#tw misgendering

[spacetwinkk]

Another big thing is that they can't say that all trans people are anything. Some people in the comments said they aren't hurt or hurt to the same degree as this post is saying and that's true and the point. One group does not have a sole experience—a single story. Just because you misgender someone close to you doesn't mean they're okay with it or not okay with it and definitely doesn't mean anyone has the same relationship to getting misgendered as they do. Never use your unwillingness to put effort in as an excuse to hurt people and also understand that we are each our own, whole person.

sometimes i see cis people say "trans people will understand if you misgender them at first. i call my nephew 'her' all the time and he knows i don't mean it" no he doesnt. he probably never hangs out with you for more than ten minutes because that's how long you can last in a conversation before making him feel like shit. also he thinks you're, best case scenario, stupid for not being able to figure it out, or worst case scenario, uncaring about him and his needs. he doesn't like spending time with you. you're deluding yourself into thinking you're far kinder than you are. you're weird man.

[luxiomahariel]

this argument that terfs dont hate trans men/mascs just as much as trans women/fems has been pissing me off for a while and i wanted to collect a bunch of vile shit that terfs have said about trans men/mascs to show just how much terfs hate us in a very distinct way

but i really did not want to actually look through terf blogs and posts and subject myself to all that hatred because i will just end up feeling fucking miserable

LUCKILY i remembered caelan conrad did three entire movie length videos discussing the gender critical movement and they showed a SHIT TON of screenshots of the stuff these women would say behind closed doors, so here is the screenshot amalgamation of how terfs REALLY feel about trans men/mascs that they "pretend" to care about:

i have linked caelan conrads videos under the readmore as well as included content warnings

and here is my disclaimer: i am NOT CLAIMING that terfs hate trans men/mascs more than trans women/fems. i am showing you how they hate our two groups in vastly different ways that sometimes overlap and sometimes dont. but they DO target ALL OF US MORE OR LESS EQUALLY. STOP DOWNPLAYING THE OPPRESSION OF TRANS MEN/MASCS AND LISTEN TO US WHEN WE SPEAK OUT ABOUT THIS SHIT AND UNDERSTAND THAT WE WANT TO FIGHT AGAINST OUR OPPRESSORS TOGETHER. WE WILL NOT BE ABLE TO DO THAT IF YOU KEEP DOWNPLAYING OUR EQUALLY VALID STRUGGLES IN ORDER TO CLAIM THAT YOURE THE MORE OPPRESSED GROUP OF TRANS PEOPLE. WE NEED TO STAND TOGETHER. AND THAT CAN HAPPEN WHEN WE ACKNOWLEDGE EACH OTHERS PROBLEMS AS EQUALLY SIGNIFICANT.

content warnings for: transphobia, exorsexism, homophobia, misgendering, slurs, conversion therapy, dehumanization, mentions and depictions and mocking of suicide, mentions of sexual assault, mentions of physical assault, internalized queerphobia, discussion of cults, misogyny, racism, misogynoir, white supremacy, islamophobia, antisemitism

[wyldhavoc]

How many signals that I’m not a guy do I have to give!?!? 🙃

[biteofboredom]

PSA that using they/them pronouns for trans people who have explicitly said that they do not use they/them pronouns is still very much misgendering.

Just because they/them is gender neutral does not mean it can't be used to misgender.

[confusedcunny]

Misgendering without Detransition kink

I love detransition kink, but lately I have been a lot into misgendering without the detrans.

Hear me out: You've been on T for years. Yes, you're hairy, bearded, your voice deepened, you have a flat chest... sure... but you've still got a womb and a pussy. He doesn't give a shit about what you look like. If need be he could pull a bag over your head or watch some porn with beautiful women instead. All that really matters is that you have a nice soft, warm hole for his cock, and perhaps a place for his seed to take hold. He's not interested in "turning you (back) into a girl", because you already ARE a girl. It doesn't matter how far along you are in your transition. You were born with a pussy, by default he sees you as female, and he always will. He sees right through you. Not for how feminine you could become, but for how feminine you already are. Your hips, high waist, small hands and feet, the lack of bulge in your pants, he can even see it in your eyes.

So yeah, sometimes it's enough just getting misgendered, your identity simply so disrespected and just used for an easy fuck.

[shirecorn]

Sunburst's cloak doesn't fully cover his wings...

[ihatemakingusernames]

"Look what you've done to me!"

He said, staring down at the pile of fat on his lap. His gut had expanded nearly enough to cover the entirety of it... If he sucked in, sometimes, he could still see the tips of his knees.

His hands moved from the soft, doughy, lard of his gut to fondle his enormous breasts. That's what they were now, breasts. They had to be. They were far too large, and almost too feminine, to be referred to as moobs. His hands gripping the fat, were almost swallowed by the sheer amount of flesh that hung from his obese frame.

He no longer had much of a neck. His chins turned to rolls resting on top of his fat encased shoulders. His arms, huge, soft, and dimpled with cellulite. Shockingly, he didn't have many rolls there. His skin looked like it had been inflated with soft, jiggling fat, that filled them out evenly, like pillows.

His legs were massive. Wider than my waist, and continually growing. You could tell at one point his calves might have been muscular, having to carry around all that weight, but they had been consumed by a thick layer of firm fat. Taut, but still jiggly when he lumbered down the hallway. His thighs? Oh his thighs were exquisite. Enormous and soft. Wide and wobbly, with that fat roll up on the top that if you looked too quick you might mistake for his fat pad. Almost obscene until you realize what you're looking at.

Then, if you could figure out how to heave his gut out of the way, there it was. The watermelon sized blob that sat over his dick. It had been at least a hundred pounds since you could see his piggy cock peeking out from beneath it. It was swallowed now, beneath the weight of his greed, but, not to worry, his lust was still satiated on a regular basis. His body was his Fleshlight. You could see the entirety of him sway and wobble when thrusted against himself. His moans infectious, you could see the pleasure rake across his bloated face as he gorged himself on yet another meal... that to you or I, would be a feast.

Yes, I did encourage him. Feed him. Bring him food. But it was he who agreed to eat. He who begged to be stuffed. And he, who on a particularly submissive night, would whine and plead to grow fatter... For me.

[dumbcuntboy]

i'm doing a little notes game!!

100 notes and i'll put my deadname in my bio

200 notes and i'll buy a cute outfit of your choice!

300 notes i'll post an audio of me touching myself

500 notes i'll go out dressed fully fem and correct people if they call me he/him

my dms and asks are always open for more ideas 💕 i'll keep adding to this post

[homoeroticicarus]

I want my kinks to ruin my life. I want to be so horny all the time that the only thing I can do, only thing I want to do, is rub my cunt for hours every day.

I want to be porn, cock, and sex addicted

I want to be so brain dead and used that I'll listen to exactly to what I'm told. I want to be a mess of a person & only be of use when humiliating myself

[your-unfriendlyghost]

no idea why, but transfem Soda au has me in a chokehold rn

tw for accidental misgendering- Steve just says “man” a lot and forgot not to

[deadeyedfae]

The infamous self misgendering we all go though! (lil early hint at plurality as well I guess 😅) this is another redraw of a very old comic!

[luxiomahariel]

review posted on shinigami eyes

[anightmareandawetdream]

fakeboys that just lurk...

i cant wait for you to get so horny you make an account

so horny you follow disgusting porn accs

so horny you start to get off to misogyny porn

so horny you take pictures of the things that make you dysphoric..

then you post.

just thoughts at first, then things you're into, things you want people to do to you

then you start responding to dms, and sending those pretty pictures..

you'll never be able to stop it now. the thought has already wormed its way into ur mind.

silly girl.

its only a matter of time.

go ahead! get off thinking about your naked body posted on here with too many reblogs for it to ever disappear.

it only gets worse from here.

happy detrans december!!

[heckitall]

God, I Have Some Questions

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[confusedcunny]

Detrans December Challenge

Alright I'm doing it! A notes game going from now until 1 December 2023 00:00. The results of the notes will dictate what I'll do during Detrans-December!

Every 10 notes is a day of wearing lace panties. 20 notes: I grow out my hair further. 50 notes: I shave my pussy smooth and keep it smooth. 75 notes: I'll write my deadname on my body. 100 notes: I lower my next T shot with 1/5th. 125 notes: Every 50 notes beyond this point my T is reduced another 1/5th. 150 notes: I shave my whole body smooth and keep it smooth. 175 notes: I draw a womb and ovaries on myself. 200 notes: I dress up in thong, bra, skirt, stockings (as fem as I can with the clothes I have) and share it here. 225 notes: I do more body writing based on your suggestions. 250 notes: I masturbate in girly clothes. 275 notes: I upload myself humping a pillow. 300 notes: I watch a feminization hypnosis every other day. 325 notes: At this point my first shot is skipped. Every 50 notes beyond this point I reduce a fifth of my next shot, and then the next etc. 350 notes: I practice penetration once a week (I'm kinda bad with that right now). 400 notes: I get a pink piece of jewelry for my bellybutton piercing. 450 notes: I watch a feminization hypnosis every day. 500 notes: I go outside dressed in a skirt. 525 notes: I add new goals...

I'm excited to see the results, and who knows, maybe in January I'll really get to say:

"New year, new me!"