#vs ppl who arent

[kashmirichaiwithmehr]

trend this trend that..... how about a trend where u stfu and look up at the sky in wonder once in a while

[jrueships]

r u the grew up poor never being able to buy the little things in life u always wanted as a kid so now u buy whatever little thing u want as an adult and struggle with saving for the big mandatory thing,

or the grew up poor never being able to buy the little things in life u always wanted as a kid so now u just never buy anything small bcs u had to learn to live without it and constantly try to save for the next big thing in 500 yrs

[freakinator]

if kab wanted a clown replacement hannah is perfectly capable of (and would possibly be even happy with) fulfilling that role idk why she seems to be going after zam who she didnt even have positive rapport with before the yap yesterday

[infizero]

every time i so much as think about that scene where light looks at porn magazines while scowling i go into hysterics its genuinely the funniest thing i've ever seen

[roseband]

ppl complaining about the new legally blonde prequel coming out didn't seem to get the movie cause elle WAS interesting and smart from the get go????

"i have a 4.0...." "but in fashion merchandising"

girlie's got a business related degree from the beginning, even if it's a "frivolous" thing

i think u rlly missed the main idea?

[cockyroaches]

Had the deranged thought of 'you know being gay should count as gender nonconforming since gender roles expect you to be het by default' but then I remembered how vile some gender conforming gay people are to gnc queers and yeah, no. You dont get that.

[transmaverique]

gonna be honest I see anyone talking about this "my gender is more complicated than yours" shit as someone who genuinely cannot comprehend that other people that don't share certain traits with them can still in fact have rich interior lives. as an agender trans woman who uses she/her I've never had anyone say it to me who wasn't (usually unknowingly) transmisogynistic

see but im not talking about "rich interior lives" and the assumption that i am is exactly what im talking about. i am talking about the actual physical way that reality treats and percieves me in comparison to the way it treats and percieves you. saying my gender is "more complex" means to me that i am physically incapable of existing in a strictly binary world and that there is no thing i can pass as bc "binary man" and "binary woman" are both incorrect for me. and the Cisiety in question does not allow androgyny to exist - it is exclusively the timeframe people have to decide whether they think you are a cisman or a ciswoman, or a failure and a freak. i dont subscribe to that "binary privilege" shit, thats not how privilege works. but there are differences in the ways both you and i can navigate this strictly binary Cisiety!!! and those differences deserve to be named, imo

like. again. i dont have to comfort you about your own internal sense of gender before youll listen to me about my experiences in the real world as genderqueer. as a different sort of transsexual than you.

(and bc i Know what binary ppl love to say: i know not everyone is 'capable of passing'. what i am talking about specifically is the difference between being unable to pass as a cis woman or a cis man vs being unable to pass bc what i am does not exist AT ALL in a binary society, and both of those things are incorrect ans unattainable.)

(anyways if that language is too imperfect for you thats like fine but. its just confusing to me, i dont get why its hard to understand what we are talking about here. our experiences w our nonbinary genders are completely different! why do i have to discuss them like theyre the same?)

[inf1nyxw0rlds]

i love complexity. except of course if it's about me . hope that helps

[boywithbear]

back with another opinion that I guarantee has been said before but I think autistic people who don't have an intellectual disability really need to speak to people who do

[antisisyphus]

hmmmmmmmm.

[jrueships]

who would you most like to read jrue being paired with in a fic?

Me .

[flovverworks]

obsessed (again) with the theme of 'akira does not want to name the sacrificium because they don't want to get attached to it because it's supposed to take akira's place if akira gets into danger' and 'the wizards calls akira by name and cares for them despite knowing they only have a year/akiras human'

[whilomm]

how much people "hide it" varies wildly from area to area and person to person and even moment to moment. some places are pretty goddamn hostile yeah, but some places including those yall think of as dirty backwaters a lotta people may not give a shit or might be outright accepting! surprisingly enough, rural areas and the people living in them arent a fuckin monolith! whodathunk it?

also i feel like part of its also gonna be like, if youre in a small town living there day by day you can get a sense of how out you can be around which people, and also the sense of familiarity lends itself to more acceptance sometimes (a queer stranger driving thru town vs oh yeah thats jessie's kid ive known them since they were born). like, if you drive thru and you dont know anyone of course its gonna feel scarier.

if you aint from here, you arent gonna know how this place works and whos chill vs. whos actually really cool vs. who sucks but also wont push the issue vs. who is a violent cunt vs. who genuinely has no idea that youre visibly queer because they just think of you as "jessies kid who dresses weird but theyre polite"

and hey guess what. sometimes there are out and visibly queer people even in places where it genuinely would be safer to hide it :0 sometimes queer people look around and see that the people around them are cunts and say "cool i dont give a shit".

ive spent like 8 years living in the city (austin tx to be specific) so when i go back home i have a lotta anxiety about "looking queer", but also an element of that is like. im not in this community daily anymore, i dont feel like i know people and people don't know me, but like. walking around i also see other visibly queer people who live here and theyre perfectly fine and no ones bothering them. it might be because of general acceptance, it might be because other people are homophobic but also would rather do some small town gossip behind their back than be outright confrontational, it might be because no one in the walmart knows the difference between a "punk rock look" and someone looking queer as hell. whatever! either way, im looking at a fellow queer being very visibly out in this town of 1.5k!

every month someone makes a post like “wow, I can’t believe there are gay rednecks. can’t believe there are gay people living in the rural Midwest or Deep South.” kill the classist in your brain

[imaginesomethingrand]

I get mad at dad bc of our past... but. Mom and i were arguing about trump (she is voting for him bc he's Republican but doesn't like him as a person) and bc lots of ppl around me are like this (some really pro trump ppl also) sometimes i think im the crazy one. Being in isolation and just seeing things from the internet... i cant always trust my own mind

But then dad comes up and says "trump is off his rocker" and I'm like i forgive you for everything thank you for taking my side and showing I'm not the only one around who isnt trumpcrazy

[nomairuins]

like its a tually ridiculous bc if i have like conflicting feelings on somebody bc nuance is a thing that exists my brains likw Oh so youre making excuses for that awful person but then if i do black and white thinking and think of someone as ourely evil my brains like God are you stupid do you even know about nuance youre so reductive. nobody is purely good or evil and acting as if someone is innately evil is a horriblr thing to do bc its making excuses and coddling yourself into believing Oh incould never do something like thst because im not innately evil like they are . Nobody is ourely good or bad Except for you who is irredeemable and awful and going to hell forever and you are completely unequivocally an evil aeful horrible person. and it is your fault because you choose to be evil and also youve always been evil and you canr help it or fix it but its your choice as well and your fault. so

[snekdood]

i honestly deserved none of the shit ppl did to me that lead me to this point