#asexual coining

[polygamousfistingchaos]

Schizottractional / Autittractional / Antisocittractional / Conducttranctional

Schizottractional: When your experience on the anattractional spectrum is tied to/caused by having schizophrenia spectrum disorder.

Autittractional: When your experience on the anattractional spectrum is tied to/caused by having autism spectrum disorder.

Antisocittractional: When your experience on the anattractional spectrum is tied to/caused by having anti social personality disorder.

Conducttractional: When your experience on the anattractional spectrum is tied to/caused by having conduct disorder.

[starmoon-constellation]

Coining

hytosexual - a mix between burstsexual and autosexual, hytosexual is when a person has short bursts of attraction towards themselves, and otherwise are unattracted to themselves. Can be used with any other sexuality (ex: gay or bi) and does not denote a lack of attraction towards others.

This is not an exclusive term and can be used by anyone.

This is the hytosexual flag. The light blue represents self compassion and self care, the lavender represents loyalty and staying true to oneself, the white represents ace-spec aspects of the identity, grey represents bursts of attraction towards oneself, and the dark blue represents knowledge of oneself.

[thecrabtain]

I just thought about something, an idea actually!

Most of my platonic crushes/squishes are monsters. The term Monsterfucker exists. I'm aroace. So now I officially announce the making of a platonic Monsterfucker term! Introducing Monsterhugger!

Edit: Anyone who doesn't want to fuck non-humans can use this term! ^^

Sex with Monsters is overrated, Hugging is superior (half joking)

And for alloace individuals I have a term for you too: Monsterkisser.

Because if you don't want to fuck the monster, you can date it or give it kisses without needing to do the bombayah

Coined on 6/09/24 by Me :DDD

[flagautismguy]

alt ace-spec, aro-spec and apl-spec flags

symbols used : 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6

based on these flags : 1, 2, 3, 4

[whoopsie-collective]

Platoweird

A term for when one experiences platonic attraction, but in a non normative way. May or may not be considered aplspec.

Romoweird

A term for when one experiences romantic attraction, but in a non normative way. May or may not be considered arospec.

Erosweird

A term for when one experiences sexual attraction, but in a non normative way. May or may not be considered acespec.

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The yellow/green/purple are taken from the apl/aro/ace flags respectively, and are more pastel to resemble the unlabeled flag, as these terms are purposely vague.

The off white represents how the individual who identifies with this terms attraction is considered "off".

The pink represents attraction, because I've seen pink be used to represent sexual, romantic, and platonic attraction.

[winecovered]

　⟢　Overloving　𓃉

A term for when one's attraction is too much, and extremely overwhelming. This could make one not want to / have an aversion to acting on it.

　— Requested by anonymous .

[sadimasochist]

Cluster-B attraction flags

(transabled DNI)

FPattraction - BPD exclusive

An aro/ace (depending on how it is used) label where an individual only or mostly feels (romantic/sexual/etc) attraction towards their favorite person.

ATPattraction - HPD exclusive

An aro/ace (depending on how it is used) label where an individual only or mostly feels (romantic/sexual/etc) attraction towards their attention person.

EPattraction / CHPattraction - NPD exclusive

An aro/ace (depending on how it is used) label where an individual only or mostly feels (romantic/sexual/etc) attraction towards their equal person and/or chosen person.

EXPattraction / PICattraction - ASPD exclusive

An aro/ace (depending on how it is used) label where an individual only or mostly feels (romantic/sexual/etc) attraction towards their exception person and/or partner in crime.

[mother-ofthe-universedraws]

Some queer stuff for Pride Month! Featuring Simon’s flags

Also it’s my brother’s birthday today say happy birthday to him

Also, here’s a bonus:

[mecha-cute]

Aroace rose

Being on the aro ace spectrum while desiring a sexual and / or romantic relationship. You may consider yourself a hopeless romantic while rarely, if at all, feel romantic attraction.

Feel free to use

[aroaessidhe]

ace books: f/f YA

the romance is a subplot in most of these!

Arden Grey - contemporary, ace lebsian MC

You Don't Have A Shot - contemporary, queer ace MC

Forward March - contemporary, ace lesbian MC

The Summer Love Strategy - contemporary, demi-aroace LI

Earthbound Hearts - contemporary + a little sff, ace lesbian MC

The Facts and Legends of Callie Catwell - contemporary + a little sff, sapphic ace MC

The Art of Saving The World - sci-fi, ace lesbian MC

Belle Révolte - high fantasy - 1/2 MCs is bi ace

Queen of Coin and Whispers - 1/2 MCs is a demi-coded lesbian

Six Angry Girls - contemporary, 1/2 MCs is sapphic ace

#aspec books / aspec database / tumblr masterpost

[genderstarbucks]

Thermal Body Paintings Pride Wallpapers!! (Aspec)

Aromantic | Asexual | Aroace

Greyaromantic | Greyasexual | Greyaroace

Demiromantic | Demisexual | Demian

[clowncary]

aetho (sexual, romantic, etc..)

exclusive attraction to thoughtforms and incorporeal beings.

encompasses:

headmates/alters

egos

daemons

djinn

visualized/personified thoughts

concepts

excludes:

ghosts

spirits

fictional characters

objects

a form of asexuality, aromanticism, etc..

@radiomogai @beyond-mogai-pride-flags

[meowmansion]

could you make a aromantic intersex flag :O i just saw the rest of them and i love them alot :OOO

Of course, Anon! Here's some extra aspec flags while I'm at it!

Sorry if they look odd or too similar - I had to use a limited palette!

Once again, I prefer for these flags NOT to be used by perisex (including perisex altersex and transintersex) people! Free to use by those who are questioning being intersex.

Intersex Asexual Flag

A flag for intersex people who are also aromantic. This flag is inclusive of SAM and non-SAM aspecs, and can be used by any ace-spec labels (grey, cupio, apothi, etc).

Intersex Aromantic Flag

A flag for intersex people who are also aromantic. This flag is inclusive of SAM and non-SAM aspecs, and can be used by any aro-spec labels (grey, cupio, apothi, etc).

Intersex AroAce Flag

A flag for intersex people who are also aromantic-asexual (aroace). This flag is inclusive of SAM and non-SAM aspecs, and can be used by any aroace/arose-spec labels (grey, cupio, apothi, etc).

Intersex Aplatonic Flag

A flag for intersex people who are also aplatonic. This flag is inclusive of SAM and non-SAM aspecs, and can be used by any apl-spec labels (grey, cupio, apothi, etc).

Intersex Asensual Flag

A flag for intersex people who are also asensual. This flag is inclusive of SAM and non-SAM aspecs, and can be used by any asen-spec labels (grey, cupio, apothi, etc).

[wondereads]

Aro/Ace Book Recs for Pride 2024

Every Heart a Doorway by Seanan McGuire (ace)

New Adult, low fantasy, 3.89 star average (my rating: 5 stars)

Beyond the Black Door by A. M. Strickland (demirom ace)

Young Adult, high fantasy, 3.73 star average (my rating: 3.75 stars)

Queen of Coin and Whispers by Helen Corcoran (demi)

Young Adult, high fantasy, 3.6 star average

Daughter of the Burning City by Amanda Foody (demirom ace)

Young Adult, high fantasy, 3.68 star average

The City of Dusk by Tara Sim (ace)

Adult, high fantasy, 3.72 star average

All Systems Red by Martha Wells (aroace)

Adult, hard sci-fi, 4.12 star average (my rating: 3.5 stars)

Not Even Bones by Rebecca Schaeffer (aro/ace)

Young Adult, horror fantasy, 4.05 star average

Seven Devils by L. R. Lam and Elizabeth May (ace)

Adult, space opera, 4.03 star average

[apple-eating-goat]

I've not found anything online for a lack of sexual fantasies that wasn't the Wikipedia page for HSSD, so I've decided to coin my own.

Aphantasexual (A- for without, phanta from phantasia, meaning imagination, and sexual to denote sexuality) meaning the lack of or sexual fantasies. An aphantasexual person may or may not experience arousal, sexual attraction, have a libido, desire a sexual relationship or experience sexual fantasies very rarely or vaguely. The romantic equivalent would be aphanta- romantic/platonic etc.

[ID: a flag with a narrow teal stripe, then a wide white stripe, then a narrow black stripe, then a narrow white stripe, then a narrow yellow stripe, then a narrow white stripe, then a narrow black stripe, then a wide white stripe, then a narrow teal stripe. /end ID]

This is my original design for the aphantasexual flag. There was no forefront colour symbolism on my mind when I made it.

[ID: A flag with four equal-width stripes, one dark greenish-teal stripe on top, then a lighter greenish-teal stripe, then a white stripe, then a purple stripe. /end ID]

This is an updated aphantasexual flag I made due to unhappiness with the first. The green has no distinct symbolism, but the purple represents asexuality. I suggest that the other aspec flags with the aphanta prefix would have the same top three stripes and the bottom stripe be the corresponding colour for the specific kind of attraction.

EDIT: Changed from aphantasiasexual per @furnishedfurnace 's suggestion

[lunentity]

𓉸✙ l?ve ┈ a term that defines / represents the not so typical experiences of love, such as when someone within the aspec says “ i love you ” as it is not that of typical love but rather something of its own nature. this term can apply to anyone who feel their love is unique from the typical concepts of love, regardless if they’re aspec or not as there are multiple reasons this could apply to someone. a few examples of this term goes as follows: “ me & my partner are in a l?ving relationship ” or “ i l?ve you ” or anything along these lines. this is a recoining, you may find the archived post of the original coining here.