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If you deem it inappropriate to ask strangers about their personal sex life when they come out to you, what makes you think it's appropriate to ask an asexual/a person on the asexual spectrum personal, invading questions about their sex life or lack thereof instantly upon coming out?

TLDR: DON'T ASK US INAPPROPRIATE QUESTIONS WHEN WE COME OUT TO YOU AS BEING ACE(SPEC)!!!

[acexualien]

Glad to see the algorithm doesn't know me at all 😼

[acexualien]

stop worrying about whether or not queer identities "make sense". gender itself doesn't make sense. "woman" and "man" are arbitrary constellations of traits and features that don't reflect how people who fall into those genders actually think, feel and behave. the definitions we have for manhood and womanhood don't make sense, either. according to cisheteronormative society, feminine men and masculine women don't "make sense" either. the biological sex binary makes ABSOLUTELY no sense, with intersex people proving that it quite literally doesn't exist.

why do queer identities have to "make sense" in order for you to see them as valid? they shouldn't have to. let go and accept that identity is not a scientific theory. it doesn't have to "make sense". none of this does. stop running others' identities through such scrutiny and realize your identity doesn't "make sense", either. embrace it. it's a good thing.

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Idk what trans man needs to hear this but you're NOT evil or disgusting for being a man. You do NOT have to suffer for the sins of the patriarchy committed by cis dudes. Being a man doesn't invalidate the misogyny you experienced growing up or experience now. Being a man doesn't mean you deserve to be isolated. Being a man doesn't mean you're inherently predatory or scary. You didn't "choose" this, and finding your true self is NOT "betraying the community" because you happen to be a man and/or masculine rather than a woman and/or feminine. You ARE allowed to be upset when people "affirm" your gender by malgendering you.

You DO deserve a community that uplifts you. You DO deserve to experience trans joy. You DO deserve to have your voices heard and your struggles recognized. Wanting the bare minimum of solidarity is NOT "making everything about trans men".

[acexualien]

I'M DOING AN EXPERIMENT

To prove something to a friend, please

REBLOG IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES

LIKE IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS DON’T BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES

[acexualien]

Hey, everyone! I make & sell custom made pride bracelets :) if anyone's interested in buying one (15 EUR, including shipping), hit me up!

[acexualien]

Today marks the annual Transgender Day Of Remembrance, so I wanted to share its history with you.

Take care of yourself, stay safe and cautious. Let me remind you that you're all valid & loved, no matter what!

In loving memory to everyone who's senselessly lost their life over just being themselves. You will not be forgotten. 🏳️‍⚧️

[acexualien]

Today, I wanted to share some alternative transgender pride flags and their origin with you!

[acexualien]

Today, I wanted to share some alternative transgender pride flags and their origin with you!

[acexualien]

In honour of Transgender Awareness Week 2024, I wanted to share the history behind the most well-known transgender flag! 🏳️‍⚧️

[acexualien]

For those people who need to hear it, there is nothing wrong with going back into the closet for your own safety. You aren't less queer because you can't be queer publicly. You aren't less trans because you have to act like you're not trans.

If you need to start going by your old pronouns or quietly go back into the closet to be safe - you are allowed to do that. Please do that if it means you're alive.

Your safety is important.

You are important.

And if you know someone who has to do this, don't push them. Don't out them. Follow their lead. People's safety is more important that grandstanding.

[acexualien]

Here's the third and final part!

In honour of Transgender Awareness Week, here's part one of: How To Support The Trans Community & Be A Better Ally! 🏳️‍⚧️

Share & spread the word 🫶🏼

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Isaac Henderson + Text Posts

[acexualien]

One of my favourite aspects in the season 2 of Heartstopper is how unapologetically intolerant everyone is towards homophobia. Like.

Harry showing up at Tara's birthday party and Charlie shutting the door in his face despite that apology.

Nick freely calling out his brother's biphobic behavior. Tori literally sinking her nails in David's arm when he was mocking Charlie and Nick and planning to out them.

It's so refreshing. There's no moment where someone asks Charlie or Nick to be the "bigger people" and forgive anyone who undermined, mocked, dismissed, and harassed them for their identity.

Because that shit shouldn't be tolerated ever and it's not acceptable. Queer people aren't here to be your redemption arc.

[acexualien]

#I'm not immune to lgbtq lighting

[acexualien]

Here's part two of: How To Support The Trans Community & Be A Better Ally! 🏳️‍⚧️

In honour of Transgender Awareness Week, here's part one of: How To Support The Trans Community & Be A Better Ally! 🏳️‍⚧️

Share & spread the word 🫶🏼

[acexualien]

sexual attraction? you mean the thing that killed romeo and juliet?