#caregiving planning

[thepanvelite]

Reverse Parenting: Embracing the Role of Caring for Aging Parents

Children become caregivers for aging parents in reverse parenting dynamics.

A mother has to break the umbilical cord twice: once at birth and once when the child becomes an adult. As we grow older, the dynamics between parents and children evolve. We often find ourselves taking on more responsibilities towards our parents. This shift, known as reverse parenting, is a natural progression where children become the caregivers for their aging parents. Understanding Reverse…

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

Happy Halloween! 🧼🥩🎃

[thashining]

My mother was diagnosed with cancer when I was the district attorney of San Francisco. I remember cooking meals for her and taking her to her appointments. I did what I could to make her comfortable. I figured out which clothes were soft enough that they wouldn't irritate her, and told her stories to try and make her laugh.

Caregiving is about dignity—not just for the patient, but also for the caregiver. We must lower the costs and ease the burdens faced by our caregivers to make it easier for them to provide care while pursuing their aspirations.

Today, I am announcing a new historic Medicare at Home benefit as part of my plan to help families with caregiving needs and strengthen Medicare for the long-term. Over 67 million people are covered by Medicare, yet many Americans don’t realize that Medicare does not cover long-term services and assistance like home health aides.

As a result, many American families face challenging and sometimes impossible choices.

My plan will strengthen Medicare to cover home care services and support for seniors. This will include providing care workers with better wages, improving the quality of care for seniors and those with disabilities, and treating our seniors with the dignity they deserve.

Kamala Harris

[garrettwrites]

About the last post. Genuinely. I think if you've never interacted with kids for prolonged periods of time you should not speak of their cognitive development, and/or "knowledge by age". I think far too many of you either forget how YOU were as a child/pre-teen/young teen, or just had such an out there experience it shouldn't be counted.

Children know what sex is because many of us actually learn about reproduction way before puberty hits. I learned it with the "little seed" analogy in second grade when the teacher had us plant beans in yogurt cups with cotton serving as soil. I've had real sex ed since fifth grade (the best time to learn, since many kids go through puberty around that age). I loved animal documentaries as a young child and guess what - lions have sex in those (in the words of Eminem - "Of course they're gonna know what intercourse is / By the time they hit fourth grade / They've got the Discovery Channel, don't they?"). Some kids just pick up puberty books at eight at the library and read them, or look it up online. Some kids have a younger sibling or cousin be born and their parents explain to them where the baby comes from. Kids make sex jokes too, learn them from their peers or adults. In some cases they might have ended up on the wrong corners of the internet, but that's not the norm (although I do remember all of us on technology class in seventh grade secretly gathering around one of our classmate's computer to look at boobs on google images. Boys and girls alike. It was novelty for us, since up until then we had only seen our mother's or granny's).

Sure. A nine year old won't generally know exactly how intercourse goes, how pregnancy can happen. But many know the bases.

Kids also learn about death early on. I learned it in first grade, and remember being terrified. I spoke about it with my mother in metaphors - I went up to her each night asking about "the pigs going away forever", because that's how I felt comfortable talking about it without directly asking "what happens to ME when I die".

Many kids, such as myself, learn about violence first hand. By abuse. By bullying. Maybe by simply witnessing it instead of being on the receiving end.

The same people who hate children and complain about toddlers existing in a public bus are the ones spreading rethoric of "if a kid knows X they're probably being abused" like be real. Especially nowadays where most kids are in front of a screen before they can even read.

Learn the actual signs of abuse. A child isn't being molested just because they joke about dicks and vaginas. A child isn't going through domestic violence just because they repeat some joke they overheard. A child isn't living in hell just because they play pretend torture with their dolls. Lord.

[asinglesock]

I slept so much today AND we're falling back tomorrow so I get even more time to sleep AND I'm only working at caregiving job this month so my work is going to be contained to regular business hours <3 <3 <3

[rainyfestivalsweets]

3/21/24

I had a rough night. My periods continue to be the worst, but last night after CBD for the intense pain, I burrito'ed myself between the heating pad and the electric blanket, which covered most of the pain areas.

Although I was up and down and felt like I was bleeding out, I managed to wake up (late ugg) but with less pain.

Today I had a triple shot energy drink my friend gave me. 90 cals 9g protein.

Then I worked. And worked out. A dumbell circuit, step workout and a short gluten workout. Then I took a luxurious shower and lotion.... and put my waist trainer on. Open at the bottom to not pressure my screaming uterus.

Oo, that lady who snarkily commented YoU hAvE tO cHaNgE yOuR LiFeSTyLe is gonna be so fucking pissed.

Idk. If you ever feel like you need to do that to some internet stranger.....DON'T.

You don't know what anyone is suffering. What I go thru on the daily. If you don't like what you read, how about you fuck all the way off?! How about that.

Especially if you are not a follower of the blog.

Life is hard, why do people insist on making it fucking harder on strangers?

So it has been awhile. That bitch made me feel unworthy of wearing a waist trainer that I BOUGHT & PAID for, dieted to fit into, and had on hand. But I have it on today because I deserve to use ALL the tools at my disposal.

So if you don't like it, fuck off. What now? Exactly motherfucker. 💯 Fucking nothing.

120 pounds down, shooting for a new low on this journey.... and currently a badass MFer, killing weights, cardio, work, AND FT CAREGIVING!

I can't wait til I can say 130 pounds down!

140 pounds down!

150 pounds down!

160????? 🤩🤩🤩

[kyluxtrashpit]

Another old cat health ramble. Just cause sometimes I need to write things out

She’s still doing surprisingly well considering how increasingly unsettling she looks (if you follow me on twitter and open the sensitive content warnings, you know what she looks like - it’s spooky. I don’t post pics here cause there’s no real easy way to censor so it’s an opt in if you want to see her current state or not). And I think the cancer has definitely spread to her inner ear, as her balance problems are getting worse. She wobbled so bad she just about did a somersault yesterday when licking the hairball goo I give them every night off her front leg. Sometimes she rubs the area and it’s not great but it’s still manageable and it seems more like it just feels uncomfy sometimes (which I try to alleviate with the lubricant, but she doesn’t love that either so. Delicate balance)

But despite all that, she’s still so full of life and seemingly pain free. She still plays, eats, snuggles - if you covered up the affected part of her face and chocked the occasional wobble up to her being old or something, you’d never know there was anything wrong with her. She’s still so happy and tbh it. Doesn’t really make sense that she’s doing so well

Like I don’t want to look a gift horse in the mouth here but. It is strange. I expected her to be worse by now and I figured her even living to see october was a 50/50 shot. I had been hoping she’d last until this weekend, as it’s a long weekend, and unless anything goes downhill super quickly (which is absolutely possible), she’s going to sail right through without an issue. November? I don’t think it’ll happen based on the historical rate of growth from month to month but. She’s also really barely declined. The tumour is notably bigger and her balance is off but. That’s it

Idk I should be happy she’s doing so well but I can’t help but like. Feel on edge about it. Like whatever’s going to happen is going to be a really quick decline. She could pass suddenly in her sleep at any time too, or her heart could just stop or a blot clot or so many other things that would be sudden and instant. And while a long, slow deterioration is it’s own hell, so is a quick one that you don’t have the chance to prepare for. There’s no good way for it to happen but. Idk. It just makes me nervous that she’s still doing so well even though I know I should be grateful and cherishing it

Idk. There’s no real point here, it’s mostly a ramble. I feel like I’ve been preparing for it to happen any day for months, have been already mourning her for all this time. But she’s still kicking and is basically the same as she always is. And I’m happy for that, I truly truly am, but idk, I can’t help but think it’s a sign that when the time does come, there will be little to no warning. And while it sucks no matter how it happens, idk, I just can’t help being on edge about that because it still sucks, but there is at least some comfort in having at least some warning

[kim-dokja-hate-blog]

thinkin abt how han yoojin’s original caregiver title (and assumingely all of the other types) was set up perfectly for him to one day achieve the perfect caregiver title…

[wavesoutbeingtossed]

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[mrlesbian]

being trans can be so isolating. so lonely. even with the support of some loved ones, i'm still on this journey alone.

[seniorandlivingtoday]

Senior Independence: Empowering Older Adults to Live Life on Their Terms

As we age, we often face challenges related to maintaining our independence. However, achieving and preserving senior independence is not only possible but essential for the well-being of older adults. Senior independence allows individuals to live a fulfilling life, make decisions on their own, and maintain dignity and self-respect. At Senior and Living Today, we are committed to offering the information, resources, and support necessary to help seniors live independently and confidently.

In this blog post, we’ll explore the importance of senior independence and share practical tips for promoting self-sufficiency, enhancing quality of life, and staying active in later years.

Why Senior Independence Matters

For many seniors, independence represents more than just the ability to live alone. It embodies autonomy, self-respect, and the power to shape one’s own life. Independence can have several profound benefits, including:

Physical and Emotional Health: Seniors who maintain independence are often healthier, both physically and emotionally. Staying active, managing daily tasks, and making personal decisions can help improve mental sharpness, reduce stress, and increase happiness.

Quality of Life: Being independent allows seniors to live life on their own terms. Whether it’s choosing when to go for a walk, deciding what to eat, or maintaining personal hobbies, independence gives seniors the freedom to keep doing the things they love.

Reduced Dependence on Caregivers: While many seniors will eventually need some form of caregiving support, maintaining independence as long as possible can reduce the burden on family members or professional caregivers. It also gives seniors a sense of pride and accomplishment in managing their daily routines.

Tips for Enhancing Senior Independence

Here are some practical strategies and tips that can help seniors maintain and improve their independence as they age:

1. Create a Safe and Accessible Home Environment

Safety is paramount to maintaining independence. Home modifications such as grab bars in bathrooms, better lighting, and eliminating tripping hazards can make it easier for seniors to navigate their homes without risk. Investing in assistive devices like walkers or stairlifts can also ensure that seniors can safely perform daily tasks and reduce the likelihood of falls.

2. Stay Active and Engage in Regular Exercise

Physical activity plays a key role in maintaining independence. Regular exercise, tailored to a senior’s abilities, helps improve strength, balance, and flexibility—vital components of staying mobile and avoiding injuries. Activities like walking, swimming, or joining a senior fitness class can also boost mental health and help prevent chronic conditions.

3. Plan for Healthcare Needs

Seniors should stay proactive in managing their healthcare. Regular check-ups, taking prescribed medications correctly, and addressing health concerns promptly can prevent conditions from worsening and help seniors stay independent for longer. Additionally, having access to telemedicine services can make it easier for seniors to manage their health from the comfort of their homes.

4. Explore Transportation Options

As driving may become less feasible with age, finding alternative transportation solutions is important. Public transportation, ride-sharing services, or senior transportation programs can help seniors stay mobile and access the community, social activities, and healthcare services without relying on others.

5. Maintain Social Connections

Isolation can be one of the biggest challenges to senior independence. Staying socially engaged improves both mental and emotional well-being. Seniors should consider joining social clubs, participating in community events, or connecting virtually with friends and family. Being part of a social network helps seniors stay informed, active, and connected.

6. Financial Planning for Independence

Financial security is a key part of being independent. Seniors should take steps to ensure that they have the financial resources to maintain their lifestyle. This includes planning for retirement, managing healthcare costs, and considering long-term care insurance options. Consulting with a financial advisor can help create a sustainable financial plan for the future.

7. Mindful Nutrition

Proper nutrition plays a critical role in maintaining independence. Seniors should aim for a balanced diet that includes a variety of healthy foods to maintain energy, prevent illness, and support overall health. Easy-to-make meals, meal delivery services, or meal prep assistance can help seniors who struggle with grocery shopping or cooking.

When Help is Needed: Assisted Living and Home Care Options

While the goal is to promote independence, there may come a time when professional assistance is needed to ensure safety and well-being. In such cases, seniors can explore options like home care services or assisted living communities that provide the right level of support, allowing them to retain as much independence as possible while still getting the care they need.

Home care allows seniors to receive assistance with activities of daily living (ADLs) such as dressing, bathing, and meal preparation while staying in their homes. Assisted living communities, on the other hand, offer a combination of independent living with on-site assistance, providing a balance of autonomy and support.

Finding the Right Support

Choosing the right care option is a deeply personal decision and should be based on individual needs, preferences, and lifestyle. At Senior and Living Today, we offer helpful resources to guide you through the decision-making process. Whether it’s finding a trusted caregiver or exploring different types of senior housing, we’re here to help.

Conclusion

Senior independence is about empowering older adults to live life on their own terms, maintain dignity, and continue enjoying all the things that make life meaningful. While challenges may arise as we age, it’s possible to stay independent with the right resources, strategies, and support. At Senior and Living Today, we are committed to providing the tools and information you need to make informed decisions and live your best life.

If you're interested in learning more about senior independence, caregiving options, or other resources for aging well, explore our website today. Together, we can help seniors lead happy, healthy, and independent lives.

[dynamichealthinsights]

Upholding Humanity in the Face of Alzheimer's: A Comprehensive Guide to Patient Advocacy

Alzheimer’s disease is a journey into the unknown, not just for those diagnosed, but also for the loved ones who walk alongside them. It’s a landscape where memories fade, cognitive abilities diminish, and the power to assert one’s needs and rights becomes increasingly challenging. In this intricate terrain, the role of an advocate emerges as a beacon of hope, a steadfast guardian of dignity and…

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Encouraging healthy eating habits in elderly loved ones is crucial for their overall well-being, especially with the support of in-home aide care in Wilmington, North Carolina. These caregivers can play a vital role in ensuring seniors receive nutritious meals tailored to their dietary needs and preferences.

[nancykhemchandani]

Eldercare: How SecondMedic Supports Senior Citizens

Discover how SecondMedic supports eldercare with experienced caregivers, personalized care plans, 24/7 support, and affordable rates. 

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Comprehensive Eldercare Solutions with SecondMedic: Personalized

Discover how SecondMedic supports eldercare with experienced caregivers, personalized care plans, 24/7 support, and affordable rates.

[faithhomehealthcare]

Independence Starts with a Personalized Care Plan

Independence starts with a personalized care plan designed to meet your unique needs.🌟 Our dedicated team is here to provide the support and guidance you need to achieve your goals and live life to the fullest.🌈 Experience the power of personalized care today!💪 👈