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WHAT WE DO IN THE SHADOWS 5.02 (A Night Out with the Guys)
#what we do in the shadows spoilers#wwdits s5 spoilers#wwdit5 spoilers#nandor the relentless#laszlo cravensworth#wwditsedit#wwditssource#wwditsdaily#*a night out with the guys (05x02)#dakotasvibe#userligaya#still haven't figured out how to color this show#love them sm#the pretends to have braincell dumbass x the exactly one braincelled dumbass but doesn't use it#nandors so offended PLS#but it IS true babe you Do That
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I love how on Tumblr, "media literacy" has become "Um, just because someone writes about this doesn't mean they're endorsing this. I hate all these media puritans ruining everything."
I'm sad to inform you that knowing when and whether an author is endorsing something, implying something, saying something, is also part of media literacy. Knowing when they are doing this and when they're not is part of media literacy. Assuming that no author has ever endorsed a bad thing is how you fall for proper gander. It's not media literacy to always assume that nobody ever has agreed with the morally reprehensible ideas in their work.
Sometimes, authors are endorsing something, and you need to be aware when that happens, and you also need to be aware when you're doing it as an author. All media isn't horny dubcon fanfic where you and the author know it's problematic IRL but you get off to it in the privacy of your brain. Sometimes very smart people can convince you of something that'll hurt others in the real world. Sometimes very dumb people will romanticize something without realizing they're doing it and you'll be caught up in it without realizing that you are.
Being aware of this is also media literacy. Being aware of the narrative tools used to affect your thinking is media literacy. Deciding on your own whether you agree with an author or not is media literacy. Enjoying characters doing bad things and allowing authors to create flawed or cruel characters for the sake of a story is perfectly fine, but it is not the same as being media literate. Being smug about how you never think an author has bad intentions tells me you're edgy, not that you're media literate. You can't use one rule to apply to all media. That's not how media literacy works. Sorry! Sorry! Sorry! Aheem heem. Anyway.
#anyway this is just more of that lefty shit where 'well i can't be racist because i'm gay!'#'well i can't be media illiterate because i love villains!'#not how that works babes#'well I KNOW bad from good so i can't be affected by media!'#'everyone else also knows bad from good and defines it the exact way i do!'#'so if i think this is bad then the author must also think this is bad!'#i have bad news ....#also how do you know bad from good? who taught you that? hmm?#did you fall out of the womb knowing? or did you pick up some things on the way here?#'i just know' no you don't! that's what i'm saying!#assuming one thing is always true is the opposite of being a conscious consumer of media soz#assuming someone thinks and knows the exact same shit you think and know is not media literacy!!
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"Growing up is realising a (random ship) you loved is actually weird and bad"
Yeah? Is it? Great, I love it even more. The worse it is the Better.
#seeing alot of gf fans deny the billdip phase and you are all WEAK#god i wrote some true shit for them#do you guys notice how most dni accounts are under 25 cause i do#and we all know why#babes some day this will not matter as much as you fucking think it does#i used to think some things were weird but now im older and weird things is just good taste#explore your ships#youre fucking allowed to age up characters stop letting people stop you thr characters are fake!!!#nothing you do will hurt a fictional character#feel free to ignore this#clicking into an account and seeing a dni and sliding over to the age and being like “yep#yep yep yep i knew it“#never in my life have a seen actual adults care#okay for the sake of this resonancing#freaks interact#lmao#is this discourse?#its for sure proship
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I think… if I wasnt doing work outside of school it would be manageable and not too stressful but alas..
#also told my friend I was working on five zines simultaneously and she just looked at me like ‘why…would you do that to yourself’#so true babe why did I do that to myself
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I think one of the great problems that faces people who are in the industry – within which they have to express themselves – is learning to ignore entirely anyone else’s opinion, especially complimentary opinions because the luxury with being assaulted is that you know instinctively that you’re not to take that onboard because that would affect – in a negative way – what you’re doing. But the same thing could be said for compliments, but they come in sheep's clothing. They invite you to give your sense of self-esteem to someone else because as soon as you start relying upon compliments, then you are giving away your own... I can’t think of the word, but you should be the crux of your own opinion. –Grian Chatten from Fontaines D.C. on Live with KEXP [x]
#every time i hear him speak in an interview i gain a new level of appreciation for him and the band#they are truly refreshing in their outlook and approach to things#his analogies and metaphors are so visceral. comparing compliments and criticism to an 'assault' of sorts is very interesting#that seems to be the age-old question about art though isn't it?#is it good because people like it and connect with it and that's how you measure its success?#or is it successful to you because you're proud of what you've created regardless of how it's received?#people will be quick to praise when they like something that you create but they'll be even quicker to criticize when they don't like it.#and then get angry when you don't do what they want or expected of you#like in the interview he did with nme when he said when people start to think they know you creatively - it feels like flies settling on yo#idk i find it good reminder for everyday life. you can't let people's perceptions & expectations of you dictate what you do#cause it's true. then you start relying on other people to determine your value and worth.#grian giving me life lessons and not even knowing it. thanks babe#fontaines d.c.#grian chatten#interview#kexp 2019#mine
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man i love fanfiction but i find i barely read any these days. as i get older, I really cannot fucking tolerate how in SO MANY fics, the Main Guy's dialogue is extremely strong and rich and interesting, and then Female Lead's voice/dialogue is reduced to just. cracker dust. from the bottom of the bag.
#fanfic#this is true even if she's THE MAIN BABE or whatever#i don't have the patience for boring female characters in me anymore. if she's not deranged i don't care about her#if her primary character traits are Reserved / Shy / Makes Good Choices / Brain Cell Holder like why did you even give birth to her#if i can't hear 3-4 complexes whenever she opens her mouth i'm bout to head out#highly likely this is also why i do not watch much tv#ms woeburne i was 18 trying to write a 30 year old and i failed you on so many levels but at least the shit you said was certifiably insane
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it IS nice, as someone who's a lot more used to 'what if I meet my internet friends irl and they don't like me' type anxiety, to have 'what if I meet my friend's internet friend and I don't like him' anxiety once in awhile instead
#aside from the couple of close friends she brought with her initially when she started dating her now husband#every time she's ever been like 'ohh I want to bring [new friend] into this friend group you guys will LOVE them'#they've been AT BEST just such a wildly different flavor of person from the rest of us that the vibes are almost entirely incompatible#and at worst they are that *and also* actually insufferable#'[friend from work] is a weird dork EXACTLY the same as the rest of us and will fit in SO WELL at board game night'#<- my beloved friend being so wildly incorrect it's actually a little astonishing#I have to assume she's falling into a transitive property fallacy#you vibe with work friend and you vibe with us so naturally those vibes must be exactly the same and inherently compatible#oh babe. that is not true :')#ANYWAY she's got a friend staying this weekend who she met through art streaming on twitch#so like-- I do actually know this one already a little bit#but I'd put it at mmm.... 50/50 that I wanna hang out with him in real life lol. which is great odds considering the track record!#but on the other hand more of a bummer if it does end up being '...ah. no thanks.' aaah#I like him fine right now! it would be a shame if he turns out to be insufferable :')#about me#irl frens
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Xavier: I sleep with a bow under my pillow.
Bianca: I sleep with a knife.
Tyler: Both of you are pathetic.
Xavier: Oh yeah? What do you sleep with?
Tyler: Wednesday.
#and in the next room Wednesday is saying the exact same thing about Tyler#wednesday#wednesday neflix#xavier thorpe#bianca barclay#tyler galpin#tyler x wednesday#wyler#weyler#funny#my post#incorrect quotes#come on you know it's true#I also love how this works for both of them#they never have to be worried cuz they sleep with the biggest weapon around#not in a negative way obviously#Tyler would tear apart anything that looked twice at Wednesday#and she would do the same for him#the couple that slays together stays together#babe you killed someone for me? that's so sweet!#<<< something they have both said to the other
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i hope greta gerwig and the whole team of barbie are having a wonderful day knowing they made men so mad 🩷
#reading men’s reviews of the barbie movie more like “how fragile is men’s ego”#“it’s anti men” it’s anti patriarchy babes#i think the movie while criticising partiarchy and yes men too still showed men were victims of partiarchy as well#also…them acting like… most other things that exist isn’t anti women….#them writing reviews like it‘s not just showing me their true colours lmao ok it isn‘t for you…why do you care#saw plenty of men in my cinema still enjoy the heck out of the movie…cuz you know#there is no reason feeling offended or attacked if you‘re a decent guy oOP i said it#barbie movie#barbie
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how do i do it though. how do i let go of the bitterness and the hardness when they kept me "okay" for so long? does it come when i finally leave? can it ever?
#babes i actually relate to the frigid angry woman more than im comfortable with but this time there's no prince coming to save her and idk#i was never beautiful but i was and am angry and capable and that's served me well but being angry is exhausting#it's a birthright i can't give to a younger sibling. it doesn't transfer.#i dont inspire devotion. there's no version of this that ends with me waltzing with a true love.#im not the type you launch a thousand ships for.#so what's left?#who am i when i have no one? when ive spent my life making *me* less to make others more? when im nothing but a useful piece of furniture.#i know God loves me! i love Him! but it's not the same. i want *people* to love me. i want to be someone that theyd fight for.#im feeling that 'women have minds and hearts but im so lonely' scene from little women 2019 so much right now.#except im not jo. my family loves me but theyd never do for me what jo's would do for her. theyre also all focused on surviving.#i feel like a military ration. there to be consumed but cast aside the moment something more palatable comes around.#how do i become consumed with joy? how do i let go of the cynicism? its all thats kept me safe! but its choking me too.#its like tony stark in iron man 2. the thing thats kept me alive this far is killing me. i need to find an alternative but its looking like#ill have to synthesize a new element to make it happen and that freaks me out.#ive always been derivative. never an individual. how do i become a trailblazer when my job was always to hold the hand of the one blazing#the trail? how do i become myself happy and free?#because i WANT to be more#i WANT to be more than anger and coldness and a useful idiot. i WANT to be me and be so so happy#but i dont know how to get there#and if someone suggests therapy im shooting you. i dont want to listen to one more person pretend to care about me and tell me#all the things i need to change and spend even longer not learning how to think for myself#i want to be more than this. but i also cant stand the thought of taking up any more space than i do#anyway.#anyone who's read all this thank you and i promise im fine im just in my feelings today lol#im going to work out and get some happy brain chemicals flowing and then ill take a shower and itll all be good.#please dont worry about me! im just having A Moment TM#lilac rambles
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sometimes i get embarrassed about how much i know about america. a nyt crossword clue was "chicago newspaper" and i cringed at myself for instantly filling in "tribune." i don't read the chicago tribune. ive never been to chicago. i don't know anyone from chicago. i haven't been to the states in a decade and the last time i did go i just hung out at a friend's louisville alpaca farm. i can't even remember where i heard "chicago tribune." i must not let the internet turn me into an american
#this isnt that serious#the crossword story is true but#most of the time when my us friends tell me something us specific idk shit about it#which is good because patrick finds it very sexy :)#hey babe *twirls hair* do you wanna watch me point to where i think washington is on a map tonight
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I love referring to BODY BACK/Hallowed Bodies/Changing States as a trilogy now because it puts them in direct contrast with each other like harrison’s idea of a night out is embarrassing himself in full costume to don’t cha pussycat dolls & jeremiah’s is having a lot of sex & lonan’s is eating a bowl of cherries alone in his apartment while he watches supernatural
#TAG YOURSELF ULTIMATE EDITION#I need to do a whole infodump about this being a trilogy now like I need to analyze these inside our#Harrison thought he was special with his novella YOU HAVE COMPETITION BABE#competition almost autocorrected to compensation which is true he also has compensation to offer for the emotional damage he caused#in that fur coat
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✨The Absolute✨
My cleric Basil dominating the Absolute! (Not canon, my sweet lad could never)
The evilness was just a treat ✨
#bg3#baldurs gate 3#bg3 tav#dnd#my oc#my oc: basil#cleric#i LOVE the first image#my pretty boy#dominated the brain and my friends#seeing basil be evil and smirk that wickedly had me yelling at the screen#“No babe!! what are you doing!! this isnt like you!!”#like *i* didnt make the choice lol#in his true canon ending#Basil ends up going to avernus with his wife Karlach#happy happy#i miss playing as basil tho#sighs as i press new game and make him again tho this time as a dark urge#round 2 lets go!!#bg3 karlach#bg3 astarion
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flip fuck?
for the @spicygallavichcollab 2023 🖤
rating: E word count: 5K additional tags: tumblr!mickey aka the hornygaythug, alternative universe - roommates, established relationship, existential smut, flip fuck, top/bottom ian gallagher, top/bottom mickey milkovich, valentine's day, lingerie, toys, gift giving as a love language summary: mickey’s always thought that valentine’s day was fucking gay. but then some dramatic, ginger fuckhead had to move into the room next to his, and steal his hole, his heart, and the attention of his tumblr mutuals. mickey decides to keep it lowkey when he asks Ian to spend the evening together: you wanna hang out on tuesday? ian’s response is quick and gives absolutely nothing away: sure thing! that big-dicked idiot better remember it’s fucking valentine’s day.
thank you to @thisdivorce for the beta read & for hosting this collab! & as always, thanks to @breedxblemickey @ianandmickeygallavich & all of the anons & writers who helped to create the tumblr!mickey universe! hornygaythug ilysm! xx
♥♥♥♥♥ read here on ao3 ♥♥♥♥♥
#this was a true labor... of love? perhaps! of spice? you betcha.#it was lovely to be back in the land of the hornygaythug#this is technically a sequel to my fic from last year called (g)loved up which you do not have to read but you should because it's filthy#also the title is very clear what this is so don't like don't read ok?#bottom!ian babes check it out#shameless#shameless fanfiction#ian x mickey#spicy gallavich collab 2023#sgc 2023#bee writes 🐝 ✍🏼
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#cute babes#funny#wei wuxuan#lan wangji#lan zhan#memes#wei ying#mdzs#mdzs donghua#mdzs fandom#lan xichen#xue yang#jin guangyao#nie huaisang#jiang cheng#mdzs meme#how many do you think are true
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#ok I get that everyone mad etc but it drives me crazy that prople act like Gaiman had little/no impact on good omens#that's just not true. there wouldn't be book without him as sure as it wasn't be without Terry#there for sure wouldn't be tv series and especially not with MS and DT as Aziraphale and Crowley#his voice clearly resonate through azicrowley relationships specifically#(I love Terry and his humor but tragic cross star lovers are not his strength#you all make jokes about how sandman dbd and go had the same hundred-years-slowburn vibe#that's what he brings into pairings!)#like you don't need to like him you don't need to discuss author at all! focus on text or on actor's choices etc#but like. it doesn't stop being Gaiman's work as much as Terry's and other people and pretending it is is like#sticking fingers in your ears and going lalala#people can do awful things to one people and wonderful and uplifting to other. that's reality babe! accept it!#I promise you won't become yacky because you read something by Gaiman!#but you *will* look suspicious pretending that you actually doesn't touch anything made by bad people and your fave book/show made only by#good and noble people#anyway. I don't actually care about this or Gaiman it's just that I saw several absolutely identical posts with same#'actually it was made by Terry and Gaiman like breathed a little at text so it's okay to like it because it's not actually Gaiman's work'
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