#Caregiving Advice

[thepanvelite]

Reverse Parenting: Embracing the Role of Caring for Aging Parents

Children become caregivers for aging parents in reverse parenting dynamics.

A mother has to break the umbilical cord twice: once at birth and once when the child becomes an adult. As we grow older, the dynamics between parents and children evolve. We often find ourselves taking on more responsibilities towards our parents. This shift, known as reverse parenting, is a natural progression where children become the caregivers for their aging parents. Understanding Reverse…

[justwrighthomeca]

Whether it’s your grandparent or parent, assisting a loved one with disabilities is a vital job. It can be stressful and overwhelming sometimes, but you want to provide them with the best care possible. How? Check out these tips below.

[foxxypaws]

things to add to your regression room 🐤

A Bean bag

fairy lights

glow-in-the-dark wall stickers

video projector

bed canopy

a cage (this is kinda more for pet regressors but who cares ;3)

bed tent (or just a normal floor tent)

toy organizers

mini fridge for snacks and drinks!

candles or scented things to help you feel calm

fidget toys

posters

put up the drawings you did!

Bluetooth speakers for music

big plushies (i mean BIGGG big)

cozy blankies

stuffies and plushies

any type of kid/baby toys

Baby wipes for messy mistakes

acrobat swing

cocoon swing

sensory square mat

activity board

[littlestarryagere]

How to tackle chores when regressed :

Ello!! I’m here bc sometimes I find it sooo hard to check off my to-dos bc my liddol(s) out ૮꒰ྀི⊃⸝ ⸝ ⸝⊂꒱ྀིა

Here are some ideas for folks tht may be struggling getting up &&doing the tingz !!

♡ Print off a sticker chart !! Ik for me having external motivation aka cute lil stickers showing how good I’ve been can rly rly help !!

♡ Bring along your stuffie/favorite toy !! They’re your fren & wanna help u do the thing !!

♡ Play age-appropriate music & dance & sing along while u work !! This can make the thing feel less daunting & more silly & fun !!

♡ Have a kid-appropriate movie/tv show on in the background !! Just be sure to not get too distracted, little one !! ଘ(੭˃ᴗ˂)੭

♡ Ask your cg for a reward if u complete all da tingz !! Rewards can be things like regression time w them that night, sweets, etc !! If u don’t have a cg, thts totally ok !! U can also do these things solo !! ദ്ദി ( ᵔ ᗜ ᵔ )

♡ Make urself a snack/meal first !! Ik for me sometimes the energy boost is definitely needed !! Some age-appropriate foods can be apple slices w peanut butter/caramel, mac n cheese, milk in a baba, etc !! Just stay healthy little ones !!

♡ This one’s may be harder for some, but try calling another liddol fren/someone who supports your regression if you’ve got any !! I’m lucky enough to have this option, it’s ok if u don’t !! But sometimes talking to somebody helps me get up & at’em !!

♡ Play a regression podcast !! This one’s good for those of us tht may not have a cg/regression buddies to talk to !! When I’ve been cg-less these have rly rly helped me !! ૮ ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶ ა

Feel free to add more, & have fun bein a good little kiddo !!

~ Starry ⋆⭒˚.⋆

[warmmilku]

🍂Tips for regressors without a CG!🍂

🧸 Create a safe and comfortable space for yourself

🐾 Establish a routine to provide a sense of security

🧸 Engage in activities that bring joy and comfort

🐾 Connect with supportive online communities like here on Tumblr!

🧸 Practice self-care and prioritize mental health!

🐾 Set boundaries to ensure a healthy balance

🧸 Explore coping mechanisms for stress and anxiety

🐾 Embrace creativity through art, writing, or playing!

🧸 Seek professional help if needed!

🐾 Remember it's okay to ask for support from friends or loved ones!!!

🧸 Try coloring books or doodling for a relaxing artistic outlet!

🐾 Explore imaginative worlds through reading fantasy books

🧸 Build a blanket fort for a cozy and playful hideaway

🐾 Create a playlist of favorite childhood songs and dance freely!

🧸 Engage in DIY crafts or projects to express creativity

🐾 Watch animated movies or TV shows that you love!

🧸 Play video games with colorful and entertaining themes

🐾 Bake or cook simple treats to enjoy and share!

🧸 Take nature walks or explore a local park for fresh air

🐾 Experiment with different hobbies like puzzles or board games!

[puppys-tiny-space]

🩷How to tell someone about your regression🩷

🧃This is just some tips on how to do it, aka how I usually do it. If another way works for you that's great! This is just some idea on how to do it and be comfortable with it!🧃

🩷videos and online resources, if you are shy about explaining it yourself there are some great Textposts and videos online that explain regression and what it is, I have some myself on my tik tok and Instagram (I'll link the TikTok below) and there is a short film on YouTube called "too little" that's awesome🩷

🧃explain, I like to start by explaining what agereggression is, or even ask if they know something about it already, sometimes they do and that can be a great point to work from🧃

🩷be open, be open about why you regress at least as much as you are comfortable, people are kess likely to react poorly if they know why and can understand it🩷

🧃text message, preparing a text message or letter in advance, maybe even with a friend or cg, can be super helpful, especially if you experience going nonverbal🧃

🩷be sure, do not open up to someone because you feel forced or scared, be sure you feel safe with the person and exposing such a vulnerable side to them, nobody is entitled to your safe space🩷

🧃test the water, I like to hint at regression and test the waters first, wearing jewelry with kiddo nicknames or similar on it or having merch from more well known brands, if someone recognizes them and asks about it you know there is base knowledge🧃

🩷open up, I like to let people know about my trauma and other trauma-responses first, once they are aware of certain things it helps with the talk later on as it won't be as much if a shock that you might have to cope in unconventional ways🩷

Fun fact of the day: it would take 19 minutes to fall to the center of the earth

[baby-daydreams]

Gentle reminder that no matter what you accomplished (or didn't manage to accomplish quite yet) I'm so very proud of you!

You have done an amazing job this year and I'm wishing you an amazing year up and coming.

!!! SFW INTERACTIONS ONLY !!!

!!! - NSFW WILL BE BLOCKED - !!!

[maxthelittledino]

Tips for Caregivers and Big Sibbys!

New to being a caregiver or just want some tips? We'll here you go!

All opinions from a professional ageregressor themselves!

(All regressors are different and these rules don't apply to everyone, when in doubt ask your little!)

•Don't take away pacis/stuffies/blankets or other comfort items as punishment!

Ageregressors are often prone to big feelings, and this can result in meltdowns and tantrums! (Oh my!)

Unfortunately this can lead to a time out! (Eeek!)

However comfort items should NEVER be taken away during timeout or as a form of punishment!

•Potty breaks/ reminders

Whether your little one wears diapers, pull-ups, or big kid pants, potty reminders can be helpful!

Sometimes we get too caught up in play time, or don't want our toys to miss us while we're gone!

•Snack!

The best time besides play time!

Every little has a different favorite food so ask yours!

Snacks are best served on plastic divider plates with a sippy cup or bottle of juice or milk with your Little ones favorite character on it!

•Nap time and Bed time!

Either a Littles favorite time or the bane of their existence is naps!

Eaither way getting enough sleep is important! This can mean setting a proper bedtime (ick) or nap schedule

•And of course lots of hugs and cuddles! (If your little one is okay with that)

It's a veryyy well know scientific fact babys, toddlers, and even big kids NEED these acts of affection!

(No that's not my opinion... it's a scientific fact! I swear!)

[kitkio]

Caregiver Tips : BedTime ᶻ 𝗓 𐰁

Create a Schedule!!

Schedules can be very helpful for little ones to get into and say in the groove of bedtime. It can also be helpful if you find yourself not know what to do most night.

Creating an actual Bed-time for bedtime is something I consider important. It doesn’t have to be strict nor does it have to be required though setting a structured though flexible time for your little to head to bed is a good idea !

I don’t suggest any times past 11:00pm though that’s up for you and your little to decide.

A few ideas for Bedtime,

Bath Before Bed ! Not only do baths help to stay clean but it can also be a fun, calming time for little ones

Bed Time Snack. In my personal experience bedtime snacks can be very helpful. Nothing too big because you don’t want the little one to have an upset stomach ! ( You can also treat the snack like a little reward before bed )

StoryTime. You can pick up a nice child friendly book to read your little one to sleep. It’s a safe, calming, and enjoyable activity before bed.

Situational Advice !

Nightmares

Your little woke up from a nightmare ? That can be quite scary for them.

Don’t get upset with your little for being awake. This should be obvious but getting upset with a little for something like this isn’t okay and will only make the situation harder for both of you.

If they’re feeling up to it take a moment to talk about the nightmare with them, get some water, overall show them that they’re safe with you.

Pouty Little having a tantrum at bedtime

Check in to see if there’s any specific reason for it. Wether it’s about being hungry, hurt, or just not wanting to go to bed the reason can be very helpful.

Ease the little to bed. Maybe put on some calming music or a show you think your little could relax while watching.

Explain to them why sleep is important, that you care about them and why you want them to go to sleep in a way they’ll understand.

Different things work for different people and that works the same with littles. If this stuff doesn’t work or you feel they’re better ways to do it for your situation than go ahead !

DNI: NSFW, NonSfw Agere, DDLG, Ageplay, Anti-Agere, Anti-Petre.

[bitchesgetriches]

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[foxxypaws]

How to comfort your sad little one! ˙◠˙

🌧 Let them let it out, let them cry, let them whine about it, let them know their feelings are okay and you care about them. be there for them, that's what's the most important. 🌧 Get their favourite stuffies and blankies, aka comfort items for them 🌧 Get their favourite snack if you have it around! 🌧 If your little one wants (always ask beforehand!) give them a cuddle 🌧 Put on their favourite TV show, or play their favourite game together! 🌧 if you can, try and give them advice, or just reassuring words and comfort 🌧 When they calm down, ask them if they want to do anything special. 🌧 Recommend a nap time, naps help a lot when sad. 🌧 Tell them a story to distract themselves 🌧 Use grounding exercises (name 5 things in the room, breathing exercises) 🌧 and last and most important. be patient and don't rush them to explain why they are sad, don't raise your voice and yell, make them feel loved.

[warmmilku]

Agere Fall Preparations! 🍂

🍂 Decorate with Autumn Themes: Add cozy fall decorations like pumpkins, leaves, and warm-toned lights to create a seasonal atmosphere!

🍂 Create a Fall Playlist: Make a playlist with autumn-themed songs or soothing tunes that remind you of the season!

🍂 Bake Seasonal Treats: Make and enjoy fall-inspired snacks like pumpkin cookies, apple pie, or cinnamon rolls!

🍂 Wear Cozy Clothing: Dress in soft, comfortable sweaters, scarves, and warm socks to embrace the fall chill!

🍂 Craft Autumn Decorations: Try your hand at making fall crafts, such as leaf garlands or hand-painted pumpkins!

🍂 Plan Seasonal Activities: Engage in fall traditions such as visiting a pumpkin patch, apple picking, or attending a harvest festival!

🍂 Go for Nature Walks: Take leisurely walks through parks or forests to appreciate the changing leaves and crisp air!

🍂 Read or Watch Fall-Themed Stories: Enjoy books or movies that capture the essence of fall and evoke nostalgic feelings!

🍂 Create a Fall Sensory Box: Fill a box with items like pinecones, acorns, and fall-scented candles for a sensory experience!

[puppys-tiny-space]

👑Tips for littles on a budget👑

This is some tips for tinies (or carers looking for gifts for kiddos) on a budget! Of course you don't need any gear to be a good regressor but a lot of us like toys etc. and it's okay to want them!

🧸thrift stores, a lot of thrift stores have toys and plushies, sometimes they are a bit broken or dirty but there are lots of tutorials on YouTube for cleaning and restoring plushies and toys🧸

🐾e-books, you can find kids books online as e-books which are often pretty cheap or you can watch tiktoks of people reading those books🐾

🩷diy onesies, a lot of regressors like onesies but the prices are pretty steep, if you can't afford them don't fret! Its super easy and affordable to make one yourself all you need is an old t-shirt and snap buttons plus a way to attach them, just get a big t-shirt, sweatshirt or even hoodie and add 2-4 snap buttons in the crotch, boom you have a super cute and discreet onesie!🩷

🧸diy toys, there are lots of toys you can make yourself either by sewing or crafting and there's lot soft videos on YouTube for it, or get creative🧸

🐾mobile games, I love to play video games when im regressed but game consoles are expensive so free mobile games are a great alternative🐾

🩷dollar store etc, while you shouldn't rely on stores or websites that use cheap labor for everything it's okay to make exceptions every now and then, especially for toys, pacis, sippy cups and similar🩷

🧸pull ups, instead of cute printed diapers get big kid pull-ups in the baby-section or medical diapers from a drugstore, they are less then half the price of a pack of adult diapers from brands like tears etc.🧸

🐾learn to diy, making things yourself is often the most affordable thing to do, not with everything obviously but with a lot of things, learn as much stuff as you can so you can make lots of gear yourself🐾

🩷look for affordable stores, lots of paci stores on Instagram are very affordable and the ones that aren't often have sales so keep an eye out for that, lots of shops also have promoter codes they are happy for you to use, for example with my code 'bunnybab' you get a small discount at pacisbybunnie and cozypacicorner🩷

🧸buy second hand, thrift stores are a great place but if you want little specific stuff looking on vinted, swoop or even insta is a great idea! Lots of people sell gear they no longer connect with🧸

Fun fact of the day: Bluey's pilot was only a minute long and never actually aired

[healingtots]

I have a question for my followers and fellow regressors...

Do you guys have any advice or tips for a regressor looking for a possible CG?

A little insight..

I am a flip and I have my own little but I find it hard to find a potential CG or even babysitter myself. I also have an Instagram dedicated to the regressor community but more so that's what I use for my CG side. Even so, i have tried to find a CG and it seems that Instagram is no longer as safe, or as active, as it use to be for regressors (which is a bummer).

A friend said that here on tumblr, I might be able to find a CG or even friends. Friends, yes, i have found on here (if you want to be friends you call also DM me!) but I haven't seen any pages more so dedicated to finding a CG. At least also none that is still active.

I come across a lot of regressors posting on both platforms but no CGs or even flips LOOKING. Unsure if I am going about it wrong or if there is a better platform? Any advice or tips would be greatly appreciated.

I am an age regressor and pet regressor. Also I am in my mid 20s which makes it that much harder to find a good CG/ babysitter around my age.

[silly-baba]

Helo, am sad :< so parents make clean room but have hard time clean room cuz autism, overstimulaing and dont like moving things, did clean my floor sleepy area but ended up have meltdown while do it :( so now involentary tiny and have hewdache, can have huggy please?

Of course, kid!!

I'm very proud of you for still cleaning, good job bubs! <3

I also struggle with being overwhelmed when cleaning, I found the app "goblin tools" helped me a lot. It's completely free and makes a step by step checklist out of every task!

Another strategy that helps me is cleaning in a specific pattern, for example: first clean up everything green, then everything red, then everything blue, etc.. it doesn't have to be colors though! I also used tactile sensations (soft, rubbery, etc), and emotions (everything that makes me feel silly, happy, annoyed, etc.)..

This way of cleaning makes me feel less overwhelmed, bc I do it one step at a time.

I hope this helps!!

[wildflower-playground]

hi there! if you see this pick one thing your body needs right now and do your best to do it 🫂

i’m rooting for you! you’ve got this and i promise that eventually things will get easier <3