#anti rad inclus

[gnometa233]

Hey isn't it crazy how radqueers who think labels don't mean anything call other lgbtq people cishet bootlickers when I've heard both them and bigoted cishets agree that lesbians can sleep with men? Isn't that the literal definition of trying to appeal to cishets, by devaluing labels and saying that anyone can be queer? Funny how that works.

[gray-ace-space]

recently encountered a post where someone said "gender is fluid but sexuality isn't". (they were talking about bi lesbians.)

my first thought was: does that person, like. hear what they're saying? how can you explicitly hold two beliefs that are so logically inconsistent and not see it? how can you simultaneously think gender is this fluid and complex thing, but sexuality, much of which is defined around gender, is simple and stationary and its boundaries need policing?

but like, fuck, why even argue against it, right? there is no internal logic because there is no logical thought behind it. these are not genuine beliefs. this person is repeating what is currently acceptable in their (small) specific social circle. this is the same person who, a few years back, would be excluding nonbinary lesbians, but nonbinary lesbians are cool and normal on queer tumblr now, so they'll exclude bi lesbians instead, and not even pause to reflect on the difference.

oh, and if you read this and thought "these people don't even actually accept nb lesbians either", ding ding ding! because it's not a real, deep belief, that acceptance is extremely shallow and conditional. so as soon as someone is an nb lesbian in a way these people find odd (like being both a man and a lesbian) they will exclude them too and find a way to justify it.

why do we have to endlessly go through this cycle with queer identities. can we not? can we just not. i'm tired.

[1nky-quill]

I love the diversity of trans people

I love how each and every one of us has our own unique experience with our queerness

It truly inspires me every time to think about it, because even if all of us are different in one way or another we’re still part of the same community, we’re still a family in a sense.

That’s why is saddens me when I see so many other queer people cast people from the community because their experience with their gender and sexuality doesn’t align with their own experiences/what they expect that person’s experience to be.

Please love other trans people, all other trans people, because we only have each other, and I think it’s very special that we all have a different experiences with expression and sexuality.

[clowtisms]

I made this

[bupsafr3ak]

fictoconsang

[ficto-consang]

when an individual thinks their f / o should be / is consang. coined by me

[wanderingcritter]

call me cringe or cliche or whatever idc I cannot be silenced any longer

as a werewolf, i wanna make out with a vampire sooooo bad you have no idea. like pls bro i need a forbidden were x vamp romance irl right noooww i am on my knees

[thecherubprince]

oh also you cant be punk and exclusionist the whole point of being punk is to rebel against the boxes that society forces us into and you're a poser

[sylvoin]

Dog gender lesboy flag!!

[gnometa233]

Back in Ye Olde days of tumblr when I wasn't allowed to make a tumblr account as a teen (but I could look) there was this certain ideology that more labels = more oppressed and therefore unable to be criticized. For a famous example of this, please research the hivliving scandal. Strange Aeons on youtube does a pretty good job of covering the insanity and the resulting lessons we should take away from that.

Now while that was more extreme, remnants of this ideology still sort of roam around. Combine with the "everyone is valid and everyone had good faith labels" mindset and you get people who parrot bigotted rhetoric and . And the thing is, there's plenty of people with that mindset. I've seen it, you've seen it. And a lot of those people, now, want to render labels meaningless. They want to rip the definitions that lgbtq+ people have fought to validate for DECADES away just so they can be comfortable or what ever.

It's disgusting, it's weird, and people need to learn to stay in their fucking lane

I’d really like to see people try to give a reason that doesn’t actually sound transphobic/terf rhetoric about why trans men can be lesbians.

There’s a whole blog here that supposedly exists to call out terfs, meanwhile this person is a trans man saying he can be called a lesbian because he’s a female. There’s nothing that sounds more like terf rhetoric as someone using their biological sex instead of their gender…

People really don’t know what terf means lol

[gnometa233]

"Uwu I'm so quirky I'm a lesbian that kisses men!!" omg should we throw a party? Should we tell everyone? Should we call Maia Arson Crimew?

[catz-brainz1234]

Radinclus against Radqueers 4EVA

-🌈

[gray-ace-space]

a lot of the asks coming into this blog are in the tone of, "is this allowed?"

"am i allowed to call myself X, even though Y?" "am i allowed to be here?" "am i allowed to feel this way?" guys i am not a cop. you don't need to ask permission.

this is not meant negatively! i understand that sometimes you just feel doubt and like you don't belong or you're alone, and need someone to affirm you, and i am so honored and happy to be that someone.

but just to be safe i made you this permit. free to use without credit. you're welcome.

[the-alarm-system]

Are exclus stupid on purpose, I can see the entitled whiteness radiating off this anon

[loversbats]

★⠀⠀SP protector⠀/⠀specific person protector ⌓⌓

⠀⠀𓏵⠀⠀⠀specific person ( SP ) protector⠀:⠀a type of protector who split off to protect one specific person . said person could be in - sys , or out of sys . this is NOT for endos .⠀⠀｡

self indulgent coin⠀,⠀made for our boothill introject :3 shoutout to sys gardens server for help making this !

[PT START. specific person ( SP ) protector: a type of protector who split off to protect one specific person. said person could be in - sys, or out of sys. this is not for endos. self indulgent coin, made for our boothill introject. shoutout to sys gardens server for help making this! END PT.]

[bupsafr3ak]

DarlGroomer

when an individual thinks their darling should be / is a groomer !

[wanderingcritter]

As someone who's transmasc nonbinary, getting bottom surgery just isn't really something that appeals to me. Not sure why, I certainly have other forms of gender dysphoria, but Ive simply never felt discontent with what I was born with down there and currently have no plans to modify things.

However.

If it was possible for me to have a sheath I would POUNCE on that opportunity so fast omfg.