#teenage bpd culture

[borderline-culture-is]

teenage bpd culture is your parents constantly saying how ungrateful and manipulative you are

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[deargagusdina]

My tendons and sinews feel like they will burst out of skin. My throat burns. I want to sink my teeth into flesh. To rip and tear.

[ailurophilerebeccaexists]

Once I learn how to stop being me it’s over for y’all

[cluster-b-culture-is]

cluster B culture is getting an email from quora about a thread called "cluster b unmasked" and already knowing it's going to be full of ableist crap and questioning why you got an account in the first place

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[cheesy-cheddar-sadness]

i WISH i could be half as vengeful of a person as my bpd thinks i am, i could ruin your life in a fraction of a second, i could make you feel 00.0001% of what you made me feel, faster than you would know what hit you BUT IM NOT NOT THAT KIND OF FUCKING PERSON !! WHY!!! LET ME RUIN YOU LIKE YOU RUIN ME !!!!

[clusterb-pd]

NPD+BPD culture is Teenagers by mcr

-Mark

[blueberrbea]

Gurl that lazy eye is crazy 🤣🤣🤣

i do not have a lazy eye ; i am however just kazakh if that answers any ?s 🤗

[punkeropercyjackson]

Related to my prev post:

I don't give two shits if Bruce is written like a bad dad if it means we get good writing for everybody else since i think minorities are more important than a white cishet male nepotism baby unlike his butch lesbian counterpart who's judaism is an actual fundamental part of her character and since he's been written as abusive so consistently over the years it's in-character anyway

Dick can be both bi/pan and demisexual and there's more evidence for the latter than the former so making him be sexually loose is aspec erasure and mspec stereotyping and he dosen't have a thing for redheads,he has a thing for black women and to me the only guy he seems to like romantically is Roy and that adds on to his demisexuality since they're childhood best friends

'Catholic guilt Jason' is a shit headcanon that misses the major and critical part of him being Red Hood that he didn't feel the slightest bit bad about killing people and the point of his redemption was learning remorse,afrolatino Jason isn't based on stereotyping but him filling out so many black and latino cultural aspects and if any hcs for him are stereotyping it's the one that he's a slut because he's a very handsome and hot and cute goth punk man

Tim is perfect the way he is and dosen't need power ups or to get 'punished' for the oh so horrible crime of being a realistic teenage boy,he's not JUST huge a loser or a super cool dude but both at once and it's bad writing and fetishistic to ignore his wide range of relathionships that consists of mostly of women to make him a 'guys guy'

Stephanie is heavily autistic and bpd-coded so she's far from a 'normie',much less an 'it girl' but people see blonde hair and blue eyes and throw away everything else about her because that's all she's worth to them or call her an abuser and a pick me just like they do irl bpdtistic women and she's also canonically pastel/indie punk and a Team Mom but gets her presentation switched to basic and made out to be a womanchild instead

Cass had a million times more moral conflict than Jason ever did,would never in her LIFE wanna be feminine even in the chinese way and would be butch in it instead,turning her scattered speech into sign language is ableist not unlike(but not on the same level as)changing Babs' type of wheelchair disability and she'd be a better Batman than any male character in existense

Duke is only a golden child in the sense he has a yellow motif and is as disruptive and authentically quirky as his siblings,We Are Robin is a better team than the canon Outlaws,his powers are cooler than any Al-Ghul ones you could come up with,he has more femme energy than Tim does and Carrie Kelley ain't shit and only gets brought back to replace him because DC is antiblack

Damian's introduction mentality was a result of not only child abuse but also psychological grooming to get him to dehumanize himself and all his bigoted comments are explained either by him being like 12 or his writers trying to demonize brown people and anybody who thinks he's a bad person is a super-sized pissbaby with no sympathy for kids of color,shipping him with Jon is making a bisexual man into a ped0phile and Jay is good even if aging Jon up wasn't and he should be friends with Maya,Suren,Nell,Colin,Kathy,Maps,Tai and Miles,Gwen,Peni,Pavitr,Hobie and Margo from Atsv and Nico and Hazel from Pjo instead of Billy Batson or Danny Fenton or ANY Mcu characters

Talia is super hot but should be drawn in accurate arab clothes instead 'sexy assasian gear'(not that these two can't co-exist but you get what i mean),her personality is extremely rich and her stories are mega interesting,she's a good mom to Damian and literally never 'took advantage of Jason' seeing as That Scene In Lost Days was decanonized by it's writer who said it was ooc for her on his part,she should've been a mom figure to Stephanie in her Robin Days too since they would get along and she deserved her own run where she takes over Lexcorp to transform it into a force for good and become Superfam-adjacent to free herself from having only male connections

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

Questioning npd culture is 'well maybe its just my adhd, maybe im just an attention seeker, i couldnt possibly have npd because i wasnt that neglected or abused as a kid, maybe its just bpd (questioning once again!), well no one would believe me, fuck i am just like my dad arent i, nobody talk to me cuz im better than you, shit dont leave though, its just because im a teenager so its normal to be like this' circling back round to 'maybe it is npd, do i need to talk to a therapist about this?'

:| im.. so confused and dont have the energy

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[skuiive]

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[antisocialcultureis]

BPD + questioning aspd culture is not understanding if you actually have aspd, cant find any good resources, see too many posts about both of those being "incopatable" because the difference in emotions, and also maybe its just a weird episode that you have no idea of how long it lasted because your memory is garbage! :) (even though i know some things that existed from early and overall teenage years)

BPD + questioning aspd culture is

[borderline-culture-is]

teenage bpd culture is also being told that your symptoms are just a result of being too much on the phone

-4️⃣

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[deargagusdina]

I want to beat my fists against something until I’m bloodied and mangled. This wrath with kill me.

[ailurophilerebeccaexists]

Touched starved and touch repulsed

[cluster-b-culture-is]

Teenager + autistic + bpd culture is BLACK. AND. WHITE. THINKING. (And yet still having more nuance than most folks online)

[artemisiafem]

i really am so sick of the way personality disorders are often discussed. sometimes i try to put it down to people online usually not being able to talk about things in a nuanced fashion but i'm seeing the same rhetoric across different age groups, and across people i know online, and it really tires me out. this is mainly about bpd, since that's what i've been diagnosed with, and because it's one of the most visible, but it's true about other personality disorders, in particular those in cluster b, but also other clusters as well.

there's two things in particular which really upset me, and they both feed into each other.

(1) aggressive self-identification with the label, especially in cases of self-diagnosis (usually this is done by women/teenage girls). i understand the impulse for both self-identification and self-diagnosis. getting diagnosed with a personality disorder can be explanatory - oh, that's why i'm like this. but in the case of self-identification, there's a couple issues. (1) it's a mindset that tends to be anti-recovery. it tends to lean too far towards "this is me," and "its not unchangeable." (2) self-identification, especially in the case of self-diagnosis, tends to emphasise certain parts of the disorder far more than others - in the case of bpd, this is usually the dysfunctional attachments which are common. (3) it uncritically accepts psychiatry, and does not look at whether the diagnostic concept of personality disorders is valid or even useful. this is particularly important considering the links between bpd as a diagnosis & misogyny & hysteria, as well as the intense stigma that comes with a diagnosis of bpd. while some mental health professionals are informed and welcoming, most are not. it's also significant that abuse (which is highly gendered) may also result in victims presenting with symptoms of what is labelled as bpd (obviously abuse in childhood is also highly correlated with bpd). as a result, you potentially have women in abusive relationships being told they're the problem, that it is all in their head. (2) intense fetishisation of the label (usually by men). this goes hand in hand with demonisation. i've seen far too many men online talking about how bpd women are great at sex, talking about how they want a bpd girlfriend because she'll be obsessed with them, talking about how bpd women are more attractive than other groups. equally i've seen men online talking about bpd women like they're evil creatures from another dimension, sent specifically here to torment men, like we're not even human at all. this isn't just online, i have been fetishised and demonised by men in my own personal experience (i have also seen women demonising others with bpd, but this usually lacks the fetishisation aspect). it's also present in broader cultural narratives - the crazy ex girlfriend, don't stick your dick in crazy, even the manic pixie dream girl has shades of the idealised bpd girlfriend.

i highlight the gendered responses because they have played out quite significantly in my experience, and because they reinforce each other. this is not to blame women diagnosed with bpd for their fetishisation, i am one myself, but to recognise instead how we are pushed to sexualise ourselves further as a result of a misogynistic society (a particularly dangerous thing in the case of those of us with trauma responses like this). and also, i'm frankly a little sick of seeing so many memes which simply play into stereotypes associated with what men fetishise about us. men who fetishise bpd can die though