#traumagenic community

[alter-appreciation]

Reblogging from our main account

- Andrea 🦋 she/shx/zx

sys culture is getting into an argument with family and realizing another alter was co-fronting because you stood your ground in the argument and didn't immediately stop and shut down like you normally do during arguments. idk who it was but thank you

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[maine-pluralmind]

Decided to share an experience that we had as we've been dealing with D.I.D or at least acknowledging it.

We discovered our D.I.D around 2020. (I know it sounds like every fakers story but stay and listen)

As we started we thought logging alters was necessary, that keeping track of who's fronting and everything was how you fit in and keep everyone in line. Very quickly we learned that was wrong and practically impossible while still going through abuse.

And we learned thats okay.

Young systems, you don't need to have all these alters written down/logged in simply plural/ told to the whole world.

Instead us young systems should let alters do their job. Trauma is what caused this and trauma and stress is what is going to continue to happen to our small brain. It's okay.

Don't stress it. Let it. You can personally know everyone, and sometimes write about your brain mates. But lets take it slow.

[the-hydra-sys]

I am making an endo-free system space blog masterlist; inspired by @plague-hybrid and the one I helped them create.

I will be sending asks to multiple community blogs requesting permission to put them on this list. If you own a community blog or would like me to ask a specific community blog if they're okay with being added, please let me know in the notes!

The blogs can be endo-neutral or anti-endo, it doesn't really matter so long as their community is for traumagenic systems only.

I will reblog this with the full list when it's done! If anyone wants to help, shoot me a DM.

[thevegasystem]

dont get too caught up in syscourse. most of the people making horrible takes aren't meaningfully contributing to the community, attending plural events, working on themselves in therapy, researching plurality and keeping up with studies, etc.

they're posting about things in order to get you riled up. to respond and provide attention. divide your system and community further. etc etc.

take a break! go hang with your plural friends! maybe eat a comfort food. have a cup of hot coco. relax, it's okay.

and then when you're ready, come back and start cooking. plural culture will go on and you will have your chance to influence it.

🌟 The Vega System

[thefluxsystem]

The distrust. The paranoia. The intense self-loathing. The endless nightmares that you can never quite remember when you open your eyes.

The constant fear. The body pains. The headaches. The random shaking. The exhaustion. The detachment. Emotions that you do not actually feel.

The masking. The pretending. The hiding. The loneliness, and the chronic lack thereof. The indecision. The mental paralysis. The out-of-body experiences.

We don’t talk about DID, not truly.

[anger-holder-culture]

Welcome to a culture blog for the angriest guys gals and nb-spec pals out there!

This blog is pretty similar to @holder-culture-is, but is specifically for anger holders!

So, what exactly do we do around here?

We take anonymous submissions that capture your experiences as an anger holder, and post them for you! We also take submissions of other system experiences that impact/relate to being an anger holder. Anything's on the table, really.

Any boundaries?

We are strictly anti endo, no ifs ands or buts. That's really the only important thing. For a more detailed DNI list, see our pinned post on our main blog (@jabberwock-islanders).

Claimed anon tags

This section will be updated as needed.

A glimpse at the mods

This blog will mostly be run by Zack, our current primary anger holder. This blog will be co-run by Clay, that's me! A brief bio for each of us will be listed down below:

Zack - Main Mod

He/It, Anger Holder, Protector, Caregiver

Will sign/tag with "mod 🔪", "mod z", or "zack post"

Clay - Co-Mod

He/Him, Axo/Lotl/Lotls/Axolotlself, Haze/Hazes/Hazeself, Nova/Novas/Novaself, Comet/Comets/Cometself, Lime/Limes/Limeself

Mania Holder, Possible Bipolar Holder

Will sign/tag with "mod 💚", "mod axo", or "clay post"

Some other headmates may post for us every so often, and those posts will be tagged with "mod jabber" for us collectively

Flag used in the blog icon is holder-culture's anger holder flag!

Userbox made by sovereignsystem

Divider made by mmadeinheavenn

[ask-sysblr]

Hello and welcome to ask sysblr!

Anyone may post questions to our ask box, and we will post the ask with relevant tags - the system community at large can reply to your ask and give answers to your questions.

Every ask sysblr question will be labelled with a number, so for exmaple if someone wants to reply to question 1 anonymously, they can by replying and saying "in response to ask 1", or by replacing '1' by the number of the ask they reply to.

This blog is run by @the-hydra-sys, who also runs @tales-from-syscord, @tales-from-systok and @tales-from-sysblr

Endos are not allowed to interact unless a question specifically states that they want endos to interact.

With that in mind, this blog is anti-endo. Singlets and questioning systems are more than welcome to ask questions and interact.

If we see misinformation, we will try to correct it - please let us know if we miss anything.

Tags & signoffs below the cut.

#ask sysblr - All ask sysblr questions.

#not an ask - All non-ask sysblr things we receive in our inbox.

#ask sysblr (number) - The number assigned to an ask.

#ask sysblr (number) response - Responses to asks with the designated number.

I recommend only responding through our ask box if you wish to remain anonymous, otherwise please use the notes to reply to asks.

#anon asks sysblr - Anonymous asks.

#(blog) asks sysblr - All asks by that specific blog.

#singlet asks sysblr - All asks submitted by singlets.

#questioning asks sysblr - All asks submitted by questioning systems.

#system asks sysblr - All asks submitted by systems.

#(emoji/signoff) anon - All asks submitted by a specific anon.

[dissociave]

Alternative Terms for Systems

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀(RPG) Video game themed!

⠀⠀⠀┆⠀⠀System:

Team , Build , Snapshot , Game , Party , Server , Lobby , Roster , Arena , League , Raid , Group , Guild , Faction , Clan , Campaign , Outpost , Deck , Legion , Base.

⠀⠀⠀┆⠀⠀Alter:

Character , Player , Avatar , Operator , Agent , Unit , Sprite , Controller , Summon , Agent , Crewmate , Explorer , Scout , Trooper

⠀⠀⠀┆⠀⠀Body:

Control center , Host , Physical Interface , Base , Spawnpoint , Shell , Container , Platform , Model , Suit , Console , Engine , PC , (Bio)Form , Headquarters

[jwi-pk-templates]

It’s us again, thank you for the vampcore template! <3 This time can we request on based on Sebastian from stardew valley?

I'm glad you liked the vampcore one! It's been a while since we've been exposed to any stardew content, so I'm sorry if some of the emojis are a little inaccurate lol. The one thing I do remember is that Sebastian really likes sashimi, but other than that? My confidence dwindles ksfhjdfg

🌕 Name ‧₊˚ ☾. ⋅ Pronouns

💜 ⁺₊⋆ Age ⊹ 🖤 ⁺₊⋆ Gender ⊹ 💜 ⁺₊⋆ Terms ⊹ 🖤 ⁺₊⋆ Orient ⊹ 💜 ⁺₊⋆ Status ⊹ 🖤 ⁺₊⋆ Species ⊹

⋆｡˚ ☁︎ ˚｡⋆｡˚☽˚｡⋆

🍣 ⁺₊⋆ Role ⊹ 🎧 ⁺₊⋆ Source ⊹ 🍣 ⁺₊⋆ Attachment ⊹ 🎧 ⁺₊⋆ Source Talk ⊹ 🍣 ⁺₊⋆ Sourcemates ⊹

⋆｡˚ ☁︎ ˚｡⋆｡˚☽˚｡⋆

🌌 ⁺₊⋆ Interaction ⊹ 🎸 ⁺₊⋆ Touch ⊹ 🌌 ⁺₊⋆ Flirting ⊹ 🎸 ⁺₊⋆ Nicknames ⊹ 🌌 ⁺₊⋆ Petnames ⊹ 🎸 ⁺₊⋆ Pings ⊹ 🌌 ⁺₊⋆ DMs ⊹

[tales-from-syscord]

Y'all are so nice wtf?? Reading some applications and y'all are so sweet in the why and feedback sections. Hugging you all /vpos

I'll probably close applications in like.. idk, a couple weeks? Depends on how many applicants I get lmao

[alter-appreciation]

(Fake names bc we'd rather not share any names but then it'd be confusing fjawkfm) Sending appreciation to Cheese - I love them so much /p and they help out more than they think they do, just by being nearby.

Also appreciating Sappy, who helped us through our depressive episodes by seeking out support and comfort from our IRLs. You do way more than you'd ever give yourself credit for, and I love you. - 💝

♥️♥️♥️

- Blurry

[rustybutterknife]

Microdosing polyamory by dating a system

[gor3sigil]

DID IS NOT RARE DID IS NOT RARE DID IS NOT RARE DID IS NOT RARE DID IS NOT-

[collectivewarmth]

one of the most important things about dissociative identity disorder and generally being a system that i wish people would understand is that it truly isn’t as cut and dry as it may seem for member count.

you’ll see people who say they have “six alters” and then immediately assume it’s six fully fleshed out equal individuals with no confusion or fuzziness regarding identity. that’s simply not true in a majority of cases, as i have seen.

most systems still VERY much deal with confusion regarding potential splits, go through dissociative episodes where they’re unsure of who they are, sometimes feel no attachment towards any identities, feel like they might have split and then suddenly that person is gone, unsure if alters they haven’t heard from often have gone dormant, not sure how to react when alters do come out of dormancy, etc.

it’s not a fun feeling and it’s genuinely unfair in certain situations to force systems to list every single alter to you with full certainty, as if it will never change. because it will. for so many different reasons, systems will grow, they will shrink, they will fuse, they will develop. you can’t expect the person with the dissociative disorder and lack of core identity to be able to keep up a perfected list of forever, it’s simply impossible. you may have alters who stick with you, but that doesn’t mean changes won’t happen.

and systems who may be reading this — please don’t feel bad. you are not a hassle, you are not a headache, and you are not an inconvenience for simply coping with something like this. it’s out of your control and the only thing you can do is continue to cope to find ways to help yourself retrain from these reactions. please don’t allow yourself to be harmed by others who don’t understand what you are going through. there are people who will accept and love you for who you are, all of you.

past, present, and future.

[anger-holder-culture]

anger holder culture is getting so angry while arguing with the system's shitty parents you need to hit the walls and shit around you to stop yourself from hitting them

-🃏

take out all that anger on pillows and other bedding if you can. preferably you wouldnt wanna rip anything, but its better than taking the chance of hurting someone (for any reason, really)

despite the situation, good job being responsible about it 🃏 /gen. theres a lot of people who wouldnt even bother redirecting this kind of thing towards something nonliving. youre doing great, and im proud of you :]

[orbitposting]

DID but not as in presence of "evil murderer alter", DID as in buying two drinks instead of one because someone came to front after seeing a blue raspberry slushie and DEMANDED to have it, but the alter who walked all the way to the gas station refused to leave without getting what they wanted to get initially.