#caedsexual

[scretladyspider]

happy ace week to everyone whose experiences don’t fit what people expect. aces using microlabels to explain these differences and find community. aces told they’re not *really* ace because they defy expectations, as if they don’t know themselves. you matter. I’m glad you’re here. have a great week!

[gray-ace-space]

a lot of the asks coming into this blog are in the tone of, "is this allowed?"

"am i allowed to call myself X, even though Y?" "am i allowed to be here?" "am i allowed to feel this way?" guys i am not a cop. you don't need to ask permission.

this is not meant negatively! i understand that sometimes you just feel doubt and like you don't belong or you're alone, and need someone to affirm you, and i am so honored and happy to be that someone.

but just to be safe i made you this permit. free to use without credit. you're welcome.

[fizzamess]

It’s ok to be ace because of trauma.

It’s ok to be ace because of trauma.

It’s ok to be ace because of trauma.

It’s ok to be ace because of trauma.

It’s ok to be ace because of trauma.

It’s ok to be ace because of trauma.

It’s ok to be ace because of trauma.

It’s ok to be ace because of trauma.

It’s ok to be ace because of trauma.

It’s ok to be ace because of trauma.

It’s valid. It’s still true.

Just a reminder for myself tomorrow in the morning.

[thefrogginbullfish]

[daily-lgbtq-flags]

The lgbtq flag of the day (MARCH 16) is: Caedsexual

Caedsexual is a term used by people to describe their experiences with asexuality and trauma. It is a term that can only be used by trauma survivors or those with PTSD, meaning at some point said individual identified as allosexual but has shifted to asexual due to traumatic event(s)

[jiabeewrites]

HAPPY INTERNATIONAL ASEXUALITY DAY!

[acexualien]

What is sexual attraction? Read to find out more!

This is a new multiple parts series where we’ll be exploring a multitude of different types of attractions! I hope you’ll enjoy ☺️

Disclaimer: slides 6 and 7 are not an exhaustive list of types of sexual attraction

You can support me by following me on my socials (link in bio) and engaging with my posts, thank you! 🩵

[joestarkisser]

Acespec selfshippers are stunning!

Asexual selfshippers?

Demisexual selfshippers?

Greysexual selfshippers?

Aceflux selfshippers?

Acespike selfshippers?

Aegosexual selfshippers?

Fraysexual selfshippers?

Lithsexual selfshippers?

Caedsexual selfshippers?

Bellussexual selfshippers?

Reciprosexual selfshippers?

Iamvanosexual selfshippers?

Myrsexual selfshippers?

Apothisexual selfshippers?

Cupiosexual selfshippers?

Placiosexual selfshippers?

All ace-identifying selfshippers are beloved by their F/Os regardless of how long or how "unnecessary" their identity is!

[januscorner]

IT IS OKAY IF YOUR ASEXUALITY IS CAUSED BY TRAUMA If you no longer feel sexual attraction and feel connected to the asexual community you can be asexual. There aren’t any rules, you don’t have to be born this way, you can be asexual.

[jamiieeez]

Neurorose

Neurorose is when someone is both neurosexual and neuroromantic.

I made a neuroattractional flag some time ago, the flag is here[link]

Caedrose

Caedrose is when someone is both caedosexual and caedoromantic.

Caedattractional

Caedattractional is where someone feels that one was previously able to experience attraction, but that ability was lost due to trauma or negative events.

Here[link] is the link to the caed(o) flags.

[polygamousfistingchaos]

Schizottractional / Autittractional / Antisocittractional / Conducttranctional

Schizottractional: When your experience on the anattractional spectrum is tied to/caused by having schizophrenia spectrum disorder.

Autittractional: When your experience on the anattractional spectrum is tied to/caused by having autism spectrum disorder.

Antisocittractional: When your experience on the anattractional spectrum is tied to/caused by having anti social personality disorder.

Conducttractional: When your experience on the anattractional spectrum is tied to/caused by having conduct disorder.

[scretladyspider]

[gray-ace-space]

i feel like i reblog a lot of aroace stuff on here, just because i see a lot of it. which is cool and you guys are awesome, i'm not like, saying there should be less aroace stuff. but i do wish there was more specifically alloace sfuff too - i'm alloace, and the topic is important to me. so! anyone have any alloace focused blog recs?

[fizzamess]

Keep the aroace positivity flowing (day 10):

Mom’s advice to caedsexuals:

My mom is a survivor of SA and so am I. Hence why I relate to the term caedsexuality.

I asked her to give me an idea for today’s positivity blog and she told me this:

“An unfortunate event in life is only an event, that, if seen in proportion to the time you still have here on this earth, it wouldn’t be fair to let it determine the rest of your life. Whether you’re ace because of trauma or because of some other reason, you still deserve to love and be loved (in the broadest sense of the word)”.

[redacted-coiner]

Caedsexual, Caedaroace/Caedrose , Caedromantic

[lgbtq-userboxes]

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