#interpersonal studies

[johannestevans]

Do you think you’ll ever finish your DS9 fic Interpersonal Studies?

It has to be the best fic on ao3 and the cliffhanger has been killing me the last year!

I do actually want to! I am hoping when I cycle back to my next phase of being really into DS9 it will carry me through.

Interpersonal Studies is currently about a ways into its Part II?

So that's all about Julian and Garak on DS9 at the moment where Julian is currently coming to certain realisations about Cardassian culture and Garak is coming to a few himself, and it's all about getting the war orphans to their homes rather than being stranded on Bajor.

Part III is gonna be When It All Comes Out and is going to be about leaving the Federation and the ramifications thereof with the Dominion War, but also for Garak and Julian in Kardasi space.

It is all planned out, my focus is just currently elsewhere!

[literalnobody]

The frustration of KNOWING there is media out there with the very specific tone you want to write into your own stories and wanting to consume that media for inspiration/immersion/the joy of experiencing art on the same wavelength as your own but not being able to FIND it

[dearopheliaimsorry]

Hotch and Morgan got me like girrrlll

Mayhem: 4x01

"Hotch! You're opinion matters to me."

"My life matters to me, and I have and always will entrust you with it...Would you do the same for me?"

~silence~

I have so many thoughts about this.

It addresses Morgan's trust issues and weird "my life doesn't matter that much"/"Hero"/"Big Sibling Syndrome -esque" complex.

Demonstrates how close the two are (worked together for YEARS now so makes sense.)

Shows how Hotch trusts him with such ease.

And the fact he is asking not for Morgan to save him but to let him save Morgan. To try to trust him. Something about the latter is so much more intimate and intense than the former.

I love interpersonal relationships!!!!! This show makes me very happy. I love to study people and relationships and how we interpt (often through writing) people and relationships.

Sorry if I read to much into this lol. I'm a lit nerd and my fav thing is to read into things.

Love, Cassie

[scrytime]

I'm taking a course studying women in the ancient world and up top my professor goes through all the usual disclaimers about how little we have to go on in terms of evidence but here are some sourcebooks/textbooks that do their best to piece their lives together from what we have etc etc

Anyways I guess I was just struck by what an act of love that is? To look into that absence of data and say 'because you didn't matter then, you will matter to me. I will find you.'

[theneptunianmind]

[flockrest]

i'm sure i've made a few insinuations about this already, but it's probably high time i finally talk about my take on it; plumage ornamentation is typically a form of allopreening in any given rito flock, and hence holds lots of social and cultural importance for them!

(which isn't to say that it's always allopreening or can't be autopreening — some ornamentations are just part of rito tradition and denote a role or status — but a rito who isn't allopreened even semi-regularly can uh. be a very lonely rito. it can get pretty complex honestly, so it depends on what's actually going on!)

in addition to the mechanics of their own language, ornamentation is another way of casually enforcing bonds and dynamics for the rito. it's on average most often engaged in between family, but not exclusively reserved for them! in trusting and being willing to let someone touch your feathers and/or being allowed to touch someone else's feathers so intimately, you're letting them (and everyone else) know that they're some form of Really Important to you! kind of like "marking" them? it's at once less profound than i'm making it sound yet still extremely, extremely significant sklfjkf

when communicated through direct physical contact, ornamentation is primarily concentrated on crest feathers and semiplumes, which can translate to hair, fins, or simply the head for non-rito. it involves acts like braiding, beading, binding, and general weaving-things-into-feathers. while the act itself implies a level of comfortable, casual intimacy, what's actually used as decoration can give another layer of meaning to it too!

gifting items and materials for ornamentation holds less intimate weight than actually physically handling someone's feathers, but gets the same interpersonal message across! which is how travelling rito, especially those who go at it solo, are able to keep their loved ones close and basically auto-enforce those bonds with them :)

when interpreting plumage ornamentation (in this context), it's good to keep in mind that:

colours of cords, ribbons, beads, etc. are always chosen very deliberately by the older folks. children are encouraged to experiment more, to get a feel for what they want to express (and for what looks good).

level of skill does not always correspond to level of care (younglings are notorious for being very messy with their affection), but general rule of thumb is that the more eye-catching the work, the more you (and everyone else) are being told this person is Cared For!

moulted rito quills are, for a lack of better words, blessings. specific meaning depends on what sort of relationship the receiver has with the rito whose quill is being gifted, or with the rito who's doing the gifting if they're not the same person, but there are always hints of i'm with you always.

the meanings of ordinary bird quills are defined by their colour!

sometimes, things like flowers, plants, and other non-permanent materials will be used just for fun! doesn't lessen the significance of what allopreening can mean :)

ESSENTIALLY, if a rito asks to do something with your feathers (or whatever is equivalent), they are asking if it's okay for them to let the world know you are Cherished. and sometimes — if you're close enough — they don't even ask, they'll just do it!

[tarantula-hawk-wasp]

The Jesus Christ Superstar (1970) album has gotten me through so many projects

[femmefatalevibe]

Heyy

I have recently started my feminine journey and have started taking care of myself in all the aspects. But there are always people trying to belittle you. For me it's these guys in my college. You know how you make a big giant group in your freshman year that slowly breaks away in that year itself? Yeah so they were part of that group. I don't talk with them much but some of my friends still do. And they always have something bad to say. To belittle others and make fun of others. Basically are bullies. How should I deal with them? I normally keep quiet and like walk away when I can. But I want to establish boundaries that you can't pull this type of shit with me anymore. How can I do that?

Hi love! I'm sorry that you're dealing with this immaturity and cruelty. Simply confront them about how their words make you feel in their presence. Use behavior-centric language and "I" statements to express your feelings and boundaries. For example: "When you make fun of my major and certain girls' looks, it makes me feel hurt and uncomfortable, let alone enjoyable, to be in your presence. I don't know if you're aware that you're saying such cruel things, but if the behavior doesn't stop when in my presence, I'll no longer be attending these hangouts."

Then, follow through with your established boundaries. Don't hang out with them if they continue to make fun of you, others, or your boundaries – tease or dismiss your feelings in any way. Friends should be a source of comfort, support, energy, and fun – not draining in those areas. If needed, slowly pull away by not answering any "joking" messages or non-essential calls/texts, and attend fewer and fewer hangouts that will not force you to compromise any time for studying, hobbies, or spending time with other friends.

Pour your energy into your genuine friends, making new connections, and exploring your hobbies/interests. Take time for studying, professional development, self-care, etc.

Freshmen year is a huge transitional year, so know it's completely okay if you have a whole different group by next year. Some of these people become friends for life (these women are the best!) and some of them were only meant to be part of your life for a reason or a season.

Best of luck! Hope this helps xx

[crippledanarchy]

People who try to rely solely on false equivalency and moving goalposts in arguments are so funny like do you really think I can't see the words you're writing?

You think I forgot the topic we were on last sentance and you could just change the entire premise and I was gonna just Play your silly little game? Eat glass. Either engage with the topic at hand or get blocked

[melcatshenanigans]

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[vigil4nted]

jason is straight up terrible when it comes to personal connections. when it comes to asking for things he wants or trying to form better bonds - he's awkward as hell and stumbles over everything. he'll often just toss or shove things at people and walk away with minimal explanation.

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[demonlorddante]

jujutsu kaisen loves to oscillate wildly between being some of the best anime that I’ve ever seen and some of the worst

[manuscript-or]

professional academics are soooooo catty and bitch-y lmao

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