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Drew Vivian for a render practice/study I did the other day

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if grug honest grug a bit of a faggot.

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Pokémon Center celebrating the Year of Eevee by un-discontinuing the 2017 Eeveelution Pokédolls, but forgetting Flareon is so fucking funny

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saw this for trans women and thought this would be great to replicate for trans men as well

so quick experiment: give yourself a minute and picture a trans man in your head

what comes to mind?

is he white? is he young? is he neurodivergent? is he thin? is he submissive? is he binary? does he pass as male? does he have hirsutism?

take a moment to consider: why does the trans man in your head look like that? is that okay?

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"The reason transmascs act the way they do is because of the white girlhood they experienced"

You're racist

You believe in socialisation theory.

You are being a racist terf.

I have too much going on in my brain right now to analyse the whole post and how you heavily implied through your statement that

'trans women don't focus on if they're valid because they immediately experience a kind of bigotry'

and simultaneously

'trans men do focus on if they're valid'

That you don't think trans men immediately face a kind of bigotry when they come out.

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if ur still complaining about the fucking 'toothpaste' flag then youre a deeply unserious person and you need to grow the fuck up

we are a community, we are going to end up sharing flag designs, if you cant handle that then sit in the corner with your own fucking discomfort for company until youre ready to join us back in OUR community

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everything has been stressful i think . hope you’re doinf good . Have a creature. :3

woag a creacher

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I'm a gay trans guy and I've had several (QUEER) people do the whole "ew men" thing in front of, or AT me, and I don't know what was worse: the "you don't count" or "you, too"

Also whenever I expressed being attracted to more typically Masculine traits instead of just a skinny hairless guy in a skirt I was somehow wrong and misogynistic. Not even saying that was bad, just saying I was attracted to body hair or men in suits or strength or something

I just wish I could be happy without having to cut myself off from what feels like most of my community now

Also prev anon is right, the trans guy tags are genuinely just completely unusable which is Frus Trating

people actively shift the goalposts multiple times when they find out you're a trans man. thank you for your feedback

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its still an intersexist slur and nobody should be calling anyone a baeddel unless said person self identifies as one, thats my belief

there are definitely still people around who self identity as baeddels and i have a blocklist for them specifically here and a lot of transandrophobic people reblog from them so im very wary of anyone that does because they hold very extremist beliefs

As a transmasc who has mostly missed / avoided a lot of what's going on currently, what actually is happening?? It seems like out of no where the whole community is split, and it seems like no one is safe to actually ask about this / talk to about this????

-confused

an indigenous trans man recently coined the term transandrophobia that trans men and transmascs can have as a term to discuss our oppression and transandrophobes think that the term is inherently transmisogynistic for whatever reason so theyve ramped up the "jokes" about wanting trans men/mascs dead

theres also the whole thing about baeddels which is better summarized by this post by a former baeddel and you can look through the rest of that blog for documentation of all the shit they said circa 2012-2016 but i warn you that it WILL make your mental health worse so dont spend too much time there

but yeah trans men/mascs have been trying for over a decade now to coin a term in order to describe the ways in which sexism (mainly misogyny but not always) and transphobia intersect that primarily target trans men/mascs but every time these terms have been shot down and nitpicked and now trans men/mascs are just fed up so we're digging our heels in with the term transandrophobia

not to mention that transandrophobia has gone so unchecked in the queer community that the more popular blogs are finding it acceptable to shit on us which we are also fucking fed up with

hope thats a clear enough summarization, i dont like to make posts too wordy cuz i know it can be tough to read posts that go on too long

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if you feel "vaguely threatened" by a minority group, then youre a bigot, full stop.

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no i dont fucking feel bad that the person who retraumatized me is fucking gone

am i gonna celebrate her blog being deleted? also no

everyone fucking suffered in this situation and im not happy about any of it in the slightest

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I'm sorry, but Alex's reaction to all kind of eggs is so fucking hilarious

Dude just opens it in front of us and eats it like that lmao

Pass for evil egg tho

ALEX NO-

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are they really a zionist or are they just jewish?

question a lot of yall need to really think about lately.

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hope the slutty bisexual boys are having a good day, hope they’re doing good

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it’s level 100 and all it knows is pound. that’s great

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Charizard -- Kouki Saito