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It's important.. This list is not only for trans individuals, but also AFABs, disabled people and any person that lives in the U.S right now and isn't a straight white man!!

If moving countries is not a viable option for you, "just" moving to a blue state might be helpful!

Please be safe!

I'm scared for- and worried about you, peeps! <3

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It's always okay - important even - to express all your emotions. To feel them. That's the only way to really process them. As long as you are doing it in a safe way (or try your best to!) Let them out!!! <3

Anger shouldn't be a forbidden emotion. Disabled people are allowed to be angry. Let us be angry because there sure as hell is enough for us to feel angry about. We can have feelings and express them, ok?

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A little goodbye video for my boy, Miles. 🌈❤️

Happy memories of my happy little guy. <3

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I will miss you dearly, Miles. <3

(@dino-boyo-agere is my main blog, Miles was my baby boy.)

Tw: Pet death

I'm sharing very sad news with you all today.

I had to put down Miles. He has been really sick for the past few days, and I had to make the difficult decision to let him go. I just didn't want to see him in pain any longer and I know this was the right decision. He was smiling till the end. I held him in my arms as he passed away..

Miles was my first own pet and he was the sweetest, most loving and silliest dog I've ever had the pleasure to be around. I'm so thankful that I was able to spend a part of my life with him.

Rest in peace little guy, I'll miss you so incredibly much.

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CG carrying little one like..

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Do u support littles who are minors?

Of course!! Lots of regressors are minors. It's a very healthy coping mechanism/ way to relieve stress & relax. <3

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I love that Age regression has the potential to both heal regressors and caregivers, it’s honestly so sweet.

One heals by regaining their childhood, the other by becoming the parent they needed and deserved as a child.

This is also your friendly reminder that caregivers are more then just caregivers, there people too, who deserve to be able to set boundaries around themselves,

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age regression is:

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Just an important reminder that if someone’s response to you putting up a boundary (like telling them something they are doing makes you uncomfortable) is to tell you how much it hurts them that you feel that way or to start talking about how “oh, I guess I’m a terrible person then”, do not give in. Whether intentional or not, that sort of response is manipulative. You deserve to have your boundaries respected without being made to feel like you’re the one who needs to apologize. 

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𝐖𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐓𝐨 𝐇𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐒𝐥𝐢𝐩 ✫彡

SFW INTERACTIONS ONLY.

-> Start by age dreaming

-> Babytalk/babble to yourself as you’re doing things

-> Have a babysitter, caregiver or friend chat with you, and have them treat you as if you were small

-> Watch a children’s show or movie

-> Color with crayons or markers

-> Play pretend with stuffies or toys

-> Wear oversized clothes to feel tinier

-> Listen to a story (you can have a caregiver read one, or find one on YouTube)

-> Create and decorate a journal just for your little space

-> Set aside a slot of time just for regressing, and not focusing on big kid responsibilities

☁︎︎

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i hope all disabled members of the agere community are having a great disability pride month!

this includes:

all physically and/or intellectually disabled / impaired age regressors, pet regressors, flips, caregivers, age dreamers, and pet dreamers

regressors who are non-verbal, lose speech, or otherwise experience difficulty with verbal communication

regressors who use mobility aids (canes, wheelchairs, crutches, braces, etc.)

regressors who use communication aids (AAC devices, communication cards, signs, etc.)

regressors who use other accessibility aids (eye tracking, screen readers, etc.)

incontinent regressors and regressors who use diapers / pull-ups to cope with other aspects of their disability

regressors who struggle with defining a regression age range because of their disability

regressors who regress because of their disability, or feel as though their regression is heavily impacted by their disability

regressors who are proud of their disability or find joy in being disabled

regressors who feel ashamed of their disability or have struggled to accept it

regressors who have difficulty playing or doing high-energy activities, whether it be due to mobility, fatigue, or self-consciousness / anxiety

regressors who feel like they don't fit in with very stereotypical representations of agere because of their disability

pet regressors who's connection to a certain animal is because of / linked to their disability

age dreamers who age dream because their disability prevents them from regressing, or if dreaming makes them feel more comfortable

caregivers who worry they're not able to care for regressors properly due to chronic pain / fatigue (you're doing great btw)

feel free to add on! /ᐠ 𒒬 ﻌ ^ マ☆

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Please . .

I just wanna be read to , held n rocked , getting my sippy cups n bottles filled with my fav drinks n my food cut up small and on sectioned plates . I just want to be asked engaging questions like “ what’s this sweetheart ? “ can you tell me what this is ? “ . . . To be told I’m way to tiny to do things .

Talked to gently and soft . . Watching cartoons and drawing with crayons . My drawings and colorings hung on the fridge . Talking in my tiny voice and not feeling shy or ashamed . Being told what a good kid / boy I am . Playing with me and whispering soft reassurances in my ear .

Wiping my tears and holding me close . Reminding me that I’m okay and that I’m safe ! Cleaning up my cuts n scrapes ! Ruffling my hair . I just want to be a kid and feel like a kid and not be ashamed . I just wish people were kinder . We have feelings too . We’re struggling with things too . Please just be kind 🤍

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Hi! I was wondering if you had any tips or advice on how I might be able to get over my worry of “ruining” my stuffies if I cuddle or handle them too much? I really wanna be able to interact with them more but always worry about them getting dirty or their fur becoming less soft & stuff like that… whenever I see other peoples well loved stuffies I think they’re still wonderful! But my brain doesn’t like the idea of that happening to my stuffies even though I wanna be able to cuddle them & play with them & take them places like I see other people doing…

If you don’t have any tips or advice could I at least have some encouragement that it’s okay to do those things with my stuffies despite what my brain tells me?

Thank you in advance! ^-^

That's a tricky problem..

First of all, keep in mind that everyone plays differently, same goes with plushies! Some of my friends simply put them on a shelf, and their playing with them is reorganizing the fluffsters every one in a while. That's a completely valid way to play with plushies too! They also don't get "used up" or dirty like that.. but your ask sounds like you want to play actively with your's, and are just scared to see them wither. And in that case, here's my advice!!

I've always seen it like this:

You get stuffies to live them, to play with them and maybe take them with you & show them the world. They are bound to get dirty, maybe even break a little, so you have to play stuffy hospital..

But that's how it should be. You should be able to see how much you love your plushies. How much they have been with you on adventures. How important they are to you.

My main plushies all look real raggedy, and I wouldn't want to have it any other way.

They are now one of a kind, all the little scratches, sutures, and matted fur make this one MY plushie. MY companion. MY friend.

I hope this helps!! <3

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Middle Space Agedre Activities

⭐ play with fidget toys ⭐ put your things in a backpack ⭐ listen to nostalgic music ⭐ cut your food into fun shapes ⭐ look at kidcore blogs ⭐ color ⭐ snuggle your stuffies ⭐ enjoy a wholesome videogames ⭐ snuggle up under a fuzzy blanket ⭐ watch a disney or studio ghibli movie ⭐ paint ⭐ draw with sidewalk chalk ⭐ doodle ⭐ put stickers on everything ⭐ sensory play ⭐ make a craft ⭐ watch kid-friendly youtube shows ⭐ reading, especially chapter books ⭐ eating chocolate ⭐ playing dolls

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Oh, I know some of those videos, they're really cute!!

That's a really great tip, thank you so much for sharing. <3

I know not everyone can afford to send plushies away to be restored, so I highly recommend everyone to watch those videos, so they can maybe learn to restore their plushies too!

Hi! I was wondering if you had any tips or advice on how I might be able to get over my worry of “ruining” my stuffies if I cuddle or handle them too much? I really wanna be able to interact with them more but always worry about them getting dirty or their fur becoming less soft & stuff like that… whenever I see other peoples well loved stuffies I think they’re still wonderful! But my brain doesn’t like the idea of that happening to my stuffies even though I wanna be able to cuddle them & play with them & take them places like I see other people doing…

If you don’t have any tips or advice could I at least have some encouragement that it’s okay to do those things with my stuffies despite what my brain tells me?

Thank you in advance! ^-^

That's a tricky problem..

First of all, keep in mind that everyone plays differently, same goes with plushies! Some of my friends simply put them on a shelf, and their playing with them is reorganizing the fluffsters every one in a while. That's a completely valid way to play with plushies too! They also don't get "used up" or dirty like that.. but your ask sounds like you want to play actively with your's, and are just scared to see them wither. And in that case, here's my advice!!

I've always seen it like this:

You get stuffies to live them, to play with them and maybe take them with you & show them the world. They are bound to get dirty, maybe even break a little, so you have to play stuffy hospital..

But that's how it should be. You should be able to see how much you love your plushies. How much they have been with you on adventures. How important they are to you.

My main plushies all look real raggedy, and I wouldn't want to have it any other way.

They are now one of a kind, all the little scratches, sutures, and matted fur make this one MY plushie. MY companion. MY friend.

I hope this helps!! <3