#deadname tw

[prestonmonterey]

i fucking hate the dentist so much

i have to get a bunch of cavity fillings

and its NOT MY FUCKING FAULT

its genetic shit

all by back tweth have massive grooves :(

(uh also getting deadnamed fucking sucks)

[queerism1969]

[one-time-i-dreamt]

Someone on Roblox said they knew my name, said my DEADNAME instead of the name I’m comfy with and didn’t leave me alone afterwards.

[davidtennan-t]

TW: Deadname Mention

As awful as it is to bring up Rose’s deadname, there’s a subtle message behind why Donna named her child ‘Jason’

The name Jason means ‘healer’

Donna named her child after the Doctor, choosing the closest name which represents the Doctor - she named her child after her very best friend, even when she couldn’t remember him

[yourpostisonpinterest]

@acybernetickiwi

i found your post on pinterest!

[madebysimblr]

Envy: There you are! How bad was it?

Spike: About as bad as expected. She didn't even know I had been staying with you. Called us both freaks. [sighs] And doubled down on keeping me from seeing Aaron. If I stay away, she won't mess with the hearing.

Envy: Oh...

Spike starts crying

Envy: Do you want to skip? First day of school is always nonsense anyway, my mom won't mind. She gets it.

Spike: [BIG sniffle] I am so lucky to have you both. But no, I'll be ok. I want to make sure the teachers all call me by the right name.

Envy: Ok. If you change your mind though.

Spike: I'll let you know.

-

Axel: Everything ok?

Spike: It will be. Anyway... What were you two talking about before I showed up?

Envy: Oh! Axel is gonna be an uncle!

Spike: Yeah?

Axel: Yeah! Zane and Gigi stopped by yesterday to tell us the news. Well I guess mainly to tell mom- but still. Exciting. Gigi is due in... Shit I can't remember, spring maybe?

Spike: Dang didn't they just get married? Your brother works fast.

Axel: [snorts] I said the same thing.

Emerson: Oh my god! Allison! I went to go visit you this summer and your mom told me you had run away!

Spike: [sighs] This is going to be such a long day.

Envy: I got it. Heya Em! So first of all, he's going by Spike now. Second of all, you know like... Everyone in the school right?

Emerson: Uh- yeah?

Envy: Great! Would you mind getting the word around that there's been some changes with the Trujillo and Dolan kids? I'd like to be called Envy now.

Emerson: I can do that! Sorry Spike, I didn't know.

Spike: It's alright, Em. I hadn't told anyone other than Envy for a long time.

Emerson: With your mother, I understand... Don't worry, I'll make sure everyone is on the right page. Leave it to me!

-

Envy: There! By the end of the day, no one should be deadnaming you.

Spike: Thanks.

[rannnem]

pov: your sister just came out as trans and your neighbour is trying to saw her antlers off with a blunt knife

[kiwisandpearls]

I desperately wish some cis people could understand that if you accidentally misgender a non-cis person, they’re probably not going to react as badly as they assume they will.

no, instead they will (rightfully) react badly if you have shown to be continuously and purposefully misgendering them. Then of course you’re going have people on your back about that, and calling you a dick, because you did a dick move by purposefully misgendering someone and calling them something they did not want to be called.

[hana-no-seiiki]

BLURB/SNEAK-PEEK FOR THAT YAN DOCTOR FIC IM WORKING ON

tw/cw: gn/amab! reader. trans masc yan. (for the whole fic but not here) dub/noncon, breeder reader, medical malpractice. dom! reader. sub! yandere. yandere is sort of a loser if we discount his success as a doctor lol. wholeass incel. reader is kind of a thembo.

[LINK FOR THE FULL FIC]

Nahil prided himself as the ideal doctor. He had a long list of patients under his belt. Medicine was his lifeblood. He poured thousands and thousands of hours into meticulously honing his skills and knowledge on the human body.

However that led little to no room in progressing his skill with communication. Actually conversing with his patients. Despite his perfect streak with diagnoses and treatments, when it came down to talking? He was absolutely lost.

“Doctor Amin~ I’m here for my monthly check-up”

You, on the other hand, are a total communication expert in his eyes. You made it seem so easy, so effortless. Throughout his time with you as a resident and eventually a proper medical practitioner, you taught him so much. Made him a lot more comfortable with speech — and heck, other people in general — in ways you were not even aware of.

“Annual. You chose to make it a monthly endeavor, Mx. [L/N].”

“Oof cold as ever. Just how I like you.”

What he did not understand was how you could be so kind, so flirtatious, so utterly slutty to him when you already had a significant other.

“Please, save it for when I’m less stressed will you?”

“Fine~!”

It was unfair to both him and your partner. You led him on all these years just to get with someone not even worth your time.

But he had a solution, a solution that’ll both teach you a lesson and give him a taste of you that he’d been yearning for.

All it took is one prick.

©️ hana.no.seiiki - yun | 2023

[dermy-der-demp]

KUBOSAI SCENARIO KUBOSAI SCENARIO

Saiki's Parents are on a travel, he's home alone,aren lives alone and they're on school vacations,Saiki ends up staying with aren for a couple days bc reasons it's not important

SOOOO

When they're staying up late watching a Yakuza movie on the living room or sm that kubo can talk off (maybe infodump) saiki starts to close his eyes bc he has been so freaking sleep deprived lately he's almost hallucinating

Kubo notices so he puts a blanket on his back while the movie ends so he can let saiki rest on the sofa before preparing the futon near to his bed,saiki tries to stay awake but is just babblings inconsistencies and kubo says something among the lines "haha I never thought I could see you like this! I could even call you "kusuo" being this close" and saiki growls or proyects something that makes clear sm it's disgusting him but it's not specific and aren goes "uh?" and saiki is so dizzy and strangely calm that "[no…,I don't like it…]" and aren tries to convince him that it is a really good name until the things go "I think it's good,like,manly!" "[Mmm…that's the problem]" "…?" saiki thinks,kubo can keep his mouth shut most that the others and is sure that he wouldn't betray them on any situation so,why not? "[Kusuo is too masculine,Kuriko is too feminine,I'm…both but I don't like extremes…]" Kubo losses his FUCKING MIND,like hIS MOST RESERVED AND QUIET "FRIEND" HAS JUST COME OUT TO HIM ON HIS HOUSE WHERE HE–SHE(?),WHERE SAIKI IS GOING TO STAY FOR DAYS NOW

Saiki is regretting to say anything hearing the desperation in Aren's thoughts because he does not know what to do. Saiki settles down, hiding his face in the pillow he is hugging and Aren's head falls silent as a decent thing to say crosses his mind "So,if you don't like those is there some name that you like to be called?" Saiki hesitates on answer "[…(some neutral name that keeps the "ku" at the beginning)]" "oh that's…an excellent name!"

Then it's a "talk" (saiki is half asleep already) abt names and others things until they both fall asleep

+You can add nonbinary kubo too with breaking the egg or sm like "Wait- there is a term for that?"

[kittehbiscuits]

Juno is drunk

[bucciarati-answers]

What was your parents' reaction when they found out that you are boy?

"When I found out about being transgender, mom wasn't there anymore, but..."

Omg flashback yay!

[no-name--kid]

sometimes i wonder if my friends truly see me as a boy. i mean, they all call me my preferred name. they use my preferred pronouns. but do they really see me that way? or do they just humor me? and how far does that go? will there be a time where they just stop? and go back to treating me how they used to.

do they see me as a boy? or to them am i just a girl, pretending to be a boy?

is my identity one to respect until it can be ignored? purposefully deadnaming and misgendering me for some cheap joke? reassuring me that im a boy just to excuse grabbing me in all the wrong places?

am i actually a boy to them, or just a girl pretending to be a boy?

what will it take for them to see me as a boy? i can't do anything without being put into a dangerous situation at home. is that funny to anyone?

because to them, that's just a joke.

[lefluoritesys]

I was going to answer a post about alters using deadnames a couple days ago, but I lost it, so here's a separate post about it.

It really depends on the circumstances and your unique situation when an alter wants to go by your body's deadname. And it's very nuanced, so there is no, "alters should(n't) go by your deadname."

We have three alters who go by variations of our deadname.

One of them goes by it because they are a little who formed with it during childhood and carried it for decades.

The other formed during a tough time medically and had to deal with one of our worst triggers every day for months. Our DN (deadnam) is not only all they knew of who they are, but since it was our legal name at the time, it's what doctors knew us by.

The third carries our proper DN, though we haven't met them yet and only know about them from gatekeepers.

We still have issues with our DN in English, but we've learned to accept those alters and their names through a bunch of reflection, getting their sides of the story and their reasoning, and learning to see our DN as a legal label to our body rather than something that shapes us.

Our advice is: have a sit-down conversation with the alter(s) who wants to go by your deadname and figure out why they want to use it. See if you can come to a compromise via a nickname, a different spelling of the name, etc. And also look at the factors such as, how long have they had it before, if at all? How old are they? How personal is it to them? Does it help their healing journey? Do y'all have issues with your name that you can solve and/or would benefit from solving, or not? Stuff like this matters. Communication is key.

-host, memory gatekeeper

[gaytwirights]

avatar : god :: god : dead

thinking about Behemo/s and her complicated identity again on this fine sunday evening

[mizuribbons]

i asked alexa for the temperature and she fuckin deadnamed me so let's kill her