#greyromantic

[illululusion]

being greyaro and asexual is so fun because most of my life its like THE ALLOS ARE LYING ROMANTIC AND SEXUAL ATTRACTION AND LOVE IS A LIE and then once in every so often i go ooohh romantic love is realllllll and then i go right back to feeling like a conspiracy theorist if it doesnt turn out to be something that can last.

[bananahkim]

Happy Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week!

[gamezcatt]

[matcha-milo]

I want a relationship that is completely undefinable by any existing labels or words. Like, we're so close and we hug and kiss each other's foreheads and cuddle and travel and explore together, and we get along so well and have so much in common. But at the same time, our relationship isn't fully romantic or fully platonic; it's a completely separate, open-to-interpretation thing that we tweaked as needed, and we have our own boundaries and things we are and aren't comfortable with, and we respect each other in every way, shape, and form.

[theaceofarrows]

Since Pride Month is almost upon us, I just want to make sure that ANYONE who identifies as aspec knows that this is your month, too!

Whether you identify as ace, aro, demi, grey, or any micro label, or combination that's well known or hardly know at all. You are valid, and YOU ARE part of the LGBTQA+ community. Never forget that!!

[acexualien]

[arokalypse]

some arospec flag gifs below for your aro doomscrolling experience

[girlflux-sapphic]

Happy Valentine's day to:

- arospec people who have partners, be it romantic or queerplatonic

- arospec people who enjoy the thought of having a partner

- arospec people hanging out with their friends and family

- and even arospec people who hate this holiday, I hope you can have your peace today

[justdavina]

Hollie Christopher from Charleston, South Carolina. I’ve been dressing up for nine years. My cross-dressing experience has taught me a lot! I learned how to put myself first, and I learned how to overcome anxiety. It also helped me to better understand the women in my life! I cross-dress because men’s clothing is just so boring!!

[i-like-swiss-cheese]

OK GUYS

SO

THE ASEXUALS HAVE GARLIC BREAD

BUT WHAT DO WE AROMANTICS HAVE?

I SAY THAT WE MAKE THE ARO FOOD BE SWISS CHEESE

DONT LOOK AT MY BLOG TITLE I AM TOTALLY NOT BIASED WHATSOEVER

TRUST

[tremendously-crazy]

me then: why do all the songs on the radio have to be about love? It's so annoying, why is everyone so obsessed with love?

me now: oh.

[transgender-png]

the mspec to aspec pipeline is real and it happened to me

[ID: a collection of m-spec flags (including bi, pan, poly, omni, and multisexual) at one end of a pipeline with a collection of a-spec flags (including aro, ace, greyace, greyaro, demi, demiro, and aroace) at the other end. end ID]

[bread-is-bread]

"You can't just pick and choose the parts of a romantic relationship that you want"

No, actually I can.

I can do exactly that. If I want to see them multiple times a week with no commitment and no exclusivity I can.

If I want to cuddle and kiss and not be any more intimate than that I can.

If I want to go on fun dates and spend time together and have little adventures but never call them my partner I can.

If I want to do these things with multiple people at the same time I can.

If I want to call it hanging out instead of dating I can.

If I want to keep things private but also post us being silly on my close firends stories I can.

I can do anything I want to as long as all the parties in the relationship are happy and it's not hurting anyone.

Other people cannot define my relationships for me.

[yhowdy]

Pride month reminder that not everyone’s queer experience revolves around love

[koifishanonymous]

can we deromanticize kissing or are we still too deep in amatonormativity for that conversation :/ ?