#blog 1.1

[allegoriesandepithets]

Large Pixel Size A- Flags

[PT: Large Pixel Size A- Flags]

Asexual ~ Aromantic

Aplatonic ~ Aqueerplatonic

Analterous ~ Asensual ~ Anaesthetic

All flags are 3000x2000 pixels.

@tertiary-attraction-archive @radiomogai @liom-archive @imoga-pride

[kittenssketchbook]

A short statement.

My fridge has 2 doors.

One of them is what I open to get food.

The other is in the back of the fridge. I cannot open it. It's a different color than the rest of the inside.

Sometimes, I'll put foods in the fridge, and one day, they'll be gone.

I've been wondering about that for a while.

I've also been wondering how it keeps getting restocked. Especially with foods that are.. unusual.

Mostly meat.

My hypothesis is that there's a Flesh avatar on the other end. Maybe also a Spiral avatar. Maybe they're the same.

I'll see what I can do about that soon.

[yozh1]

ujmmm whos this?

[hotgirlmanifesto]

no candles when i girlblog because im intoxicated and this wig is too expensive to light on fire

[douzheng]

What if.... I made Jing Yuan too....

[diaper-fetiswing]

🔞⚠️ Ultra-detailed diaper training guide :

the goal: to become permanently dependent on diapers forever.

here are the headlines from my training plan

I) 🧠 MENTAL PREPARATION : (Acceptance, letting go, submission)

Before you start diaper training, it is crucial that you accept your kink, eliminate all guilt and let go.

1.1 / Accepting Your kink :

understands that your attraction to diapers is legitimate and personal. It’s not “bad” or “abnormal”.

identifies your mental blocks: shame, fear of judgment, self-sabotage

repeat positive affirmations to yourself: “I deserve to be in a diaper / diapers are my true nature”

find support like my blog, ( so if you link to that you can subscribe because my blog will allow you to achieve your goal, that's the goal )

1.2 / Letting go and submission :

wearing diapers all the time is mostly mental... people often come to me and say: "I want to be incontinent to be dependent" except that this is false and unhealthy... mentally, you have to accept that diapers are is your new reality (and it's a lot of work that takes time but once done is even less reversible than incontinence, but don't worry I'm here to help you)

abandon the idea of ​​choice, it is not a choice... in fact you have the impression that it is a choice, but if you dig into your psychological functioning you will understand that it is a need...

practice submission, (well self-discipline if you are alone): in a relationship, if your wife is dominant and Ok, you're lucky it will be easier for you, but my advice also applies to single, except that instead of someone else dominating you, it's you who must discipline yourself. There must be strict rules, with punishments if you don't follow your diaper training correctly. I'll leave the creativity to you for the punishments but they don't have to be very pleasant.

II) 🕰 PERMANENT WEARING OF DIAPERS :

objective : no longer wear underwear apart from diapers + (it's better but you don't have to) no longer see the toilet as an option.

🗓 ACTION PLAN :

✅️ throw ALL your underwear in the trash, only keep the diapers

✅️ put a diaper on after each time you change (it seems logical, but some times you will be tempted not to wear one again, so always wear a diaper, it's your rule and it's easy to follow)

✅️ always sleep in a diaper

✅️ organize your stocks: you must always have a huge stock of diapers at home...

✅️ (even without aiming for incontinence, I recommend it): prepare yourself mentally: “the toilet is no longer an option for me”

Solution for difficulties :

❌️ WANT TO REMOVE THE DIAPER: you can make your diaper difficult to remove (like by putting velcro on the fasteners)

❌️ SHAME OR DISCOMFORT: remember that you need diapers, that they are necessary.

III ) [💦💩] RE-EDUCATE YOUR BODY FOR INCONTINENCE :

I DO NOT RECOMMEND THIS STEP, INCONTINENCE IS A HANDICAP IT IS NOT A GAME, I RATHER RECOMMEND LEARNING TO OWN YOUR NEEDS IN YOUR DIAPERS WITHOUT INCONTINENCE, but for those who really have the need to become incontinent here is the tutorial:

objective: to learn to remember and automate the use of the diaper.

3.1 / Urinary: loss of control :

🗓 💦 ACTION PLAN :

✅️ Drink plenty of water to force frequent elimination

✅️ as soon as you feel pressure released immediately: NEVER HOLD BACK

✅️ practice urinating in all positions, including lying down, to break the reflexes of holding back

✅️ at night drink before sleeping and urinate as soon as you wake up.

3.2 / FECAL : if I had to choose I would prefer this

🗓💩 ACTION PLAN :

✅️ eat foods rich in fiber, take mild laxatives from time to time to relax your intestines (don't overdo it)

✅️ as soon as you feel the urge, push yourself directly into your diaper without going to the bathroom, even if it's just for a fart

✅️ get used to never delaying elimination

✅️ uses plugs that stretch the anus daily for long periods, such as the balloon plug or the hollow plug, do daily sessions of 4 to 5 hours dilated.

IV ) 👥️ TOTAL DEPENDENCE ON DIAPERS SOCIALY :

the social aspect is quite important, to really sign your life forever it is important to take this point into account. the social and public part alone deserves an entire book... besides, I would love to write a book on learning about diapers... but that's for the future!

here are my tips for the social aspect:

✅️ accept the outside gaze: if someone guesses or sees your diaper, accept it or ignore it

✅️ expose yourself little by little: outings with a diaper more or less visible under your clothes:

✅️ you can tell a certain person you really trust that you are now in a diaper and that it is forever (without explaining why) and if someone asks you questions then you tell them that you need one and you can't do otherwise...

V) 🪷 CONCLUSION :

SO, as I say these are just certain points of my plan to address in diaper training in order to become completely dependent on diapers.

If you want to go deeper into certain steps, let me know in the questions!

[shotmrmiller]

Masterlist

18+ Blog! MDNI

Simon 'Ghost' Riley

I'm your only situationship

Mistress

Inevitable

Situationship into Relationship

Tormented by a Ghost

Submitting to his dominance , part 2, part 3

Please stop staring (or don't)

Good thing we're all dogs

Not a dog, but a rat, part 2

Uninvited, unexpected

Big man, Big mouth

John 'Soap' MacTavish

Maybe Dessert first

John 'just the tip' MacTavish

You'd look better as mine

John Price

Happy trails, John

Loba

Soulmate AU part 1, part 2

Kyle 'Gaz' Garrick

A chance encounter

Drabbles

Ghost being a toxic ex

Ghost with pre-parenthood

141!spotter Simon

141!spotter John

Dom!Ghost

cbf!Johnny

pathetic!Simon

pathetic!Simon extra

pathetic!Simon 1.2

pathetic!Simon 1.3

pathetic!Simon monopolizing you

blindfolded

König

cbf!johnny 1.1

cbf!johnny 1.2

Alpha!Ghost

Alpha!Ghost 1.2

pup!Ghost ask

cbf!simon dbd inspire

neighbor ghoap x reader

neighbor ghoap x reader 1.1

cbf!simon would kill for you

biblically accurate simon

davy jones!simon

ups!simon

cbf!simon teaches you everything

ex-husband simon

ex-husband simon with a twist

simon's not a guy you take home

pen pal simon, 1.2

hate sex ex bf ghost

wrong number w/ simon

single dad simon and related asks

ghoap :)

Reqs

Ghost NSFW

Best friend!Johnny & FWB!Simon AU

Ghost is the unexclusive fwb

Ghoap x reader

Johnny helps with your monthly

You don't need anyone else but us

Escort AU

Needs must, part 2, part 3 (simon, johnny, simon)

Sensual Domination (kyle)

Price

Pet!Reader

Simon meets John's cat

Simon plays with John's cat

Betrayal pet au

Betrayal pet au 1.2

Betrayal pet au 1.3

The boys take you from your old owner

Old owner sees you with the boys

The boys take care of you

Taken to a new home

John doesn't come home to his kitten

Pet needs comfort

Pets exchange hands

Johnny gets himself a fox

Bun waits for Gaz to come home

Multiverse COD

'09 Ghost's wife meets '22 Ghost, part 2, part 3 pre part4, part 4

multiverse asks

Pornstar!AU

pornstar ghost, part 2, part 3

ps!ghost and of!reader prompt

ps!ghost and of!reader, 1.2, 1.3

[siddyyyyyyyy]

Hiii I’m obsessed with your blog! Can you do one where Jason thinks that the reader is cheating on him with dick but it turns out dick is just teaching her self defense hehe

Don't tell Jason

Jason Todd x Reader

wc: 1.1 K summary: Jason thinks you're cheating, almost becomes a murder again, finds out you are just learning self-defense with Dick warnings: some violence, some insults a/n: THANKYOU FOR LIKING MY BLOG!!!!11!!1! this request is so funny actually, i really like it. hope you enjoy it! (divider @saradika)

It's the second time since last week that you're coming home exhausted and slightly disheveled from some hangout. He knows you've been hanging out with his older brother, and he trusts you both a lot, but this is getting strange. Muscle ache and soreness by your thighs and arms? Just what did you both do to be this worn out? Jason actually doesn't want to think about it, but he is pretty concerned that something is happening behind his back.

It doesn't make it better that you just pretend nothing is happening and seem to be yourself as usual. Is he really that better than him? No, you would never cheat on him. You promised to never leave him and all that after all. But he also can't ask you directly and accuse you of something like cheating. Jason's already dreading the truth and the way you'll look at him once he mentions it.

Laying in bed beside you, he massages your thighs gently with his warm hands, apparently sore after hanging out with Dick. Just what is this dickhead doing with you? The second time in a row as well. A sick feeling spreads in his gut as he thinks more about it, eventually nuzzling his head into the crook of your neck to calm down while continuing his soothing motions across your thighs.

The evening ends up with you both falling asleep as usual, however Jason has made up a rough plan. He needs to find out the truth. He could technically just ask you directly and stop overthinking, see if his suspicions are true or not. But no, he doesn't want to come off as desperate or stupid in front of you. It took him a lot of time to open up and be vulnerable with you in the first place, then having introduced you to his family once he was forced to. About a year after you started dating, you met his family in a rather chaotic dinner. But you didn't seem to mind, actually seemed to enjoy his big family and could make easy friends with all of them. Hell, even Damian doesn't seem to mind you.

Once you told Jason you'll be heading out with Dick again, he made sure you didn't notice him following you getting to the manor. He was surprised as you walked in with your own key, not having realised you had a key to the manor in the first place. Shrugging it off, he follows inside, well... rather breaks in, so you won't notice him being right behind you.

He stays in the hallway and watches you walk further into the house, cocking his head to the side once you go into the elevator that's usually used to get to the Batcave. Whatever this is, he is having even more thoughts and doubts, getting an even worse feeling about it all. Have you been hiding a secret identitiy from him and are teaming up with Dick? Why didn't you tell him when you know about his own vigilante-family-circus. He needs to know more. He needs to find out.

He follows right after once the elevator doors open again, getting spooked by Alfred.

»Master Jason. What's the occasion?«

The butler looks as neutral as always, but he can see the hint of a smile in his expression. Are they all teaming up against him? »Oh, Alfred... nothing, just, uh... just a small visit. Yeah... I'll be right back.«

Jason quickly steps into the elevator and presses the button to the Batcave, feeling a bit victorious that he could escape this poor distraction attempt. Now it's time to finally find out what this is all about. His fists clench and unclench, trying to keep his cool and not throw up from all this overthinking and possible situations.

The doors open and he basically storms out as quick as a bullet, halting once he hears heavy panting and small praises. He could never mistake your voice for someone else's and his heart sinks into the floor as he listens more to it. This is bad. Really, really bad.

Jason follows from where the sounds come from, being a little confused on why you're both in the Batcave. Sure, it's probably thrilling to possibly get caught, but... seriously, the Batcave? He didn't know you were into that kind of stuff.

He finally figures out where all the panting is coming from, arriving at the training area. He peeks from the corner, feeling his heart almost explode in his chest. But what he sees is entirely different from what he thought.

Dick is standing in front of you with his hands extended for you, both of your knuckles being bandaged up. You are throwing punches at his hands, focusing on your form and stance, while he gives you some feedback and occasional praises. It seems that you are both concentrated and focused, not noticing him at all and just continuing with... what even are you doing? It doesn't really look like a sparring session. But it also doesn't look like anything he imagined you two would be doing.

Eventually, he steps up and clears his throat loud enough to get both of your attention and stop for now. You light up once you see him, smiling and immediately start talking.

»Jason! Look, we've been training together, I asked him if he could teach me self-defense and he's been teaching me since last week. I'm pretty good at it, I can throw punches, kicks and get out of several pins or locks. He said I'm a natural.«

You decide to ignore his scowl and deathly glare towards Dick as you explain and walk up to him. Jason glances to you and can't help but soften up as he sees your smile, also stepping up to you and wrapping his arm possessively around you.

»You couldn't have asked me?« He questions and keeps his sharp eyes on Dick, who winces lightly at the sight of his brother tearing him apart with his gaze. He takes the sign however and takes a few steps away, leaving you some privacy.

»You are so busy with other stuff, I didn't want to bother you any more than necessary. I was planning on asking you, but Dick is also a great teacher.« You answer him as you lean into his side, stretching your arms, looking up at him.

»Oh, I'm sure.« He grits out and finally tears his eyes away from his brother, looking back to you with a softer expression. Seems like he was indeed overthinking and thinking lowly of you. There's no way you would cheat on some prick like Dick. You notice he still seems to be more on edge, tilting your head at him.

»What did you think we were doing?« You narrow your eyes at him, making him gulp down and start to feel even more stupid.

»Nothing!« Jason manages to answer you quickly, earning a scoff and slap against his chest in return.

a/n: RIP Dick Grayson, you'll be missed. Cause of Death: Missunderstanding from Jason. Hope you enjoyed it!

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[suppermariobroth]

In Super Mario Odyssey, crates exist outside of time.

In early versions of the game (1.0 or 1.1), a glitch exists whereby capturing a stack of Goombas that are touching a Life-Up Heart results in time stopping. All movement except for Mario's own is suspended and almost no interaction with objects is possible.

Top: note how Mario is unable to interact with NPCs while time has stopped. Not only do they not have collision, but all of their functionality is also removed. This applies to the vast majority of objects.

Bottom: however, crates and cardboard boxes are an exception. When Mario performs a Ground Pound on them, they still react to it and become destroyed even though time has stopped, showing that they are fundamentally different from other objects.

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[sicko4smut]

Champagne Coast | B. Bradshaw

synopsis: Your not really sure how everything went so wrong, that summer started like any other and yet by the end of it…everything was completely different

warnings: - Age GAP, reader is 19, Rooster is 34, Reader is Reuben’s niece, secretly “hooking up”, controversial topics, complicated relationship, idiots in love, angst, smut, fluff, beefy, mustached Roo in a Hawaiian shirt being the center of my wet dream

[1.1] The Beginning - The porch swing and where we fucked up

[1.2] The Middle- It’s Awkward and complicated yet we’re still pining

[1.3] More bad decisions

[1.4] The Climax - holy shit show

[1.5] Resolution - (no chapter name yet)

──── THE END ────

PLAYLIST 📻 - ᴺᴼᵂ ᴾᴸᴬᵞᴵᴺᴳ♫♬♪

▶︎ Champagne Coast - Blood Orange

▶︎ Girls Need love - Summer Walker

▶︎ Body - Summer Walker

▶︎ Invite Me - Brent Faiyaz

▶︎ Shame - Summer Walker

▶︎ Deep - Summer Walker

▶︎ Awkward - SZA

▶︎ Pretty Little Birds - SZA

▶︎ Love Scars - Trippie Redd

▶︎ Living Room Flow (Bonus) - Jhené Aiko

ᬊ⃙ 𝓵 ove my 𝒘𝒂𝒚 ﹋ it's a 𝒏𝒆𝒘 𝒓𝒐𝒂𝒅

dividers: @gigittamic , @anitalenia , @cafekitsune ,

Masterlist for another upcoming story that’s in development, that will be posted on my main blog @smutmaniac

[lizardsfromspace]

Hello. As 2024 draws to a close, be aware of upcoming changes to Tumblr regulations in 2025:

You will be allowed to participate in up to two (2) discourses a year. Every further discourse participated in will result in the taking of a tooth

Your blog must feature at least 35% Canadian content

Votre blog doit présenter au moins 35% de contenu canadien

The odds of a Tumbeast emerging from your screen to eat batteries has been elevated from 1% per post to 1.1% per post

Last summer was the year of "Brat", Taylor Swift, and Chappell Roan. In 2025, to limit the number of pop artists you must keep track of, the only allowable music genre on Tumblr will be Christian ska

[silverware-drawer]

What the hell is a "cue es em pee"

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🦈 kocwillrock �� philza

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🪹 philza

@backflipo-numero-uno please stop impersonating your dead daughter on fucking tumblr and get therapy

🦠 backflipo-numero-uno Seguir

NO LISTEN ITS REALLY HER THIS TIME I SWEAR

🪹 philza

I'm reporting you for your own good m8

🪹 philza

and also because you don't tag the months-old interactions with mariana you keep reblogging and I don't wanna see that shit on my dash lmao

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damn slime your dead daughter knows how to write a banger post

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💣 federation-sanitation-unofficial 🔁 im-the-orb-theyre-always-pondering

💣 2b-or-not-2b

Finally finished the enchants on my scythe. Going to test this shit on a dungeon run will update

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you can come over and test it on me instead if i'm closer. like not in a weird way you can just hit me and I'll tell you how close I am to dying, how much blood I've lost etc

💣 im-the-orb-theyre-always-pondering

fuck okay- pac I've been meaning to talk to you about this. Listen.

💣 federation-sanitation-unofficial

you have. . . tendencies

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🔎 cellbo 🔁 peterparkoier

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I hope you enjoy the island.

cellbit-deactivated19358

FUCK YOU

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wait cellbit is this why your old blog got deleted lmao???

🔎 cellbo

shut up

🔎 cellbo

I hear you typing guapito don't you fucking dare

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NO MAMES

🔎 cellbo

GOD DAMN IT

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🌸 bagi-the-vegan 🔁 bagi-the-vegan

🌸 bagi-the-vegan

this island is so weird why did people seriously consider the disgusting green egg as a presidential candidate

🌸 bagi-the-vegan

Nevermind gegg is my son now

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what we need is not government it is true union between the people

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yo soy brazil. nosotros somos brazil. We Are Gegg.

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the sun is a false god but a true threat

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I hope you enjoy the island.

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🔰 etoyless

guys I cant believe it they are introducing dark metal soon its not a lie the admins really said so because otherwise it means they hate me GG woooo good fight i dont have to cry anymore!! well played!!

🪹 philza

etoiles you are going to get banned again stop provoking the feds

🔰 etoyless

you are right philza because you are the best ok i am never going to spam them again

🪹 philza

Good job I'm proud of you GGs

🪹 philza

ETOILES

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[times-carcass]

1.1

First - Previous - Next

Here it is, our first update. Happy New Year!

Most updates will be around this length. The next update will be a week and a half from now, on January 11th.

(Some of you who have followed me on my other blog/other social media might already know of some of these characters, as this is a project I’ve been working on for years. CTC was originally intended as a prequel to another story, but I’ve decided to do things in chronological order instead. A lot of what I’ve posted previously is longer canon (or will happen differently), although a fair bit has stayed the same. You’ll just have to wait and see how things play out!)

[domm1etae]

ATEEZ MASTERLIST !

KIM HONGJOONG [김홍중]

the ultimate test | smut, w wooyoung (3.6k) morning embrace | fluff, w reader (832) behind closed doors | fluff, w reader (4.2k)

PARK SEONGHWA [박성화]

puppy lust | smut, 3some w mingi, yunho (2.6k) overtime attraction | smut, oneshot w reader (2.5k)

JUNG YUNHO [정윤호]

awakening desires | smut, x reader (6.1k) exploring the edge | smut, w mingi (3.4k) puppy lust | smut, 3some w mingi, seonghwa (2.6k) pleasure in purrs | oneshot, 3some w reader, mingi (604) waves of truth | smut, w mingi (2.7k) rings of desire | oneshot, w mingi (880) hybrid biology | smut, 4some w san, jongho & reader (4.6k) my good boy | smut, x reader (2.8k) once upon a dream: the princess and his knight | fluff, w mingi (777) kneeling for a taste | smut, x reader (1.7k) you the one im tryna finish | smut, x f!reader (1.4k) are u trying to kiss me? | smut, w mingi (1.1k) right in front of you | oneshot, x reader (1.2k)

KANG YEOSANG [강여상]

afternoon daydream | smut, x reader (1.6k) birthday gift | smut, x reader (2.7k) when soft meets rough | oneshot, x f!reader (1.1 k)

CHOI SAN [최산]

under his control | oneshot, w wooyoung (1.2k) whipped & wild | oneshot, w wooyoung (1.3k) hybrid biology | smut, 4some w yunho, jongho & reader (4.6k) in the quiet of the night | oneshot, w reader (2.2k) melting point | oneshot, w reader (1.8k) a santa surprise | fluff, w san (564) overwhelmed by instinct | oneshot, w reader (1.1k)

SONG MINGI [송민기]

exploring the edge | smut, w yunho (3.4k) puppy lust | smut, 3some w yunho, seonghwa (2.6k) pleasure in purrs | oneshot, 3some w reader, yunho (604) waves of truth | smut, w yunho (2.7k) rings of desire | oneshot, w yunho (880) in every shape | oneshot, w reader (2.3k) once upon a dream: the princess and his knight | fluff, w yunho (777) are u trying to kiss me? | smut, w yunho (1.1k) needy pup | oneshot, w f!reader (2.1k)

JUNG WOOYOUNG [정우영]

under his control | oneshot, w san (1.2k) the ultimate test | smut, w hongjoong (3.6k) whipped & wild | oneshot, w san (1.3k) a santa surprise | fluff, w san (564)

CHOI JONGHO [최종호]

do it by yourself | oneshot, w reader (1.6k) hybrid biology | smut, 4some w san, yunho & reader (4.6k)

OT8 [에이티즈]

slow, passionate sex w ateez | blog - do they wanna take their time and make you feel everything, or do they want you to take your time with them? dating a caribbean s/o | blog - how I think ATEEZ would vibe with a Caribbean partner kinktober 2024 | kinktober - each day you get one member w some kink at their mercy | ot8 seonghwa gang bang

[xolunelle]

Pearls In The Essence '25

Episode 1: Growing in the Essence, An Introduction

1.1: The Meaning and The Inspiration

"Pearl in the essence (expression): A metaphorical expression signifying the pursuit of inner beauty, wisdom and intelligence. Refers to the desire to embody and grow the most valuable and refined qualities of oneself, like to the formation of a pearl, which grows into something precious from within a shell."

That's what a pearl in the essence means to me. I found it during a tough time while reading the lyrics of 'Girls Never Die' by TripleS:

‎‎‎‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎‎‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎‎ ‎ "Don't need all those excuses ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎‎‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎‎‎‎Wanna be the pearls in the essence ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎‎‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎‎Let me dream even bigger now ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎‎‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎‎‎These pains and trials make a better me"

That's when I decided I wanted to become the pearl in my own essence, to become better, more refined, more polished, well-spoken. No longer letting anything get to me, no longer holding on to the bitterness of the years past or the easy path of procrastinating. I decided it's time to grow out of the confinements of my shell and move on to a bigger ocean.

And so can you.

1.2: The Objectives

To preface this section, I want to say that although we may all have the same common goal, there will be little variations in ideals and goals here and there, which is perfectly normal! This will ensure that we're all aiming for something that applies to each of us individually and our own personal journeys. There will be times when I document my progress and what I'm doing, but that is not intended to force you to do the same, it's just a simple encouragement.

The general goals are to become a more refined, polished, intelligent, productive and well-spoken versions of ourselves. These ideas will vary from person to person, but the main goals and tips shared in the posts will typically be universal.

Each goal has been put into a category starting with the letter P in order to make it a lot more memorable and fun.

So, what does each main goal entail? (The P's)

Polished and Proper - How we are at home and around others

Practicing good manners and social behavior (speaking properly, saying 'please' and 'thank you') and keeping a gratitude journal (being thankful of all progress, big or small), talking slower and choosing kinder language over harsh words.

Perceptive - What we know about topics

Weekly reading (articles, books, blogs etc.), finding a topic to that piques interest and journalling on it. Taking mini courses (if possible) or watching YouTube videos on new topics.

Presentation - How we look and feel

Maintaining (or creating) a skincare routine, taking care of health and wellbeing (mental and physical), good sleep and actually setting resting time aside.

Productivity - How we are in work, school and the things we do

Daily morning journalling to plan out the day, time blocking or scheduling and weekly and monthly evaluation/'stock taking'.

1.3: Closing Notes

That's all that you need to know for now! Hopefully, the posts will be coming out every week or every two weeks (based on how busy my schedule gets), but I will try my best to make sure that the posts are on time.

In addition, in the upcoming posts, there will be a PDF version/workbook + some journalling prompts, so watch out for those!

X's and O's, Elle.

(Disclaimer: This challenge has no time limit because each person has their own situations and schedules. Posts are weekly or bi-weekly to ensure that everyone can see the general direction, but it is not a guide on how fast to go through each stage.)