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Saw this van the other day and I gotta say... they're really supportive of the Ace community (˵ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°˵)

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reblog if you think aros and aces (or anyone on the aroace spectrum) are queer

trying to prove something to my mother ^^

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I don't remember which app that was, but seeing this many options made my little arospec ace agender heart happy 🥹

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This is giving me major aro vibes 🐸💚

I really hope no one takes this in a mean way??

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Day 7: What We Love About Being On The Aromantic Spectrum

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Day 7, the final day of Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week 2025! To end this years ASAW on a positive note, I asked my followers to tell me what they love about being arospec. Thank you to everyone who replied 💚

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Day 6: Struggles people on the Aromantic Spectrum face

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Mentioned in the post:

- alloromantic = someone who experiences romantic attraction

- QPR = Queerplatonic Relationship (I made some posts about this topic, you can find them on my Instagram @/acexualien in my story highlights "Info Posts!"

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Day 6: Struggles people on the Aromantic Spectrum face

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Mentioned in the post:

- alloromantic = someone who experiences romantic attraction

- QPR = Queerplatonic Relationship (I made some posts about this topic, you can find them on my Instagram @/acexualien in my story highlights "Info Posts!"

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Day 5: Aro (and aroace) characters in media

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Day 5: Aro (and aroace) characters in media

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Day 3: The History of Aromantic Flags

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Day 2: 20 signs you might be on the aromantic spectrum!

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I'M DOING AN EXPERIMENT

To prove something to a friend, please

REBLOG IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES

LIKE IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS DON’T BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES

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If you deem it inappropriate to ask strangers about their personal sex life when they come out to you, what makes you think it's appropriate to ask an asexual/a person on the asexual spectrum personal, invading questions about their sex life or lack thereof instantly upon coming out?

TLDR: DON'T ASK US INAPPROPRIATE QUESTIONS WHEN WE COME OUT TO YOU AS BEING ACE(SPEC)!!!

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Glad to see the algorithm doesn't know me at all 😼

[acexualien]

stop worrying about whether or not queer identities "make sense". gender itself doesn't make sense. "woman" and "man" are arbitrary constellations of traits and features that don't reflect how people who fall into those genders actually think, feel and behave. the definitions we have for manhood and womanhood don't make sense, either. according to cisheteronormative society, feminine men and masculine women don't "make sense" either. the biological sex binary makes ABSOLUTELY no sense, with intersex people proving that it quite literally doesn't exist.

why do queer identities have to "make sense" in order for you to see them as valid? they shouldn't have to. let go and accept that identity is not a scientific theory. it doesn't have to "make sense". none of this does. stop running others' identities through such scrutiny and realize your identity doesn't "make sense", either. embrace it. it's a good thing.

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Idk what trans man needs to hear this but you're NOT evil or disgusting for being a man. You do NOT have to suffer for the sins of the patriarchy committed by cis dudes. Being a man doesn't invalidate the misogyny you experienced growing up or experience now. Being a man doesn't mean you deserve to be isolated. Being a man doesn't mean you're inherently predatory or scary. You didn't "choose" this, and finding your true self is NOT "betraying the community" because you happen to be a man and/or masculine rather than a woman and/or feminine. You ARE allowed to be upset when people "affirm" your gender by malgendering you.

You DO deserve a community that uplifts you. You DO deserve to experience trans joy. You DO deserve to have your voices heard and your struggles recognized. Wanting the bare minimum of solidarity is NOT "making everything about trans men".