#how to be confident

[csuitebitches]

Traits I’ve Noticed in Confident People 

Disciplined - if a target is set, it is achieved 

Speaking - Can speak multiple languages. Can express thoughts clearly even if vocabulary is limited. The listener understands their point. 

Strong extroversion socially - can approach and talk to new people with ease, but also make them feel comfortable. Good at following up, asking questions and inserting little stories about themselves without exposing too much 

Strong general knowledge / industry knowledge. They know what they’re talking about 

Hard to please but not arrogant about it. They won’t readily accept a fact or opinion, even if the majority agrees - they’ll debate with it, think over it, play the devil’s advocate

Good posture

Strong set of principles and self control. There’s no shame in wanting to say, help someone, choose not to drink socially, buy a coffee for a poor person on the street; they don’t hesitate to do good deeds 

Hygienic. Clean, groomed, well dressed, well maintained. 

Observant and proactive at the same time. Can pick up on body language relatively easily - can sense discomfort or unease in someone and do something about it. 

Have a strong sense of self identity. Can be opinionated but open to challenges. 

[agirlwithglam]

Just made a new YouTube video about confidence!!

(Watch it cus it actually has really good tips !!)

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[pollxzry]

MY THOUGHTS ON HOW TO START WITH CONFIDENCE

This is a very interesting topic because everyone has different opinions about it.

Here's mine.

How Maddy Perez said: "fake it till u make it, nobody notices when it's real and when it's fake anyway" or something like that

And yes! Now, for a lot of people this may cause trouble because of the imposter syndrome.

But babe, you need to calm down.

Here's the thing, the magic trick:

Confidence is quite.

Confidence is a state, you just are, you don't need to go around being like "omg I'm so confident", "look at me how I'm confident"

NO

You just are, you BE just in the state. TRUST ME THIS SPEAKS VOLUMES, it says everything it's needed to say.

Let your confidence talk for you, do the work.

No one seems more confidence-less than the ones who starve for attention.

Your confidence grows in you, it comes from inside, from within.

If you don't have a positive self concept start by building one, I'm not telling you to live in this state fully...

I'm telling you to build one, your name; face; routine; behavior; knowledge; every quality you like in you and in others that you want for yourself.

Then start adapting, slowly of fully get into that state, whatever works best for you as long as you get there.

SEE HOW I'M SAYING "WORKS BEST FOR YOU", NOT NECESSARILY "YOU FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE"

It starts with you and you only.

You can work on this by starting with affirmations, even if you don't believe it at first, it'll grow in you.

Selfcare it's also important, see the most confident version of yourself.

What's their routine?

Do they exercise everyday or threee times a week or doesn't need it at all?

What do they eat, is it intuitive eating or do they follow a diet?

How do you dress? the you you like the most to be

Take care of yourself, all of the above are perfectly fine as long as you feel confident doing it.

When you know who you are, you need no confirmation from anybody.

You know it's done.

You know who you are and people telling you otherwise make no change on that.

I'd like to say more but I'll get on to that talk later

XX

[self-improvementgirlie]

https://www.hotgirls.blog/post/how-can-i-be-feminine-and-sensual

How Can I Be Feminine And Sensual?

The journey to embrace and express one's femininity and sensuality is a deeply personal and empowering exploration. In this post, we answer the question 'How Can I Be Feminine And Sensual?' and delve into practical suggestions and reflections to guide you on this transformative journey of self-discovery.

 

Section 1: The Essence of Self-Exploration

 

To embark on the path of embracing femininity and sensuality, start with self-exploration. Reflect on your personal definition of these qualities, considering your values, preferences, and unique style. Understanding what resonates with you lays the foundation for an authentic expression of your feminine self.

 

Section 2: Nurturing with Mindful Self-Care

 

Prioritize mindful self-care practices that nurture both your body and mind. Establish skincare routines, indulge in relaxing baths, and engage in activities that bring joy and relaxation. By treating yourself with care, you

[lavirgoapp]

- I love when the low maintenance woman visit my home | The awakening they get that they could be an Alien Barbie too is insane |

/// HOW TO REMEMBER 💗

- Be selfish! , you come first

- Be selfish , you come first

- Be selfish , you come first

-Be selfish , you come first

///Lavirgo said it first

[mesmemos]

no bs guide to becoming confident (love, money, relationships, career) |...

[lifethroughlenss]

Be Yourself with Confidence.

You should never feel obligated to do or say something just because you think some else wants you to or just to fit In.That’s not natrual or you.The more you stay true to yourself the happier you will be.If you like playing piano,violin,guitar,writting or singing you do THAT.That Is what makes you you! People always have and alway will have In their mind what you can and cannot do,or what you can and cannot say,or how you should and should not dress.Alway remember to be real.Be authentic.Be yourself and you will be happier being you rather than someone else.It will grow you Into a better person, otherwise how can you grow being someone else? You can not.Be confident In your own body, know your worth and grow like a flower In spring.Never rely on someone else to be confident, but always strive to gain confidence on your own no matter what.Be your own cheerleader! Be confident In the way you style your hair,the way you speak,the way you walk, the way you work,the way you write and In everything.Never let strangers and status quo determine who you truly are,NEVER!

[indigo-mermaid16]

Tricks to calm your anxiety and stress

* Stop and notice everything green

* One long inhale

* Pause

* One short inhale

* Exhale

* Sing-talk to yourself

* Catch negative thoughts and talk back to them outloud

* Tap on your nose, under your nose and collarbone

* Clench your fists breathing in, unclench breathing out

[r3alisticreads]

4 Tips to Build Self-Confidence

Build self-awareness – The beliefs you hold about yourself are key in confidence building. Be careful when you form certain thoughts about yourself.

Nourish self-love – Compliment yourself and celebrate yourself. Embracing these practices helps you change the way you view yourself and thus your confidence.

Work on the way you carry yourself – For instance, body language is an important part of confidence. Work on your stance, your eye contact, and your mannerisms.

Challenge yourself – Don’t let fear limit you from accomplishing things you desire. Go out there and try. Confidence is the ability to believe in yourself enough to put yourself out there.

[angelicdive14]

"-I hope you don't give up on love, I hope you fight for it".

I can't describe the impact this vid made on me and my personal growth. The admiration I have for the character and her strength is imense. Even though it's just a tv show, I do believe that there are people who are just like her - they fight alone every single day without any fear, they sacrifice everything in the name of their loved ones, they love deeply and with no conditions and do know how to respect and appreciate others even in their darkest times.

I'm sharing this as an example of how everyone needs to find their own inspiration and strength to keep going every day and not give up.

Special thanks to the person who made this video, I'll be forever grateful! <3

[stemmmm]

bad youtube clickbait thumbnail that reads "I think I just had a therapy session with a DEMON???"

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

Dog Meshi.

[tempo-takoyaki]

Listen, I love the "XL helps HC to see how beautiful he is" scenario as much as the next person... But I also see it like this.

[self-improvementgirlie]

[glitchdollmemoria]

actually. that post about how its important to have weird kinky queer friends. i think the same is true of really every type of ostracized person but in particular i wanna point it out wrt mentally ill people.

if you watch a movie villainizing DID or schizophrenia or something, and you think, "hey, this seems sort of like its based on what my friend has and theyre just a chill person, why are they making my friends condition seem threatening?" thats good.

if you see someone use narcissist as a synonym for abuser and you think, "what, no, im friends with someone who has NPD and i know theyre a kind person, this isnt true at all," thats good.

if you hear politicians try to frame addicts as violent criminals who should be locked up and you think "no, my buddy sam is just sick, their withdrawals are really painful and they dont have a good support system, they shouldnt be locked up for that," thats good.

being able to counter ableist rhetoric with "i know from experience thats not how these people are" is a good thing. like yeah obviously dont make friends with mentally ill people just for brownie points but also try to make the conscious effort to be open to friendship with people who have stigmatized mental health issues. and maybe even more importantly, be someone who makes it clear to others that youre safe to be open about these things with, because chances are youre ALREADY friends with mentally ill people even if you dont realize it, because a lot of us with more demonized conditions try to hide those conditions out of fear, and it helps a lot to know our friends are allies - and then we might feel safe discussing our experiences, IF we want to, and in turn that can help you better understand the realities and diversities of our situations and be less susceptible to ableist rhetoric.

[mienar]

the wandering painter, part one

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