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Me crying in my room since I was a child because "This can't be all there is."
I was right. It's all real. All of it. You just have to become aware of it.
shifting was meant for me. the paranormal was meant for me. the multiverse theory was meant for me. this was the shit i always believed in but couldnt put into words. i feel like a correct puzzle piece rn yall 🙏
#reality shifting#shiftblr#shifting#shifting community#shifters#desired reality#shifting realities#shifting motivation#manifestation#master manifestor#dream life
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block num 6 | 100 Building Blocks for a Better You
Dreaming is the First Step to Achieving Anything
Have you ever told someone about your dream, only to hear them say, “Work first and see if you can achieve it”? It’s frustrating cuz to you that dream is already alive in your mind. You can see it, feel it, and imagine yourself in that future. But to others especially parents or practical-minded people dreams don’t seem as important as the work itself.
But dreaming is the first step to doing anything in life.
People often think dreaming is just about imagining things and doing nothing. Like it’s some kind of fairy tale in your head. But that’s not true at all. Dreaming is a tool, a mindset, a vision that pushes you to take action.
When you have a dream, it’s like you have a GPS guiding you. Imagine wanting to travel to a beautiful place. If you don’t know where you’re going, how will you take the right roads? You might just wander around, wasting time, and feeling lost. But if you have a destination a dream then every step you take will have meaning.
If you dream of being a doctor, an artist, a writer, or anything else, your dream itself will push you bro like when you wake up tired and don’t feel like studying, your dream will remind you: “I need to study because this is my goal.” That’s why people who dream from the heart who truly want something will always find a way to work hard for it.
The reason some people struggle with motivation is that they are only thinking about work, not the dream behind it. Imagine two students studying late at night. One is studying just because they “have to.” The other is studying because they dream of being a successful lawyer or a writer . Who do you think will push through the exhaustion and keep going?ya the one with a dream.
When you truly want something, no excuse is stronger than your desire.
If you’re too tired? You’ll remember why you started and keep going.
If someone tells you it’s impossible? You’ll believe in yourself because you’ve already seen the vision in your head.
If things get hard? You’ll remind yourself that every challenge is a step closer to your dream.
I can say most parents come from a generation where “realistic” thinking was the priority. They don’t always understand the power of dreaming because they were raised to focus on survival and practicality. They think, “Work first, then dream later,” but that’s backward. u need to dream first. That dream gives you direction, motivation, and the emotional strength to push forward. Without it, work feels meaningless.
This is why so many adults end up in jobs they don’t even like. They never dared to dream. They just worked, hoping life would somehow feel fulfilling later. But fulfillment comes from chasing something you love, not just doing what’s safe.
Some of the most successful people in the world had dreams that seemed impossible.
Oprah Winfrey was told she wasn’t fit for television. Now she’s one of the most powerful women in media.
Walt Disney was once fired for “lacking creativity.” Today, his name is synonymous with imagination and success.
Albert Einstein was called a bad student. Now his name is literally used as a synonym for genius.
None of them would have achieved anything if they hadn’t dared to dream first.
So, if you have a dream HOLD onto it. Even if people don’t understand, even if they doubt you, even if the path seems unclear. Your dream is your light in the dark, your fuel when you’re exhausted, and your reason to keep going.
If you want to be a doctor, an artist, a writer, an entrepreneur whaaaaaatever it is let your dream be bigger than your fears.
Because once you have a dream there is nauuur way you won’t get up and fight for it.


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jokes on you guys but i’m the type of girl who will stalk my crush and then get his birth chart look up to his venus, mars etc and get him psychologically hooked
🧿 thank you 🧿
#girlblogging#dream life#empowerment#levelling up#manifestation#manifesting#love#aesthetic#gaslight gatekeep girlboss
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🦛- A reality where it's the same as your current reality expect you can understand animals and they can understand you.
🌊- Your a pirate and you live on the ocean on a ship where you see a mermaid or a merman that happens to become your s/o but it's a slow burn.
📸- A reality where you run you own shop or a store it could be a baking shop or maybe even a designer store. (and it's successful)
🫂- A reality where your a personal chef for a maybe a celebrity or a king/queen and you end up becoming famous because your such an amazing shop.
💮- Being a shapeshifter where you can turn into wtv animal and object that you want to.
- Being a fashion designer but nobody knows what you look like they only know your designer name and your clothes.
🍫- Living in a world with a bunch of kingdoms that has different types of magic and there's dragons and other types of ,animals and they can speak and talk.
🦇- Getting in your dream college and meeting your soulmate that treats with the most utmost respect and loves you unconditionally and you get you dream job
🌪️- Going to the past to help your younger self and being a supporter and giving your younger self the help they need to get through wtv.
🧞♀️- Getting to live on a farm having pigs, cows, chickens, ducks and more and you help your family run the farm and you still go to school.
#reality shifting#shiftblr#shifting blog#shifting#shifters#shifting community#shifting realities#shifting antis dni#anti shifters dni#consciousness#subconciousmind#subconscious#consciousness mind#conscious living#intended reality#desired self#desired life#desired reality#current reality#dr ideas#dream life#shifter#shifting motivation#shifting to my dr
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be busy. busy not checking messages. busy reading those books you never started or finished. busy having a good night of sleep. busy taking care of yourself and your skin. busy moving your body. busy helping your community. busy reflecting on your life and what you can improve. busy doing things aside from the capitalistic viewpoint of “productivity.” busy slowing down.
#slow living#bookblr#self care#self love#self improvement#healing#mental health#that girl#it girl#glow up#level up#coquette#pink pilates princess#spilled words#spilled thoughts#dream girl#dream life#girlblogging#this is a girlblog#green juice girl#clean girl#dolette#lana del rey#be kind to yourself#glow growth girlboss
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#aesthetic#beauty#dream life#home & lifestyle#luxury aesthetic#self care#women in luxury#luxury#fitspo#love#richwomen#rich woman#rich wife#soft life#soft girl#soft pink#softcore#style#shopping#pink aesthetic#beautiful views#vision board#bedroom#moodboard#lifestyle#life#chanel#vintage#fashion#2000s fashion
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Tubbo's reaction to Dream saying people hate him because he used to play the villain on the DSMP is so real like you can see his soul leaving his body
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Be Approachable and Have Good Conversations with Anyone
Being approachable and engaging in good conversations is a valuable skill that helps build relationships, create opportunities, and enhance social interactions.
1. Cultivate an Approachable Presence
Smile Genuinely: A warm smile instantly makes you look friendly and welcoming.
Maintain Open Body Language: Avoid crossing your arms or looking distracted; instead, keep an open posture and make eye contact.
Dress Comfortably and Appropriately: Your appearance should match the setting while reflecting a confident and approachable demeanor.
Use a Warm Tone of Voice: A friendly, upbeat tone makes people feel comfortable speaking with you.
Be Mindful of Your Energy: Positive and calm energy attracts others, while nervous or negative energy can push them away.
2. Start Conversations Easily
Use a Simple Greeting: A friendly “Hello,” “Hey, how’s it going?” or “Nice to see you!” can break the ice.
Comment on the Environment: Noticing something about your surroundings, such as “This place has a great atmosphere,” makes for an easy entry point.
Ask Open-Ended Questions: Questions like “What’s been the highlight of your day?” invite longer, more engaging responses.
Find Common Ground: Shared interests or experiences make conversations flow naturally.
Use Light Humor: A little humor can ease tension and make interactions enjoyable.
3. Keep the Conversation Engaging
Listen Actively: Nod, maintain eye contact, and respond appropriately to show you are engaged.
Ask Follow-Up Questions: If someone mentions an interest or experience, ask more about it to show curiosity.
Share, but Don’t Overshare: Balance speaking about yourself and showing interest in the other person.
Avoid Controversial Topics Too Soon: Stick to neutral or positive topics unless you know the person well.
Adapt to the Other Person’s Energy: If they are excited, match their enthusiasm; if they are more reserved, keep it calm and steady.
4. Overcome Social Anxiety and Awkwardness
Practice Self-Confidence: Remind yourself that people enjoy good conversations and are likely to appreciate your effort.
Embrace Pauses: Silence isn’t always awkward—take a breath and let the conversation flow naturally.
Don’t Fear Rejection: Not every conversation will be perfect, and that’s okay. Focus on learning and improving.
Prepare Conversation Starters: Having a few go-to topics, like recent events or shared interests, can help when you're stuck.
5. End Conversations Gracefully
Look for Natural Endpoints: If a conversation starts winding down, use that as an opportunity to wrap it up.
Express Appreciation: “It was great talking with you!” leaves a positive impression.
Offer a Future Connection: If appropriate, suggest meeting again or staying in touch.
Exit Politely: Say something like, “I’ll let you get back to your day, but it was great chatting with you!”
Final Thoughts Being approachable and having meaningful conversations takes practice, but with time, it becomes second nature. The key is to stay genuine, listen actively, and engage with warmth and curiosity. By implementing these tips, you’ll find it easier to connect with others and build strong, positive relationships.
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things confident people do, part 1



𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 1) when someone compliments them, they say thank you.
WOAH mind-boggling right! they don't self depreciate themselves by going "no no im so ugly" or whatever, but they don't say something like "yeah i know." either. show your gratitude, but don't let it get to your brain.
𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 2) take care of themselves.
they make sure to show themselves just as much love as they show everyone else because they know they deserve it just as much as anyone else.
𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 3) they show up for themselves.
when they say something, they do it. when they want something, they work to get it. when you feel sad and hurt, you yourself should be the first person to come and support yourself.
𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 4) they walk and sit with good posture
confident people know that they don't shouldn't have to make themselves invisible for anyone. it may be scary at first to be walking around looking straight instead of hunched over, but just btw u look rly lame being hunched over. stand up girl.
𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 5) they take up space
because they know they are allowed to. they know they deserve it. why would they try to become smaller? for who are you doing that for? literally no one cares and it just looks pathetic. take up space honey, you're allowed to.

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𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 6) you like what you see in the mirror
when i look in the mirror, no matter how i look- whether im sweating and crusty musty dusty or even all glammed up- i always love myself. why? because i know that i am not what i look like. i know i am beautiful, but that is not the only admirable thing about me!
𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 7) do what scares the crap out of u!!
or basically, step outside your comfort zone. do things that the previous you wouldn't even think of doing, and do it proudly, and do it alone! (me for example, recently i did the most scariest thing ever that i was dreading the entire day and when i did oh my god i was so proud of myself!! esp since i did it alone as well!)
𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 8) is not scared of being alone.
who cares? literally who cares? confident people know that no one cares. people look at you because they may be curious or just looking around, but then you don't stay in their mind all day, okay? other people couldn't care less and neither should u!
#agirlwithglam🎀✨#it girl energy#it girl#self improvement#becoming that girl#self love#girlboss#girlblog#girlblogging#self development#confidence#confidence tips#confidence mindset#self validation#confident girl#self confidence#self confidence tips#self growth#self care#self love tips#confident habits#levelling up#glow up#dream girl#dream life
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₊⊹⁀➴ princess-like beauty affs ⟡﹒⪩⪨ 👛

🌸 I’m literally the most prettiest person on the planet. people stare at me in awe because of how jaw droppingly delicious I look
🎀 my skin is always smooth, clear, and glowy asf. people literally mistake me for a mirror because of my pretty radiant skin
🌸 I am naturally the most attractive in the room, I don’t even have to try but I mog everyone even without makeup on
🎀I love how I can get lost in my face in the mirror bc im that pretty and cute, im so easy to stare at, im undeniably perfect
🌸 I have long luscious lashes and the most beautiful facial structure that makes me look like a living daydream, every part of me is captivating, uniquely sexy nd perfect
🎀 pretty privilege is a real thing and im having a blast, ppl cant say no to my pretty face and charm which allows me to attract any person i want, im spoiled like a princess
🌸 im extremely photogenic and look amazing in every single photo, like every photo naturally makes me look 100x more attractive
🎀 everyone is smitten over my beauty and everyone compares my face to that of a heavensent angel
#bunny’s dollette ♡#girlblogging#law of assumption#coquette#cute#dollygirl#hyper feminine#manifesting#pink pilates princess#sawako kuronuma#dream girl journey#affirmations#becoming that girl#that girl#becoming the best version of yourself#self improvement#dream self#dream life#pink blog#it girl energy#self concept#loassblog
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girl exorcism ⊹˚. ♡
cuz sometimes we all get a little off track and need to wake the fuck up again !!! 🫶🩷
──★ ˙ ̟🐰 physical! 🎀
have an everything shower
do ur whole skincare routine
brush ur teeth, floss, dental care
arrange a new workout routine
dance, pilates, exercise, move around
go on a walk and thrive in nature like a plant or a tree
find and try out some new cute hairstyles
pamper urself! face masks, spa day, etc.
get ur beauty sleep
change your bedsheets and pillowcases
clean your makeup brushes
go through all haircare, skincare, makeup, etc. products
organise and donate or throw out all of the clothes you don't wear or don't make you feel like your own dream girl
──★ ˙ ̟🎀 mental! 🧸
write down all your thoughts. every one.
write down all the problems in your life right now
have a mental breakdown over something tiny and let all ur emotions out by bursting into tears
write down what you want and go over your dreams and goals
read over or write out your highest self and everything about them
analyse your mindset at the moment
write what limiting beliefs you have
remember and remind yourself of your "why", keep it somewhere you can see
write down all your bad habits
write down some new habits to counteract them, become your best self and to work towards the future
vaunt and go on a huuuge rant to urself about how beautiful and perfect and amazing you are bc you literally are <3
──★ ˙ ̟💬 personal! 🎀
sweep your room
open the curtains
wipe down all your mirrors
dust down all surfaces
go through all ur clothes and chuck out or donate ones you don't wear
clean out under your bed !!!!!!!!
rearrange your shelves
get some new posters & wall prints
go through all of the books, movies, series, content you're consuming right now and choose new ones that align with ur highest self
──★ ˙ ̟🎀 digital! 🎧
go through ur following on every platform and delete everyone that makes you feel even remotely negative
uninstall a bunch of apps you don't need
install useful, helpful, purposeful apps
go on the hunt for accounts that make you laugh, happy, or confident
redecorate your home page
revamp your social medias (pinterest, tumblr, instagram, etc)
go through all your playlists and reorganise your music
delete all depressing songs and media
go through your contacts, rename, delete, etc
#do u guys like my funny title........#tell me u like my funny title#girlblogging#it girlism ୨𖹭୧#mental health#it girl#dream girl#pinterest girl#that girl#dream life#girly tumblr#girly stuff#girl therapy#girl things#girl thoughts#wonyoungism#girlhood#pink pilates princess#divine feminine#hyper feminine#hyperfemininity#song jia#wonyoung#thewizardliz#self growth#mental illness#it girl energy#becoming her#mental health awareness#health and wellness
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Become Your Best Version Before 2025 Masterlist
Hello! This is the Become Your Best Version Before 2025 masterlist. It’s a collection of all the posts from the series, gathered in one place to make it easier for you to access and follow along.
I hope you find it inspiring and helpful as you work towards becoming the best version of yourself!
Day 1: What Does Becoming Your Best Version Mean
Day 2: Understanding Yourself / Self-assessment
Day 3: Identifying Limiting Beliefs
Day 4: Identifying Your Core Values
Day 5: Setting SMART Goals That Actually Stick
Day 6: Creating Your Personal Mission Statement
Day 7: Building Better Habits
Day 8: Mastering Time Management
Day 9: Auditing Your Relationships
Day 10: Mastering Your Emotions
Day 11: Taking Care of Your Body
Day 12: Stress Management
Day 13: Financial Planning and Budgeting
Day 14: Career and Purpose
Day 15: The Power of Self-Talk
Day 16: Digital Detox and Mindful Living
Day 17: Decluttering Your Life
Day 18: Creating Healthy Boundaries
Day 19: Self-Care Rituals That Actually Stick
Day 20: Building Confidence
Day 21: Overcoming Fear & Self-Doubt
Day 22: Developing New Skills
Day 23: Personal Style & Self-Presentation
Day 24: Setting Up Progress Tracking Systems
Day 25: Designing Your Accountability Plan
Day 26: Personal Development Tools and Resources
Day 27: Hobbies & Passion Projects
Day 28: How to Keep Yourself Motivated
Day 29: Prioritizing Yourself and Your Needs
Day 30: Creating Your Vision for 2025
Day 31: The Beginning of Your Best Year Yet
*** Divider Credit: @thecutestgrotto ***
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CREATING AN INTENTIONAL WARDROBE



I. SETTING GOALS
IDENTIFY YOUR STYLE. You don’t have to look through the list of different aesthetics, nor do you have to name it, but at least have a way in which you could explain it in a sentence.
If you’re someone who is a bit on the fence with their fashion identity, I would start with a ‘base’ aesthetic that you like then start building your own on top of it over time. Think boho, streetwear, y2k, classy etc.
CONSIDER YOUR LIFESTYLE. I don’t think its a great idea to go buy a fancy dress for a hypothetical event which may not ever happen. You have to think about what you’re doing on a daily basis, and which staples will be worn to their full extent.
If you’re a very active person, I would invest into activewear or clothes that resemble it. If you’re someone who’s attending university, I would invest into casual cute basics but also smart staples for networking events.
So in a way, don’t buy clothes for your fantasy self or events. I do understand that wearing clothes that our higher self would wear can close the gap between us and the, however material things don’t mean anything when it comes to that.
SET A GOAL. Your goal can be anything when it comes to fashion. You could also have multiple goals. Here are some ideas for goals which may speak to you!
Investing into high quality pieces
Having less but wearing them more.
Increased confidence
Developing personal style
Having a versatile collection
Comfortable yet stylish.
There is a lot more goals that you may have came up with by yourself, but this is just to get you started. I recommend just having one goal and really honing down into it, is a lot better in this aspect.
II. INSPIRATION + PLANNING
CREATE YOUR DREAM WARDROBE, whether digitally or physically. Pinterest is a great place to start, and you can create collages now. Or, you may choose to create a beauty binder which consists of outfits that you like.
One thing I will add on to this, is to add in people who look like you or just don’t show their faces at all. Attractive and fit people can make most outfits look good, and you may be influenced by that, even if it's not going to be flattering on you (considering colours, shape, texture etc).
LOOK AT THE CONSISTENCY, which colours were you drawn to the most, did you favour any patterns, are there any pieces which showed up repeatedly? Look for any consistency throughout the outfits.
TAKE NOTES !
Colours: Did you lean towards lighter/darker colours, were there any colours that showed up repeatedly, patterns that you gravitated to?
Silhouettes: Were the clothes flowy and light, or fitted and shaped the body?
Minimalism: Were the clothes simple and straight to the point, or were they maximalist and boasting personality?
Alignment: Does the outfits match the lifestyle that you have and the one that you want?
Staples: What articles of clothing showed up repeatedly?
You don’t have to write it down, however I would make a mental note of all these details in your dream wardrobe.
III. DEALING WITH YOUR CURRENT WARDROBE
LIMIT AS MUCH WASTE AS YOU CAN. More of a disclaimer, than a tip, but you don’t have to throw away everything just to replace everything. A lot of clothes that are in good condition can either be upcycled or have another purpose.
SORT CLOTHES INTO THREE PILES. Keep, potential or donate. Keep are clothes that align with all of your goals, potential are clothes that are almost there and may need some tweaking and donating is for clothes that you feel misaligned with.
That being said, don’t keep clothes that you know will collect dust in your closet if you have no intention of repurposing them. You could give them away to your friends, a facebook buy nothing group, if it's really good quality and in good condition then consider reselling it on depop or vinted. It's still wasteful when you’re not using it.
Before deciding anything, actually wear them instead of evaluating them on a hanger. Hangers can make clothes look worse or better depending, but the only way to find out if you like it, is to try it on.
IDENTIFY WHAT'S MISSING. From the clothes that you have left, see if there’s anything in your dream wardrobe that you don’t have in your closet. I’m not a big fan of ‘filling gaps’ in closets, so I would avoid purchasing statement pieces to fill that gap, just focus on staples that, considering your lifestyle, will wear.
Make a list of all of these items, and try to eliminate any pieces of clothing which wouldn’t be staples in your life.
IV. BEING INTENTIONALLY FASHIONABLE
CREATE YOUR OWN COLOUR PALETTE, I dislike the colour theory for people or colour seasons, just because you may not feel confident in the colours that are ‘best suited’ for you. However, I do love the idea of having your own personal palette that you gravitate towards.
I would recommend having 1 dark colour, 1 neutral colour and 2-3 accent or statement colours (depending on your style). My current palette is navy, grey, pastel pink, pastel blue and pastel yellow.
This does not mean you only buy clothes in that colour, it just means that its easier to curate your wardrobe with pieces that you love and do wear. I do wear colours outside of my palette, but I do favour those colours when looking for new clothes.
AVOID ULTRA FAST FASHION. I’m talking about SHEIN, temu, alibaba or aliexpress. I know the cheap prices seem enticing, but their clothes will fall apart after some time and it's just not sustainable in the long term. Save your money and buy from places which you know will last.
Other fashion stores are fast fashion (just not to the extent of the ones listed above), so I would still be very intentional about what I’m buying from them. Reminder, expensive does not equate to being sustainable.
AVOID MICROTRENDS. If you do feel that a trend speaks to you, then go for it, but otherwise I would not give in. You’re buying clothes that are misaligned to you, so you waste money, and then when that trend inevitably dies out, you have a reason to throw it out. It's an endless cycle, don’t give in.
One trend which I will never give into, has to be baggy jeans. Baggy jeans are really unflattering on my curves, no matter the waist. While they’ve definitely had a decline recently, when I was in year 7, it seemed that was all that everyone was wearing but I just couldn’t get into it.
LEARN HOW TO TAILOR CLOTHES. It is not a given that all clothes regardless of your size, will fit right. Just because something doesn’t fit you properly, doesn’t mean you have to throw it away or put it back on the rack.
Personally, I’ve lost a bit of weight over my high school years, so a lot of clothes that used to fit me, become a bit loose on my body. I found it unflattering, so I learnt how to do the basics of hand sewing to make clothes fit me the best.
Learning how to tailor could also help in upcycling clothes that have potential. There’s a lot of basic clothes out there, which just need subtle changes to elevate the whole article. Plus, you’re saving money!
HAVE A SIGNATURE ELEMENT. Something personal to you that expresses yourself without having to say anything. It could be a certain type of jewellery, a bag, a colour, pattern etc. Its just something nice, but not essential for those who are constantly experimenting.
V. SHOPPING MINDFULLY
KEEP IN MIND YOUR PALETTE. For me, being experimental with so many colours ends up with too many fashion failures. I do buy outside of that palette, but only if I know for a fact that I will wear it (not just once) and I do feel like it aligns with me regardless of the colour.
Even with that, I’m still very likely to put back anything which is not my palette. As much as I do like experimenting, I find security knowing that I do like my clothes and I will wear them.
PURCHASE INTENTIONALLY. Even if something fits your palette, it may not be something that you will wear or style. Always ask yourself questions when shopping, and if you’re not all in, I would put it back.
Does it tick all of your boxes according to your dream wardrobe? Do you see yourself wearing it next year? (trends, body changes, lifestyle changes), can you style it with the wardrobe you have now?
CREATE A WISHLIST. Create a list of all the clothes that you want, regardless of any questions or palette. However, these clothes will have to sit on that list for at least a month. If you still find yourself wanting it, then you can permit yourself to purchase it. If not, you’ve just avoided a regretful purchase.
If you would like to shop in person, I would still create a list when I go out then only purchase items that resemble what’s on my list.
VI. MAINTENANCE
REGULARLY CLEAN. If you have a shelving system, at least bi-monthly I would take out all of my clothes and wipe down all surfaces in my closet. If you have a hanging rack instead, I would still wipe it down because of dust accumulation.
ORGANISE. Whatever system works best for you, keeps your clothes easily identifiable at a glance and it's neat, I would use it. Utilise hangers and baskets to help your wardrobe if needed.
Learn how to fold your clothes nicely yet easy to pick out what you want. Its such a small thing, but I do believe it will improve the quality of daily life as you don’t have to scavenge for what you want.
DECLUTTER BIANNUALLY. Whatever time of the year works best for you, then do it. Turn your wardrobe upside down to see if there’s anything that misaligns with you. Overtime as you declutter, you should be donating less stuff if you’re practicing intentional shopping habits. WASH YOUR CLOTHES AS INSTRUCTED. Washing your clothes properly will extend their lifespan, unfortunately, just throwing them all in the wash isn’t actually beneficial. Read the care labels on each of your clothes and use them.
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it’s evident i’m getting way too comfortable with y’all
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2025 : #1 be disciplined

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Motivation feels amazing, doesn’t it? It’s like a spark—a burst of energy that pushes you forward. But what happens when the spark fades? That’s where discipline steps in. It’s the routine you build, the habits you cultivate, and the consistency you stick to even on days you don’t feel like it.
So, instead of waiting to feel ready, discipline says, ‘Let’s go, regardless.’ It’s the engine that turns dreams into reality.
"Ask urself right now: What’s one thing I can commit to daily in 2025? Write it down. Small steps lead to giant leaps."
1.Building Your Disciplined
How do u stay disciplined? Start with these three small steps:
✒️.Growth is not supposed to feel good. You’re going to hate it. You’ll feel like quitting more times than you can count. That’s normal. Growth is built in the moments where you want to give up but don’t.
1. Create Clear Goals: Be specific. Instead of saying, ‘I’ll study more,’ say, ‘I’ll study history for 30 minutes every evening.’ BUY A SMALL NOTEBOOK AND WRITE ALL UR GOALS WITH SMALLER ONE TO BE MORE PRODUCTIVE
2. Track Progress: Whether it’s journaling or using an app, tracking helps you stay accountable.
3.Master Your Mindset: Stop waiting to "feel motivated." Understand that motivation is fleeting, but discipline is reliable. Every time your brain tells you to quit, remind yourself: your emotions don’t run the show—your goals do.
2.Excuses Are Lies
Excuses are lies you’ve sold yourself to stay comfortable. 'I’m too tired.' Lie. 'I don’t have time.' Lie. 'I’m just not motivated.' Biggest lie of all.
Here’s the truth: You’re scared. Scared of failure, scared of discomfort, scared of how much effort it takes to change. But let me tell you something: Fear is temporary. Regret is forever. Which one do you want to live with?
No more excuses. You don’t need more time. You need more discipline. You don’t need motivation. You need action. Stop talking about what you want and start doing the work to get it. Right now.
3.look at yourself in the mirror
Look yourself in the mirror tonight and ask: Am I proud of the choices I made today? If the answer is no, fix it tomorrow. And if the answer is still no, fix it the next day. Don’t let yourself off the hook.
2025 isn’t your year unless you make it your year. Stop expecting change to happen to you. You are the change. Get out of your head, get off the couch, and get to work. The only thing standing between you and the life you want is your own laziness. Crush it.
4.Action Plan for a Disciplined Life
Stop acting like you’re doing enough when you know you’re not. If you want that dream college, that perfect GPA, or that career you keep fantasizing about, you need to stop wasting time and follow a real plan. Get up the second your alarm goes off—no snooze, no excuses. Tackle the hardest, most uncomfortable task first thing in the morning because procrastination is for quitters. Create a non-negotiable schedule and stick to it like your life depends on it, because it does. Eliminate every distraction: delete the apps, unfollow the nonsense, and stop treating your phone like your best friend. Hold yourself accountable—write down your progress every day. If you didn’t do anything to move forward, face the fact that you’re the problem. Plan your next day before you sleep, so you wake up ready to win, not wander. And for the love of everything you want in life, stop choosing comfort over progress. Your excuses won’t get you that GPA, that acceptance letter, or that dream job—but discipline will.
breaking this into chunks
1. Kill the Snooze Button: Get out of bed the moment your alarm goes off. No "just 5 more minutes." Those 5 minutes are the difference between starting strong and losing the day.
2. Start With the Hard Stuff: Tackle your most challenging task first thing in the day. Procrastination is your enemy—eat the frog and move on.
3. Create a Non-Negotiable Schedule: Block out specific times for studying, working out, or any critical task. Treat these blocks like appointments with your future self—don’t cancel.
4. Cut Out Time-Wasters: Delete apps you waste time on. Unfollow distractions. If you spend hours scrolling or binge-watching, you’re digging your own grave.
5. Build Accountability: Tell someone your goals and have them call you out when you slack. Better yet, make it public—you’ll hate embarrassing yourself in front of others.
6. Track Progress Daily: Write down everything you’ve done that day to move closer to your goals. If you haven’t done anything, face the hard truth: you’re slacking.
7. Plan Tomorrow Tonight: Before you go to bed, write out your next day’s schedule. If you wake up without a plan, you’ve already lost.
8. Say No to Comfort: Skip the cozy excuses. If it’s not pushing you closer to your goals, it’s holding you back.
Discipline is the foundation of every success story. It’s not about luck, talent, or fleeting motivation—it’s about showing up, doing the hard work, and making the right choices every single day. If you want to achieve your dreams, you need to stop waiting for the perfect moment and start building habits that get you closer to your goals. Cut the excuses, own your failures, and take control of your life. The road to greatness isn’t easy, but every sacrifice, every uncomfortable moment, and every disciplined action will take you one step closer to the future you deserve. You either make it happen, or you watch someone else do it. The choice is yours. The clock is not waiting for u !
@bloomzone ✒️
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