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The Art of ‘Being’

Everyone has that one guy they’re really not interested in who becomes infactuated. There’s no trying to impress him, no overthinking message responses. You’re literally showing up as yourself and he becomes obsessed. And this is the art of being. The unhealed part of you believes you have to change and become someone else to receive love, to be liked and accepted. Well, bullshit to that. Just being, being your authentic self, letting go of the mask you wear for acceptance, letting go of changing yourself because some ‘feminine coach’ said you need to wear red nails, frilly dresses, and whatever else is being taught. What you really need to do is just ‘be’. What you’ll find is the people who are meant for you in this moment will meet you where you are now, all you need to do is just be you. You are enough. 

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Dating to win looks like dating on your terms. It means no more struggle love, no more feeling anxious, desperate, or rejected. And if this is how you’re feeling when you're dating, you’re doing it wrong. If you feel every time you get close to a man and he starts pulling away you need to switch your strategy. The most important thing to remember is the more a man invests in you (time, energy, effort, money), the more interested he becomes. If you're low investment, you are disposable. If you allow a man to live rent free in your mind you’ve already given too much of yourself away and you need to return home. Stop allowing these men to consume your whole mind. This is how you give yourself away energetically for free and men FEEL this. The most attractive woman is the woman centered in her own energy, not thinking about a man 247. You need to be the main character. You need to stop making these men your god, your world especially men you’ve just met. Put yourself first. Remember these men will drop you like  it's hot at ANY given moment so stop giving yourself away so easily and wondering why you’re loosing all the time. 

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If you want to level tf up you need to learn how to position yourself.  Everything you do from this moment forward should be positioning yourself for your dream life. The way you walk, the way you present yourself to the world, how you dress, what foods you eat, how you hold your cutlery. Become that fucking version of you. CHOOSE today, wiser. Make your decisions from the place of being THAT girl. Not the present version of you. Everyday you are creating whether you realise it or not. When you buy a new top for a night out - are you positioning yourself as your dream girl, or just buying something basic that aligns with the old, broke version of you? Where you choose to live, does this position you with the life you dream about or are you settling for what you can afford? Where you walk your dog, buy coffee, go out to eat, your morning routine. Every little detail of your day needs to be POSITIONED from the version of you that is thriving, that is bursting with love, that is cherished, and loves herself. Start small, start with baby steps but know each move  you make and each thought you have is the paintbrush to the canvas of your life. This is your movie, start living from the position of your dreams.  

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Morning note: This message is for you. All this striving, all this wanting to be someone else, all this levelling up. What about the love for the you right here right now. Does this present version of you not deserve love, does she not deserve the care, attention and affection? The truth is the current version of you, the version right here right now reading these words, omg wow. She is more than enough. She is so fucking incredible. Think of everything she has been through, and she still pushes through every single day. She still sits there and fucking meditates, prays, strives for a better life. She never gave up on her dreams. She wants so much more from you. She wants the very best. She is a beautiful perfect work of art. She is pure magic. She is YOU. Once you start to open your eyes and see clearly how fucking incredible you are. This version of you right now, once you start to really love and appreciate you, in this moment, accept you, with all your perceived flaws, and realise you have always been enough, you will begin to grow. You are like a little plant that is growing. It needs water. Not thoughts that you are not good enough. You are still growing. You need the nourishment from the water, nourishment of words of love for yourself, positive energy when you look in the mirror. You are a little plant that is growing into your very best version, but as you grow you still need love, care, attention. So be kind with yourself sweetie. Remember to expand and not contract with your journey of growth. Keeping your thoughts focused on love and acceptance for you. Thoughts of not being enough, wanting to be someone else while not appreciating the you, right here today is stunting your growth. You cannot grow without water, that water is love, its care, its smiling in the mirror and saying I am enough. It’s looking into your own eyes, and saying I fucking love me. Celebrate the you today, the you that is growing, the you on your journey. You are enough. 

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For the ladies investing in themselves feeling stuck, broke, like you're not making progress, HANG TIGHT. This is where the seed becomes undone, this is the darkness before your dreams start to sprout into the outer world. Start to see this period as the growing pains. Of course it is going to feel uncomfortable, you’ve outgrown your old container and now moving into a new expanded reality. It’s new, it’s challenging, it might be expensive if it involves spending to elevate yourself. Whatever discomfort you are in right now, just know its all part of the bigger plan, and this is your growth. Accept the discomfort and know that it means you are on the right path. The universe is pushing you. Expanding you. Elevating you. Smile through the pain, knowing your next level is awaiting. 

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I’m currently on a weight loss transformation journey and I’m struggling with trying to not see myself as the ugly fat friend. For as long as I can remember I’ve felt invisible. Do you have any tips on how to stop neglecting myself🥺

Steps for weight loss / body confidence level up: 1. Be prepared to put in the work, you have to really commit to yourself, to growing you, to pushing yourself to do one thing to move you forward every single day. Once you get into momentum, you will be on a role. 2. Mirror work, start looking in the mirror and learning to accept and love what you see, going from ‘I'm worthless' to ‘I love me, I'm amazing' might be too much of a big jump so spending time when you get out the shower repeating ‘i am learning to love the body i am in’ chant this to yourself. 3. Instead of focusing on all the weight you want to loose, break it down. Can you loose x amount in one week? Can I not eat x food for one day/ one week? Focus on small achievable goals and over time you'll succeed. Progress is defined by what you do each day. When you do any exercise/ movements, start whispering to yourself words of motivation. As your body moves, and you repeat / chant words of empowerment, they infiltrate your energy and subconscious mind. Words such as ‘i am enough, i am worthy’, as simple as they are, they have the power to heal your life. if you stuck with these two words, and literally repeated them as you move your body for even 5 mins you would start to mentally feel different. 4. Prayer, this is a big one - whoever you believe in God / Universe / Allah, ask for help in shifting these beliefs, pray for release of this negativity. The answers, the help will come, and it will show up in different ways, it might be through a new friend that inspires you, or a book that appears when you go to the story, a film you watch that changes your perspective. more on that.. 5. I recommend watching 'I am pretty’ with Rebel Wilson, she mentally shifts out of thinking she is fat and ugly to thinking she is the hottest thing on earth, and see how the universe responds to her. It's not about how you look it's about how you feel. 6. Remove all toxic / low vibe energy from your life, this could look like friends you don’t feel confident around, family members, social media accounts, literally remove everything that's not empowering you. Create space, distance yourself. Your level up will require time and effort, do you really want to waste precious energy hanging out with women who don’t elevate you? This is also about self respect. Stepping into the empowered woman that you are. Respect your time, your energy. Let go of anything and anyone that doesn’t mirror the life you want to live. 7. Create a vision. Write down the emotions you want to feel as the new you, how do you feel when you look in the mirror? When you walk down the street? When you are with your man? When you are with your friends? Get crystal clear on this vision. Focus on feeling these emotions in the now. Youtube guided visualisation meditations, learn about scripting as a tool to manifest, writing out your dreams. 8. Create time each morning for your level up. This doesn't have to be a task, this should be something special for you. Where you light your favourite candle, pull out your journal, write words of love to yourself, write your dreams, focus on your future vision, do a little mediation, sip your favourite hot drink, slowly. If you can’t do this each morning, maybe try a Sunday, at least once a week. Read books on people who have paved the path for you, women who have overcome weight-loss, body image struggles. Learn from these people and use them to inspire you. 9. Start watching empowering videos on youtube, find a mentor, Someone in real life or on social (this can be someone who's teachings resonate with you and you learn from them). 10. Literally draw a cup, with pen and paper and write all the things that fill you with joy. Focus your energy on these things in the cup. Your cup of love is your guidance. it can be anything, long baths, swimming, watching films on x topic, whatever you love, write it in your cup and start pouring your energy into those things. 11. Get familiar with the broken record that's replaying the same sentences in your mind over and over again ‘i'm worthless, i'm stupid, i'm unwanted, i'm fat, etc etc’ this is just an untrained mind running wild. You need to take back control. You need to see these thoughts for what they are, just thoughts. They are not the truth. Once you’re aware of your stories, the broken record, you’ll know when it starts playing without falling into the trap of the stories. 12. Mediation. I can’t preach enough about how much this will change your life, even 5 mins per day using an app or guided or just in silence. Meditation stills your mind with practise. And with the stillness, space is created. With this space you can start to notice throughout the day when old stories come up, it gives you the choice to choose better thoughts because your mind is no longer on auto pilot. 13. Find healers, reiki healers, inner child healers, therapists, eft (emotional freedom tapping). Attend sound baths, go to meditation centres. Completely drown yourself in self growth and level up. 14. Spend time in nature. Get out of your phone. Nature is going to help you reconnect to your true essence, nature is wild, it’s beautiful, its delicate, rugged, powerful, gentle. Mother nature is our healer on earth. Spending time on long walks, hikes, at the beach, even in the park with the phone in the pocket just looking up at the sky.

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Queen, now is your time. Today is your day, it doesn’t matter that it’s Tuesday. Today is your new beginning, your fresh start. Your level up begins now. Today, affirm that: greatness is rising from within me, today, I am whole and complete and ready to move with high vibrational energy. Today, I start doing all those things I know are good for my soul that I have been avoiding. Today I move with power and grace. Today, my energy is protected. Today and everyday forward, I move with goddess energy.