#black girls are beautiful

[elleseeof]

I'm not shy, I'm just selective

[theereina]

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JUST FIGURED I’D BLESS YA’LL THIS MORNING 😏

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Period!

I won’t pretend that I haven’t ever slipped into this self-deprecating mindset, we’re only human after all lol. But it’s always important to snap out of it, remind yourself that Black women/girls are beautiful, feminine, and loved, and that we don’t need the world’s approval to be whatever we want to be! It’s definitely better than going on Reddit and bringing down your whole race while getting comments from men going “well I’m just not attracted to Black women because they’re all loud and aggressive and speak bad English, and also according to science Black women have more masculine features than white and Asian women and are also the most likely to be bald and obese” none of that bullshit is true. Black girls are beautiful, pretty, smart, sexy, cute, elegant, fierce, feminine, anything we want to be! We don’t need to compare ourselves to other races of women in order to shine! Our hair is voluminous and defies gravity and we have skin that radiates in the Sun, we are gorgeous!!! The only reason society tries to tear us down is because they see how beautiful we are and try to squash it in us. And that’s just not okay. It has nothing to do with us, it is always society. I just wish so many Black girls would stop internalizing the idea that it’s us and learn to love their own race. Doing this self-hatred shtick is just succumbing to and validating the horrific horrible views that people already have about us. Don’t fall prey to it, please!

I’m begging Black girls and especially younger Black girls to please stop going on the Internet and complaining about being the least attractive/feminine/desirable and how guys don’t want you and how much you hate being a Black girl and wish you were another race(usually white/East Asian is what I see) so that you could be seen as beautiful/get the guy you want/not hate yourself every time you look into a mirror. Please. Stop doing that shit. I understand the soul-crushing way that Black girls are treated in society, and how insistent the world and people in general are in stripping us of our femininity and beauty and trying to gaslight us into believing that we’re ugly, and because of that it is so so easy to fall prey to the “we’re the ugliest of women and no one will ever love us” mentality. But when you make posts like these, talking down on yourself for being Black and expressing envy towards non-Black women, you are not only shitting on every Black woman out there who looks like you, you’re also giving non-Black girls an ego boost and letting them believe that they really are more attractive and valuable than us and that we’re “the ugly ones” because Black girls themselves are saying it and self-deprecating themselves.

I’m begging you to please stop going on these intensely anti-Black and misogynistic hate sites dedicated to hating on/tearing down women and venting about how being a Black girl is such a curse and a terrible burden and how you’ll never be as beautiful as a white/Asian woman because you have dark skin and coily hair. All you’re doing is putting yourself in harm’s way and validating the way people already think about us while shitting on your fellow Black sisters by painting us all with the “undesirable/ugly” brush. I understand that the rest of the world constantly tells us that we’re ugly/unlovable and less womanly than the rest of the groups. I understand feeling anger, confusion, and frustration at how were treated by people who are supposed to care about us and protect us. I understand feeding into it. But please don’t. Especially not on sites that prey on women’s insecurities and are filled to the brim with people who hate Black women with a seething passion. They’re only going to tell you that you’re right, not comfort you and make you feel better, you can’t rely on these sites for validation. Please talk to your friends and family or a therapist if you feel insecure about your race, and either follow Black female content creators who uplift Black women/girls or get off of social media for the betterment of your own mental health. Please. I’m begging you. 🙏🏿

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[elleseeof]

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[theereina]

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