#caedsexual

[scretladyspider]

happy ace week to everyone whose experiences don’t fit what people expect. aces using microlabels to explain these differences and find community. aces told they’re not *really* ace because they defy expectations, as if they don’t know themselves. you matter. I’m glad you’re here. have a great week!

[gray-ace-space]

a lot of the asks coming into this blog are in the tone of, "is this allowed?"

"am i allowed to call myself X, even though Y?" "am i allowed to be here?" "am i allowed to feel this way?" guys i am not a cop. you don't need to ask permission.

this is not meant negatively! i understand that sometimes you just feel doubt and like you don't belong or you're alone, and need someone to affirm you, and i am so honored and happy to be that someone.

but just to be safe i made you this permit. free to use without credit. you're welcome.

[fizzamess]

It’s ok to be ace because of trauma.

It’s ok to be ace because of trauma.

It’s ok to be ace because of trauma.

It’s ok to be ace because of trauma.

It’s ok to be ace because of trauma.

It’s ok to be ace because of trauma.

It’s ok to be ace because of trauma.

It’s ok to be ace because of trauma.

It’s ok to be ace because of trauma.

It’s ok to be ace because of trauma.

It’s valid. It’s still true.

Just a reminder for myself tomorrow in the morning.

[daily-lgbtq-flags]

The lgbtq flag of the day (MARCH 16) is: Caedsexual

Caedsexual is a term used by people to describe their experiences with asexuality and trauma. It is a term that can only be used by trauma survivors or those with PTSD, meaning at some point said individual identified as allosexual but has shifted to asexual due to traumatic event(s)

[jiabeewrites]

HAPPY INTERNATIONAL ASEXUALITY DAY!

[acexualien]

What is sexual attraction? Read to find out more!

This is a new multiple parts series where we’ll be exploring a multitude of different types of attractions! I hope you’ll enjoy ☺️

Disclaimer: slides 6 and 7 are not an exhaustive list of types of sexual attraction

You can support me by following me on my socials (link in bio) and engaging with my posts, thank you! 🩵

[joestarkisser]

Acespec selfshippers are stunning!

Asexual selfshippers?

Demisexual selfshippers?

Greysexual selfshippers?

Aceflux selfshippers?

Acespike selfshippers?

Aegosexual selfshippers?

Fraysexual selfshippers?

Lithsexual selfshippers?

Caedsexual selfshippers?

Bellussexual selfshippers?

Reciprosexual selfshippers?

Iamvanosexual selfshippers?

Myrsexual selfshippers?

Apothisexual selfshippers?

Cupiosexual selfshippers?

Placiosexual selfshippers?

All ace-identifying selfshippers are beloved by their F/Os regardless of how long or how "unnecessary" their identity is!

[jamiieeez]

Neurorose

Neurorose is when someone is both neurosexual and neuroromantic.

I made a neuroattractional flag some time ago, the flag is here[link]

Caedrose

Caedrose is when someone is both caedosexual and caedoromantic.

Caedattractional

Caedattractional is where someone feels that one was previously able to experience attraction, but that ability was lost due to trauma or negative events.

Here[link] is the link to the caed(o) flags.

[januscorner]

IT IS OKAY IF YOUR ASEXUALITY IS CAUSED BY TRAUMA If you no longer feel sexual attraction and feel connected to the asexual community you can be asexual. There aren’t any rules, you don’t have to be born this way, you can be asexual.

[fizhle]

romakira headcanons !1!! :33

there’s a lot so under the cut they go!!!

Anzu: grey aroace, she/her

other notes: eye bags from GAMING all night, multiple nights, i also made her skin a little paler (girlie does not go outside)

Tsukasa: caedsexual, he/him

other notes: eye bags from The Incident™, kitty earrings to match with the roommate trio :3

Junta: heteroflexible, he/him

other notes: very slightly more tanned, tan line on his neck from his baseball uniform, made his hair curly again, matching kitty necklace

Saki: lesbian, she/they

other notes: freckles for the sillies, also gave her some lipstick (thought it’d look cute)

Hijiri: STRAIGHT 😐😐😐, luneboy, he/him

other notes: i cannot change anything about his appearance or else i think god will smite me

Makoto: gay, he/him

other notes: i cannot change his appearance because HE IS PERFECT (i kin him)

Ri: pan, xenogender, nonbinary, they/she/he

other notes: used Ri bc i couldn’t decide between riri and rio and i thought it’d be a cute nickname, little fang, put a star in their eyes and made the pupil white, star shaped freckles

[redacted-coiner]

Caedsexual, Caedaroace/Caedrose , Caedromantic

[scretladyspider]

[gray-ace-space]

wanna see something.

please consider reblogging ♥

[fizzamess]

Keep the aroace positivity flowing (day 10):

Mom’s advice to caedsexuals:

My mom is a survivor of SA and so am I. Hence why I relate to the term caedsexuality.

I asked her to give me an idea for today’s positivity blog and she told me this:

“An unfortunate event in life is only an event, that, if seen in proportion to the time you still have here on this earth, it wouldn’t be fair to let it determine the rest of your life. Whether you’re ace because of trauma or because of some other reason, you still deserve to love and be loved (in the broadest sense of the word)”.

[polygamousfistingchaos]

Schizottractional / Autittractional / Antisocittractional / Conducttranctional

Schizottractional: When your experience on the anattractional spectrum is tied to/caused by having schizophrenia spectrum disorder.

Autittractional: When your experience on the anattractional spectrum is tied to/caused by having autism spectrum disorder.

Antisocittractional: When your experience on the anattractional spectrum is tied to/caused by having anti social personality disorder.

Conducttractional: When your experience on the anattractional spectrum is tied to/caused by having conduct disorder.

[blkvxmp]

spencer or zach, he/it/vamp/lurk, gnc transsexual fag ♱ prnpage ♱ rentry ♱ muttfail on sp ♱ hoard

yo, i'm spencer. i'm an autistic plural boything who loves girls and dudes, mainly dudes. think of me as the flamboyant gay man, lesbian in theory scared to practice, emo drag queen. girlie in a gay way, fagirl if you will. i love being a goth girl but don't get it twisted, i'm a boy despite my desire to be the typical girl. please don't use she/her on me. uhm other stuff is uhhhh.. i'm intersex, i LOVE body mods and bats, ginger ale and metal/rock carries my soul, and i'm the co-host of a system. my dude casper (a member of my system) might come on here from time to time but he's not much for publicity despite his big mouth. if you couldn't tell, i'm a vampire kin along with a ghost, zombie, werewolf, and banshee kin. i'm also a monster lover so there's that. i'm mixed ethnicity and i'm racially black. my fav bands are msi, ac/dc, mcr, evanescence, slipknot, deftones, blink-182, weezer, and limp bizkit. i believe in god but not organized religion, but idc what religion you follow as long as you aren't an asshat. no real dni but i ask heavy ns/fw accounts to not interact with me, it makes me mad uncomfy. that goes for sh/ed blogs, heavy political based blogs, and just the basic dni stuff. if i don't vibe with you i'll just block, and if you're confused, you can reach out, but depending on the reason i blocked i may ignore you.

i curse, i try not to but it gets annoying trying to be pg. i do art and i'll post some once i can. i identify as nb and genderfluid as well. i'm afraid of spiders and deep water, plus some irrational stuff like church bells, alpacas, and pigs, i don't need trigger warnings for them since i really only get scared seeing them in person, but i ask that you trigger warning trypophobia, videos involving deep sea creatures meant to scare you, emetophobia, and videos that play the toll of a church bell since the sound scares me. i'm also afraid of the dark, ironic for a vampire i know, so please trigger warning scary videos related to having things follow you in the dark. i have trauma around unwanted advances and flirting so PLEASE don't do that, it really messes with me. you can call me pretty/handsome or whateva but please don't flirt. please use tone tags. i'm in a system of over 100 so like if i seem grouchy for no reason it's because i literally have over 100 roommates talking all at once. if you'd like to be moots, don't hesitate to ask! i may be socially inept and anxious for literally no reason but i love meeting people who have the same interests as me! but i am painfully shy so keep that in mind. more may be added.

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