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“Transandrophobia is just trans men and mascs waving around their AFAB status like a radfem while saying men are oppressed like an MRA. It’s pure entitlement.”

Meanwhile trans men and mascs are dying from treatable diseases that aren’t being caught because they’re being denied medical care at obgyn offices or being forced to birth children because of lack of abortion care even in places where abortion is legal.

Just like. I don’t know.

It’s completely true that our requirements of certain types of medical care come from our anatomy. Bringing that up isn’t the same as radfem rhetoric.

It’s also true that our oppression as trans men and mascs by-way-of these denials of service is made worse if we look like men. Bringing that up isn’t the same as MRA rhetoric.

Could people actually engage with trans men and mascs issues as they are, instead of projecting things about cis women and cis men onto us?

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(in regards to thay post about genderfuck ppl) Some ppl on this site are getting dangerously close to saying 'being nonbinary is bad bc is makes real transgenders transfemmes not be taken seriously by the cis'

Like swapping out 'trenders' w/ 'afabs' or 'tmes' doesnt stop it from being blatant transmed talking points.

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“I’ll just rest my eyes” is the biggest lie you’re going straight to snorkmimimi land

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Callout post time!!! ✨

@strawberry-crocodile

shat a #hot take and presented it to the crowd

then of course degendered me called me a binary trans woman a transmisogynist for disagreeing with her and blocked me

real classy gal

screenshots below because reblogs have been turned off

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sorry bestie but its loads more transmisogynistic to degender a very openly publicly binary trans woman who youve repeatedly interacted with before who uses the collective us pronoun when referring to trans women in this post because you disagree with her than it is to disagree with a bad take

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Remake of my oc model from 2023. Now with more defined polygons!

Old one below 👇

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showing off all the flags ive designed thus far : >

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are u guys aware of the cat-related nounself pronouns flags please tell me you are. look at them

cat/catself flag

lion/lionself flag

meow/meowself flag

mew/mewself flag

mrrp/mrrpself flag

purr/purrself flag

all were made by PhysicsAndPuns iirc. I need tumblr to see them. I love them

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I just designed some crosspronominal flags

He/Him Woman Pride Flag

For women using he/his/himself pronouns.

She/Her Man Pride Flag

For men using she/herself pronouns.

He/She Abinary Flag

For abinaries using she/he pronouns.

Crosspronouns are defined as people who use an “unexpected” pronoun in the PNC flag post. Man/woman flags by @trintinic, abinary flag by @beyond-mogai-pride-flags, he/him & she/her flags by @love-all-around1223.

Reminder these flags are regardless of orientation, AGAB, gender alignment (e.g. transness) and presentation.

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To all the transfems that bring up forced sterilisation when a transmasc talks about forced impregnating and a loss of bodily autonomy: stop.

Transmascs also face forced and coerced sterilisation. In many places, it’s only recently that any trans person can change their legal gender without being sterilised. This is not a problem specific to transfems.

The issue is more complicated for trans people who can give birth (including some intersex transfems) because cis people want them to become baby machines so bad. This introduces more barriers when somebody wants to make certain legal and medical decisions for themselves!

All trans people are directly victimised by a restriction of reproductive autonomy. But the issue tends to be more central for trans people who can give birth, since giving birth is nearly a year-long process that can ruin your life and health. Being forcibly sterilised often is less focal in transmasc activism because, especially as people who might have dysphoria around getting pregnant, being forced to endure that for months, being forced to have permanent and sometimes harmful alterations to your body made, being forced to go through an incredibly painful process where they will almost certainly be repeatedly misgendered, being forced to produce a living being you never wanted to produce, etc., might seem like a worse fate than never being able to have kids in the first place.

This is not me saying one group or another has it worse! And I am not downplaying the pain of transfems (or trandmascs) who were forcibly sterilised. It is still a very serious issue that can cause a lot of pain for many.

But this is me saying that this specific issue is one that much more often impacts transmascs. And if it is not something you will ever be at risk of experiencing, then you have no business taking about how “bad” it would be or comparing the issue to some “equivalent” transfem problem.

Bigotry often does not have perfect equivalents. Transmisogyny and transandrophobia are distinct forces of oppression. Just because one group experience one type of problem doesn’t mean they’re More Oppressed or something. I say this as somebody who experiences both. It’s ridiculous to compare a trandandrophobia-specific problem to a general trans problem or a transmisogyny-specific problem because they just manifest differently. Neither is worse or better. They don’t have perfect equivalents. Don’t let your mind be tainted by oppositional sexism and give your fellow trans people room to discuss their fears and anxieties and experiences with issues that are unique to them.

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man, I was having an existential crisis about my health, and then I look over and Belphie is doing whatever the fuck this is

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Give me jelly beans you fuck head

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inside me there are two lungs. and one liver. one stomach. a few meters of intestine. there's a lot inside me actually

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Amazing how I’m a grown adult and I still cannot shake the exact same childhood feeling of thinking im going to “get in trouble”

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i should wake up and automatically be restored to full health, that's how sleeping should work, what is this horseshit