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From 'Dream of a woman' By Cacey Plett.
This sums up exactly how I feel about most transition timelines. As much as they reflect people's experiences, they are also a narrative. And the narratives that get shared the most tell a lot about what our values are. The timelines that get the most attention are the ones where people go from sad, loser, nothing boys into beautiful women.
But if you go to /r/transitiontimelines or a similar place, and sort by controversial or look at what has the least likes, its people who made timelines when they still don't 'pass' yet. Even if they're happy as can be, that's not what people are looking for.
I think it says a lot about what people expect from trans women, that they only want to see us be beautiful. In some cases, that they want to believe they can be beautiful. So there is no value in trans life if you're not beautiful.
#i dont know if this is exactly what the narrative was trying to convey here but it is something i felt while reading it#and i hope thats meaningful to others when shared#i know he's kind of a chucklefuck but i so think 'the queer art of failure' by J. Halberstam has a lot to say about the impetus to he happy#and its conditions#a lot of the time i feel like i have to perform positivity as a trans woman because its whats expected both from women#and from people lucky enough to transition#while at the same time social conditions are worsening and even personally#there arent solutions to much of my dysphoria#regardless of all that you're expected to just be happy even though the conditions for that don't exist#i think being honest about those things#that negativity#can bring its own happiness#and i think thats also valuable#i guess what im trying to say is that i think ugly trannies can be happy and should be valued#i think sad trannies are wonderful and ought to be cherished#and i think people shouldnt have to pretend to be happy in the same way a woman shouldn't have to pretend to be a man#maybe that doesnt make full sense and i need to think harder to communicate my feelings#but thats the vibe rn#anyways#i really like this book and yall should check it out#dream of a woman#cacey plett#trans women#transgender#trans#transmisogyny#transition timeline#i dont mean this post to denigrate timelines btw#just the way that we give certain ones attention and the teleology of transition that follows#books
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flinging your friends over your shoulder like potato sack. dangling them by the scruff stacking them up in your arms like laundry shoving them into your purse etc etc i love it
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from this screenshot from 'starcrossed'
#superman#batman#the flash#wonder woman#martian manhunter#green lantern#clark kent#bruce wayne#diana of themyscira#j'onn j'onzz#john stewart#wally west#justice league#dcau#been working on a couple bigger pieces lately but i had to speedrun this for obvious reasons its so funny#if i worked at warner bros (dream) and my job involved drawing frames like this id be losing my mind#greenbeans art!!
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#dreams in blk#black tumblr#black beauty#black girl magic#poc aesthetic#black people#black women#beautiful black women#black girls#black women aesthetic#black is beautiful#black femininity#black women are beautiful#black woman appreciation#black woman beauty#black women appreciation#black woman#black girl moodboard#black girls are beautiful#black girls rock#black girls of tumblr#black girl beauty#black girl aesthetic#black girl#ebony#ebonycurves#ebony cutie#dark skin#dark skin beauty#dark skin black women
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these are the habits you have to give up before the year is out:
worrying about people and things you can’t control
negative conversations with others
obsessing about what others think
lying for others
expect others to do what you want them to do and get angry if they don't do it
creating expectations on others
gossiping
making excuses for not taking care of your responsibilities
lying to yourself
putting your needs lasts
giving priority to other people's opinions rather than your own
letting the negative opinions of others affect you
limiting yourself
comparing themselves to others and putting them on a pedestal
giving prominence to people who do not deserve it
set boundaries with others but not with yourself
spending too much time on social media
habits you need to implement:
create a daily routine that you feel comfortable with and suits you
calming your mind a few times a day
positive affirmations and healthy thoughts
complimenting others and congratulating their success
letting go of things you can’t control
ending toxic relationships
more time outside
making yourself and your health a priority
self compassion and self forgiveness
taking responsibilities
more self care
beginning with a motivation each day
do what you need for yourself
starting something new (activity, hobby, habit)
not to depend on others and to learn to do things you want to do on your own
focus on the good things and not on the things you don't like
exercise and eat healthy for the sake of your body and not to fit into a beauty canon
getting out of your comfort zone
focus on building healthy relationships rather than being guided by false expectations of how relationships should be
be true to yourself and your values
not to sell or denigrate you for money or lavish gifts
#that girl#green juice girl#self love#self esteem#levelup#self improvement#self worth#leveling up#pink pilates princess#level up journey#becoming that girl#becoming her#best version of yourself#live your best life#live your own life#live your dreams#healthy living#manifest#manifestation#high value mindset#high maintenance#high value woman#habits#self healing#healthy lifestyle#healthy tips#that girl aesthetic#mindset
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proof that they were together in the past or... it could all mean nothing
#armandiel#armandaniel#devil's minion#armand#armand iwtv#daniel molloy#interview with the vampire#iwtv#assad zaman#eric bogosian#myiwtvedit#armandielalreadyhappened#look I get the whole daniel not being intimidated by armand and that intrigues him#intrigues them both#but... THESE MOMENTS#especially the alice scene#it was the only moment we saw armand genuinely being affected by someone's reaction#that doesn't affect him at his story at all (absolutely nothing to lose if Daniel was sad on the contrary)#was it just empathy?#why#and WHY DID DANIEL FEEL FREER TO HOLD A WOMAN'S HAND IN PARIS as opposed to anywhere in the world#esp since we established paris was more queer friendly#hm???????????#let me dream
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bring your kid to work day
★bonus: he’s impressed
#batman#bruce wayne#dick grayson#robin (dick grayson)#justice league#superman#clark kent#hal jordan#wonder woman#dc comics#my art#digital art#this came to me in a dream#love the idea of Bruce just taking his kids to league meetings and everyone's like '?? ok ig??'#I also really really wanted to draw small baby robin#batfamily
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#ai woman#ai girl#ai babe#ai artist#ai image#ai model#ai art#ai artwork#ai art gallery#ai generated#ai beauty#ai sexy#ai nude#dream#flowers#braids#ai anime
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“1950s horror movies contrast radically with their 1940s predecessors. understandably – they were reflecting a whole new world. audiences wanted stories that connected directly to their lives, to the ever-expanding technology in their homes and workplaces. they also wanted horror movies that played to their fears – stoked by politicians – of the shadows that lay beyond their immediate, personal experience of the shiny american dream (applies to some of these movies).”
#obviously the american dream part really only goes for the american ones listed no the foreign ones#horror#horror movies#horroredit#moviesedit#filmedit#cinema#horror cinema#the creature from the black lagoon#them!#the thing from another world#curse of the demon#the beast from 20000 fathoms#it! the terror from beyond space#tarantula#fiend without a face#the fly#dementia#the blob#the bad seed#plan 9 from outer space#the mummy#house on haunted hill#horror of dracula#invasion of the body snatchers#house of wax#the night of the hunter#godzilla#les diaboliques#attack of the 50 foot woman
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Gal Gadot
#gal gadot#actress#icons#celebrity#fashionstyle#fashion sexsi hot#fashion model#sexy celebrities#beautiful woman#model#lovely dress#biutiful pic#pretty woman#ladies in red#a woman is always dancing between reality and dream.#stunning woman
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gemma ward photographed by karl lagerfeld for harper’s bazaar 2006
#girlhood#girlblogging#dollcore#coquette#dollette#femcel#female hysteria#divine feminine#girlblog#just girly things#whisper girl#manic pixie dream girl#lana del ray aesthetic#lana del ray aka lizzy grant#lana del rey#gaslight gatekeep girlboss#hell is a teenage girl#this is a girlblog#this is what makes us girls#im just a girl#it girl#girlblogger#girl interrupted#girl interupted syndrome#gemma ward#2000s magazine#2000s photography#2000s model#brigitte bardot#and god created woman
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Oh my god.. this post was cooking i had to..
#dungeon meshi#delicious in dungeon#dunmeshi#thistle dungeon meshi#art#izutsumi#chilchuck wasnt actually mad he just wanted sleep LOL#OH YM GOOOD THISTLE IS PERFECT FOR IZUTSUMI#maybe he has the occasional weird dreams bc of thistles magic but mb his desires being eaten made it tamer.#whats with thistle and his attraction human monster hybrids (falin and izutsumi)#i think he sees her as just some random fuckass cat#the same way how thistle was not bothered by the dragon looking like a woman now. its not his business#“whats this cat doing here? erm... anyways”#thistle the perfect size too... and the beds big and he doesn't move nearly as much... heh#ik izutsumi and yaad are buddies... but i think izutsumi is still confused tk how his doll friend turned into some old man
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#dreams in blk#black tumblr#black beauty#black girl magic#poc aesthetic#black people#black women#beautiful black women#black girls#black women aesthetic#black pride#blackness#black culture#black femininity#black woman appreciation#black woman aesthetic#black women are beautiful#black women appreciation#black girls rock#black girl moodboard#black girls are beautiful#black girl aesthetic#black girls of tumblr#black girl beauty#black girl#black hair#natural hair#black hairstyles#dreads#natural hair care
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what to invest in to look and feel good this 2024
nutritionist or books on healthy and balanced nutrition
dental treatments
endocrinologist, if you need to know and take care of the functioning of your hormones
treatments for the care of your skin and hair, such as hairdressing, good products for hair and face, facial cleansing, treatments that your skin needs, go to a dermatologist if you need it, know what type of skin you have and know what are the right products to take care of it.
gym, a sports activity or time to do some exercise on your own, such as training at home. this not only helps your body look good, but also improves your physical and mental health.
psychological therapy, there are still people who believe that the psychologist is only necessary for people with serious problems, but that is not so, a therapist can guide us and help us to improve in the areas of our life that we want.
energy therapies, which would be complementary to psychological therapy, such as reiki, energy cleansing, access bars, among others.
quality time with yourself, do the things you enjoy, your hobbies and also time with people who make you feel good and from whom you can both enrich each other.
and if you have more ideas about this, share them in the comments, it can be of great help to other people ✨
#that girl#clean girl#it girl#pink pilates princess#green juice girl#level up journey#levelup#leveling up#high value mindset#high value woman#feminine energy#divine feminine#main character#live your story#live your dreams#live your own life#live your best life#best version of yourself#love yourself#self love#self esteem#self worth#self improvement#self concept affirmations#self care#self concept#self confidence#health and wellness#healthy#healthy living
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My Dream VOTV ending where Kel goes with the Arirals and gets the fuck outa there and never worries about student loans again and gets to finally see a damn doctor. Especially after some recent lore hints from Monique.
#voices of the void#votv#art#Agremia Armuntela#dr. kel#the millennial dream of having all your needs met by a powerful woman
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HIGH CLASS BABE
#black femininity#feminine#high maintenance#femininity moodboard#black women in luxury#hypergamy#hypergamous#level up#self development#moodboard#self care#black women in leisure#black girl luxury#high value woman#bougie#levelling up#black women in femininity#black girls in luxury#moodboard aesthetic#black girl moodboard#luxury moodboard#hypergamous woman#hypergamous lifestyle#classy black women#soft life#dream girl#dream body#dream girl journey#spoiled girlfriend#spoiled gf
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