#how to improve self confidence

[celestialstreamline]

The Art of Self-Esteem: Boosting Self-Confidence in Your Career Path

In the journey of personal and professional growth, self-confidence plays a pivotal role. It’s not just about believing in oneself but also about navigating through challenges with resilience and determination. Self-confidence isn’t merely a trait; it’s a mindset, a way of approaching life with positivity and assurance. Let’s delve into the realm of self-confidence meaning and explore strategies…

[selfimprovementtips]

Finding Motivation in Life

Finding motivation in life is a personal journey that often involves self-reflection, setting goals, and cultivating positive habits. Here are some tips to help you discover and maintain motivation:

Define Your Goals: Clearly outline your short-term and long-term goals. Knowing what you want to achieve provides a sense of direction and purpose.

Break down Goals: Divide larger goals into smaller, manageable tasks. This makes the journey more achievable and allows you to celebrate small victories along the way.

Create a Vision Board: Visualize your goals by creating a vision board with images and quotes that represent your aspirations. Place it in a visible place for daily inspiration.

Surround Yourself with Positivity: Spend time with people who uplift and support you. Positive relationships can have a significant impact on your motivation.

Learn from Setbacks: View challenges as opportunities to learn and grow. Embrace failure as a natural part of the journey and use it as a stepping stone toward success.

Establish a Routine: Develop daily habits that contribute to your goals. Consistency helps build momentum and makes it easier to stay motivated.

Find Passion and Purpose: Engage in activities that genuinely interest you and align with your values. Passion fuels motivation, making it easier to stay committed.

Continuous Learning: Stay curious and open-minded. Learning new things can ignite your passion and keep you motivated to explore and improve.

Take Care of Yourself: Physical and mental well-being play a crucial role in motivation. Ensure you get enough sleep, exercise regularly, and practice self-care.

Celebrate Progress: Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. Recognizing your progress reinforces positive behaviour and keeps you motivated.

Seek Inspiration: Read books, watch documentaries, or listen to motivational speakers who inspire you. Learning from the experiences of others can provide valuable insights.

Stay Flexible: Life is unpredictable, and plans may need adjustments. Stay flexible and adapt to changes while keeping your ultimate goals in mind.

Remember, motivation is not a constant state, and it’s normal to experience fluctuations. Be patient with yourself and embrace the journey, using each experience as an opportunity for growth and self-discovery.

More info : Self Improvement Tips and Ideas

[girlwithrituals]

HOW TO STAY UNBOTHERED!

1. Never say more than necessary.

2. Don't allow your emotions to overpower your intelligence.

3. Lower your expectations from others.

4. Let your success do the talking.

5. 10 people 10 different opinions. Stop pleasing.

6. Remember your haters are your fans.

7. Don't be afraid to say "NO".

9. Know your truth and be okay with someone else not believing you.

10. Stop taking things personally.

• Let go of control: You can't control others' actions or words, just your reactions.

• Humor: Learn to laugh things off when appropriate.

• Set boundaries: Limit contact with negativity and prioritize supportive people.

• Communicate clearly: Ask for clarification Instead of assuming negativity

• Shift your perspective: Consider the source and if their comment reflects on them more than you.

• Focus on what you can control: Improve your own communication and self-care.

• Thicken your skin: Build strong self-worth and know your value.

11. Healthy detachment.

• Let people be who they want to be, then decide if you want them in your life.

• Trust that rejection is always redirection to something bigger and better.

• Some people are only meant to help you grow, not be in your life forever.

• What if everything is falling apart to come together in a way you can't guess?

• Focus only on what you can control.

[calmbigdipper]

I believe Fugo and Trish would be besties in the most awkward way possible

[indiadiries]

I wish I could

In this world every one has a wish that I wish I could be prime minister, or cricketer, Engineer or doctor or some people have crushes on someone, I wish I could say I love you to him. Just like this million of wishes people have but they can’t convert in reality. Just because they didn’t try to get this possible. If anyone has a wish then just try to get this possible, perhaps it will be yours.…

[honeytonedhottie]

magnetism⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🫧

IDENTIFY THE CURRENT VIBE ;

people can sense confidence and love in a person and this ultimately brings a good vibe. but on the flip side people can also sense shame and anger in a person and that brings a bad vibe so to be magnetic u must be conscious of the vibes ur giving off. for example...💬🎀

when saying ur self concept affirmations -> leads to feeling more confident -> leads to ur MAGNETISM ✨

OBSERVE DONT ABSORB ;

to keep ur vibe bright and magnetic u need to protect ur mind and not absorb the negativity that might be around you. at the end of the day ur mind is something that u CAN control and u decide and accept what u feed to ur mind as truth. this means being UNBOTHERED if whats going on around u is hectic and protecting ur peace because u can!

WHAT IT MEANS TO BE MAGNETIC ;

to be a magnetic person means that you are passionate and charismatic, and that passion + charisma attracts others...💬🎀

pursue what ur passionate about continuously. dont be afraid to put urself out there (i wrote about it in the it girls magazine) because putting urself out there often FREES you which in turn makes you even more magnetic. dont feel bad about expressing urself. when something is magnetic it has energy, some things to maybe pay attention to...💬🎀

body language

the words that u use

steering clear of excessive gossip

steering clear of negativity

listening instead of just hearing (this is huge btw)

BEING A GOOD LISTENER ;

make an effort to be engaged with whomever ur having a conversation with. focus on listening rather then just hearing and remember the little things about people because its not that hard and it makes them feel so seen and u can literally make someones day by simply remembering something about them.

make sure that when ur having a conversation with someone u give them a chance to speak and dont keep urself as the topic of conversation all the time because ppl love to talk about themselves too so u gotta give them a chance. thats how u become a good conversationalist.

BE KIND ;

people will be more attracted to u if ur warm and sweet and kind so make sure to be nice and that goes without saying! be mindful of others because magnetism is all about how u make people feel. say please and thank you, say good morning to people BE POLITE. let ur positivity radiate from your 💗 heart 💗

[theambitiouswoman]

"I AM" are the most powerful words you can say because anything you put after that creates your reality. We can choose to limit ourselves by how we label ourselves (I am anxious, I am bad, I am broke) or you can choose to expand your reality.

[agirlwithglam]

becoming a good conversationalist

Tips and conversation starters!

TIPS TO BE A GOOD CONVERSATIONALIST + BE FUNNY

lil tips:

a huge part of people wanting to be around you again, is how they emotionally feel when they're around you.

go into a conversation not thinking "i hope they like me" but thinking "i hope i have fun!"

remember that they are just people, just human. they aren't a whole lot different to you! you live, you die; they live, they die. dont be so scared and uptight about talking to someone.

conversation starters:

things that they've never done but they want to do

find out about their interests

find out what they like and dont.

which places do you really want to go to?

what is the best place/ country you've been to?

what are your fears?

ask about food

what foods and drinks do you like?

your favourite restaurant?

favourite chocolate?

recommended youtubers/ videos:

Joshua Otusanya (self improvement + the BEST conversation tips!)

Tam Kaur (mainly talks about self improvement but also has socialising/ becoming an extrovert content)

Xoxo, Vanilla

[polluxstargirls]

MY THOUGHTS ON HOW TO START WITH CONFIDENCE

This is a very interesting topic because everyone has different opinions about it.

Here's mine.

How Maddy Perez said: "fake it till u make it, nobody notices when it's real and when it's fake anyway" or something like that

And yes! Now, for a lot of people this may cause trouble because of the imposter syndrome.

But babe, you need to calm down.

Here's the thing, the magic trick:

Confidence is quite.

Confidence is a state, you just are, you don't need to go around being like "omg I'm so confident", "look at me how I'm confident"

NO

You just are, you BE just in the state. TRUST ME THIS SPEAKS VOLUMES, it says everything it's needed to say.

Let your confidence talk for you, do the work.

No one seems more confidence-less than the ones who starve for attention.

Your confidence grows in you, it comes from inside, from within.

If you don't have a positive self concept start by building one, I'm not telling you to live in this state fully...

I'm telling you to build one, your name; face; routine; behavior; knowledge; every quality you like in you and in others that you want for yourself.

Then start adapting, slowly of fully get into that state, whatever works best for you as long as you get there.

SEE HOW I'M SAYING "WORKS BEST FOR YOU", NOT NECESSARILY "YOU FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE"

It starts with you and you only.

You can work on this by starting with affirmations, even if you don't believe it at first, it'll grow in you.

Selfcare it's also important, see the most confident version of yourself.

What's their routine?

Do they exercise everyday or threee times a week or doesn't need it at all?

What do they eat, is it intuitive eating or do they follow a diet?

How do you dress? the you you like the most to be

Take care of yourself, all of the above are perfectly fine as long as you feel confident doing it.

When you know who you are, you need no confirmation from anybody.

You know it's done.

You know who you are and people telling you otherwise make no change on that.

I'd like to say more but I'll get on to that talk later

XX

[dramatchaa]

Since I am on Tumblr I noticed that I gained more confidence in myself and my manifestations.

I was able to rework on my self concept and already noticed several notable differences.

I keep repeating myself:

"I have everything I want when I want. Everything worked for me. I'm special"

And guess what ? I have just landed my ideal work-study internship.

Keep in mind that you already have your dream life and ONLY YOU are able to change it as you wish.

Go girl ✨

[rexscanonwife]

Wow I can't believe how lovingly Brea and Rex look at each other whenever they're on screen together!! You can really feel how much they care for one another... 🥺💖💖

alternately I decided to have some fun and paint over a screenshot of Rafa bcs I'm sick and tired of Brea not being canon, FILONI!!!

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[selfimprovementtips]

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He encourages people to learn how to build confidence and self esteem to live a life what they love. Read the blogs by Steve Scott, Business Coach Houston.

[lovelylau]

Being confident is the most important part in flirting. Same with holding eye contact, I don’t know why but looking at men directly above your glasses works really well 💕

[britcision]

So I’ve been trying this thing this year

Where I look at the things I’ve decided in the past were too difficult for me or that I couldn’t do so I shouldn’t try

And saying “fuck it let’s noodle around for a couple hours and see what happens”

Because the time will pass anyway and I might as well

And listen

I already knew I was far too powerful and my incredible gifts had to be nerfed by the gods in the form of about six separate physical and mental disabilities lest I threaten the fabric of reality

But it turns out that actually I am a golden god and the limits of my abilities are defined solely by a combination of my own self doubt and the amount of time and energy I’m willing to put in to practice something

I can be as good at anything as I decide I want to be, because I decide when I don’t want to put more work in to improve

And listen

This might sound hard

This might sound silly and completely inapplicable to yourself because clearly you are not as magnificent and talented as I

But that is the demon of self doubt that sits upon your shoulder to constrain your might

And how do you know you’re not also a golden god capable of anything unless you give it a try?

[indiadiries]

Fight with Yourself

We are always trying to fight with time and situations, sometimes we fight with our near and dear, sometimes we fight with our colleagues and the most important thing is we fight with ourselves to achieve our goals. Is it right that we have to fight with our situation and colleagues. The answer is no, we have to fight only with ourselves. All the solutions of every task are within you…

[huellitaa]

₊˚.𖹭 stop romanticising self hatred.

𓏲. something that absolutely infuriates me is just how fucking normalised self hatred is nowadays. let me get this straight you hate it when someone else talks shit abt or hurts one of your loved ones but its PERFECTLY FINE to go hating on and sabotaging and abusing and neglecting yourself ??? girl .

i have said this so many times and i cannot stress this enough that you are and forever will be the most important relationship you have for the rest of your life because youre there 24/7 365 every second every day all the time forever. so it absolutely baffles me how this is the relationship people are constantly neglecting the most?????????

like think ab it for a sec. its absolutely ridiculous????? it saddens me when i see anyone, even little kids saying they hate themselves and getting laughs out of it.its not funny and its not something to be normalised or romanticised. and because we are surrounded with this mindset it reflects on us too and we subconsciously blend into it and absorb it into our self perception.

dont. do. this. its ridiculous and sad and self deprecating and only reinforces other peoples negative perceptions of us further when they may not have even been there to begin with. do you seriously want to be one of those people? do you seriously want people to view you as insecure and self deprecating and desperate for attention and sad and uncomfortable in their own skin? no. no u dont.

i do not wanna hear you saying you hate yourself or anything of the sort ever. again. its stupid and useless and provides absolutely nothing to you. why do you do it? seriously? like? its ridiculous? stfu?

no. you walk into the room and you hold your head high. you make your presence known because your presence is a blessing. you are a blessing. you keep your back straight and your shoulders back and you know your the shit bc u ARE. stop acting like youre not just to fit in with everyone else. stop engaging with them if thats what it takes. youre worth so much more than that.

u are amazing and talented and stunning and can do absolutely anything in the world and yet you still choose to do this. you are amazing. start acting like it ok?? <3