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Protector Caregiver
Not specificaly the system kind (for me it isn't) but can be the system kind. Free to use and interpret however you see fit. Credit as you please.
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Father Figure
Definition: A descriptor for a system member whose role is to be a father to another member or to someone outside the system. This can encompass acting as a caretaker or protector to the other person, or being their sysparent in case of internal relationships
Flag coined by us
-Logan/Wolverine
#system terms#system roles#system coining#system caregiver#system protector#did/osdd#endos dni#flag coining#alter terms#alter roles
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Caretector
A flag for alters who are simultaneously have a caregiver/caretaker and protector role.
Please credit if using | Don't reupload to wikis without permission | Endos don't use
#system edit#system flags#alter roles#alter flags#caregiver#caretaker#protector#caretector#❀ | our flags
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Omg wait, you have so many fandoms I love, ok, ok could you make like a list of characters from theses shows and what they’d be? Like regressed, caregiver, ect? (So I can send asks based on that) I’m so excited right now
Arcane, Detroit Become Human, Last airbender, Our flag means death, and Six of crows/shadow and bone
happy 2024! this has been in my inbox forever but looks super fun to do! here’s my take on what characters would be regressors/caregivers for arcane, dbh and atla. I totally wrote way more than I expected to but here u are! <3 I’ll do a separate post for ofmd and soc bc they have so many characters I have opinions on.
Agere Character Headcanons
(Arcane, D:BH, ATLA)
(jinx is me cooking up this thread)
Arcane
Vi: As much as she’d be a wonderful caregiver, she’s absolutely a regressor. Being small reminds her of days spent with her parents and Powder, family trips to the fish markets of the coast and sunny days building sand castles at the beach. She tends to be on the older side, a natural tendency from a life spent as the older sibling, taking care of Powder. Vi’s a very active and vivacious little, playing outdoors and hanging off Caitlyn’s shoulders. Loves physical touch, hugs and high fives are the way to go.
Caitlyn: Caregiver all the way! I think she loves kids in general, and despite her awkward nature and sheltered upbringing, she finds it easy to take charge and step into the role of a protector. Definitely looks after Vi and is oftentimes too concerned about her safety. She loves taking the little out to the playground and to eat at Jericho’s food stall (even if she still refuses to eat a bowl of slop herself).
Jinx: Tiniest, cutest, moodiest little troublemaker there is. Jinx regresses to about four or five years old, and absolutely bounces off the walls at all hours of the day. She’s not the quiet, sweet child she once was as Powder, but rather gets herself into trouble and feigns innocence. She loves to annoy both Silco and Sevika, clambering on the latter’s lap and hiding under Silco’s desk for games of hide and seek. Her mood changes rather drastically as well, as she can go from completely happy to hyperventilating sobbing from anything as simple as scraping a knee to refusing bedtime.
Jayce: He’s a very attentive and high strung caregiver. Looking after Viktor is much easier than Caitlyn, Silco, or Sevika’s jobs, but Jayce always fusses over the little. He’s quick to scoop him up whenever it’s deemed necessary, and goes to Mel for help when he needs another pair of hands. Jayce loves caregiving because it gives him something to focus on other than his responsibility to Piltover, and enjoys simple play with his little like story time and building blocks.
Viktor: Super small and quiet regressor! Viktor can get very young, and has no qualms with depending on Jayce for help when he’s little. He likes to be snuggled up on a couch in a mound of blankets and is also content to sit and watch Mel paint the ships that go by the balcony of her apartment. Viktor is sweet and shy and doesn’t tend to verbalize his needs, but because Jayce is so attentive they mesh well together.
Detroit: Become Human
Kara: Caregiver. Need I expand? It’s in her coding in the first place to protect and nurture. Upon her deviance, Kara realizes that even if she was made for it, she can still reclaim that part of herself for herself. She is quick to console whomever her little may be, and projects the kindest and warmest energy to the person she’s taking care of. Kara enjoys making up her own stories, and loves playing make believe with her regressor.
Connor: One hundred percent a regressor. This little guy was shy and uncertain when he first started regressing, as he didn’t know what ‘normal’ behaviour from a deviant was, let alone how to process all the new emotions he was feeling. Connor loves to spend time at Hank’s house with Sumo, revelling in the feeling of the dog’s fluffy fur and laughing happily when he teaches Sumo all sorts of tricks. Connor is usually happy when regressed, but struggles with anxiety and asking for help. Hank is always there to walk Connor through his big feelings and encourages him to use his words.
Markus: He’s one of the most chaotic caregivers there is. You picked the pacifist route in the game? Doesn’t matter. This guy is unhinged when it comes to caregiving. Spoiling his little at any time possible, letting them stay up hours past their bedtime, giving them candy for breakfast and encouraging colouring on the walls. He spent so many years being exactly who Carl wanted him to be while also tasting freedom through Carl’s art that it brings him so much joy to see a regressor’s eyes sparkle when he says yes to whatever their heart desires. He’s also amazing at comforting a regressor. Big hugs and gentle eyes!
Avatar: The Last Airbender
Katara: Is a caregiver! Incredibly kind yet less patient than one (Sokka) might hope. Katara is quick to caution her little, always on the lookout for anything that they might hurt themselves with or on. But this doesn’t mean she hates fun! She adores the beach and using her bending to splash around, and is always ready to get her little an extra blanket or any snacks they ask for. She’s super sweet and falls into the role of a caregiver like she was made for it. Katara has even sewed a plushie or two as gifts, and has a knack for settling a regressor in front of a crackling fire and braiding their hair before bedtime.
Sokka: Regressor for sure. Even though he’s a big brother he never let go of his goofy side, and it plays into so much of his behaviour when he’s regressed. He’s on the older side, around 6-8, and has so much energy he doesn’t know where to put it all. Queue him running around for hours, laughing at absolutely anything that Aang says and bothering Toph just so she’ll play with him. Sokka doesn’t cry, even when he takes a tumble (which is quite often) but is fussy when he doesn’t get his way. He’s a troublemaker, but his beaming smile lets him get away with plenty.
Aang: Honestly I think he’s a caregiver, but is more like a fun uncle than any other label. His sage airbender wisdom doesn’t come through often, which means he’s all about fun all the time. His childish side matches a little like Sokka’s constant energy, and he seems to vanish into a cloud of smoke when any tears come his way. And how did Sokka and Zuko get chocolate all around their mouths, you ask? Well, there’s no one to ask because Aang’s just taken off on his glider on some very important business.
Zuko: LITTLE! REGRESSOR! TINY! Oh my goodness, he’s the first fictional character that I ever headcanoned as a regressor. There’s no need to delve into his trauma here, but the boy is in such a desperate need of healing his childhood that he regressed long before he even knew what it was. Regresses very young, between 2-5. Before meeting the Gaang he’d hang off of Uncle’s shoulder during Pai Sho tournaments on his ship and would shyly ask the crew members to play songs during music nights. His tough demeanour disappears completely when he’s regressed and he turns into a shy boy that is insistent on doing things himself and is quick to cry when he’s unable to, for example, wrap his robes the way he wants. Zuko has a turtleduck plushie that Katara sewed for him after Aang asked him what his favourite animal was and Sokka caught him cuddling up to Appa at night. Sweetest boy in the whole world.
Toph : Caregiver! Matches more with Aang’s style of caregiving than Katara’s, but still lands somewhere in the middle. Her earthbending gives her the ability to pick up on every tiny emotion that a regressor feels, and it means she’s prepared and in tune with every need, happy or unhappy, that someone needs. She tends to playfully tease Zuko and Sokka, but knows exactly where to draw the line with either boy based on the rhythm of their heart. Toph helps Aang when it comes to letting the boys do something Katara has specifically told them they’re not allowed to, and will always feign innocence when confronted by the eldest caregiver.
#sfw agere#sfw agere fic#detroit become human agere#dbh agere#dbh#detroit become human#arcane agere#arcane#atla agere#avatar the last airbender#atla#avatar the last airbender agere
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Welcome to a culture blog for the angriest guys gals and nb-spec pals out there!
This blog is pretty similar to @holder-culture-is, but is specifically for anger holders!
So, what exactly do we do around here?
We take anonymous submissions that capture your experiences as an anger holder, and post them for you! We also take submissions of other system experiences that impact/relate to being an anger holder. Anything's on the table, really.
Any boundaries?
We are strictly anti endo, no ifs ands or buts. That's really the only important thing. For a more detailed DNI list, see our pinned post on our main blog (@jabberwock-islanders).
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This section will be updated as needed.
A glimpse at the mods
This blog will mostly be run by Zack, our current primary anger holder. This blog will be co-run by Clay, that's me! A brief bio for each of us will be listed down below:
Zack - Main Mod
He/It, Anger Holder, Protector, Caregiver
Will sign/tag with "mod 🔪", "mod z", or "zack post"
Clay - Co-Mod
He/Him, Axo/Lotl/Lotls/Axolotlself, Haze/Hazes/Hazeself, Nova/Novas/Novaself, Comet/Comets/Cometself, Lime/Limes/Limeself
Mania Holder, Possible Bipolar Holder
Will sign/tag with "mod 💚", "mod axo", or "clay post"
Some other headmates may post for us every so often, and those posts will be tagged with "mod jabber" for us collectively
Flag used in the blog icon is holder-culture's anger holder flag!
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#anger holder culture#holder culture#system culture#did system#dissociative system#osdd system#traumagenic system#cdd system#plural system#system#udd system#did#did osdd#osdd#osddid#osdd did#traumagenic did#cdd#dissociative identity disorder#complex dissociative disorder#otherwise specified dissociative disorder#dissociative disorder#actually did#actually traumagenic#actually cdd#did community#osdd community#system community#cdd community#traumagenic community
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aaauughhhh suffering rnnn
I’m trying to find a plural term that I found last night but forgot to save!!!! raaaaagghhhh!!!!
all I remember is that it was a term similar to caregiver or protector or something like that. but it was like “a headmate that watches over other headmates and isn’t really actively involved with taking care of the system, but will intervene if needed”. there was a flag for it (I’m pretty sure) and it was made by a pro endo blog.
PLEASE HELP AAAAA WE’RE LOSING OUR MIND
#system stuff#plural#plural community#pluralpunk#plural terms#term coining#system roles#alter roles#headmate roles#need help#trying to find something
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My Masterlist of all the Oneshot Fanfics & Headcannons I’ve written on Tumblr💕📝🍼
(Will be updated as new fics are made:) )
Part of the supernatural series - ❤️🔥
Supernatural🔥
A Trip to the Grocery Store ❤️🔥
The Undercover Mission at the Fair
A Little with a Bunker all to Himself ❤️🔥
The Little Hunt Begins ❤️🔥
Protection from Heaven and Hell ❤️🔥
The Surprise❤️🔥
Hannibal🍽️
One Fish, Two Fish
Bring your Little to Work Day
Will Graham Caregiver Headcannon
Hannibal Lector Caregiver Headcannons
The Haunted Maze
Winter in Wolf Tap
Moon Knight🌙
The Goddess of Caregiving
Protector of the Night
The Little Moon Goes To School
Protector of the Playground
The Little Protector of the Night
And the Lights Will Flicker
Our Flag Means Death🏴☠️
A Big Brother Solution
Stranger Things🔦
Rescuing The Prince
Criminal Minds 🔬
Big Birthday, Little Birthday
The Thunderstorm
The Egg Hunt
Baby in the Bullpen
Through the Glass
Aaron Hotchner Caregiver Headcannons
Doctor Who✨🪐
A Stranger Invited to Christmas
The Cafe Caregiver
The Tardis Lullaby
Who Broke The Vase
Little Flower in the Garden
A Birthday Wish
It’s The Greatest Pumpkin Doctor Who (Newest Fic!)📝
Good Omens😇😈
Waking up in a Bookshop
‘‘Twas the Night in a Bookshop
Spiderverse🕷️
The Little Spider
The Talking Cards
Picking Pajamas
The Tea Party
Little Spidey
Marvel🏙️
Caregiver Little Day
Matt Murdock Caregiver Headcannons
Frank Castle Caregiver Headcannons
Back in Your Arms
On Patrol
Babysitter Frank
Summertime in Brooklyn
A Little Love From Mama
Wrapped In Your Arms
Storm Caregiver Headcannons
Star Wars✨💫
Double Twin Trouble
The Bad Batch Caregiver Headcannons
Little Crosshair Headcannons/Storyline
Little Anakin Skywalker & Captain Rex Headcannons
Dad Says We Can Stay Up Late!
Still Right Beside You (Newest Fic!)📝
Kiddo Stories🧸
Looking for Blue’s Clues
Joining The Mystery
Random Fics/Headcannons ✍️
V Caregiver Headcannons
Little Lab Assistant
#age regression#age regressor#agere little#agere#sfw age regression#sfw agere#agere post#little space#sfw littlespace#age regression fic#sfw little blog#sfw little community#sfw little post#sfw little#padded regressor#writerscommunity#writing prompts#little blog#age regression blog#fic prompt#padded agere#sfw diaper wearing#sfw caregiver#caregiver headcanons#sfw little stuff#agere community#age regression community#agere paci#sfw age regressor#ageredips
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ok hi im the one that sent the teen wolf ask i forgot to specify! id love anything with a baby regressor stiles and maybe a caregiver sheriff stilinksi (he gets so much better throughout the seasons i swear) or caregiver derek! (both as platonic pairings) i hope u like the show ^^!!
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|| stiles stilinski x derek hale | read on ao3
a/n: my insistent need to write sterek angst is showing whoops
warnings: Derek finding out about Stiles’ regression for the first time, hurt/comfort, Stiles using regression as a coping mechanism, protective Derek
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Derek glances over at Stiles for the fifth time in the past minute, something's off with him, he's bouncing his leg and his heart beats as if he's on edge. It's not an emotion Hale picks up a lot from Stiles, anxious and nervous aren't words Derek would think to describe him at all, he's more energetic and curious than anything.
So it's raising quite a few red flags now. They're at Scott's house, trying to act normal and watch a movie like regular non-supernatural friends do. Lydia and Jackson are laid out on the makeshift bed on the floor next to Alison and Scott, there's a horror comedy going that the pairs seem very interested in. Isaac, Stiles and Derek take up the couch with Stiles in the middle.
Before the shift of Stiles’ behavior he was happily chuckling at the movie, giggling really, another thing Derek has never heard until tonight. Maybe he just hasn't been around Stiles long enough outside the near death experiences they share, Hale can't spend too much time dwelling on it as when a gruesome yet comical death pops up on screen Stiles curls back from the Tv.
He's closer to Derek than Isaac, who must've picked up on Stiles' actions and heartbeat as he keeps looking him over, presumably checking for injuries like Isaac usually does when someones acting off. Derek almost goes to ask Stiles if he's alright but he can't get the words out before Stiles is barreling himself backwards into Derek's chest.
"You okay?" Stiles doesn't say anything in reply but his heart rate has ticked up a significant amount and one of his hands grabs the loose material of Derek's t-shirt like a lifeline.
"Stiles?" He keeps his voice low, even if half the room can hear him if they wanted to no matter what. Stiles lets out a small whine, it twists something in Derek's chest, he suddenly has the urge to wrap Stiles up in a mountain of blankets and never let anything bad or scary come near him.
"Is it the movie?" Another flinch after a bloody scene and the pieces fall together, Derek curls his arm around Stiles to block out the Tv, practically shielding his whole body into Hales chest.
"Wanna leave." It's small, pitchy, unusually young sounding. It's all Derek needs to jump up with a sputtered out excuse about Stiles having a headache and needing a ride home, of course the other wolves sitting around hear how obvious of a lie it is but they thankfully keep their mouths shut.
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Getting to Stiles' house takes no time at all, Noah's still at the office so Derek is able to slip them both upstairs without any interruptions. Stiles stays pressed to Hales side the whole time. As close as he can get while still using his legs to walk, or to drag, Derek holds most of Stiles' weight and takes them up the stairs as carefully as he can to not have either of them trip.
"Can you tell me what's going on now?" He tries to sound assuring, attempting to not let any of the worry that Derek can feel building in his gut appear on his face or in his tone.
"I feel- small." Stiles doesn't look up as he says it, squeezing the ball of Derek's shirt he still holds instead, pulling him the littlest bit closer despite the hesitation in his words.
"Small?" A beat passes of silence. Derek isn't sure what to do in this situation, he's never had someone hold onto him like this, clinging onto to him as if begging him not to leave.
His thoughts get pulled back to reality when Stiles leans over his bed, one hand still holding Derek's shirt so it stretches as he reaches with his free arm, retrieving a small book that he places slowly in Derek's lap.
It's clipped down with a small strip of cloth that's definitely needed as the book thickens up quickly when Derek un clasps it. The first few pages are warnings as to not continue reading as this is personal for Stiles, Derek flips past them when Stiles nudges him along, stopping him on a specific page. It's a list of definitions scribbled down in Stiles' handwriting, Derek focuses in on the one that reads 'Little (small)' there's a dash before it explains what an age regressor is, how it's a change in mental state, a coping mechanism.
Oh. Derek's eyes fall to Stiles' state, how curled in on himself he is, how his eyes have a slight gloss of pain to them; Hales heart all but shatters. He quickly pulls Stiles into his chest, pushing them back till they reach Stiles' headboard. He's hoping this is the right move. It feels like it and Stiles hasn't pushed him away yet, so Derek just holds him, taking in deep breaths in hopes that Stiles will naturally relax enough to match the pattern, and rubbing his hand in big circles over Stiles' back for extra comfort.
"The movie, it triggered you?" Stiles nods against Derek's chest, tucking his legs up on top of Hales, looking impossibly tiny as he lays on Derek.
"Is there anything I can do to help?" Triggers aren't new to Derek, not in the slightest, but this is the first time he's ever seen something affect Stiles, normally the brunette is great at bouncing back and keeping things together, at least on the surface. But judging by the amount of pages in that book that are filled, this isn't a new feeling for Stiles.
"Stay, don't let the bad things get me." The young sound and vulnerability in Stiles voice is enough to crack Derek's heart open even more. He can't help but tug Stiles in closer, allowing Stiles to wrap his arms around Hales waist as he tucks his nose into Derek's shoulder.
"I'd never let anything get you, never." Hales hand brushes over Stiles' head, rest on the back of his neck a second, allowing himself to indulge in the softness of the moment. Normally Derek wouldn't dream of being this gentle with someone, frankly he's bad at it, but there's something about Stiles and how easily he cuddles into Derek's chest that makes it seem like a no-brainer to return the affection.
"You're a good protector." It's just barely a mumble, Stiles' eyes fluttering shut as he falls asleep.
Derek's pretty sure he doesn't breathe for a solid minute after hearing the words, he pretends like it doesn't make him tear up a bit and instead focuses on holding Stiles as carefully as he can so the little doesn’t wake up and keeping watch of the door. If Stiles doesn’t want anything bad to happen and he trusts Derek to keep sure of that, it’s all he going to do.
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#jj writes#teen wolf agere#stiles stilinski#derek hale#little!stiles#caregiver!derek hale#derek x stiles
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Yes absolutely I love your ideas. Maybe we’re just biased on protector Verlaine because i think since Chuuya and Verlaine have to interact outside of sys the introjects of Verlaine help host Chuuya get used to him more (if that makes sense??)
Thank you, I'm glad you like our ideas.
Admittedly I haven't finished reading SB so I don't know how Chuuya and Verlaine are at the end of the book, but I do think that after everything Chuuya would initially have a hard time interacting with his brother. Part of him hates him for the flags, the other part is thankful for his existence.
The caregiver Verlaine has a positive impact on Chuuya because he makes it easier for Chuuya to approach the actual Verlaine, but their relationship irl is rocky (especially at first) but they grow closer with time.
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I like being a caregiver, i like being there for people when they r age regressed i like feeling like a protector and i like making people feel safe. i know what its like. this is sort of vague/niche idk but its how i feel.
heres a brother/sibling cg flag ill reblog =)
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can you make an icon of dabi from mha with the caregiver,Bluefiregender,firenouryic,soother,Creature Carer and protector flag
(our dabi fictive has been feeling a bit down lately, do to him feeling like he cant be a caregiver and protector do to his source so im hoping this might cheer him up)- bun
Dabi Firegenders + System Pride Icons/Pfps!!
Hey dabi (or any other fictive/factive/system member with a source reading this) your source doesn't define you, and it never will. Your source is just where you came from, you are not source you. You are a completely separate person (or thing/being if you prefer) from your source. Your source doesn't make you a bad person, no matter what it is. Your source is not you. - 💜 + 💚
#xenogender#xenogenders#mogai#pro mogai#xenogender coining#xenogender community#mogai safe#mogai terms#mogai friendly#pride icon#pride pfp
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holy shit.. /vvpos
we have so many caretectors and never had a label for it..!!!!
I think most of our caregivers Are protectors too 😭
Hi anon I'm sorry we're responding to this so late, but I'm glad you like the flag and term. I will give full credits to the name to the anon who submitted the flag idea, thank you for sending in such a nice message and take care!
Credit of flag used in icon
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Hi, i was wondering if you could make a flag, collage, or anything else around caregiver!bill weasley or protector!bill weasley? We completely understand if you dont wish to due to the media he is from being problematic (harry potter)!
An important note is that we (anon) heavily detach bill from his source, because to us he is a para from our MaDD and not the character from his icky source. Its a long complicated story but thats it in short. We do not ever engage in HP and hate the media and its creator! But Bill is very important to us hence this ask.
Again, if this crosses any boundaries we completely understand ! Please dont feel obliged to respond in any way if you do not wish to :3
Thank you!
We have no problem with this request!
We have Harry Potter alters and experience MaDD so we completely understand dw ^^;
The Caregiver flags are in queue for today!
We haven’t done protector flags before- could you maybe provide a link to a similar flag to what you’re thinking? Otherwise we can create our own ^^
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https://twitter.com/DaejahTalksTv/status/1769559846649745806?t=PhXZm_OvXEPZKxZhQysXYA&s=19
I saw this viral thread about Ezria and the red flags that were pointed out reminded me of Stelena. One of the things that was pointed out was Aria was Mike's emotional caregiver since there were issues with her guardians which made her more susceptible for filling that guardian void with a older man and that reminded me of Elena with Jeremy and Jenna and Stefan trying to act as her substitute parent. Sadly often people miss this with Stelena's case because it's only a vampire show where Shit-hit-the-fan is concerned. They also pointed out the scene where Ezra berates a student for Aria in class as a red flag but Stefan berating Tanner in class for Elena isn't seen as one. Them pointing out him silencing Aria from telling her friends about their relationship reminds me of how Stefan scared Elena into silence and didn't allow her to tell her friends. Too bad Stelena is rarely criticized, even by Delena fans. I remember during the early seasons of the show I had a conversation with a popular Delena blogger who sadly deleted her account that posted great metas and pointed out that Stefan was Elena's surrogate parent protector.
"Aria was Mike's emotional caregiver since there were issues with her guardians which made her more susceptible for filling that guardian void with a older man"
It's the same with the death of Elena's parents, only Stefan is a 162 yo stuck in a 17 yo body. You can see the void Stefan fills when Elena talks to Matt in 3x16. The love she was getting from her parents, she's getting from Stefan. She trusts in that love because Stefan is a vampire, so he can't die as easily as her parents did.
"But it's like I knew that he would never stop loving me. Like he would never…"
"Die. Like he would never die."
"Like your parents did."
She faces this truth after Jeremy loses Vicki in 1x7. Stefan pushing Elena to keep their vampire secret also pushed her to act as the caregiver in the household. She accepts blame during Klaus' ritual because she feels responsible as Jenna's caregiver.
Jenna: Look around, Elena. I failed you. Elena: No. You didn't. I failed you.
"and that reminded me of Elena with Jeremy and Jenna and Stefan trying to act as her substitute parent."
Stefan became the ultimate substitute., and it's this type of substitution that fosters isolation and dependency, which is a huge red flag. Anyone can Google and know what I'm talking about. Isolation and dependency makes it all the more difficult for a person to leave. Stefan became Elena's substitute guardian, her substitute friend, and her substitute brother. I could gif for all of them, but I'll only do one to keep this short.
"Oh… and when you do tell Elena and she needs a friend to talk to about anything, I'm here for her."
"i want you to know that I will always be here for you. You can come to me about anything, okay?"
Stefan is quite literally expecting Elena to turn to him, even when she needs to talk to someone about him specifically. It's because of this, the beginning of their conversation needs to be repeated.
"i want you to know that I will always be here for you. You can come to me about anything, okay?"
"I can't. Stefan I can't, and that's the problem. I'm keeping all these secrets from everyone. I can't even tell my best friend."
"Do you know how hard that is? It's like I need to talk to someone, but the only person I can talk to is you…. and…"
It's disgusting that she has to get advice about Stefan from Stefan's best friend rather than her own, but that's how isolated and dependent she is due to this secrecy. Like abuse, what happens behind closed doors stays behind closed doors.
"They also pointed out the scene where Ezra berates a student for Aria in class as a red flag but Stefan berating Tanner in class for Elena isn't seen as one."
This is a red flag because it also fosters dependency. Elena could've spoken up for herself, but Stefan felt the need to do it for her... as if she's a child incapable of defending herself.
"Too bad Stelena is rarely criticized, even by Delena fans."
I always criticize Stelena because I consider them a more toxic ship than Delena. This post is partly the reason.
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Hi! Agent He/Him
As a member of the age regression comunity I have taken it upon myself to help you all feel safe! If you have any issues or anything you can come to me:D
I don't block any meanies so please use any meanies coming here as a blocklist too!
I am a protector caregiver, the flag that is on my pfp is made by me and symbolises how I protect littles and pets and would do anything to make them feel safe. I am an adult man and an IT guy if anyone was interested.
I pet regress and age regress myself mainly due to my anger issues from (not only online) hate and harassment but I am not on this acount for that ofc. Interact however you see fit!
Asks: Open
DMs: Open
Good blogs to follow (will update if I get asks with more acounts):
Anons (if I get any lol):
#sfw agere#sfw petre#sfw pet regression#sfw age dreamer#sfw agedre#sfw age regression#sfw pet dreaming#sfw petdre#online safety#agere safety#sfw interaction only
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Hello! We are The Astral System, a Traumagenic DID system of unknown count. Bodily, we are 21. This is our blog for flag hoarding! We will reblog gender flags, system flags, and age regression flags! We will likely only reblog a flag if Someone In System relates to it!
We collectively have memory issues outside of system amnesia, so if we reblog the same flag more than once please let us know !! /nf,gen
Tonetags can be helpful for us, but are not required!
Interactions will come from @astral-system-blogs !!
We are Endo Supportive and we don't want syscourse on any of our blogs! If you are Anti-Endo and do not like that we reblog your post, let us know and we will remove it!!
We'll just block freely here, no DNI. Just don't be dummies please
How we'll tag!!
Ezra ID: Host
Richie ID: Introject
Draco ID: Introject
Jasz ID: Little, Traumaholder
Mari ID: Fox, Caregiver
Smith ID: (An)Other Being, Protector
All ID: Applies to full/most of system (will be used for genders/mental health unrelated to being a system)
Agere Flag: Anything age regression related
System Flag: A system related flag + our system relates
Gender Flag: Flags related to gender
Mental Health Flag: Flags related to mental health
Gender System: We will try to remember this tag!! This will be used for gender system flags we reblog that are the base system flag! (i.e. genderitism)
There are other alters in this system!! They may be added later
We may reblog flags and not tag them for an alter; that doesn't mean someone in our system does not relate!
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#endo friendly#endo safe#actually plural#traumagenic system#intro post#flag hoard#system things#introject#did flag#xenogender flag#mogai flag#agere flag#system stuff#system intro
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