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[bloomzone]

2025 : #1 be disciplined

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Motivation feels amazing, doesn’t it? It’s like a spark—a burst of energy that pushes you forward. But what happens when the spark fades? That’s where discipline steps in. It’s the routine you build, the habits you cultivate, and the consistency you stick to even on days you don’t feel like it.

So, instead of waiting to feel ready, discipline says, ‘Let’s go, regardless.’ It’s the engine that turns dreams into reality.

"Ask urself right now: What’s one thing I can commit to daily in 2025? Write it down. Small steps lead to giant leaps."

1.Building Your Disciplined

How do u stay disciplined? Start with these three small steps:

✒️.Growth is not supposed to feel good. You’re going to hate it. You’ll feel like quitting more times than you can count. That’s normal. Growth is built in the moments where you want to give up but don’t.

1. Create Clear Goals: Be specific. Instead of saying, ‘I’ll study more,’ say, ‘I’ll study history for 30 minutes every evening.’ BUY A SMALL NOTEBOOK AND WRITE ALL UR GOALS WITH SMALLER ONE TO BE MORE PRODUCTIVE

2. Track Progress: Whether it’s journaling or using an app, tracking helps you stay accountable.

3.Master Your Mindset: Stop waiting to "feel motivated." Understand that motivation is fleeting, but discipline is reliable. Every time your brain tells you to quit, remind yourself: your emotions don’t run the show—your goals do.

2.Excuses Are Lies

Excuses are lies you’ve sold yourself to stay comfortable. 'I’m too tired.' Lie. 'I don’t have time.' Lie. 'I’m just not motivated.' Biggest lie of all.

Here’s the truth: You’re scared. Scared of failure, scared of discomfort, scared of how much effort it takes to change. But let me tell you something: Fear is temporary. Regret is forever. Which one do you want to live with?

No more excuses. You don’t need more time. You need more discipline. You don’t need motivation. You need action. Stop talking about what you want and start doing the work to get it. Right now.

3.look at yourself in the mirror

Look yourself in the mirror tonight and ask: Am I proud of the choices I made today? If the answer is no, fix it tomorrow. And if the answer is still no, fix it the next day. Don’t let yourself off the hook.

2025 isn’t your year unless you make it your year. Stop expecting change to happen to you. You are the change. Get out of your head, get off the couch, and get to work. The only thing standing between you and the life you want is your own laziness. Crush it.

4.Action Plan for a Disciplined Life

Stop acting like you’re doing enough when you know you’re not. If you want that dream college, that perfect GPA, or that career you keep fantasizing about, you need to stop wasting time and follow a real plan. Get up the second your alarm goes off—no snooze, no excuses. Tackle the hardest, most uncomfortable task first thing in the morning because procrastination is for quitters. Create a non-negotiable schedule and stick to it like your life depends on it, because it does. Eliminate every distraction: delete the apps, unfollow the nonsense, and stop treating your phone like your best friend. Hold yourself accountable—write down your progress every day. If you didn’t do anything to move forward, face the fact that you’re the problem. Plan your next day before you sleep, so you wake up ready to win, not wander. And for the love of everything you want in life, stop choosing comfort over progress. Your excuses won’t get you that GPA, that acceptance letter, or that dream job—but discipline will.

breaking this into chunks

1. Kill the Snooze Button: Get out of bed the moment your alarm goes off. No "just 5 more minutes." Those 5 minutes are the difference between starting strong and losing the day.

2. Start With the Hard Stuff: Tackle your most challenging task first thing in the day. Procrastination is your enemy—eat the frog and move on.

3. Create a Non-Negotiable Schedule: Block out specific times for studying, working out, or any critical task. Treat these blocks like appointments with your future self—don’t cancel.

4. Cut Out Time-Wasters: Delete apps you waste time on. Unfollow distractions. If you spend hours scrolling or binge-watching, you’re digging your own grave.

5. Build Accountability: Tell someone your goals and have them call you out when you slack. Better yet, make it public—you’ll hate embarrassing yourself in front of others.

6. Track Progress Daily: Write down everything you’ve done that day to move closer to your goals. If you haven’t done anything, face the hard truth: you’re slacking.

7. Plan Tomorrow Tonight: Before you go to bed, write out your next day’s schedule. If you wake up without a plan, you’ve already lost.

8. Say No to Comfort: Skip the cozy excuses. If it’s not pushing you closer to your goals, it’s holding you back.

Discipline is the foundation of every success story. It’s not about luck, talent, or fleeting motivation—it’s about showing up, doing the hard work, and making the right choices every single day. If you want to achieve your dreams, you need to stop waiting for the perfect moment and start building habits that get you closer to your goals. Cut the excuses, own your failures, and take control of your life. The road to greatness isn’t easy, but every sacrifice, every uncomfortable moment, and every disciplined action will take you one step closer to the future you deserve. You either make it happen, or you watch someone else do it. The choice is yours. The clock is not waiting for u !

@bloomzone ✒️

[feminineenergylife]

More Dark Femme Affirmations to Level UP

[liviawildrose]

𝐡𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐨𝐭

since i’m getting my first-ever tarot deck, i decided to go deep into its history, its power, and all the ways it can change your life. if you’re curious about tarot whether as a beginner or someone already deep in the craft this is everything you need to know.

the history of tarot (aka how the cards found us)

the tarot didn’t originally start off as some mystical tool of divination. it actually began as a playing card game in the 1400s in europe mainly italy and france. it was called tarocchi in italian and was mostly for the rich elites to flex their money. the cards were hand-painted, luxurious, and honestly more bougie than magical at first.

the deck had suits like swords, cups, wands, and pentacles (sound familiar?), plus the trump cards which we now know as the major arcana. these cards eventually started to carry deeper symbolic meanings, often based on christian, pagan, and astrological influences.

fast forward to the 18th century and shit got esoteric. a bunch of mystics, occultists, and secret societies (like the hermetic order of the golden dawn) started connecting tarot to kabbalah, alchemy, astrology, numerology, and the “hidden knowledge” of the universe. that’s when tarot stopped being a game and started becoming a spiritual tool. people believed the cards were connected to the akashic records, the collective unconscious, and were essentially a mirror to the soul.

1300s: the pre-tarot era (a little mysterious, a little cloudy)

this is where the tarot vibe starts to bubble, but the actual cards aren’t here yet. people across europe, especially in italy, spain, and france, were playing with basic playing cards brought in from the islamic world via trade routes. these decks had four suits (like our modern hearts, clubs, etc.) and originated from mamluk cards from egypt.

these early playing cards were often seen as symbols of gambling and pleasure, but their popularity exploded in both the courts of the wealthy and the streets. divination wasn’t part of the picture yet, but the archetypes (like kings, queens, knights) were already starting to form.

1400s: the birth of tarot as a game (italy goes off)

welcome to the renaissance, baby. this is where the first tarot decks appear—not as a spiritual tool but as a luxury game called trionfi or tarocchi. these decks were made for the elite, often hand-painted, and used in a trick-taking card game (a bit like bridge).

notable decks:

• Visconti-Sforza tarot (mid-1400s): the OG tarot deck. commissioned by the Duke of Milan’s family. 78 cards, including the major arcana we know today (like the fool, death, the lovers, etc.). it wasn’t mystical yet but the symbolism was rich.

these decks were basically rich people flexes status symbols more than spiritual tools. but their illustrations were deeply allegorical, reflecting virtues, vices, astrology, and classical philosophy.

the aesthetic was already witchy.

1500s: the spread begins (and the church side-eyes)

tarot starts spreading across europe, especially france and switzerland. it’s still a card game, but now it’s catching the eyes of mystics, philosophers, and eventually the church, who starts calling it “the devil’s game” because… drama.

the iconography of the cards (especially death, the devil, the tower) made people nervous. some players began attaching superstitions and local folk beliefs to the cards, especially in more rural areas.

divination was still not officially a thing, but seeds were being planted.

the church’s war on tarot – demonic or divine?

• the catholic church labeled tarot as demonic, especially during the inquisition.

• the devil card in tarot was often cited as proof that tarot was satanic.

• in the 15th century, some places banned tarot readings, linking them to witchcraft and heresy.

• but here’s the twist: some say the church itself used tarot in secret, especially in gnostic and esoteric sects that hid forbidden knowledge from the masses.

1700s: the mystics take over (aka the esoteric awakening)

okay this is the era where tarot gets its magical glow-up.

• 1781: Antoine Court de Gébelin, a french occultist. he claimed tarot cards held the secret teachings of ancient egypt, hidden in plain sight. he believed tarot was a book of wisdom disguised as a game.

• he was delulu, but influential. his ideas shaped the future of tarot like crazy.

then comes Jean-Baptiste Alliette, aka Etteilla (his name backwards because… why not). he’s the first person to professionally read tarot and write a guide to using the cards for divination. he even designed the first tarot deck specifically for fortune telling in 1789.

this is when tarot shifts from game → divination tool. people are now pulling cards to connect with spirit, fate, the future, and the divine.

many women were executed or persecuted for divination, fortune-telling, or witchcraft and in those cases, if tarot had been part of their practice, it could’ve absolutely contributed to their persecution.

1400s–1700s: the witch hunt era (especially in europe)

this era saw thousands of women (and some men) being tortured and killed for anything vaguely “supernatural”:

• owning herbs

• practicing midwifery

• being single or widowed (yep)

• “talking to spirits”

• fortune-telling, palm reading, astrology

• even just being a little too confident or beautiful

so… if tarot had already been linked to divination in this era, it absolutely would’ve been used as evidence of witchcraft. but again, during the height of the witch trials (especially in salem or germany), tarot wasn’t yet widely used for mystical purposes.

romani women & persecution

a lot of romani (or “traveller”) women were powerful diviners who used playing cards and tarot-like imagery for readings. they were:

• exoticized by the rich

• blamed for crime

• feared by the church

• and often violently policed

they very likely used tarot or cartomancy in their work and many faced imprisonment, abuse, or worse.

• these women were doing divination, healing, and spiritual work LONG before any white men made it trendy.

• they used herbs, spirits, dreams, and yes, playing cards or early forms of tarot to give people guidance.

• they were demonized, sexualized, and burned alive.

• even when they were accurate, insightful, helpful? society didn’t care — they were seen as threats.

why did the men get away with it?

• privilege + education: men like Etteilla and de Gébelin were educated and seen as “respectable intellectuals,” not “dangerous witches.”

• misogyny: women’s magic was seen as emotional, chaotic, and demonic, while men’s mysticism was seen as scientific or philosophical.

• whitewashing: tarot’s magical history was sanitized by white european men who made it marketable for upper class europeans—meanwhile, the women who had been keeping the spiritual traditions alive for generations were cast out, imprisoned, or killed.

✨ men got to be called “esoteric scholars.” women got called “witches,” jailed, or murdered. ✨

1800s: occult tarot enters its dark feminine era

this century is when tarot becomes full-blown mystical, magical, and very extra.

• secret societies like the Hermetic Order of the Golden Dawn (yes, like something out of a court of thorns and roses) start incorporating tarot into their occult rituals.

• tarot gets fused with kabbalah, numerology, alchemy, astrology, and ancient mystery traditions. it’s no longer just about fortune telling—it’s about unlocking spiritual truth and tapping into cosmic knowledge.

big names:

• Eliphas Levi: french occultist who connects tarot with the Tree of Life from kabbalah and sees it as a book of universal symbols.

• Papus: writes occult books on tarot as a map of the soul.

1900s: tarot goes mainstream (the spiritual awakening era)

this century changes everything.

• 1909: Rider-Waite-Smith deck is born—created by Arthur Edward Waite (occultist) and Pamela Colman Smith (a black/mixed-race illustrator and absolute queen). this deck becomes the most iconic tarot deck of all time. it’s the one you probably see all over tiktok, tumblr, and pinterest.

this man was born in 1857 in Brooklyn, but moved to England when his dad died (classic tragic backstory).

• he was a mystic, scholar, and self-proclaimed occultist.

• waite was obsessed with all things hidden: the kabbalah, alchemy, divination, rosicrucianism, freemasonry, and… tarot.

• he didn’t just want to dabble, he wanted to decode the entire universe.

THE HERMETIC ORDER OF THE GOLDEN DAWN

aka: the occult secret society in the UK during the late 1800s.

this secret society:

• was founded in 1887.

• had three levels of initiation (mental, astral, and magical).

• dabbled in astrology, ritual magic, astral projection, angelic communication, and of course tarot.

waite’s role?

• he joined in the 1890s and eventually became a big-time ritualist there.

• but get this: he thought the society was too obsessed with actual magic and power rituals.

• waite wanted more ✨ “spiritual illumination” ✨ vibes.

• so he left and made his own thing: the Fellowship of the Rosy Cross in 1915 (more mellow, more meditative, still weird af).

THE RIDER-WAITE DECK ORIGIN STORY

so in 1909, waite teamed up with pamela colman smith (an absolute LEGEND) to make a tarot deck that was less fortune-teller-y and more mystical-symbolic-alchemical-kabbalistic.

he wanted tarot to reflect universal spiritual truths, not just give yes/no answers.

but here’s the story

• pamela was the artist behind all the cards, and waite was the “occult consultant”.

• she was also a golden dawn member and deeply intuitive.

• waite gave her the meanings/symbolism he wanted, and pamela channeled the rest.

and yet?

the deck was named:

• “Rider” = the publishing company

• “Waite” = the dude who gave the notes

• pamela? the girl who literally illustrated the ENTIRE FUCKING DECK? yeah, her name wasn’t even on the box.

make it make sense.

now we call it the Rider-Waite-Smith deck to honor her, but even now, people forget her name. (and yes, she was a bisexual jamaican woman who deserved a monument, not erasure.)

what makes it special:

• full illustrations on all 78 cards (not just major arcana).

• every symbol is intentional, magical, and layered.

• it’s easy to read intuitively, which made tarot way more accessible.

other major moments:

• 1970s-80s: tarot explodes during the new age movement. crystals, astrology, yoga, witchcraft everything’s trendy again.

• books, indie decks, and readers start showing up everywhere.

• feminism + queer culture start embracing tarot as a tool for healing, empowerment, and rebellion.

some believe tarot didn’t start in italy—it was secretly preserved knowledge from:

• ancient egypt → linked to the book of thoth, a mystical text said to contain the secrets of the universe.

• jewish kabbalah → the tarot’s 22 major arcana cards match the 22 paths of the tree of life.

• hermeticism & alchemy → tarot might’ve been used as a coded system to pass down hidden spiritual wisdom.

• witchcraft & divination → the church banned tarot in many places, saying it was used for communing with spirits.

so was tarot just a card game that became spiritual later? or was it always meant to be a powerful divination tool that was disguised as a game to survive religious persecution?

the structure of tarot cards & how they actually work

okay so let’s talk about tarot cards. like really talk.

not just the aesthetic side of it but the actual bones, spirit, and power of what this deck does. tarot isn’t just about “telling the future” it’s about unlocking the subconscious, channeling energy, and syncing with divine frequencies. it’s psychological, magical, intuitive, and energetic all at once.

a standard tarot deck: the breakdown

every tarot deck, no matter the theme, follows this same sacred structure:

• 78 cards total

• 22 major arcana

• 56 minor arcana

• broken into 4 suits: wands, cups, swords, pentacles

• each suit has 10 number cards (ace to ten) + 4 court cards (page, knight, queen, king)

the major arcana: the fool’s journey

these 22 cards represent the big, life-shifting energies. fate. transformation. spiritual evolution. each card is like a major chapter in your soul’s growth we’re talking divine awakenings, tower moments, karmic cycles, shadow work, rebirths.

starts with 0 - the fool (new beginnings, divine trust)

ends with 21 - the world (wholeness, soul completion)

together, they tell a story called the fool’s journey basically your higher self going through all levels of awakening. when a major arcana card shows up in a reading, it’s like the universe screaming, “hey babe, something bigger is going on.”

the minor arcana: everyday energy

the other 56 cards zoom in on the day-to-day stuff your feelings, situations, interactions, thoughts, and choices. they’re like the scene-by-scene details in your life’s storyline.

they’re split into 4 suits:

wands – fire – action, passion, drive

wands are the suit of energy, movement, and ambition. they rule creativity, personal projects, sexuality, and the pursuit of goals. when wands appear, they ask you to act, to ignite, to move. they carry that fiery essence of spring new beginnings, budding desires, and the push to birth something new into the world. this suit is bold, impulsive, and alive.

zodiac associations: aries, leo, sagittarius.

cups – water – emotions, love, intuition

cups are all about the heart. they speak of love, friendship, intuition, and emotional undercurrents. when cups show up, they’re pointing to your feelings, relationships, dreams, or spiritual connection. they vibe with summer warmth, deep emotional bonds, and the fluidity of the soul.

zodiac associations: cancer, scorpio, pisces.

swords – air – thoughts, communication, conflict

swords slice through the bullshit. they represent the mind, truth, clarity, and sometimes, pain. this suit speaks of decisions, conflict, justice, anxiety, and intellectual power. swords are like the chill of autumn brisk, piercing, honest. they’re not afraid to tell you what’s up.

zodiac associations: gemini, libra, aquarius.

pentacles – earth – money, body, reality

pentacles ground you. they deal with your material world—money, home, health, career, and long-term stability. these cards are slow and steady, like the winter soil prepping to bloom. they remind you to invest wisely, nurture yourself, and build something that lasts.

zodiac associations: taurus, virgo, capricorn.

the court cards: people + energy types

each suit has four court cards:

• page = young energy, messages, learning something new

• knight = action, intensity, pursuit

• queen = internal mastery, nurturing power, wisdom

• king = external authority, control, success

they can represent:

• people in your life

• energies you’re embodying (or need to)

• different versions of yourself

• roles you’re stepping into

etc etc etc

here’s what happens when you read tarot:

• you’re not just pulling cards — you’re tapping into your energy field and subconscious

• tarot acts as a mirror, reflecting your current vibration + emotional state

• the deck connects with your higher self + spirit guides

• the cards show you the probable path you’re on, based on your energy right now

“aka, tarot isn’t fixed fate. it’s quantum possibility.

pulling a card doesn’t mean something will happen.

it means it’s likely to happen if your energy, choices, and direction stay the same.

but guess what? you can shift all that. the cards aren’t bossing you around. they’re showing you where the fuck you’re heading — so you can course correct, realign, or lean in harder.”

why tarot isn’t random: energy meets intention

when you shuffle your cards, your energy moves through your body and into the deck. the cards that fall out, flip over, or call to you? they’re aligned with your current vibration. they hold the message you’re meant to hear.

you’re syncing your intuition with divine signals your deck literally becomes your spiritual translator.

numerology + suits: the combo cheat sheet

you can decode the meanings of cards even deeper by understanding what numbers mean, across all suits:

ace – beginnings, potential, divine spark

ace is pure magic. it’s the seed, the idea, the emotional spark, the first whisper from the universe. every ace is like a portal opening raw potential begging to be shaped. when an ace drops, the message is clear: something new is being born. whether it’s love, a dream, a shift in mindset, or a fresh opportunity this is the cosmic green light.

two – duality, choice, connection

two is all about balance and decisions. it’s when energy meets another energy. the beginning was you, but now there’s someone or something else to consider. two is the mirror, the contrast, the crossroads. it often speaks of partnerships, internal debates, or emotional bonds forming. you’re no longer alone you’re responding, reflecting, deciding.

three – creation, growth, expansion

three is where things start to bloom. the decision has been made, the idea is moving, and now growth is happening. this is collaboration, teamwork, the first signs of success. it’s the universe saying, “okay, i see you, let’s take this to the next level.” three is joyful, creative, and full of forward motion.

four – foundation, stability, pause

four is solid. grounded. unmoving. it’s where things settle sometimes a good thing, sometimes a stuck thing. it represents structure, rest, and evaluation. in love, it can mean emotional security or boredom. in career, it’s a stable paycheck or a plateau. four asks you: are you building or are you stagnating?

five – chaos, change, challenge

five is the shake-up. this number is a mess sometimes—and that’s the point. it brings friction, competition, grief, loss, tension. but it also teaches. five is here to evolve you. it’s the breaking point, the wake-up call, the shadow. it says: what will you do when everything falls out of place?

six – harmony, healing, balance restored

six is the light after the storm. it’s love returned, help arriving, peace being made. it’s when the chaos softens and understanding flows. it’s nostalgia, kindness, balance. six shows you that you’re still held. it’s emotional restoration and karmic harmony. breathe again—this is the softness after the sharp edges of five.

seven – introspection, assessment, mystery

seven is spiritual. it’s the “pause and go within” number. it’s about evaluation, digging deeper, resisting temptation, or needing to trust your intuition. there’s often confusion with seven—but it’s a call to slow down and figure out what the hell you actually want. it’s the seeker, the lone wolf, the soul traveler.

eight – mastery, power, momentum

eight brings motion. you’ve learned the lessons, and now it’s time to do the damn thing. this number rules strength, authority, repetition, and control. it’s about putting in the work, whether that’s emotional effort, physical grind, or intellectual discipline. eight says: prove it. you have the tools. now use them.

nine – nearing the end, reflection, solitude

nine is a deep breath. it’s you, standing alone at the edge of everything you’ve built. there’s wisdom here, but also weariness. nine asks you to integrate, to sit with your growth and your wounds. in many decks, nine holds emotional maturity, inner light, and a call to protect your space. you’re almost there don’t quit now.

ten – completion, wholeness, closure

ten is the full circle. it’s where the story ends, and a new one is waiting. there’s reward, endings, legacy, sometimes even overwhelm. it can be fulfillment or collapse. it depends on the journey you’ve had. ten is both death and rebirth. when this number appears, something has run its course and you’re about to level up.

in short:

• tarot is an energetic tool, not a fortune cookie

• it helps you decode your present and navigate your future

• it speaks through archetypes, symbols, numbers, and elements

• when you bond with your deck and use it with pure intention, it will feel like your soul is talking back

this is your mirror. your journal. your spirit bestie. and it will show up for you every damn time.

direct energy grids + tarot: the hidden circuitry of fate

this might sound wild, but hear me out tarot is connected to energy fields, just like crystals, rituals, or sacred geometry. the earth has ley lines, which are energetic pathways running across the planet (think of them like spiritual wifi lines). many ancient sites like stonehenge and the pyramids are built directly on these.

when you read tarot especially in a sacred space, near crystals, or under moonlight you’re kind of plugging into this ancient, universal network of knowledge. tarot becomes a tool to navigate the grid. your cards can absorb, respond to, and reflect energies that are local, global, cosmic, ancestral, or even past life based.

tarot doesn’t exist in a vacuum. every card you pull is part of a much, much larger grid of energetic blueprints a multi-dimensional etheric map that you plug into the moment you shuffle your deck with intention.

energy grids are real. they’re ancient. think: the way ley lines pulse through earth, or how crystal grids hold vibrational frequencies. when you sit with tarot, light a candle, and pull cards, you’re aligning your intention with an invisible, cosmic WiFi that connects:

• your higher self

• the collective unconscious

• your guides + ancestors

• the timeline you’re currently vibrating on

• the timeline you’re meant to be on

every card is a node. every spread is a circuit. every intention you set is a frequency being broadcast.

this is why it’s so important to charge your space, cleanse your deck, and keep your energetic field protected. if your vibration is off or static, the signal gets fuzzy. the more clear, raw, and open you are, the stronger the alignment becomes. this is the secret sauce behind readings that feel so accurate it feels like you’re getting spiritually bitch-slapped.

what you can ask your deck (spoiler alert: almost anything)

you can ask tarot about literally everything. love, career, friendship drama, soul purpose, spiritual awakening, whether your crush is obsessed with you, if your manifestation is close, etc.

some fave categories:

• how someone feels about you

• what energy surrounds you right now

• what’s blocking you

• what you’re not seeing

• how to align with your highest timeline

• advice from your spirit team

• energy check-ins

• what you need to heal

• your future self’s message

• past life insight

• creative breakthroughs

• shadow work

• how to protect your energy

• signs, omens, and red flags

tarot is basically your higher self holding a mirror to you like “baby this is the vibe rn, don’t play yourself.”

what not to ask your tarot deck (especially when you’re just starting out)

some no-no’s or at least “be careful” zones:

• exact times/dates: time is fluid in the spirit world. tarot gives time frames, not deadlines. “what date will i get famous?” babes, the cards aren’t a damn clock. they speak in energy, seasons, and cycles. not google calendar.

• anything you already asked 3x in a row bc you didn’t like the answer (don’t test the deck like that, she’ll ghost you).

• asking for info about someone else without their permission (aka tarot spying—it can backfire). that’s manipulation. don’t make the spirits side-eye you. ahem ahem ahem rather ask “what kinda things he/she likes bahahahahaha” i partially hailey bieber understand guys

• stuff that would be better asked to a licensed pro (like medical or legal advice).

• questions that come from fear or desperation. tarot picks up on energy—if you’re panicking, the reading will reflect that chaos.

how to make your tarot deck your bestie

• introduce yourself to the deck. literally say hi.

• cleanse it when you get it. smoke, moonlight, sound, or intention.

• sleep with it under your pillow or beside you to bond.

• pull a card daily to start building trust + connection.

• keep it in a pouch or silk cloth, treat it like royalty.

• talk to it like it’s a friend, thank it after readings.

• journal every reading and reflect. it helps the connection deepen.

• charge it with crystals like rose quartz (for love energy), jade (for abundance), or prehnite (for divine connection and healing). amethyst too (for intuition) or clear quartz,

• use the deck with intention. don’t just play with it when you’re bored��respect the energy.

closing thoughts (aka chaos + cosmos)

someone on tumblr once told me to embrace chaos when reading tarot—and i felt that in my soul. tarot isn’t about knowing everything. it’s about dancing with the unknown, trusting the signs, reading between the lines, and using your magic to create the life you deserve.

it’s a ritual. it’s therapy. it’s manifestation. it’s storytelling. it’s shadow work. it’s self-love.

and now, it’s part of you.

[maxiglow]

be busy. busy not checking messages. busy reading those books you never started or finished. busy having a good night of sleep. busy taking care of yourself and your skin. busy moving your body. busy helping your community. busy reflecting on your life and what you can improve. busy doing things aside from the capitalistic viewpoint of “productivity.” busy slowing down.

[dvnlyguided]

[vulto-cor-de-rosa]

Tubbo's reaction to Dream saying people hate him because he used to play the villain on the DSMP is so real like you can see his soul leaving his body

[agirlwithglam]

things confident people do, part 1

𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 1) when someone compliments them, they say thank you.

WOAH mind-boggling right! they don't self depreciate themselves by going "no no im so ugly" or whatever, but they don't say something like "yeah i know." either. show your gratitude, but don't let it get to your brain.

𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 2) take care of themselves.

they make sure to show themselves just as much love as they show everyone else because they know they deserve it just as much as anyone else.

𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 3) they show up for themselves.

when they say something, they do it. when they want something, they work to get it. when you feel sad and hurt, you yourself should be the first person to come and support yourself.

𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 4) they walk and sit with good posture

confident people know that they don't shouldn't have to make themselves invisible for anyone. it may be scary at first to be walking around looking straight instead of hunched over, but just btw u look rly lame being hunched over. stand up girl.

𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 5) they take up space

because they know they are allowed to. they know they deserve it. why would they try to become smaller? for who are you doing that for? literally no one cares and it just looks pathetic. take up space honey, you're allowed to.

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𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 6) you like what you see in the mirror

when i look in the mirror, no matter how i look- whether im sweating and crusty musty dusty or even all glammed up- i always love myself. why? because i know that i am not what i look like. i know i am beautiful, but that is not the only admirable thing about me!

𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 7) do what scares the crap out of u!!

or basically, step outside your comfort zone. do things that the previous you wouldn't even think of doing, and do it proudly, and do it alone! (me for example, recently i did the most scariest thing ever that i was dreading the entire day and when i did oh my god i was so proud of myself!! esp since i did it alone as well!)

𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 8) is not scared of being alone.

who cares? literally who cares? confident people know that no one cares. people look at you because they may be curious or just looking around, but then you don't stay in their mind all day, okay? other people couldn't care less and neither should u!

[bunnysdollette]

₊⊹⁀➴ princess-like beauty affs ⟡﹒⪩⪨ 👛

🌸 I’m literally the most prettiest person on the planet. people stare at me in awe because of how jaw droppingly delicious I look

🎀 my skin is always smooth, clear, and glowy asf. people literally mistake me for a mirror because of my pretty radiant skin

🌸 I am naturally the most attractive in the room, I don’t even have to try but I mog everyone even without makeup on

🎀I love how I can get lost in my face in the mirror bc im that pretty and cute, im so easy to stare at, im undeniably perfect

🌸 I have long luscious lashes and the most beautiful facial structure that makes me look like a living daydream, every part of me is captivating, uniquely sexy nd perfect

🎀 pretty privilege is a real thing and im having a blast, ppl cant say no to my pretty face and charm which allows me to attract any person i want, im spoiled like a princess

🌸 im extremely photogenic and look amazing in every single photo, like every photo naturally makes me look 100x more attractive

🎀 everyone is smitten over my beauty and everyone compares my face to that of a heavensent angel

[prettieinpink]

CREATING AN INTENTIONAL WARDROBE

I. SETTING GOALS

IDENTIFY YOUR STYLE. You don’t have to look through the list of different aesthetics, nor do you have to name it, but at least have a way in which you could explain it in a sentence. 

If you’re someone who is a bit on the fence with their fashion identity, I would start with a ‘base’ aesthetic that you like then start building your own on top of it over time. Think boho, streetwear, y2k, classy etc. 

CONSIDER YOUR LIFESTYLE. I don’t think its a great idea to go buy a fancy dress for a hypothetical event which may not ever happen. You have to think about what you’re doing on a daily basis, and which staples will be worn to their full extent. 

If you’re a very active person, I would invest into activewear or clothes that resemble it. If you’re someone who’s attending university, I would invest into casual cute basics but also smart staples for networking events. 

So in a way, don’t buy clothes for your fantasy self or events. I do understand that wearing clothes that our higher self would wear can close the gap between us and the, however material things don’t mean anything when it comes to that. 

SET A GOAL. Your goal can be anything when it comes to fashion. You could also have multiple goals. Here are some ideas for goals which may speak to you!

Investing into high quality pieces

Having less but wearing them more. 

Increased confidence

Developing personal style

Having a versatile collection

Comfortable yet stylish. 

There is a lot more goals that you may have came up with by yourself, but this is just to get you started. I recommend just having one goal and really honing down into it, is a lot better in this aspect. 

II. INSPIRATION + PLANNING

CREATE YOUR DREAM WARDROBE, whether digitally or physically. Pinterest is a great place to start, and you can create collages now. Or, you may choose to create a beauty binder which consists of outfits that you like. 

One thing I will add on to this, is to add in people who look like you or just don’t show their faces at all. Attractive and fit people can make most outfits look good, and you may be influenced by that, even if it's not going to be flattering on you (considering colours, shape, texture etc). 

LOOK AT THE CONSISTENCY, which colours were you drawn to the most, did you favour any patterns, are there any pieces which showed up repeatedly? Look for any consistency throughout the outfits. 

TAKE NOTES !

Colours: Did you lean towards lighter/darker colours, were there any colours that showed up repeatedly, patterns that you gravitated to?

Silhouettes: Were the clothes flowy and light, or fitted and shaped the body? 

Minimalism: Were the clothes simple and straight to the point, or were they maximalist and boasting personality? 

Alignment: Does the outfits match the lifestyle that you have and the one that you want? 

Staples: What articles of clothing showed up repeatedly? 

You don’t have to write it down, however I would make a mental note of all these details in your dream wardrobe.

III. DEALING WITH YOUR CURRENT WARDROBE 

LIMIT AS MUCH WASTE AS YOU CAN. More of a disclaimer, than a tip, but you don’t have to throw away everything just to replace everything. A lot of clothes that are in good condition can either be upcycled or have another purpose. 

SORT CLOTHES INTO THREE PILES. Keep, potential or donate. Keep are clothes that align with all of your goals, potential are clothes that are almost there and may need some tweaking and donating is for clothes that you feel misaligned with. 

That being said, don’t keep clothes that you know will collect dust in your closet if you have no intention of repurposing them. You could give them away to your friends, a facebook buy nothing group, if it's really good quality and in good condition then consider reselling it on depop or vinted. It's still wasteful when you’re not using it. 

Before deciding anything, actually wear them instead of evaluating them on a hanger. Hangers can make clothes look worse or better depending, but the only way to find out if you like it, is to try it on. 

IDENTIFY WHAT'S MISSING. From the clothes that you have left, see if there’s anything in your dream wardrobe that you don’t have in your closet. I’m not a big fan of ‘filling gaps’ in closets, so I would avoid purchasing statement pieces to fill that gap, just focus on staples that, considering your lifestyle, will wear. 

Make a list of all of these items, and try to eliminate any pieces of clothing which wouldn’t be staples in your life. 

IV. BEING INTENTIONALLY FASHIONABLE

CREATE YOUR OWN COLOUR PALETTE, I dislike the colour theory for people or colour seasons, just because you may not feel confident in the colours that are ‘best suited’ for you. However, I do love the idea of having your own personal palette that you gravitate towards. 

I would recommend having 1 dark colour, 1 neutral colour and 2-3 accent or statement colours (depending on your style). My current palette is navy, grey, pastel pink, pastel blue and pastel yellow. 

This does not mean you only buy clothes in that colour, it just means that its easier to curate your wardrobe with pieces that you love and do wear. I do wear colours outside of my palette, but I do favour those colours when looking for new clothes. 

AVOID ULTRA FAST FASHION. I’m talking about SHEIN, temu, alibaba or aliexpress. I know the cheap prices seem enticing, but their clothes will fall apart after some time and it's just not sustainable in the long term. Save your money and buy from places which you know will last. 

Other fashion stores are fast fashion (just not to the extent of the ones listed above), so I would still be very intentional about what I’m buying from them. Reminder, expensive does not equate to being sustainable. 

AVOID MICROTRENDS. If you do feel that a trend speaks to you, then go for it, but otherwise I would not give in. You’re buying clothes that are misaligned to you, so you waste money, and then when that trend inevitably dies out, you have a reason to throw it out. It's an endless cycle, don’t give in. 

One trend which I will never give into, has to be baggy jeans. Baggy jeans are really unflattering on my curves, no matter the waist. While they’ve definitely had a decline recently, when I was in year 7, it seemed that was all that everyone was wearing but I just couldn’t get into it. 

LEARN HOW TO TAILOR CLOTHES. It is not a given that all clothes regardless of your size, will fit right. Just because something doesn’t fit you properly, doesn’t mean you have to throw it away or put it back on the rack. 

Personally, I’ve lost a bit of weight over my high school years, so a lot of clothes that used to fit me, become a bit loose on my body. I found it unflattering, so I learnt how to do the basics of hand sewing to make clothes fit me the best. 

Learning how to tailor could also help in upcycling clothes that have potential. There’s a lot of basic clothes out there, which just need subtle changes to elevate the whole article. Plus, you’re saving money!

HAVE A SIGNATURE ELEMENT. Something personal to you that expresses yourself without having to say anything. It could be a certain type of jewellery, a bag, a colour, pattern etc. Its just something nice, but not essential for those who are constantly experimenting.

V. SHOPPING MINDFULLY

KEEP IN MIND YOUR PALETTE. For me, being experimental with so many colours ends up with too many fashion failures. I do buy outside of that palette, but only if I know for a fact that I will wear it (not just once) and I do feel like it aligns with me regardless of the colour. 

Even with that, I’m still very likely to put back anything which is not my palette. As much as I do like experimenting, I find security knowing that I do like my clothes and I will wear them.

PURCHASE INTENTIONALLY. Even if something fits your palette, it may not be something that you will wear or style. Always ask yourself questions when shopping, and if you’re not all in, I would put it back. 

Does it tick all of your boxes according to your dream wardrobe? Do you see yourself wearing it next year? (trends, body changes, lifestyle changes), can you style it with the wardrobe you have now? 

CREATE A WISHLIST. Create a list of all the clothes that you want, regardless of any questions or palette. However, these clothes will have to sit on that list for at least a month. If you still find yourself wanting it, then you can permit yourself to purchase it. If not, you’ve just avoided a regretful purchase. 

If you would like to shop in person, I would still create a list when I go out then only purchase items that resemble what’s on my list.

VI. MAINTENANCE 

REGULARLY CLEAN. If you have a shelving system, at least bi-monthly I would take out all of my clothes and wipe down all surfaces in my closet. If you have a hanging rack instead, I would still wipe it down because of dust accumulation. 

ORGANISE. Whatever system works best for you, keeps your clothes easily identifiable at a glance and it's neat, I would use it. Utilise hangers and baskets to help your wardrobe if needed.

Learn how to fold your clothes nicely yet easy to pick out what you want. Its such a small thing, but I do believe it will improve the quality of daily life as you don’t have to scavenge for what you want.

DECLUTTER BIANNUALLY. Whatever time of the year works best for you, then do it. Turn your wardrobe upside down to see if there’s anything that misaligns with you. Overtime as you declutter, you should be donating less stuff if you’re practicing intentional shopping habits.  WASH YOUR CLOTHES AS INSTRUCTED. Washing your clothes properly will extend their lifespan, unfortunately, just throwing them all in the wash isn’t actually beneficial. Read the care labels on each of your clothes and use them.

[bloomzone]

2025 : #22 How to LOCK IN

✒️..You overwhelmed. u keep saying, "I need to get my life together," but you don’t even know where to start. That feeling being stuck in ur own head, paralyzed by everything and nothing at the same time it’s real ikr I've been there but there’s a way out of this messy shit is to locking in. Locking is when "u stop reacting, and you start creating" . You start showing up for yourself like you matter because you do but how .. ?

1. SET GOALS & INTENTIONS

Before anything else, you need direction. When life feels messy, it’s usually because you're reacting to everything instead of moving with purpose. So start with a pause. Ask yourself: What do I want my life to actually look like? Not in vague terms like "success" or "happiness" but specifically. What kind of mornings do you want? What kind of work fulfills you? What kind of people do you want around you? What does peace look like for you?

Now set intentions. An intention isn’t just a goal it’s a way of being. A goal says "I want to lose 10 pounds." An intention says "I want to treat my body like it matters." That's the difference. Intentions give your goals a soul. Write both down . This is your why and you're going to need it when things get hard then u will remember to keep u going

2. KILL DISTRACTIONS

When life feels messy, the first thing you have to do is quiet the noise. And I don’t mean just the literal noise . I’m talking about the mental clutter: endless scrolling, group chats with no purpose, random content you consume that makes you compare yourself to others (hear me out) All of it is stealing your focus. You can’t figure out your life if you’re constantly filling your brain with everybody else’s.

Start by auditing your digital life. What apps do you open as soon as you wake up? What’s constantly grabbing your attention but giving you nothing real back? If it doesn’t help you grow, if it doesn’t calm your mind, if it doesn’t fuel your creativity it’s time to let it go. At least for now. Silence can be uncomfortable at first, but within silence lives clarity. And clarity is the seed of change.

3. FLIP THE MENTAL SWITCH

This part is important as setting goals . If your life feels off track, you have to make a hard decision with yourself: Am I going to keep living like this, or am I going to do something about it? This is where you flip the switch. And flipping it means choosing to no longer accept a half-lived version of your life. It’s the moment where you say, "I’m tired of feeling behind. I’m done wasting time."

You might not know how to fix everything yet, but the decision to lock in is the beginning. This switch is an energy shift. It’s the point when you stop waiting for motivation, stop waiting to feel "ready," and decide that showing up is no longer optional. You become your own motivator. You stop asking, "Can I really do this?" and start saying, "Watch me." It’s about becoming unrecognizable to your past self, one action at a time

4. CONTROL YOUR SPACE

When your life feels messy, often your space reflects it ofc . Look around your room. Your desk. Your phone. Your inbox. Is it all chaos? Then your mind will be too. You don’t need to do a full makeover you just need to create order. Clean your room like you're clearing your head or like someone important will come in organize your stuff like you’re organizing your next move.

When your physical environment feels chaotic, it signals your brain that you’re not safe, not grounded, not focused. And that’s exhausting. You deserve a space that supports the person you want to become. Light a candle. Open a window. Get some sunlight in . Your space should be a place where change can happen. Because once your space feels clean and calm, your mind starts to follow.

4. FUEL YOUR BODY

You can’t lock in if you’re running on fumes. That foggy, tired, heavy feeling you’re carrying A lot of it is physical. You’re probably dehydrated. You’re probably not sleeping enough. You're probably surviving on caffeine and chips or whatever. And I get it when your mind is a mess, eating right and sleeping well feel impossible.

But your body is the machine that gets you out of this rut. If your body is crashing, your mind can’t focus. Your emotions spiral more easily. Start small: more water, less sugar. Stretch your body in the morning. Take deep breaths. Cook for urself , go outside. Move your body. Fuel it. Your energy and mental clarity will thank you. You don’t have to go from 0 to gym rat. You just have to treat your body like it matters.treat your body like how u will treat your child

5. FOCUS YOUR MIND

Right now, your thoughts are probably bouncing everywhere. You feel overwhelmed because your brain is trying to solve everything at once. But focus isn’t about doing everything. It’s about doing the next thing.

And to do that, you need clarity. You need to know what matters right now. not next week. not next year. right now. What’s one thing you can finish today that moves you forward? Is it doing laundry? Submitting an application? Journaling your feelings? Focus on that doing your homework ?. Give it all your attention. Turn ur phone off and pour into that one thing. Get used to being present. That’s what real focus feels like your full self showing up to a single task.

6. OWN YOUR TIME

When your life is a mess, time just slips through your fingers. Days go by and you don’t even know what you did. That stops now. You need to get intentional. Before bed, plan tomorrow. Write three things you want to accomplish. Block off your time, even if it’s just: wake up 1h before ur usual time , workout , cook breakfast... . It doesn’t have to be extreme. It just has to be deliberate.

Think of your time like currency. Once it’s spent, you don’t get it back. So don’t spend it on guilt, fear, overthinking, or distraction. Spend it on action. On healing. On building something that matters.

7. ALIGN SPIRITUALLY

Here’s the part no one talks about when you're in a mess: your soul is tired. U feel disconnected. You might not even remember what peace feels like. Locking in isn’t just about habits It’s also about realignment.

You are more than your productivity. You are more than your checklist. So pause. Sit with yourself. Be still. Breathe. Talk to God, the universe, your ancestors whatever u believe in , journal . Let your spirit speak too . Let your pain surface. Let yourself feel again. That’s where the answers you’re begging for will show up always have some minutes everyday whenever in the morning or night to sit and talk to urself and let everything out (negativity) .

8. EMBRACE DETACHMENT

Detachment isn’t about not caring it’s about caring from a place of peace not panic. When you’re locked in, you learn to release your grip on things you can’t control: people’s opinions, outcomes, and timing. You stop chasing, and instead, you start aligning. You don’t beg for energy, attention, or results you trust that what’s meant for you is flowing your way. The art of detachment is what keeps your power close. You give your best and focused, but you’re no longer shaken by what doesn’t go as planned. That’s is called control .To practice detachment, start by identifying what’s stressing you out or what you’re obsessing over ask yourself if it’s something you can change or if it’s beyond your control or out of it . Then, consciously let go of the attachment to that outcome or person. This doesn't mean you stop caring it means you trust that whatever happens is part of the journey and that it will all unfold as it’s meant to. You can practice detachment by shifting your focus back to what you can control your actions, your attitude, and your peace of mind. With time, detachment helps you remain calm, clear-headed, and more connected to your own path without being weighed down by the uncontrollable.

If your life feels messy, that doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means you’re being called to level up. To stop floating. To stop waiting for someone to save you. Locking in isn’t boring it’s freedom. It’s how you take back control. And once you feel that click you’ll never want to go back.have a good luck 🍀.

@bloomzone

[huellitaa]

girl exorcism ⊹˚. ♡

cuz sometimes we all get a little off track and need to wake the fuck up again !!! 🫶🩷

──★ ˙ ̟🐰 physical! 🎀

have an everything shower

do ur whole skincare routine

brush ur teeth, floss, dental care

arrange a new workout routine

dance, pilates, exercise, move around

go on a walk and thrive in nature like a plant or a tree

find and try out some new cute hairstyles

pamper urself! face masks, spa day, etc.

get ur beauty sleep

change your bedsheets and pillowcases

clean your makeup brushes

go through all haircare, skincare, makeup, etc. products

organise and donate or throw out all of the clothes you don't wear or don't make you feel like your own dream girl

──★ ˙ ̟🎀 mental! 🧸

write down all your thoughts. every one.

write down all the problems in your life right now

have a mental breakdown over something tiny and let all ur emotions out by bursting into tears

write down what you want and go over your dreams and goals

read over or write out your highest self and everything about them

analyse your mindset at the moment

write what limiting beliefs you have

remember and remind yourself of your "why", keep it somewhere you can see

write down all your bad habits

write down some new habits to counteract them, become your best self and to work towards the future

vaunt and go on a huuuge rant to urself about how beautiful and perfect and amazing you are bc you literally are <3

──★ ˙ ̟💬 personal! 🎀

sweep your room

open the curtains

wipe down all your mirrors

dust down all surfaces

go through all ur clothes and chuck out or donate ones you don't wear

clean out under your bed !!!!!!!!

rearrange your shelves

get some new posters & wall prints

go through all of the books, movies, series, content you're consuming right now and choose new ones that align with ur highest self

──★ ˙ ̟🎀 digital! 🎧

go through ur following on every platform and delete everyone that makes you feel even remotely negative

uninstall a bunch of apps you don't need

install useful, helpful, purposeful apps

go on the hunt for accounts that make you laugh, happy, or confident

redecorate your home page

revamp your social medias (pinterest, tumblr, instagram, etc)

go through all your playlists and reorganise your music

delete all depressing songs and media

go through your contacts, rename, delete, etc

[goddessinnerglow]

Become Your Best Version Before 2025 Masterlist

Hello! This is the Become Your Best Version Before 2025 masterlist. It’s a collection of all the posts from the series, gathered in one place to make it easier for you to access and follow along.

I hope you find it inspiring and helpful as you work towards becoming the best version of yourself!

Day 1: What Does Becoming Your Best Version Mean

Day 2: Understanding Yourself / Self-assessment

Day 3: Identifying Limiting Beliefs

Day 4: Identifying Your Core Values

Day 5: Setting SMART Goals That Actually Stick

Day 6: Creating Your Personal Mission Statement

Day 7: Building Better Habits

Day 8: Mastering Time Management

Day 9: Auditing Your Relationships

Day 10: Mastering Your Emotions

Day 11: Taking Care of Your Body

Day 12: Stress Management

Day 13: Financial Planning and Budgeting

Day 14: Career and Purpose

Day 15: The Power of Self-Talk

Day 16: Digital Detox and Mindful Living

Day 17: Decluttering Your Life

Day 18: Creating Healthy Boundaries

Day 19: Self-Care Rituals That Actually Stick

Day 20: Building Confidence

Day 21: Overcoming Fear & Self-Doubt

Day 22: Developing New Skills

Day 23: Personal Style & Self-Presentation

Day 24: Setting Up Progress Tracking Systems

Day 25: Designing Your Accountability Plan

Day 26: Personal Development Tools and Resources

Day 27: Hobbies & Passion Projects

Day 28: How to Keep Yourself Motivated

Day 29: Prioritizing Yourself and Your Needs

Day 30: Creating Your Vision for 2025

Day 31: The Beginning of Your Best Year Yet

*** Divider Credit: @thecutestgrotto ***

[liviawildrose]

𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐮𝐥𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐤𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐲 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐠𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝟏𝟎𝟏

listen up, pookie your kitty (yes, her) deserves to be treated like royalty. she works overtime for you, keeps you feeling good, and deserves top-tier maintenance. if you’ve ever wondered how to keep your girl fresh, healthy, and thriving, then sit back, grab some tea (preferably one that benefits her—more on that later), and let’s dive DEEP into the one and only guide you’ll ever need on vaginal health, hygiene, and overall reproductive wellness.

taking care of your kitty isn’t just about hygiene, it’s about honoring your femininity, connecting with your body, and embracing your divine energy. when she’s healthy, fresh, and balanced, you feel more confident, radiant, and in tune with yourself. a well-cared-for kitty enhances your sensuality, self-love, and overall well-being, making you feel empowered in your femininity. it’s an act of self-respect and self-care, a ritual that reminds you that your body is sacred. when you nurture her, you’re not just maintaining hygiene, you’re cultivating a deeper connection with your womanhood and stepping into your most powerful, feminine self.

1. internal care: what you put in is what you get out.

your kitty is a self-cleaning queen, but she still needs your help to stay in her best shape. what you consume directly affects her smell, taste, moisture, and overall health. let’s break it all down:

🎀 water is your bestie

first things first “drink your damn water, babygirl.” if your kitty has ever smelled a little “off,” felt dry, or just hasn’t been vibing right, chances are you’re dehydrated. dehydration leads to:

• stronger vaginal odors (not the good kind)

• increased risk of infections

• dryness and discomfort

how much should you drink? at LEAST 2-3 liters a day. and if you struggle with drinking plain water, add:

• lemon (helps balance pH)

• cucumber (hydrating AF)

• mint (cooling & refreshing)

🎀 lemon water = ph queen

starting your day with warm lemon water is a game changer. why?

• it flushes out toxins

• it helps balance your vaginal pH (prevents infections, odors, and irritation)

• it keeps your skin glowing (bonus win)

make it a daily ritual, and your kitty will thank you.

🎀 tea time = kitty care time

certain teas work wonders for your vaginal health. here are some of the best ones:

• ginger tea → reduces inflammation, fights infections

• red raspberry leaf tea → strengthens the uterus, great for periods

• chamomile tea → reduces bloating & period cramps

• green tea → full of antioxidants, helps with vaginal odor

sip on these daily and watch the magic happen.

🎀 probiotics: the real MVPs

your vagina needs good bacteria to stay healthy, and probiotics help maintain that delicate flora balance. if you’re prone to yeast infections, BV, or UTIs, adding probiotics to your routine is non-negotiable

best probiotic sources:

• greek yogurt (plain, no added sugar!)

• kimchi & sauerkraut

• kombucha

• probiotic supplements

🎀 best food for your kitty

pineapple

watermelon

strawberries & berries

coconut water

citrus fruits (oranges, lemons, limes, grapefruits)

plain yogurt (probiotic-rich foods)

cucumber

celery boosts pheromones and gives a clean, light scent.

ginger & mint.

pheromones are natural chemical signals your body releases that can subconsciously attract others and enhance your sensual presence. they play a huge role in sexual attraction, confidence, and even how people perceive you. the more balanced and active your pheromone production, the more naturally alluring, magnetic, and desirable you become.

foods to limit or avoid (can cause strong or unpleasant odors)

asparagus

onions & garlic

red meat

too much dairy

excess sugar & processed foods

alcohol & coffee

2. external care: keep her fresh & clean (but not TOO clean)

your kitty is a self-cleaning goddess, which means less is more when it comes to washing. over-cleansing, using harsh soaps, or douching = disaster. let’s talk about how to properly care for her.

🎀 washing: gentle, gentle, gentle

• use only warm water to wash your vulva (external area)

• if you need a cleanser, pick one that is pH-balanced and fragrance-free

• never wash inside your vagina (she cleans herself)

avoid:

• anything scented (no bath bombs, no perfumes, no harsh soaps)

• douching (throws off your pH and causes infections)

🎀 menstrual care: keep it fresh

your period is not dirty, but you need to maintain proper hygiene:

• change your pads/tampons every 3-4 hours

• if using a menstrual cup, sterilize it before and after each cycle

• wear breathable cotton underwear during your period

• drink iron-rich teas and foods to replenish nutrients

during your period, your body is already working hard to clean itself, so you don’t need to scrub down excessively. instead:

wash with lukewarm water & a gentle pH-balanced cleanser

avoid harsh soaps, fragrances, or douching — these strip your natural protective bacteria, making you prone to infections.

if you need a quick refresh, use unscented, pH-balanced feminine wipes (no alcohol, no fragrance!)

pads & tampons – change every 4-6 hours to prevent bacteria buildup. leaving them in too long can cause bad odors, irritation, and even infections.

menstrual cups – empty every 8-12 hours, wash with mild, unscented soap, and boil between cycles for proper hygiene.

drink 2-3L of water daily – helps flush out toxins and reduces bloating.

eat fresh fruits (pineapple, watermelon, oranges) – these keep your kitty’s natural scent light & sweet.

take probiotics (yogurt, kimchi, kombucha) – maintain a healthy vaginal pH & prevent yeast infections.

avoid too much caffeine, alcohol & processed foods – these can make you smell stronger and increase cramps.

drink herbal teas (ginger, chamomile, raspberry leaf) – these help relax muscles & ease cramps.

do light movement (yoga, stretching, walking) – keeps blood flowing & reduces bloating.

apply a warm compress or heating pad – this soothes your uterus & relieves pain.

take magnesium & vitamin B6 – these reduce cramps & mood swings.

cut down on salt & sugar – excess sodium & sugar make bloating & cramps worse.

🎀 underwear game: cotton only, babes

ditch the synthetic panties and switch to 100% cotton. why?

• it’s breathable

• reduces sweat buildup

• prevents yeast infections

also, sleep without underwear when possible, let your kitty breathe. (i don’t wear at home at all lol)

🎀 yoni steams: ancient but powerful

yoni steaming is an old practice that helps:

• cleanse the vagina and uterus

• balance hormones

• improve circulation

• relieve menstrual cramps

how to do it:

1. boil water and add herbs like mugwort, lavender, and rosemary.

2. sit over the steam (like a chair with a hole or squat over it but please don’t burn yourself, pookie).

3. let the steam cleanse and refresh your kitty for 15-20 minutes.

subliminal for yoni (listen whenever possible)

3. maintaining, tightness & strength

a strong kitty = better bladder control, better sex, and a healthier reproductive system. let’s talk about keeping her snatched and healthy.

🎀 kegels = tight & right

doing kegels daily helps with:

• stronger orgasms

• bladder control

• postpartum recovery

how to do it:

• squeeze your pelvic muscles (like you’re stopping pee)

• hold for 5-10 seconds

• repeat 10-15 times

do this every day, and you’ll notice a difference.

how to do kegels exercises?

pelvic exercises for women

🎀 waxing, shaving, or au naturel?

how you groom is completely your choice, but here’s the tea:

• waxing → lasts longer, reduces ingrown hairs

• shaving → quick but can cause irritation

• lasering → best long-term option, reduces hair permanently

• natural → totally fine but at least trim it time to time and clean it nicely to avoid any odour or infection

🎀 wipes: do we love them?

YES—but only the right ones.

• fragrance-free

• pH-balanced

• alcohol-free

use them after sex, gym sessions, or when you need a quick refresh.

4. sex & post-sex care: protect, cleanse, and glow

listen up, pookie—what happens in the bedroom affects your kitty’s health. whether you’re getting spicy on the regular or once in a blue moon, proper aftercare is a MUST. neglecting this step can lead to infections, irritation, or discomfort, and we don’t want that, do we?

always, ALWAYS pee after sex

i don’t care if you’re tired, cuddly, or just feeling lazy—get up and pee. this flushes out bacteria that might have entered your urethra, preventing UTIs (urinary tract infections).

wash her up (gently)

• rinse your vulva (external area) with warm water

• if needed, use a mild, fragrance-free cleanser

• pat dry with a soft towel—don’t rub! (also keep a separate towel only for her) (her means your vagina)

does pineapple really change taste?

yes and no. diet does influence how you taste down there, but it’s not just about pineapple. your diet plays the biggest role in how you taste. the goal is to eat foods that are light, fresh, and naturally sweet.

• sweet, hydrating foods = milder, pleasant taste

• too much processed food & dairy = stronger, unpleasant odor

foods that help:

drink at least 2-3L of water daily – keeps your juices light, clear & fresh.

add lemon or cucumber to your water – natural detox, makes your fluids lighter & more neutral.

drink coconut water – packed with natural electrolytes & lightens your natural taste.

chlorophyll water = internal deodorizer – helps your kitty and cum stay fresh & clean.

pineapple, mango, strawberries, watermelon – these are nature’s candy and make your cum sweeter & fruitier.

oranges, lemons, grapefruit – full of vitamin C, which neutralizes strong odors.

apples, grapes, kiwis – naturally sweeten your fluids.

cinnamon, honey, vanilla – add natural warmth & sweetness to your juices.

cucumber & celery – high in water & help flush out toxins, keeping you light & clean-tasting.

mint & parsley – natural breath & body fresheners.

sweet potatoes & yams – help maintain a balanced, natural sweetness.

foods to limit:

onions & garlic or strong spices

too much red meat and processed

alcohol and coffee

excess dairy

🎀 protect your pH: condoms matter

raw is fun and all, but if you’re not in a committed, tested relationship, you NEED protection. unprotected sex can:

• throw off your vaginal pH

• increase risk of infections (BV, yeast, UTIs)

• expose you to STIs plus girl you don’t wanna get pregnant especially if you’re not committed

if condoms make you itchy or irritated, you might be allergic to latex switch to non-latex condoms instead.

5. infections & odor: keep things fresh & problem-free

let’s be real sometimes, your kitty acts up. you might notice a smell, unusual discharge, or irritation. this is your body talking to you pay attention!

what’s normal vs. not?

your vagina has a natural scent—it’s NOT supposed to smell like flowers, vanilla, or candy (despite what some brands try to sell you). HOWEVER, extreme changes in odor can be a sign of something off.

when to worry:

❌ fishy odor → bacterial vaginosis (BV)

❌ strong, foul smell → possible infection

❌ yeasty, bread-like smell → yeast infection

🎀 infections 101: yeast, BV, and UTIs

(please go see a gynaecologist)

yeast infections

• symptoms: itching, thick white discharge (like cottage cheese), redness

bacterial vaginosis (BV)

• symptoms: fishy smell, grayish discharge, irritation

urinary tract infections (UTIs)

• symptoms: burning when peeing, constant urge to go, lower belly pain

6. gym, sweat & hygiene: stay fresh all day

your kitty is working overtime when you’re sweating it out at the gym. here’s how to keep her fresh, dry, and happy:

🎀 gym tips for vaginal health

• wear breathable cotton underwear or moisture-wicking fabrics

• change out of sweaty clothes ASAP

• wipe down with pH-balanced wipes after workouts

• carry baby wipes for quick fresh-ups

7. pregnancy, birth control & hormones: long-term kitty care

your reproductive health is more than just hygiene. hormones, birth control, and pregnancy all play a role in vaginal health.

🎀 birth control & vaginal health

obviously there are so many different types of birth controls like hormonal birth controls like pills, shots, etc. even non-hormonal birth control like using of condoms, copper iud etc. all of them have their own set of advantages and disadvantages so please please please chat with your dermatologist which is well suited for your needs and body

🎀 pregnancy changes everything about your kitty—expect:

• increased discharge (normal, but should be clear/white) and even month long periods (my mom faced this)

• higher risk of yeast infections

• vaginal stretching (kegels help postpartum recovery!) ask your gynaecologist when to start cause possibly your vagina tears during parturition (delivery)

8. womb care

whether you’re planning to have kids one day or just want to keep your reproductive system strong and healthy, taking care of your kitty and womb right now is one of the best things you can do. think of it like preparing a garden: the healthier the soil (your body), the better the flowers (your future pregnancy and baby). even if you’re not sexually active yet, you can build a strong, fertile, and balanced reproductive system so that when the time comes, you have an easy, smooth pregnancy and a strong, healthy baby.

your hormones control everything. your period, ovulation, fertility, and even your mood. keeping them balanced now will make pregnancy much easier later.

eat hormone-balancing foods

• healthy fats: avocados, salmon, olive oil (support hormone production).

• leafy greens: spinach, kale, broccoli (flush out excess estrogen).

• seeds: flaxseeds, pumpkin seeds, sesame seeds (help regulate your cycle).

reduce stress

• high stress = high cortisol, which can mess with your fertility.

• try meditation, journaling, or long walks to calm your nervous system.

limit processed foods & sugar

• too much sugar can cause hormonal imbalances & irregular periods.

avoid plastic food containers & BPA

• these contain chemicals that mess with your hormones & fertility.

tip: try seed cycling (eating specific seeds during your menstrual cycle) to keep your hormones naturally balanced.

maintain a balanced vaginal pH (3.8-4.5)

• drink water with lemon to help detox & balance your system.

• take probiotics (yogurt, fermented foods, or supplements) to maintain good bacteria.

• avoid harsh soaps, scented products, & douching—these strip away natural protection.

practice proper menstrual care

• switch to organic pads or tampons (regular ones have chemicals that disrupt vaginal health).

• if using a menstrual cup, clean it properly to avoid infections.

protect your womb

• avoid sitting on cold surfaces for too long (cold affects circulation to your uterus).

• practice yoni steaming with gentle herbs like lavender, rosemary, & chamomile to cleanse your womb.

EAT FERTILITY-BOOSTING FOODS

• avocados → full of folate, which is essential for pregnancy.

• eggs → contain choline, which helps with baby brain development.

• berries (strawberries, blueberries, raspberries) → full of antioxidants that protect your eggs.

• walnuts & almonds → improve egg quality.

• leafy greens (spinach, kale, broccoli) → rich in iron & folate.

DRINK WOMB-FRIENDLY TEAS

• raspberry leaf tea → strengthens the uterus & prepares it for pregnancy.

• ginger tea → reduces inflammation & improves blood flow to your womb.

• nettle tea → full of minerals to keep your reproductive system strong.

AVOID FERTILITY-KILLERS

too much caffeine (it affects egg quality).

alcohol & smoking (lower fertility & harm future pregnancy).

too much processed food (affects your hormone balance).

START TAKING PRENATAL VITAMINS EARLY

prenatal vitamins aren’t just for when you’re pregnant—they help prepare your body years before conception.

folic acid (B9) → prevents birth defects & supports healthy eggs.

iron → prevents anemia & strengthens the uterus.

vitamin D → improves fertility & hormone balance.

omega-3s (DHA & EPA) → support baby’s brain & eye development.

final words: love your kitty, and she’ll love you back

babygirl, your kitty is a queen and deserves royal treatment. stay hydrated, balanced, and mindful, and she will always be fresh, tight, and healthy.

this guide? your new bible. bookmark it, re-read it, and share it with your besties. your kitty care era starts NOW.

[itsrlymine]

Ignoring Reality Makes No Sense When You Are Reality

Pay attention to the 3d because what you say about it tells you where you are in consciousness. If you know the outer world is based on your inner world, you don’t need to ignore it. If anything you should laugh bc Mrs. 3D really thought she was doing something like girl bye. 

This notion that you need to "ignore reality" in order to get what you want is wack asf and it pisses me off honestly. Why would you ignore reality when you are reality itself? When somebody calls you by your favorite nickname, are you gonna ignore them because you like that name or will you answer since it’s your name???? 

The 3d is a reflection of old and present thoughts and your state of awareness. How you respond internally is what determines what is happening externally. Change the meaning to what you “see” with your physical eyes and see with your mind’s eye that which you are now choosing to experience. Are you gonna ignore your sp, new money, house or car now bc they are in your 3d???

Your reality/3d only becomes real when you are getting what you want? Are you serious? Who told you that? You need to stop listening to that person. The 3d is you. So if reality isn't real, that means you aren't either boo. How can you be reading this post right now if the 3d isn't real?? Are you dreaming right now or something? Don't take people's advice just because they might be popular or get a lot of attention. Listen to what they say and actually see if it makes sense. Most of the times it doesn't. If you want to ignore reality, go ahead and ignore yourself for a week and see how that goes.

There were times people would tell me I couldn’t have something or do something because it’s too expensive or whatever and every time I’d respond back in my mind like “no wtf. It’s cheap asf actually.” I used this to lower my rent (somebody pays it for me now) and medications costs and ofc flights. Literally anything I want because I have come to understand that it’s just me. 

Similarly, it’s just you in your reality. The 3d is you and you shouldn’t fear it. Let it remind you of who you now are— the creator that has everything they want. Giving her power and trying to act like she isn’t there makes zero sense. Now that you have all your desires, are you gonna act like they are not real because you can “see” them in the 3d? No. That would be stupid and nonsensical.

[becomingher-era]

The feminine urge to be pretty, make more money, and get closer to God.