BPD culture is if you don’t love me sexually, do you really love me at all?

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[histroninarc]

bpd + hpd culture is getting attached to someone because you think they like you, until they tell you that they don't, and then being stuck with a fixation on a person who doesn't want you that you can't reconcile with the reality of the situation. It's been over half a year and I'm still reeling. That was what led me to try and find out what was wrong with me, in the first place.

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[a-healthy-dose-of-apathy]

unfortunately for the both of us, i really like you

[autopsyfreak]

‘how do you expect people who have been abused by someone with NPD to refer to their abuse then?’

by calling it what it is: emotional abuse.

it’s not difficult.

slapping the word ‘narcissistic’ on the front of abuse is blindly assigning blame and associating the abusive behaviours with NPD, despite the fact that nowhere in the criteria does it state any abusive behaviours as a symptom.

i understand that people who are severely mentally unwell are more prone to abusing others, however to point the blame at a disorder (and therefore at everyone with the disorder) is ableist, irresponsible and grossly misinformed.

to put it into perspective as to how bad the stigma surrounding NPD is, i have been diagnosed with NPD and have been told i should be killed because of it, that i will inevitably abuse my partners i have had, i’ve had partners in the past be harassed by people saying that it’s ‘just a matter of time’ before i abuse them without any of these people ever even knowing me. i see endless amounts of things online calling all narcissists evil, as well as having my own experiences with abuse disregarded because they do not believe someone with NPD could be anything other than a perpetrator, despite the fact NPD is induced by trauma. the list goes on.

your choice of wording does matter and it does damage people with NPD.

[raincamp]

its so humiliating having to admit to people that sometimes my only motivation for doing something is for validation or attention

[k4ijynxx]

Shout out to the age regressors / system littles who have a cluster b personality disorder. You being a narcissist, sociopath, borderline, or histrionic does NOT make you a bad person and does NOT invalidate your experience. Take care <33

Edit: radqueers please stop interacting, it makes me uncomfortable /neg

[hpdcultureis]

hpd / bpd culture is i want ur attention :-( talk to me pls i wanna tell u about everything WHY HAVENT YOU RESPONDED but too scared to lash out at ur atp cuz ur afraid theyll hate u after

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[ndcultureis]

nd culture is hearing somebody say “oh theyre a narcissist/psychopath/delusional” and taking a moment to appreciate your nuerodivergent siblings. anybody who’s disorder is used as a marker of Bad Terrible Person know i love ypu <3

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[the-antisocial-chronicles]

“People with ASPD and NPD are unlikely to seek help”  If you were treated like you just murdered the therapist’s entire family in front of them every time you tried I don’t think you’d seek help either 

[sugarandcigarettes]

hospital pics !! <3.

silly little suicide attempt mixed with starving :c the doctor said it's a miracle I'm alive, the pills should've instantly killed me !! doesn't feel like a miracle :[ I do looooove being sick though, it's so validating ^^ plus, he was gone for too long ૮(˶ㅠ︿ㅠ)ა what was I supposed to do without him? live? hah :D loved the stinging feels and dizzy weakness, didn't really like the injections ˙◠˙ it does definitely make me feel like my disorder is more real thoughhhh ( ˶ˆᗜˆ˵ )

[borderline-culture-is]

bpd+hpd culture is having always had a need to be more mentally ill than everyone so they pay attention to you but not wanting to be more unwell than your fp because then they might feel like they deserve less love and care and help than you even though they don’t have the hpd which is what makes you think that way

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[winecovered]

oxiampathy . . . [ oxia, meaning oxygen, & empathy]

An empathy - related term for those who feel empathy for humans as a species, as opposed to individual people.

ー This is exclusive to those with disorders & similar things that affect empathy / sympathy ^_^

[PT. Oxiampathy. From "oxia," meaning oxygen, and empathy. An empathy-related term for those who feel empathy for humans as a species, as opposed to individual people. This is exclusive to those with disorders and similar things that affect empathy/sympathy .PT end]

[a-healthy-dose-of-apathy]

how it feels knowing you’ve hurt other people by accident due to your personality disorder and can’t go back in time to fix it so the relationship is either dead or damaged:

[npdvelvette]

aroacespec cluster b moment of not being able to tell if you are actually crushing on someone or if you’re just fixated on them bc they actually meet your ridiculous standards and/or give you attention

[spaghettimakesflags]

empathyflux pride flag