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miqomarch day 4: family
c tribe kiddos + honourary c tribe member keen starling :3 they're definitely all miqo'te. don't question it
ft @ravenffxiv's c'kekoh
#miqomarch#ffxiv#ff14#miqo'te#gpose#hrothgar#roegadyn#c'toki (the hrothgar) is a bozjan orphan who was adopted by sehri's mom#and raised alongside them as their brother#he chose to take a c tribe name over his original bozjan name to honour his new family#keen starling (the roe) is sehri's best friend#she's an ul'dahn native who moved to tailfeather to start a new life where nobody knew her#after coming out as trans#c'valhi (blue haired miqo boy) is sehri's boyfriend#he and his mom come from a tribe in gridania and he has kind of a complex about being an outsider#for no conceivable reason. bc everybody loves him. even tho hes an asshole.#c'kekoh (green haired miqo boy) is sehri's half brother#please clap and scream for me i've never posed this many people#mine: gpose
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sometimes i debate branching out to putting the trans comics on more sites, because as I've said a few times I've always felt like I never saw (or even still see) trans man/masc stuff that I relate to personally. And maybe I could be helping someone like me by doing that
but on the other hand
1) the idea of doing so is really scary
2) even if someone wasnt going to be hateful to me about it, transgender grunkle stan is I think still a hard sell for a lot of people outside of tumblr
#technically since dating game ford is trans he will at least be out there#...which is also scary#wish my comment section luck after the next part of the game comes out
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i saw the tv glow today.
owen is not just isabel she is also autistic. please, please, you have to listen to me she is autistic she is begging for people to listen she is begging for people to understand her. she knows she is not right she knows she is not right aside from her gender she can tell and it hurts. "look me in the eyes for once" she CAN'T i can't we can't it is not possible living not just in a cisgender world but an allistic world will kill us. we will die trying to mask ourselves we will die knowing we are not normal. you have to transition- you have to unmask. you not only have to unmask you have to find other autistic people and find joy with them. please, please, please transition. cut or grow your hair. change your name. change your pronouns. start the hormones. i have so many people in my life i want to sit in front of this movie and say, do you get it? do you see? i am begging you, please, please come with me. bury yourself alive with me, we have to get out. i love you, please wake up. you are dying. i am maddy i am tara i am begging you. i will love you i will accept you i will not force your eyes to mine i will understand what you are unable to say. please come with me. there is still time.
#i saw the tv glow#i saw the tv glow spoilers#im writing this so late at night after a long day but please please please i cannot be tara alone. i need you to come with me.#as a trans man who came out so young who started hormones so young who buried himself under the dirt and got out PLEASE. come with me.
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You know that one gwen-stacy character that recently have been made queer and goes across dimensions while fighting canon?t
#manesart#fanart#myart#marvel#gwen stacy#ghost spider#spider gwen#gwenpool#trans gwen stacy#spiderverse#atsv#trans spider gwen#across the spiderverse#aroace#aspec#it is pride month i legally cannot draw non lgbt+ characters#never in my life had i wanted to do cosplay more than after gwenpool coming out panel#transgender#aromantic#asexual#gwendolyn poole
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Bakugo: All right, what the hell was it you wanted to tell us, dunceface?
Kaminari: Yeah, one second
Kaminari, turning away and cupping his hands over his mouth: OH MY GOD, ALL THE GIRLS ARE IN HERE AND THEY'RE TAKING THEIR SHIRTS OFF!
Kaminari:...
Kaninari: Okay, yeah we're good. I'm trans!
Mina: What- what was that?
Kaminari: What was What?
Sero: That! Just now! Why did you turn around and yell that!?
Kaminari: Oh, I was making sure Mineta wasn't listening.
Sero: ???
Mina: Um, why?
Kirishima: Yeah, I'm pretty confused about that part??
Kaminari: I think it's perfectly understandable that I don't want Mineta to find out I have boobs.
Mina: Oh, yeah, that makes sense
Sero: Yeah, no, no, I get that
Kirishima: That's super manly, yeah
Bakugo: I'm not even gonna yell at you for that one, that makes sense
#too confused to immediately be supportive#dont worry they were super supportive after figuring out wtf was going on#theyre all very happy for him#denki kaminari#trans denki#mina ashido#bakugou katsuki#kirishima eijirou#sero hanta#mineta minoru#fuck mineta#little grape creep#trans#coming out#bnha#mha#bakusquad#really need to make better use of that tag in my posts lmao#kaminari denki
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is it horribly cringe to pick your new chosen name based off of your favorite book character (who is also ftm autistic!!) or is that like…. okay

#i lowkey really really like silas#maybe with the nickname si or smth? idk#after the one and only silas bell from the spirit bares its teeth by aj white >:) <3#i love him sm and he kinda is me#also that book is… everything#so so good#all of the authors books are incredible so far and i preordered the next one which is coming out tmrw !!#andrew joseph white#aj white#masc lesbian#genderfluid#lgbtq#lgbtq+#trans#gnc#gnc trans#gnc lesbian#chosen name#the spirit bares its teeth#hell followed with us#compound fracture#benji woodside#silas bell#transgender#transmasc#trans masc#tsbit#ajw#trans things
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“haha odo is so beige and bland and boring despite being a literal shapeshifter” like ok yes I laugh at those jokes too and find them funny I literally have no issue with them but sometimes I also wanna talk about how that’s kind of the whole point of his character.
like odo’s abilities and way of being is so unlike any other known species in the alpha quadrant that it’s shown to be disturbing and off-putting to a lot of people — or at the very least that’s what he was led to believe. like we see this in the alternate where mora tries to convince him he’ll either be locked up in a prison or put in a zoo to gawk at if he’s perceived to have committed any sort of crime or transgression.
so despite being able to literally become anything he can think of, he chooses his default presentation to be as standard, bland and uninteresting as he possibly can. male, always in a beige uniform, very standard hair cut.
odo is so plain because he was made to be afraid of being literally anything else
#also obligatory “trans odo” ramble but yeah as a trans person this all really hits me#I didn’t really fully accept I was trans let alone come out until after high school and I feel like while everyone around me was#experimenting w style and fashion or whatever I just put on the most bland shit possible bc the thought of my appearance actually being able#to reflect the way I as a person feel always felt so foreign to me#anyways I love odo sm#odo#ds9#deep space nine#star trek#shut up abe
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A frustrating development with the growing lack of reading comprehension I've personally noticed is an emerging fervor of insisting things aren't canon unless they are explicitly stated beyond all reasonable doubt.
I can not emphasize enough how harmful a mindset this is to have. Yes, it's wonderful to have characters outright say "I'm trans," but to deny a character's identity for not saying that is dangerous.
Plenty of real people prefer not to use specific labels. Historically, people didn't have our modern terms or modes of expression. Many modern cultures don't use these terms, either, and plenty of people within those that do can't safely openly identify.
If the only representation you accept as canon is within modern (and let's be honest, wealthy white able-bodied American) standards, then you are denying yourself and others a huge amount of representation and seriously limiting the media around you.
#remembering how people were like hmm its not actually canon that Steve is trans and adam is nonbinary...#steve doesnt fucking know what 'trans' is hes an unhoused time traveling cowboy like!!!#after an arc. about werewolves. and how people become werewolves because theyre unhappy with their lives.#especially specifically regarding their body/gender#and how adam explicitly says 'your family never saw you as a man'#AND THEN FOLLOWS IT UP. with referring to Steve as 'the man who chose'#like for fucks sake#you are being deliberately and willfully ignorant if you say its not canon.#your ideas of transness are extremely extremely limited if it doesnt include people who dont use the word.#god. ugh. ive been annoyed by this since that episode came out#dont even get me started on how people barely noticed adam is nonbinary.mm#they said they dont wanna be called a boyfriend. come on!!! come on!!!!#how can i make it clearer without them saying shit they woildnt say and have no context for!!!!#scream.#anyways.#delete later lol im just frustrated again.#im not even sure i worded this how i wanted to
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When Ra's needed an heir, Talia impregnated herself with The Detective's DNA to give him the perfect offspring. When she delived fraternal twins the boy was raised to one day take over the League and the girl was kept around so that she might one day provide the LoA with new recruits. When she came of age and learned that the only reason she was kept around was the idea of her future children, she fled. They never found her.
Years later, Duke Thomas introduces his family to his new boyfriend, Danny Fenton.
#dp x dc#dpxdc#trans danny fenton#twins au#danny and damian are twins#danny was born a girl#he ran away from the leauge and ended up with the Fentons#he was like 9 or 10 when this happened#they adopt him and he comes out as trans about age 12#the Fentons are supportive and he starts being masc presenting#then the events of dp canon happen#minus phantom planet haha never heard of it#danny ends up telling his parents about being phantom at around age 16#they accept him and do a complete 180 on their opinions about ghosts#danny moves to gotham after high school for college#where he meets duke#they hit it off immediately#duke can tell danny has some kind of abilities#which is what originally propts him to talk to danny#but he doesn't pressure him and lets him reveal them to him in his own time#meanwhile they grow closer and closer until nest thing you know they are going on their first date#danny x duke#what is their ship name again?#ghost lights#deadlight#will o wisp
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forgotten falls comic that really has no plot significance. i was just an idiot today and wore my binder for 12 hours. do NOT do that guys fr
#gravity falls#mabel pines#dipper pines#mason pines#gravity falls au#forgotten falls#dont mind that close up of the journal#ignore the nerd LOOK AT MY DAUGHTER#immediately after this mabel wrangled him out of his binder#she will not hesitate to wrestle and bite and fight tooth and nail with mason#especially when it comes to his health#no but fr#improper binder usage#unsafe binding#trans dipper pines#trans mason pines#ftm dipper pines#ftm mason pines#divine draws#fanart#digital#my aus
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the more i look at it the more i realize human domestication guide stuff is really just "what if a species of benevolent but *extremely* patronizing aliens doms invaded, and their master plan was (in equal measure) cherishing and infantilizing autistic trans girls with problematic kinks (who love it)"
and wouldn't you know it, turns out i'm in the target demo
#read one fic written by autistic trans author which basically boiled down to:#“hey. we know you're really trying hard to be 'high functioning'. everyone sees it. you did good. how about you rest now and we take over?”#except. you know. kinky plant aliens imposing this on her cuz she had internalized capitalist and ableist shit and thought she had to just#keep burning herself out because that was what was expected of her. cuz other people could handle it even if she couldn't. so here comes th#kinky plant alien dom to gently force being loved and supported and cared for (and fucked by kinky plant alien doms) down your throat.#and after reading that i had a literal “ohh. i get it.” moment
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This is the most compelled I've ever been by a love triangle and I'm not even rooting for any of the couples. Just rooting for the characters to be happy individually.
#senpai is an otokonoko#senpai wa otokonoko#it's so messy and interesting#we've got Aoi realizing she was actually less into Makoto and more into the idea of being in love. and distancing herself as a result.#we've got Ryuji being genuinely in love with Makoto for such a long time and just being so very afraid of rejection#and then there's Makoto who just wants to be as normal as possible while being a crossdresser#(and possibly non-binary or trans but we're nowhere near cracking that egg yet)#so thinking that this will make everything go back to normal Makoto tries to appease Ryuji by asking him out after he confesses his feelings#and those feelings are clearly one-sided so it's a terrible decision all around. but i get where it's coming from.#i just want all three to be friends again. they were so good as friends. please.
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yippee new ship I'm obsessed with and find comfort in! I can't wait to read some fanfics!!
... It's all smut.
#legends of avantris#once upon a witchlight#gricko grimgrin#morning frost#gricko x frost#morninggrim#morninggrin#grim morning#morning grin#morning grim#Hey chat can we actually go one fic without sexualizing trans Gricko please.#I want one fic where he doesn't get pounded into after coming out#Literally the amount of smut made me gasp when I checked ao3
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trying Very Hard to be normal about neil perry today
#watching dps right after coming out as transmasc was a terrible idea#bc i can feel the hyperfixation coming on strong and i fear i may end up accidentally molding my identity after this boy#but yknow what maybe he deserves to be thought of :’(#thinking about neil perry when he isn’t around to put a little more of him into the world lol#silas speaks#neil perry#dps#dead poets society#dead poets fandom#dps fandom#dps boys#robert sean leonard#todd anderson#ethan hawke#anderperry#transmasc#trans#transgender#queer#lgbtqia#lgbt+#gay#tboy swag#lgbtq+#queer community#trans community
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sharing this conversation i had with @abcleverun because the world deserves to know about eggtimis fowl
#artemis fowl#12 year old artemis after kidnapping a hot fairy lady: this is fine and im fine. there will surely be no repercussions for this. im fine#(butler later finds artemis googling 'boy or girl quiz' and claiming its for “research”)#artemis comes out and continues to wear exclusively armani suits#shes not a trans girl.. shes trans girlboss
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You know, I feel like other trans people might get this, but it's honestly kind of refreshing when a cis person has, like, undeniable tboy/tgirl/whatever swag. It's like when you come across somebody who speaks the same language as you and you only find out when they start speaking it, too.
#trans#transgender#lgbt#lgbtq#ftm#mtf#nonbinary#all this to say that we are existing on a rock hurling through space#and this universe is going to collide into another and does it all truly matter in the end?#a lot of this is based on ideas we have about what constitutes certain people and i think it can be a fun observation#so long as you do not inherently ascribe certain traits as being indicative of who somebody Is#it can be amusing when you're SO confident that somebody is a certain way until you realize how Wrong you were#the amusement for me only comes because it's like... 'you tried your best to box somebody and you FAILED lmao'#and in a weird way it's kind of comforting because it reminds me that we all come into this world with bias that Will be challenged...#...so the best thing you can do is recognize those biases and then try to overcome them through great effort...#...so yes maybe i did think that cis dude had tboy swag but. that's not inherently his problem you know?#it probably just means he's confident in his manhood in a way that reminds me of the trans men* i know and love#i noticed that in him and it reminded me of my friends who are trans so i think 'oh! maybe that's why he's giving off those vibes!'#so while i won't treat him any differently before or after finding out i was wrong i'm still going to appreciate the fact that...#...he and i are literally just Vibing on the same planet and we both don't have time for petty arguing about manhood#i'll acknowledge what inspired those thoughts in me but that is Not his problem and that's good and beautiful actually#i don't always mind the tboy/tgirl swag meme just so long as you don't treat it like an Inherent Trans Experience Only Trans People Have#just recognize where those ideas are inspired from and it's fine <3#sometimes you will be Wrong and that's actually fucking neutral <<3#anyway rant over i just think this is /generally/ harmless and fun#like astrology. sometimes you just look up your star sign without ascribing your Entire Life to it <3#i think what i lot of people mean by saying a cis person has tboy/tgirl swag is just that...#...that cis person has an understanding of themself that comes from deep introspection that isn't necessarily expected of cis folk...#...but it is often something trans people do as part of our exploration of gender...#how is this the FIRST POST to reach tag limit... ask me for more thoughts if you want lol!
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