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The "I wanted to really kiss you" kiss from Love Sick the series (2024) for @placetneplacet
#Love Sick the series#Love Sick 2024#**#all aboard the nostalgia train#this is giving young queer love#and self discovery
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looking back at steven universe and god. that show had such good diversity in their designs that very few animated shows before or since it have had. like there's the obvious diversity in race and weight representation but also just like. all the different body shapes and hair types and facial features. all of which were depicted without being a shorthand for a character being Gross And Comically Ugly (or worse, evil). like i think watching that show in my teen years (which are like. peak years for developing body based insecurities) was good for my self esteem. because with pretty much any trait that i had that i was made to feel bad about, there would be a character from my favourite show that had that trait.
#eliot posts#steven universe#su#idk why but i'm feeling nostalgic abt that show today#when i was young‚ my family (whether on accident or on purpose) made me feel insecure about the size of my nose#(honestly it's only slightly above average w a little bump but they made it sound huuuge)#but then there was connie! who had a huge aquiline nose!#a trait that i'd only seen before to denote that a character was old/ugly/evil#but connie was none of those things. she was a smart and brave and caring young girl. who loved fantasy books just like me#she made me feel seen and represented in an equally important way that the show's queer characters did#my one wish: more visibly disabled characters#give me a congenital amputee to latch onto
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TW: Internal homophobia (Walburga and Orion nothing could make me like you)
Give me Sirius Black who knew he liked Remus romantically. Who wanted to say something but was stopped by an overwhelming fear of rejection because that was what he’d known all his life (courtesy of his parents).
Sirius knew he liked Remus but anytime someone asked him how he felt he would deny it because he was terrified that it would get back to Remus and it would ruin their relationship forever.
Give me Sirius who knew how he felt about Remus but was scared of it. Scared because he’d been told it was wrong. Scared that Remus would think so too.
Sirius was scared because what Remus thought mattered. He wanted Remus to approve of him. He was scared Remus wouldn’t look at him the same way anymore.
Give me Sirius who was denying his feelings for Remus from himself too. He knew that he was in love but he wouldn’t allow himself to think it because then it would be real.
Sirius was denying his feelings to himself because he didn’t want to feel that way. He just wished he could be normal.
#someone give Sirius Black a hug#he needs it#and he deserves it#just be nice to him as a treat#sirius black#marauders era#marauders#remus lupin#james potter#peter pettigrew#james & peter & remus & sirius#moony wormtail padfoot and prongs#wolfstar#regulus black#gay sirius black#bi sirius black#sirius is a mess#sirius black sad#regulus and sirius#young sirius black#remus x sirius#sirius orion black#sirius and regulus#sirius loves remus#queer sirius black#sirius black was abused#sirius black has mommy issues#sirius black has daddy issues#sirius kinnie#internalized homophobia
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yes i'm rooting for m*leven breakup because byler is neat but mostly? i'm rooting for m*leven breakup for the sake of el and mike.
to me, their romance was always a puppy love born out of a combination of social pressures, naïve curiosity, and a lack of true understanding regarding intimacy and romantic love and what it really is. it was real in that they do truly, deeply care about each other and they are close friends, maybe even shared an attraction, but a maturing romance is so much more than that. they've grown up and out of being boyfriend/girlfriend, and that's okay! i think television/film needs to show more often that most of us don't have definite "soulmates" or first childhood loves that we spend our whole lives with. it doesn't mean these relationships meant nothing and didn't impact us, it just means they've run their course and that something else is in the cards, and this is part of life!
i've always felt el was at her best and most confident self when broken up with mike, discovering who she was and what she liked alongside another girl her age instead of just relying on mike for mentorship on how to live in the real world. she deserves more of an opportunity to find herself, her autonomy, and her independence, and to love who she is, and she's made it clear she's felt insecure in the relationship with mike because she isn't being loved and understood the way she wants, needs, and deserves from someone who is her partner.
also, it's okay if mike doesn't love her in "the way he should". he is not obligated to love her romantically and stay in a relationship with her just because she's a girl, because she "needed someone", or because he cares about her a lot. he shouldn't be pressured into a romance if it's not truly coming from his heart. he deserves freedom to find out and honour who he is, too, instead of just staying in his non-functional first relationship — one he got into as a child, essentially — and defining himself that way because it's what's expected when a boy and a girl are close. he loves her in some way, yes, but it's okay if he doesn't feel comfortable or secure being her boyfriend anymore, for whatever reason that is. he's felt insecure too, and that's valid and it matters.
they are their own people and are steadily growing and changing every day. they need time to figure out who those people are, and it's become clear (at least in my opinion) that those people aren't meant to be a couple at this stage.
they deserve freedom. they deserve to grow up and be authentic to themselves and not feel like they need to lie for the sake of a relationship. they deserve to move on from this version of their relationship that isn't making them happy and rekindle the best part of their bond: their strong, beautiful friendship. they don't have to be a couple if it doesn't make them stronger and better and happier people.
i think it would be healthy and wonderful for a show, especially one consumed frequently by young adults, to show a relationship starting, progressing, and ending on good terms in this way. sometimes things don't work out, and that is okay.
#eve text#elmike#stranger things#byler#only tagging byler because i feel like yall will like this take lol#tagging tagging tagging WHAT ARE EVERYONE ELSE'S THOUGHTS#god i can't believe i'm making a post about stranger things. this feels like poking a bear#i'm not particularly anti m*leven but like... they'd have to do something pretty special at this point for me to feel like it's viable#i'm seeing the bts of s5 and it's got me Having Thoughts#elmike friendship is something i am so passionate about#even before i ever liked byler (didn't ship at all until s4 even though i knew it was a thing before) i've felt this way about elmike#i always believed they were close friends at heart and needed to break up#the romance part of them felt very distinctly young and very much “he was a boy she was a girl” to me#and it hasn't deepened into anything more mature and i don't see how it could based on the current state of the writing...#the fact that lumax exists — a young relationship that is actively maturing and is healthy — makes that clear to me#and the “love confession” in s4 and how disingenuous and miserable it felt was just the nail in the coffin#also the fact that will (who is IN LOVE with mike) was instrumental in making it happen? ... uh... okay... interesting choice…#fucked up and reductive if they make it another queer unrequited love sacrifice for the sake of pushing the heterosexual agenda YUCK#so i really hope the speculation about a m*leven breakup is real!! i think it just makes sense for their characters but who knows#i don't believe in the notion of love at first sight or one true love and i think the writers don't too???#love to me is an accumulation of experiences and we inevitably choose it at some point rather than fall into it... but idk#tv is so fixated on keeping couples together... sometimes it's just not reality guys especially with young people... LET IT GO...#like i said though i'm not 100% sold that they're going to give up their “golden couple” LMAO#stranger things hasn't historically subverted too many tropes if i'm being honest#anyway i seriously need this season to come out quickly... i'm so bored and getting my master's is crushing my soul#i need frivolity#ALSO btw i won't respond to hateful messages about this so please don't bother. it's not that serious. this is a netflix show
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Nothing will be more hilarious to me than the party's - specially Ben's - outrage about Alex's sneaky reference to William Shakespeare slowly fading as they remember that half of the NPCs are actually historical figures. Like they are genuinally going "what's this assassin's creed? You put Shakespeare in the gift Augusta Leight gave to our honorary party member Oscar Wilde while waiting for Ada Lovelace and Nikola Tesla to see if we can talk to the brain of Charles Babbage about the mission Albert Einstein teleported us to? Shakespeare a whole historical person? "
#on a very different note wilde getting shakespeare cloack gives me a lot of joy#because i always loved wilde's essay about shakespeare loving another man#how he defends that even if it isn't true it is important that it is because it means something#it's the quintecencial finding a bit of queer subtext of wondering if that person is like you#is the reason we wear pins and tattos and green carnations#is the power of representativity of not feeling alone is why historical queers matter#and Wilde definitivaly became for a generation of young queers specially gay man what Shakespeare was for him#i don't think alex considered any of that at all#it was 100% just haha shakespeare was THE Bard haha#but it still matters to me#rqg#rusty quill gaming
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I know basically nothing about rowena, but I now finally get what people mean about shipping things aesthetically. because what do you MEAN love of my life sam winchester, 6”4, deeply damaged but lovely straight white dude-man, has a cute, interesting and disgustingly tragic relationship with A TINY GINGER SCOTTISH WITCH WHO’S THE MOTHER OF A RECURRING VILLAIN AND PLAYED BY AN ACTRESS WHO’S OLDER THAN HIM????? WHAT??? I NEED THAT IN MY LIFE RIGHT THE FUCK NOW
like what is this. I love it. I’m obsessed. enemies to friends to lovers, height difference, age difference, and just generally UNCONVENTIONAL AS FUCK for a straight ship??? spectacular gimme fourteen of em right now
#I have a real thing about older women / mothers being put in situations reserved traditionally for young conventionally attractive women.#don’t get me wrong ruth connell is GORGEOUS but like do you know what I mean?? I just love it so much#give me middle aged woman yuri or a mum as the main character or in this case a mum shipped with the conventional white boy lead#and I will EAT. IT. UP.#BRO IS NOT NORMAL ABOUT THAT MARGINALLY OLDER WOMAN!!#anyway point is I’m excited to get to her in the show :3 I fear I will love them extremely dearly#spn#supernatural#sam winchester#rowena macleod#samwena#sam x rowena#also sam is my favourite character and I don’t personally see him as any flavour of queer but I want someone interesting to ship him with#as hard as I ship dean with cas and with benny#like I need the same level of insanity about it and the canon (and non canon tbh) sam ships currently just don’t do that for me at all#so yeah I’m very excited for samwena :3
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One time I suggested watching Dan and Phil Games to someone because I genuinely thought they would like it and they told me they wouldn't ever watch dnpg because they don't want to be "one of those gays."
The blatant homophobia in that sentence??? And that was clearly a jab at me?? Ugh.
Pls just let me live my life, thanks xxx
#i genuinely don't understand why some lgbt people feel the need to judge other queer people for just existing#it gives the same vibes as people who judge young gay people for being really open about their identity and wearing pride flags and stuff#just let people exist#so what if we're cringe?? it literally doesn't effect you.#I am so over people judging others based on stupid things like their interests#i would love to just exist for 5 seconds without someone making a comment about something i like.#dan and phil games#dnpg#dnp#dan and phil#daniel howell#danisnotonfire#phil lester#amazingphil
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God the present part of the livestream is killing me like we get it you guys are perfect for another and in love like growls.
That’s why it always annoys me when Dan is doing his little “love isn’t real” bit he does sometimes .. like homeboy there are cathedrals for those who have eyes to see shut the fuck up you met your soulmate at age 18
#bro he constitantly knows EXACTLY what to get you#shut UP#they’re so in love and still down bad for one another doesn’t he see he gives ppl hope#especially young queer ppl like uh all his viewers#does bro know he represents a cathedral of hope to all the lonely lesbians watching them#phan#amazingphil#dnp#dan and phil#dan howell#dan
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It’s been 62 days since I last touched you. Since I’ve seen your smile, and had your blue eyes look at me in adoration. It’s been 62 days, and all I can think about is how I’m half a person without you.
There are days that I curse ever having met you. Felt your touch burn my skin, your fingers press promises into my skin. Maybe my life would be easier if I didn’t have you in it. But what kind of life would that be? My heart is yours, and your heart is mine.
Sometimes, I wonder if anyone has ever experienced this kind of love. I wonder, am I really so special that I get to have this and no one else? It can’t be true. I don’t feel like our love is brand new. There must have been lovers, soulmates, before us, experiencing what we get to have. And it’s giving me comfort to imagine there will be many more like us to come. Our kind of love is the kind of love that makes this rotten world worth living in.
Our love is the purpose of this life.
I’m awaiting your return to me with bated breath, my love. I’m awaiting your gentle touch, your skin against mine. I am awaiting you.
Vincent, to Eugen, from Chapter 5 of I Don’t Feel Like Our Love is Brand New (aka the Prince Simon AU) by @prince-simon
#i still think about this excerpt so much#the suckerpunch when i first read the love letters#i really thought they’re real#it’s giving queer literature greats#this is my sappho this is my forster#it took me so long to find the title for#princess simon au#and i think i am awaiting you#symbolises simon’s patience in seeing the girl that wille is and waiting for her to accept that love for herself?#very cruising utopia#queerness is not yet here#they’re striving towards it#they’re waiting for it#something something radical hope#prince simon au#young royals fanfic
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i don’t think it’s ever too late to transition or come out as queer. if you have life left to live you deserve to live it happily??
#anyway#saying this as a young queer person but like#seeing elder queers is so inspiring those who’ve been out and those who came out later in life#love you all dearly you give me lots of hope#like holy shit that can be me one day. people like me can be that age#wow. and then i start crying
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i had a final to get done this weekend too but i think that venom 2016 pet names compilation was a valuable use of my time as well
#I'M SO FUCKED. IT'S GONNA BE FINE THOUGH...#have to make an adaptation of some sort of one of the books we read#and then write a 750 word explanation of why i made the adaptation choices that i did#easy in concept. um. i don't feel qualified to adapt the hate u give. don't rlly wanna touch love simon with a ten foot pole#which means i'm doing wrinkle in time and i just don't have that much to say about a wrinkle in time...#we have to choose a specific audience that is not child or young adult too. who else is there to write for#gonna deadass say i'm writing for queer people and move on. dr. breuer will be fine with that#i'm doing this option cause writing a poem was explicitly one of the suggested options! it's gonna be fine!!!#i just. have to actually do the work. which is. well. hm. um. well.#i have venom 2016 pet names compilation to get me through it now. everything's gonna be fine#academia#valentine notes
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From the first picture to the second one, wille has come a long way. He accepted his identity, came out to the whole country and was willing to defy the monarchy for his boyfriend. But even after all that growth, the crown, the traditions and pressures of the environment he was raised in, still weigh him down. His anxiety doesn’t help him out either. wille knows his own image doesn’t really belong to him, and that the next day he’ll be alone in a room full of people he has to impress. He doesn’t want any extra stuff that could make the day–his birthday– more difficult. Plus simon’s already coming (at least he hopes he’s still coming.) He got what he wanted, right? To openly be with his boyfriend. Perhaps wearing nail polish to an official event is pushing it, so he lets the outside prejudice mixed with a bit of shame and guilt win. And off the purple goes.
#i really love that he wears the green carnation tho#shows that he’s not just giving up completely#but he’s still a kid that grew up in a not very accepting space#so he’s taking it slow#i know there was like a joke that he’s queer and homophobic for what he said to simon when they were talking about the foundation#but he’ll get there guys#!!!!#prince wilhelm#young royals#wilmon#young royals season 3#queer
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I’m tickled pink that there are people worried Mike Faist and Josh O’Connor won’t be kissing each other in Challengers. Like, lol I’m sorry, is this your first Luca Guadagnino film? Every film he directs has at least SOMETHING queer about it. Even if the characters themselves aren’t explicitly so, there are always elements of fluid sexuality, homoeroticism, or gender expression in his films (Bones and All, Suspiria 2018 spring to mind). Feels, uh, very obvious that Challengers is going to explore whatever is going on between those guys and confirm that it’s def not anything straight!
#challengers#luca guadagnino#loved that John Waters had Bones and All on his list of fave films for 2022#and was like ‘there’s something queer underneath all the straight stuff happening’#personally very funny that we are of the same mind about timothee chalamet’s interesting styling in that film#gonna say something controversial here…but he was giving a lot of young butch lesbian vibes in that film#god i really could talk about that film’s exploration of queer dynamics and lifestyles and fluid sexuality for waaaaay too long#anyway fingers crossed for fucked up queer dynamics in the new tennis film#refuse to watch the new clip that was released because the discourse around it is already annoying me#and i want to go in as fresh as i can
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i lure you in with my incredible izzy hands takes and then i strike by spamming your dash with lesbians youve never heard of
#i literally cannot stop thinking about angela right now#me; head on the table; sobbing; pounding my fist: when we were young! when love was new!#god i just fucking!!!!!! love them so much!!!!!!!!!!#thinking about how angela is a great trans allegory (and how its fun to have an allegory in media that has a trans character)#thinking about how much we dont know!!! id read 5000 words just about society on heven!!!!!#i want to know the things they did!!!!#i want sera back!!! oh god i want her back so badly#i want to write a million words about how sera expresses her queerness and how incredibly well done it is!!!!! and i cant write for shit!!!!#i want their lore so badly :(#give me it marvel u cowards#stop making angela asgardian and writing out one of ur best trans characters pls + thank u#nyxtalks#angela#seriously though. ofmd is a wild outlier in media i like#i got uhhh. norse lesbians. time traveling lesbians. more norse lesbians and their lesbian daughter#and izzy hands :)
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I'm on episode 6 of dead boy detectives and I am having so much fun this show is incredible
#the only thing throwing me off is that these characters are supposed to be teenagers and they really dont give that vibe#like to me this is a group of queer young adults in their early 20s who never went to college#but anyway such a fun and good time whyyy is it only 8 episodes i hate netflix#the fact that every character feels full and deep with only 8 episodes is so amazing tho#jenny is the love of my life#only good landlord#and crystal!!! 🥺🥺#i only want the best for her the episode with her ancestors made me cry i love her so much#and of course i gotta love how every monster is so sassy and sarcastic thats how you know neil gaiman got his hands on this#WATCH THIS SHOW PLEASSE#intellectual monologue#not the boys
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It helps me to think about caring for myself like I think about caring for a child.
Like, 'yes, I know you feel fine, but I think you've watched enough scary things before bed. Let's watch something nice now, okay?'
#original#it also helps because i am a queer autistic person with adhd who was raised catholic and#i was taught that the only way to be a truly good person was to sacrifice myself for others at all costs#and therefore seeking my own happiness was a sin. denial's the game. the more the holier.#I often think about how lent was all about honoring Jesus's sacrifice for us. but none of the things we ever gave up ever helped anyone#jesus was like hey it is a sin to allow people to go hungry and we were like 'give up pizza for a month got it'#🙄🙄🙄#I went to Catholic school and we would brag to each other about what we gave up#i think Lent is about as holy as weight loss#only holy in the eyes of a god who doesn't love me#so I don't care much for that one anymore.#anyway what I meant to say was one of the things that helps me break out of this mindset that was ingrained in me at a young age#is when I start sacrificing myself instinctively to please people I ask if I would allow this level of pain to happen to a child#if that doesn't work I ask if I would allow it to happen to a dog.#and the answer is almost always absolutely not. i would protect that animal.#and my next thought is don't I deserve to be treated at least as well as a dog??#i think yes.#i think i ought to be treated at least as well as I'd treat everyone else actually. and i am kind to others.#so why would i be my one exception?#these tags were brought to you by: i am setting boundaries with my family#bc i realized if they had treated my dog like this I'd have disowned them and not have felt guilty for it#i would also protect a child at all costs just to be clear#that is never in question it is just a matter of side stepping my trauma's excuses since it may go like#'oh you don't deserve as much as other people' but it is LESS likely to be able to convince me I should have less rights than a literal dog
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