#Positive thinking and confidence

[directsellingnow]

"दुनिया करती है उगते सूरज को सलाम" - Direct Selling Industry में सफलता की कहानी

Direct Selling Industry: हम सबने बचपन से ही यह कहावत सुनी है – “दुनिया करती है उगते सूरज को सलाम”। इसका मतलब होता है कि लोग उस व्यक्ति को ही सम्मान और पहचान देते हैं, जो मेहनत कर आगे बढ़ता है और अपनी सफलता से दूसरों को प्रभावित करता है। ठीक इसी तरह, Direct Selling की दुनिया में भी सफलता का यही फॉर्मूला है – मेहनत, लगन और सही दिशा में लगातार प्रयास। डायरेक्ट सेलिंग कोई शॉर्टकट नहीं है। यहाँ सफलता…

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a girl who’s going to do big things cannot let small things get to her

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[theambitiouswoman]

8 Things You Need To Give Up

Self-rejection: Give up the habit of constantly criticizing and rejecting yourself. Accept yourself, recognize the reality of your situation and give yourself compassion on your path to working on yourself.

Negative self-talk: Stop engaging in negative self-talk and replace it with positive affirmations and supportive thoughts. You are teaching your mind to believe the things you are saying about yourself, wether jokingly or not.

Criticizing others: Let go of the habit of constantly criticizing and judging others. Focus on understanding and empathizing with them. You should be too focused on your own life to focus on ways and reasons to judge others for the life they choose to live.

Being a people pleaser: Stop seeking approval and trying to please others at the expense of your own well-being. Prioritize your own needs and happiness.

Fear of failure: Give up the fear of failure and embrace it as an opportunity for growth and learning. View failures as stepping stones towards success. Because they are. Failures say less about you than the actions you took after you failed at something.

Procrastination: Stop putting off tasks and projects. Break them down into smaller, manageable steps and take action. Develop discipline to tackle your responsibilities.

Holding onto grudges: Learn to let go. Holding onto grudges only weighs you down and prevents personal growth. Practice forgiveness and focus on the present and the future you want.

Expecting perfection: Release the unrealistic expectation of perfection. Embrace progress over perfection and celebrate your achievements. Mistakes are a natural part of the learning process and you can not get better if you don't actually work on setting the foundation.

[dykedvonte]

I just realized some people are confused about events in the alluded to past in Mouthwashing, particularly about how long the crew has been working together.

The only person who is truly new is Daisuke and it’s why his dynamic with the crew and role in the story is very unique and somewhat distant. Curly didn’t just get Jimmy this job on the Tulpar, he got him the job with the Pony Express. He’s been his copilot for probably a couple of years but still not as long as they’ve been friends. None of them are new with the freight industry, Anya and Swansea especially have been doing this for years, together.

Jimmy is the newest on the regular crew, maybe just a few assignments, but it’s not his first time working with them. I think it’s just something important because this isn’t just one bad mistake that snowballed with giving Jimmy the job. None of them thought Jimmy would do anything, no matter how off-put by him they could’ve been, since he hadn’t done a thing since being there. Generally unpleasantness isn’t a crime and he’d be aware of that.

It was a festering thing and a sort of forced trust they had to give him that he knowingly took advantage of. He was the black sheep and still a wolf under the wool. He expected when he lashed out, that he had been there long enough for it to be looked over completely. Got too comfortable in the space he inserted into and did a lot of damage with his claws when he felt he was going to get shaken out.

[hopeful-engineer]

Some people out there literally think any positivity is toxic positivity. Don't you see the difference between: "You can achieve everything! Just do it! Try harder! Sky is the limit!" and: "Do a little of something you enjoy to make yourself feel less hopeless. Take small steps towards your goals. Go at your own pace, slow progress is still progress. Try to change your negative mindset step by step."? Everyone can do something to make their life better. No matter how small this thing looks from other people's perspective, for you it may be life-changing. Ok, maybe your life will never be perfect, maybe it'll never even be good, because illnessess (both physical and mental), disabilities, trauma and other factors can make your life objectively hard and it's obviously not your fault, but if something may make your life at least a little more bearable, it's worth trying. If something makes you even a little closer to achieving your goals, it's worth trying. If something makes you feel even a little better, it's worth trying. You can take action, you're not just a helpless victim of circumstances. Maybe you can't do much, but you can always do something. There is hope, even if your negative thoughts and/or other people tell you otherwise.

[adviceformefromme]

The Art of ‘Being’

Everyone has that one guy they’re really not interested in who becomes infactuated. There’s no trying to impress him, no overthinking message responses. You’re literally showing up as yourself and he becomes obsessed. And this is the art of being. The unhealed part of you believes you have to change and become someone else to receive love, to be liked and accepted. Well, bullshit to that. Just being, being your authentic self, letting go of the mask you wear for acceptance, letting go of changing yourself because some ‘feminine coach’ said you need to wear red nails, frilly dresses, and whatever else is being taught. What you really need to do is just ‘be’. What you’ll find is the people who are meant for you in this moment will meet you where you are now, all you need to do is just be you. You are enough. 

[tyulezhik]

I looked through my old drawings again and found the first D. I think I posted it a long time ago but deleted it so I'll show it again

[atrophiedemotion]

i'm starting to realize this might be an unpopular opinion but i don't really see ivan as very possessive when it comes to till?? i think his self esteem is too low for him to think he has the right to stake any claim over him tbh jvbsdk. idk, but considering the way he was jealous of sua and not mizi makes me lean towards ivan mainly just being extremely obsessive

i think if they were to ever be in a relationship ivan would definitely be more possessive, but i kind of feel like till might end up being the more possessive one of the two •_•

[borgialucrezia]

If you were to rob my sword from me, my position, my respect, then there is a price to pay. If you take my honour...

"I think my favorite scene was with Jeremy [Irons] and the dagger. It's really big performances, all very different because it was all the drugs, all opium. It’s the best bit of directing, I think I experienced on the job. It’s a great cross section between myself and my performance being focused, and you’ve got Jeremy feeding all the lines and giving a great performance behind the camera. I think from that moment on, if you don’t have any sympathy for Juan, your heart is dead, and you’re holding too strongly on to his past mistakes and not letting him be forgiven because he’s very vulnerable in that scene." — DAVID OAKES

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drawing my favorite sculpture but it's my guy

(Barberini Faun)

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how to feel better

watch the sunrise. go outside. be always well dressed. connect with people who lights up your energy. laugh. meditate. raise the value of what you consume. read move. move your body. drink water. have a break from work. help someone. plant flowers. forgive yourself. do something fun. learn. get creative. create. challenge your comfort zone. be less judgmental & more compassionate. be grateful for what you have today. realize you’re far greater than you think. trust yourself. feel the love that surrounds everything. have your shit together. dance your favorite song. tell your friends & family you love them. pet a cat/dog.

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[allastoredeer]

In a lot of fics with the whole 'they're switching!' but in fact it's 99% of top!Alastor and then that one mention of top!Lucifer it's always the idea that 'Alastor need a lot of time to allow himself to bottoming for someone, let alone Lucifer!'

...but Lucifer somehow doesn't need even more time to even consider an idea to bottom for a sinner, especially the kind that is Alastor.

Sure, Jan.

I miss the mean egotistical Lucifer we got in the show. I want him back. His jealous insecurity is so special to me, I'm waiting for it to return from the war. I wish more fics explored his bias against Sinners and how he, very much, looks down on them. One song and a rebuilt hotel isn't going to change the distaste he's had for them for thousands of years, and I've yet to come across a fic that genuinely addresses that.

ON THAT TOPIC, how about a fic where Lucifer is confronted about the Exterminations that he signed off on. Where's my fics exploring the rage and hatred the Sinners would have for him? Damned or not, Sinners had to have had friends. Community. Our Hazbin crew can't be the only found family in Hell, there had to be other people who cared about each other. Who made a life for themselves. And I'm sure a LOT of them lost people they loved during the Exterminations.

Not to mention the sheer terror of being ruthlessly hunted and murdered for one day in the year (in a way that permanently kills them). The Sinners really got their own Hell version of The Purge, didn't they? Except they can't fight back or defend themselves in this one (or don't think they can, at least).

I'M JUST SAYING, chances are, the Sinners wouldn't like Lucifer just as much as he doesn't like them. I am dying for a fic that actually gives Lucifer repercussions for his actions. God, PLEASE, I need it so bad.

More on topic with the actual ask (LOL) I really want to write a bottom!Alastor fic where he is confident, in control, and knows exactly what he's doing during sex. Sexual attraction or not, he will get the last word in, and if that means riding the king of Hell until he's a blubbering mess then so be it.

[thepersonalwords]

Accepting personal responsibility for your life frees you from outside influences – increases your self-esteem – boosts confidence in your ability to decisions – and ultimately leads to achieve success in life.

Roy T. Bennett

[mumblesplash]

I'll have you know that I hate needles but the only thing I've tried that successfully calms me down/distracts me from getting vaccinated/blood drawn is reading YOUR POEMS SPECIFICALLY out loud while I get the shot. I'm planning to read out the hope one next week when I get my flu and covid boosters 👍

that’s. actually kind of amazing