#anti non traumagenic

[moos3-th3-goos3]

[songs-by-the-river]

I really hate seeing others say how they want DID or think it's so cool when they're a singlet cuz why???? Why would you want this??? I genuinely can't comprehend why someone would purposely try to create a system either because this sucks

And don't get me wrong I absolutely love my head mates, I adore Saturn, Astrid and 404 are fucking cool as shit and I love everyone else, even the hurt ones, even our persecutors, but I would give literally anything if it meant I could have my own body away from them, I wish I could be physically detached from Saturn so I could give him actual hugs and kisses, I wish i could go get my own little job maybe at a library or smth simple and quiet, i wish I could look like myself instead of this body.

I just don't understand why anyone would want this

[jabberwock-islanders]

To Our Fellow Anti Endos

You are safe here. You are loved, respected, and cared for here. We know how terrifying it is to be a traumagenic system on the internet and get flooded with misinformation and harassment. Our spaces will not be taken from us. Our resources will not be taken from us. Our safety will not be taken from us.

Our blog is a safe space for all of you. No matter what disorder(s) you have, no matter what type of trauma you have, no matter how big or small your system is or how many/few introjects you have. You are safe here. We love you, and we appreciate that you're still here despite everything.

Any (pro) endos that interact with this or any of our posts will be blocked. We don't want you here.

~ Kore

[gremmything]

I'd like to offer a bit of unwarranted advice to my fellow(because apparently tlt I am now part of this lol) syscourse posters.

Avoid using "plural" tags. I know it's technically a system term, but the word plural is not one of the medical terms used to describe the multiplicity that a system experiences, it is only a synonym and because of that it is most often used and looked for by endos.

Instead, continue using the term "system", as it has always been a medical term used to refer to multiplicity.

I believe doing so may help, if only slightly, with the demedicalization of systemhood, because it forces endos seeking out actual systems to use & see the proper terminology, as well as helps avoid the ones who are too far gone to even acknowledge that.

[tons-of-moths-in-a-box]

Introduction post —

★ system name : the moths nest

★ collective name(s) : moth or bug

★ collective pronouns : he/it/they/xe

★ collective terms : masc , neu & non human

★ alter terms : pupmates , headmates , alters or parts

★ system terms : system or plural

Before you Interact —

★ we have about 500+ pupmates

★ we are a C-DID / polyfragmented system

★ we are pretty sure we have NPD and AvPD with BPD & ASPD traits

★ we may need tone tags sometimes

★ we take criticism as an attack, so if you're going to criticise us please try be as kind as possible because it's hard for us to tell the difference between criticism and insults

Do not interact —

★ endos or pro endos

★ trans-ID or pro trans-ID

★ narc-abuse believers (or any other disordered abuse)

★ those who believe in "doubles"

★ anti recovery IRLs / DAs (we experience delusions and you are not helping)

★ you don't believe in trasnandrophobia

★ basic DNI

[sscarred-starss]

guys should I (✝️) make my own blog ?

[tons-of-moths-in-a-box]

Ah yes, spite the ableists.. by being ableist?

Ah, yes, say fuck you to “ableists” by *checks notes* claiming to have a disorder you don’t have.

I have seen horrors crawling through this wiki, guys.

-B0ffy

[thecreepycrawlersss]

made some angry little user boxes >:)

feel free to use !! credit not necessary but appreciated

-malachite he/it/shi/lyr/they

[the-opus-collective]

endogenic, willogenic, tuplagenic and all other non-traumatised/disordered systems are not welcome here.

we do not go through constant trauma and did not go through life altering trauma for fun. i did not split to protect robin [our host] for fun. we did not get abused for fun. we don’t get bullied for fun. we don’t get neglected for fun. we don’t have debilitating flashbacks for fun, etc.

it is not punk to invade trauma survivors spaces. it is not punk to harass people. it is not punk to spread misinformation. it is not punk to send death threats. it is not punk to be trans-ID.

— 🦓 / yannick

they/he

[moos3-th3-goos3]

What if I just started going by a different name and pronouns and had different likes and ideas and memories and opinions and presented differently and acted differently... but like I'm still me though... no I'm not a system at all...

[system-advice]

How to make alters comfortable enough to reveal themsleves

I know systems find it hard to have communication with uncontacted or newly revealed alters, so here are some ways to find out about them

(this also helps to tell if an alter is real or if your brain is just playing around)

01﹒don't force an identity on them.

some alters might find it harder to express themselves if other alters fill out their personal information for them, they may prefer to do it themselves

(ex. don't write or say their full name - just use a letter, don't write their pronouns, don't note down their orientation or gender)

02﹒don't neglect their emotions.

focus on what makes them an individual or what they're comfortable with rather than thier identity

(ex. noting their likes and dislikes)

03﹒give them templates or examples.

they may want to communicate with others but may be confused, not know where to start, or are too anxious to do it without any help

basic things such as introduction templates or giving them a place to write down their thoughts can help them learn who they are and how they fit into the system

04﹒keep them seperated if needed.

alters may blend together when fronting so barring suspected new alters from fronting with old ones can help distinguish them

this can also help systems with higher amnesia barriers to stop alters from accidentally hiding other alters

[jabberwock-islanders]

alright sillies, listen up

your most favorite person in the world ever (/j) wants to talk to people so heres what were gonna do

send us an ask, reblog, or dm if you are:

a system (did, osdd, p-did, polyfrag, etc)

(bonus points if youre introject heavy)

any other type of neurodivergent (this includes npd, bpd, mood disorders, psychosis, etc)

therian/otherkin/fictionkin (we arent in the community but yall are always welcome!)

good faith/contradictory label users

you can also send an ask, reblog, or dm if you enjoy:

Danganronpa (and similar games)

FNaF (and similar horror media)

animated kids movies

cartoons and kids shows

Game Grumps

MHA (we aren't active in the fandom anymore, but we still enjoy the show) (yes, we know it has its issues)

Bungo Stray Dogs

Death Note

Sk8 The Infinity

Jujutsu Kaisen (weve only seen season 1 and the first few eps of season 2 so no spoilers!!)

Angels of Death

indie cartoons and shows

creative writing

were itching to interact with people soooo :]

-- zack 🔪

[gremmything]

Syscourse posters:

User Hauntaku2 is going around harassing anti-endo posters, calling them ableist, nazis, telling them harm should come to them, etc. It's in our best interest to just block them and continue spreading awareness, similarly to how we've already done with a few accounts in the past.

Do NOT engage with this user. Myself and my system do not condone harrassment. Block and move on.

Edit: they have a second account under Hauntaku without the 2

[tons-of-moths-in-a-box]

Honestly FUCK endos. I hate them, I'm tired of the being nice shit. I don't want to be nice to those assholes. I don't want to give them the benefit of the doubt and I'm so SO tired of people being so friendly with them. Everytime I see a "pro-endo" or "endo-safe" post it makes me rage, everytime I see an endo themselves it makes me so unbelievably angry. I cannot fathom how these people can take our disorder and just have all the "fun" parts of it while completely ignoring the actual scientific and medical reasons for the disorder actually existing as well as over half the other symptoms. Fuck sake, we can hardly tolerate endo-neutrals, like we understand why you'd be neutral, but it also makes us so upset that you could even tolerate them. Fucksake.

(this goes for all "non-traumagenics", I don't care what you call yourself, I hate you.)

-toby / bee boy - anger holder - hx/h<3m

[dandelion-system]

*is a system*

*decides to watch a show with decidedly mentally unwell characters*

*stressful situation begins*

*does not stop watching the show*

*relates a bit too hard*

*starts copying the mannerisms and speech patterns unconsciously*

“Oh. Oh no”

[ginganthropy]

THE ACTUALLY DISSOCIATIVE TAG IS NOT FOR ENDOS!!

i thought that was common sense!! its like how endos have #pluralgang, traumagenics have #actually dissociative!! RESPECT THIS!!!