#toxic quotes

[ruminate88]

“I guess I miss the times he acted obsessed with me. He made me feel so beautiful and wanted but after we broke up; I felt ugly and so stupid for thinking he ever cared about me when clearly I was a joke to him.”

[oldschoollaaisha]

When you are not fed love on a silver spoon, you learn to lick it off knives.

-Lauren Eden

[lolmanthecat]

Which is,

Once again,

A very toxic behaviour to have.

Towards others

And towards oneself.

[dumplingprincessextraordinaire]

Toxic yuri

Art by @/AmiThompsonh

[nobita-here]

[fanaticalthings]

just another night in gotham

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[limerence-leftovers]

I know two men who are currently single. One is 26, and the other is 38.

I’ve spoken with both of them at length about what they want in a woman, seeing as they’re cishet and white.

They both immediately went for physical attributes. Thin, but needs to have a nice butt. Boobs can’t be too big. One likes short hair, the other likes long hair. They also went into facial features for some reason. That was the part that made me really uncomfortable as I hadn’t expected either of them to have been that focused on appearances.

Aesthetics came next. Both want ‘alt goth / witchy’ women. It should be worth noting both of these men said their potential partner can’t wear too much makeup.

Lastly came personality and interests. They both said this is the most important thing to them, but they also ‘have to be pretty’. Oh, and they need to listen.

I have some single ladies I’ve also spoken with.

It’s the opposite. They rarely care about looks. It’s about chemistry, emotional connection, feeling safe, and sharing common goals / ideals.

While I know it’s not ‘all men’ it sure as fuck is a lot of you. Also both of these men think they’re part of the ‘good cishet white liberal men’ who voted for Kamala, despite one of them not voting at all.

He’s the 38 year old. To make things worse, he’s trying to date a 24 year old. 🤷‍♀️ His criteria for a potential partner was also under the age of 30 because it means less baggage and they’re still ‘fun to be around’.

You don’t want to know what he doesn’t bring to the table. Either of them, rather. 😅

We do have a male loneliness epidemic, but it’s not women’s fault. We don’t owe you anything. We’re not vending machines you put tokens into and get sex out of. Male culture made by men and perpetuated by men has made men this way. And it’s your job as men to fix it, not point the finger at us and say it’s our fault for not wanting to be with you. Some of us like myself want to actually HELP you, but you guys rarely want to listen. You instead want to complain to us about our gender and how unfair we’re being by not giving you a chance.

We don’t owe you anything.

On January 20th, 2025 and forward, they’re going to try to take our rights. They may succeed.

Men have to take from us because they’ve gaslit themselves into seeing us as the enemy, despite having driven us away by their own actions centered around self interest.

“It’s not all men. But it sure is a lot of you.”

[pencildragons]

all those posts that are like 'wilson is just as off his fucking rocker as house' are RIGHT and they need to say it LOUDER because why was wilson's solution to pull house out of a suspected grief spiral to pretend to play a mind game while pretending to secretly playing a different mind, which in turn was another mind game designed to engage and distract his boybestfriend by giving him a little puzzle . and then it WORKED . thats not a normal thing to do

[rotting-bitch]

try to be gentle while tearing me apart

[wimsiecal]

“it's not like I lay awake at night thinking about her!”

“…uh oh”

[samzier]

real fnaf lore

[ruminate88]

“You made me believe & then you took it all away. You let me feel everything when you felt nothing. I don’t hate you but I’m sad to know you. Sad to have loved & lost you. 💔 So sad…”

[oldschoollaaisha]

How can we be allowed to feel so much for people who don't feel anything for us?

[apollos-boyfriend]

i may be a toxic gatekeeper but unless they were there all these sad quote/imagine accounts will NEVER understand the intricacies of “what am i without you?” / “yourself?” because they NEVER put a question mark on tubbo’s response. yeah the quote hits hard on its own whatever but the context is SO necessary and adds SO much. tubbo’s response isn’t really. as driven as “yourself.” with that period (.) would be. and, again, adding the period spins the meaning and narrative into something completely different (in a bad way!!! to me!!!! boooo booo tomato tomato etc!!!!)

because tubbo responds in a way that makes it seem like tommy asked him if the sky is blue. like, yeah, obviously yourself, what do you mean, boss man? because tubbo doesn’t value himself in the same way tommy values him. and tommy doesn’t value himself in the same way tubbo values him. there’s a clash of ideals on both sides. that’s what makes it so interesting!!!

but by removing the question mark you create this call and response of “i can’t imagine myself without you / your personhood is important and i am here to remind you to value yourself” instead of the much stronger call and response of “i can’t imagine myself without you / i can’t imagine myself mattering (that much) to you” and it drives me insane

[sleepwxlk]

“I Miss My Sister”

I miss the girl who used to laugh,

Who carried sunlight in her path.

Her smile would brighten every room,

But now she’s lost within the gloom.

Since he arrived, she’s not the same,

Her warmth replaced with hurt and shame.

He twists her thoughts, he warps her mind,

And leaves the love we knew behind.

She vents her pain, she shares her fears,

Her voice is heavy, lined with tears.

We hold her close, we beg her, “Stay,”

But always, always, she drifts away.

I see her trapped, a fragile thread,

Bound by the words he’s deftly said.

He needs her now to pave his way,

But steals her soul with each new day.

She dreams of leaving, breaking free,

But chains of guilt won’t let her be.

I miss the sister that I knew,

Her joy, her light, her spirit true.

How do I help? What can I do,

When every bridge leads back to you?

I hope one day she’ll find her voice,

And finally make the braver choice.

Until that day, I’ll stand nearby,

To catch her tears and hear her cry.

I’ll wait for her, my sister dear,

And hope one day she’ll reappear.

- DK

[lostmf]