#traumagenic systems love endos

[the-fictive-haven]

Here's your reminder that endos/willogens/tulpas/mixed origin systems/other multiples are literally just fucking existing and not hurting anyone and if you choose to go after them for that maybe you're the problem

[sysmedsaresexist]

Reblog to share a hug 🫂

A long, long time ago, I made a post about how just one hug could make ALL the difference for a child at risk of traumatization, be it a supportive teacher, friend, or family member.

Everyone is so angry lately, and I think we all need a hug.

Regardless of who you are or what you believe, in a show of kindness, reblog to share a hug.

Remember, even if you disagree (yes, even on those topics), we're all just people trying to figure it out. This isn't about whether we're right or wrong, it's about recognizing that we're all just human.

And that we probably needed that extra hug as a kid.

[dreamcircuitsys]

Shoutout to in-system relationships that aren’t romantic in nature. To your headmates who are your parents, your children, your siblings, your best friends. To your headmates that love you so dearly, as a friend or as family or any other label. <3

[fragmentina]

Me: Damn. That was some life altering trauma.

Brain: We should be Garfield about it

[illusions11]

Chat let’s make a pitcrew chain with this pitcrew i adore sm

(Feel free to join even if you haven’t been @‘d)

@hexscriptor @rotten-heartthrob @rebornnebulasystem (and more who I can’t remember the @‘s for sobbing)

[jabberwock-islanders]

love it when endogenic "systems" say "theres a study that proves we're valid!!" and give absolutely no resources backing them up. love it when endogenic "systems" break dnis and ignore peoples boundaries on a daily basis because they feel entitled to be part of the disabled community theyre mocking and couldnt care less about. love it when endogenic "systems" complain about being "triggered" when they actively harass LEGITIMATELY TRAUMATIZED PEOPLE and constantly tell them their trauma isn't valid, isn't "right."

get the FUCK out of here with that horse shit. get out of our communities. get out of our spaces. get your sad little asses away from these traumatized CHILDREN youre grooming into denying their trauma and making their situation so much harder. endogenic "systems" get the FUCK OUT.

-- zack 🔪

[stuffie-medical-vents]

Here's everyone's quick reminder that people who use disability aids part-time are still valid and are still disabled. <3

[moonlitmeadowsys]

the only endos i support move when you’re not looking and have glowing red eyes

[lemony-ink]

I wonder if systems know that engaging in syscourse or in discourse in general can be a form of self harm

Subjecting yourself to ableists, racists, ect. knowing that you won't change their mind can really fuck you up

Stay safe x

[disrealities]

Lovego. Luv-ee-go.

a term for alters who's self and identity as a headmate feel intertwined with love, while not being sourced from it — although they may appear to be.

[spidereye-village]

Ok OK Hear me out here.

So The Great Gatsby is referanced in bill's book right?

And there is clearly some toxic relationship dynamic between Ford and Bill.

But that is only emphasized by the fact that

THE GREAT GATSBY IS BASICLY A CLOSETED 1920S MAN FALLING IN AN UNREQUITED LOVE WITH ANOTHER

The WHOLE book both Gatsby and Nick are clearly pining for people who can't be with them. (Nick for Gatsby and Gatsby for Daisy)

What if Bill sees himself in either Gatsby or Nick in that same sense???

Now I haven't read Bill's book, so I could be way off. But just. Think about that.

Anon Chad (they/them) 😎

[twiigthetwiink]

protectors are like cats in the way that if they don’t vibe with you we don’t trust you anymore and also we adore them no matter how much of a bitch they are when they’re done with someone

[quietforest-system]

how are people ACTUALLY finding partner systems and system friends

i literally just can't figure out how to do it, especially online

i keep seeing people posting "psys applications" or "friend applications" and that just seems. almost too inorganic?? like wdym i have to fit into this criteria for you to even consider talking to me, i don't like that. and i'm not talking, like, you have to have a certain stance in syscourse or not be a terf or something, i mean people saying "we HAVE to be able to talk about our SHARED interests"

i don't want to advertise myself as wanting a partner system but i want to meet people and find a system that genuinely enjoys our time, who we feel safe with, and who will actually care/not just source date

is that weird?? am i weird for that??

- miles 🌱

[the-alarm-system]

To Ardyn

Normally I'd write this in our journal but I just want to declare this love in front of all my fans. Feels like I have to show the entire world how much I appreciate you. I don't even know where to start, I don't know how to even write this out.

But you really are an angel, the fact that you're so willing to share a body with someone like me. I made so many mistakes in my other life that I never thought I'd know the warmth and closeness of having a real true friend who just wasn't out to bite me in the ass. It makes me want to cry to think about how kind you are. It makes me feel guilty how kind you are. I still am processing all the fucked shit that happened in my other life, maybe someday I'll feel like it's okay for someone like me to have a bandmate like you.

I know I can be a fucking gonk sometimes, but knowing you're there to catch me before I fall

That makes me feel like I'm cared for, it makes me feel like even if I fuck up again, there is an angel there to hold me still. Sometimes it even pisses me off how loving you are, because fuck how am I supposed to pay it back haha. I love you Ardyn. I want the world to know that I love you. - Scald

[flockofphoenixes]

is "I love you guys" to plurals what "I love myself" is to singlets?

[our-inspire-verse]

I always feel so out of place even in system communities. Does anyone else relate at all??

Like, idk some system memes are cool and relatable bc obviously not everything is gonna line up, but so much of it doesn't click with us.

We've almost never been put off by the voices, we all wanna communicate, we don't think less of each other or think 1 deserves more front time than anyone else, etc. Idk, there's so many memes about denial and eating each other's food and all this distress. Which is i know, a major part of many system's lives. Part of what makes a meme is the repeatability and a lot of systemhood IS struggles in that area.

But what about systems who do everything right (in the sense that we have healthy coping and such)? What about systems who unconditionally love each other and dissociative barriers are something we work around instead of fighting? What about the systems who love the voices?